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vazsily:
Them say who dey ask questions no dey miss road. Although with the Internet crazy people are bound so I am circumspect.

I have been married over 15 years and in that time I have always complained about the way my wife over cooks and then start looking for who to share the food with in the name of giving alms. You would think having managed kitchen and home for that long, food measurement should come naturally.

I have not taking much interest until with the recent inflation and high cost of goods in the market. And why I struggle with the Grace of God to earn a living, madam on the other hand thinks going to the market regularly and living above my salary na achievement without any adjustment. The matter don tire me, I want to simply pick my bags and run but for the kids.

Responsibility is a choice but I think she's abusing it. Giving to the poor comes naturally for me but you must be wise about it. How do i resolve this?

This was my approach to managing our household: while my wife wasn't giving away food, she cooked abundantly, resulting in meat being everywhere. To manage this surplus, I encouraged sharing. I took charge of all the household bills and proposed that she solely handle the expenses related to cooking, specifically for stews and soups. However, when she served me food, I noticed only two small pieces of meat compared to the previous occasions when there might have been up to five pieces in a single soup. It seemed that when women spend their own money, they tend to make adjustments accordingly.

vazsily:
Abeg no vex!! Na me find trouble!

My brother, you dey argue with feminist. You get time ooo

Jennyclay:
Why recording and posting it online?? Is not as if he’s faithful either . Nigerian Men are really childish . The idiot even said he’s feeling like God . Mumu!

You don’t give your girlfriend money, you don’t take her out on a romantic date, you nonsense men don’t even care about her well being and you want to experience faithfulness and true love . You foolish men must be joking!!

I’ve said it, if I can’t get enough money, sex and true love from my man, I’ll look else where. No time!!

Shior!!

What can you bring to the table, this one say toto

Padded Pictures

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Forest Cobra... Highly venomous

Let her come to ladipo expecially during raining season then she will redefine stooping so low

PuZZyNegro:
I traveled from Lagos to Port Harcourt to see my future in laws family. My girl wasn't around as she's still in Lagos schooling.

I went there with a family member and got them some items like shortcake biscuits and juice.

They offered us food and we ate. After the meeting and normal questioning, we were set to go when surprisingly, this people brought out two loaves of bread and gave us. I told them that the food we ate was enough, that we don't need the bread.

We haven't even gone far when my girl started texting me on WhatsApp angrily asking me why I rejected her mother's gift. That she gave it out of love, this and that.

I told her that bread is the wrongest gift the mother could give me. I am supposed to buy them bread and not the one way round. I intentionally refused to buy bread for them because I assumed bread is an everyday food that people buy and eat, so I decided to go with the package biscuits instead and here they are offering me bread.

If it were something produced locally by them like coconut or something, I can understand but bread?

Please, did I do anything wrong rejecting the bread?

You just lacked maturity. what if they rejected yours how would you have felt. Would you have come here typing this nonsense. Probably you would have come here disturbing us with my suppose inlaws rejected my gift

I don't know the people voting APC, it's like their brain has being replaced with sand.

Campaign don end. The bag has being secured via supreme court.

Ladies and gentlemen it's time to feast

The other gender will avoid thread like this like flies avoid fire

Hunger dey kill people una still wan quote statistic, shebi na una say who statistic epp ..

God will punish all of you

May we not miss Buhari

Go down there and be disappointed

Why don't they just begin and tell us? Enough of all this talk about starting – let's get started instead.

English

"We should focus on production and exporting products to strengthen our economy, rather than emphasizing packaging."

Or this dude probably committed suicide

When discussing the economy, I focus on the well-being of the average Nigerian. So, when comparing the economic stances of the PDP and APC, the key question is whether your life has improved since then or was it worse then and better now, as that should be the basis for your assessment.

Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him

No need for long story just pack your things and leave that marriage

That man will get back at you in the wildest way you can ever imagine...

No matter what you do to a man, don't tarnish his ego because if you do he will get back at you in 100 folds

Thunder... Thunder

HanisahZuwy:
Please help!

My anus got torn a little bit. I'm finding it difficult to poo normally, because my anus hurts whenever I'm doing so. There's even blood whenever I poo.

Please, I need help on what I can drink or apply to heal my anus and also stop the blood. Please, I would really appreciate your input. Thanks.

Please just stay away from anything that will enter your yansh... Be it Love Machine or gbola... Stay away

After the pursuit, the man evaluates whether the relationship is worth it based on the woman's value, which influences his decision to stay or leave.

avicky:
That's not true. I have seen a father who abandoned his son after separation. The wife wants him to be involved in the son's life but he wouldn't budge. School fees, feeding, health has been the responsibility of the struggling mother.
Look, so many irresponsible fathers out there. Two sane adults should not bring their kids into the fracas between them.
So I don't buy your assertion.

You need to watch justice court and see how Nigerian women are denying father access to the children and taking them to court when he's no longer contributing financially. The Koko is if you can't be with me, then you can't be with the children. Just send money from a distance

Nvestor02:
Nobody remove subsidy 8 years ago. Tinubu is not the president 8 years ago.

What you want compare is incomparable. Stop it!!

Ok, you are right

Nvestor02:
Everybody want to go to heaven but nobody want to DIE.

People want a working Nigeria but not ready to sacrifice for it.

Nothing good come easily. We are closer to greatness this time than ever.

We can't go back to the burdern of subsidy when we have dying Infrastructure and out-of-school children to cater for.

We only need little patience but people are not ready to give it.

Read this again but now to yourself because you heard this 8 years ago...

ManirBK:
https://dailytrust.com/fg-opens-workshops-for-nigerians-to-convert-vehicles-to-autogas/

They can never give fact, commence in two to three weeks. Two to three weeks will now turn to 3 years

Worst of all some people don dey happy already

Nigerians are g

All of them ruled for 8 years But one ruled for 28 years

ExAngel007:
A final year student has claimed to be the first male virgin to graduate from the Taraba State University.

He made the claim in a Facebook post on Thursday, July 6, 2023, after writing his final exams.

"The First Male Virgin Graduate in the History of Taraba State University. I come, I saw and I finish Intact. Na God Do wam. Congratulations to my humble self," he wrote.

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/7/im-the-first-male-virgin-graduate-in-the-history-of-taraba-state-university-student-claims-after-final-exams.html

You are playing with prostate cancer... If you no knack use your hand and let that thing breef

PlayMaker14:
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This is a big fat lie...

2 days ago In our Ronu WhatsApp group, Our group member who's a Pharmacist, Dr. Akanbi told us that by the grace of God, Tinubu will reduce the price of Paracetamol to N30 per sachet as against the N150 inflated IPOB price.

I don't know why Obidients don't want Nigeria to progress, they are too negative, they don't want to sacrifice and suffer now to enjoy later.

All I know is that, all the increase will favour me and my family.

Let the pwuooor breeeef

complexstuffs:
Why do IIGB0S always look for ways to justify fraud. The girl fraudulently increased her scores and all you could say is that it's because she's Igbo.

Result manipulation and fake degrees are rampant in the south east and you know it. These are the effects of "result upgrade" centers scattered all over south east.

You and all the people who liker this comments are reason this country will always remain backward...

Under reporting crude production from 30,000 BPD to 1,000 BPD I just stopped reading from this point

Some people have sole their conscience to the devil

And funny is all this billions is not enough, they are willing to do more if possible reduce to 0 BPD

I think this is where Tinubu is suppose to start from not even the subsidy