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Family › Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Joshcoli(m): 8:08am On Mar 30, 2023
I had a similar experience where I wanted to bring my cousin to live with us, but my wife objected. Despite her objections, I brought my cousin to stay with us and he was a hardworking and diligent person who even helped my children with their reading habits. However, my wife still disliked him and gave him numerous errands to do, even going as far as to prohibit him from using the washing machine. I had to intervene and insist that he should be allowed to use the machine, but my wife became angry with me. Eventually, I had to send my cousin back to the village after almost two years of living with us.

Later, when my wife's brother needed a place to stay, she tried to guilt me into letting him stay with us, but I refused and warned her not to try to bring anyone else into our home. I told her to do the work herself since she had let her dislike of my cousin blind her to the good work he was doing for us. In the end, I walked away from the situation.

In conclusion, I suggest that the person who posted the original message should stand their ground and not allow their wife to bring in her mother after rejecting their mother. They should not feel bad about their mother's death, as death is a natural part of life. They should treat their wife in the same way that she treated them and not feel any remorse about it.
Family › Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Joshcoli(m): 7:41am On Mar 30, 2023
ojun50:
Discuss with her and remind her how she treated yr mum, then tell her to give you time to think about it.

In the end still allow her mother to come and stay for peace and unity.

Every married man should understand that the wife is not your blood so expect anything expectable but is children is his blood.
there can never be peace if there is no justice, equity and fairness
an eye for an eye will strike a balance

If he ever allow that woman into his house then indeed he is a SIMple man,
Allow the woman know that what goes around also comes around

Never allow her mother near your house even for one day
your mother died her own mother is not an exception
Food › Re: Bush Meat Killed By My Friend On His Farm by Joshcoli(m): 7:15am On Mar 22, 2023
Despite the various promotions and advertisements aimed at protecting the game reserve in Nigeria, there appears to be an ongoing killing spree of animals in the region. It is my hope that divine intervention will help address this situation
Romance › Re: Lawyer Shares Before And After Photos Of Herself by Joshcoli(m): 9:31pm On Mar 21, 2023
If your not in pain you will not come out and spill this nonsense. You left your marriage to live a life of regret... Keep your celebration to your ur self
Politics › Re: 2023: Even Supporters Of Winners Disappointed With Process - US Diplomats by Joshcoli(m): 4:10pm On Mar 13, 2023
grin grin grin grin
Travel › Re: Can You Stay In This Hotel For A Night If Offered Free Of Charge? by Joshcoli(m): 9:37am On Mar 10, 2023
Imagine waking up from a nightmare and the first thing you see is the picture of Satan...

I no fit stay this kind place abeg

Which kind self inflicted mental punishment is this bikon
Properties › Re: Should I Confront Directly Or Report To The Landlord? by Joshcoli(m): 12:19pm On Feb 13, 2023
Just scream make una take am easy ooo...

The lady will stay indoors for 2 weeks
Travel › Re: Why Do Some Aeroplanes Get Sprayed With Water At The Airport? by Joshcoli(m): 12:48pm On Feb 01, 2023
Antoeni:
Am Tired of Pretending, Please Why Do They Pour Water On international Flights On Arrival?
Aircraft are often sprayed with water for several reasons, including:

Cooling: The water can help to cool down the plane after it has landed, which is especially important for planes that operate in hot climates.

Cleaning: The water can help to remove dirt and debris from the plane's surface, which is important for maintaining the appearance of the plane and ensuring its longevity.

De-icing: In cold weather conditions, the water can be used to remove ice or snow from the plane's wings, tail, and other critical surfaces, which is important for maintaining the plane's aerodynamics and preventing it from becoming too heavy to fly safely.

Celebratory tradition: In some cultures, it is also a tradition to spray water on planes as a sign of celebration, such as when a new plane is delivered to an airline or when a plane returns home after a long deployment.
Romance › Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend To Save In My Bank? by Joshcoli(m): 10:01pm On Jan 12, 2023
Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.
Taaa getaway

Go and be reasonable with your own money

You're just looking for backup plan.

Ask yourself this question, will you return the money if he say I no do again

I just pray the guy is not a SIMPle man
Romance › Re: I'm 32years Old, Look Very Thin And Small And Only Weigh 35kg . by Joshcoli(m): 8:17am On Dec 27, 2022
A broke as nonetity want to send the money back, money your entire village cannot afford

Poverty stricken Buffon

Brother take eye of women, face your life 100% spend on yourself, buy cloths look nice, never look down on yourself. That's where you start from. Work on yourself confidence
Nairaland General › Re: I Just Killed Green Snake In My Office by Joshcoli(m): 3:27pm On Dec 24, 2022
Philothamnus hoplogaster snake,

It is actually non venomous

Boomslang is venomous without know anivenum yet,

But this snake is actually non venomous

But if you see am again kill it
Politics › Re: I Have Done My Best As President — Buhari by Joshcoli(m): 9:30am On Dec 14, 2022
SLAP44:
Who says this man you advised to farm rice is not farming rice through his staff, Imo state people like rice a lot.
Correct dude... Knacking violence with reverse vawulence
Food › Re: See What I Bought For Just Fifty Thousand Naira(photo) by Joshcoli(m): 9:23am On Dec 14, 2022
We all know this is pure lies to decieve Nigeria into believing in this party that has brought untold hardship to Nigerian

We will not cotow
Properties › Re: My 3 Bedroom Bungalow At Shimawa by Joshcoli(op): 11:54am On Dec 11, 2022
So I construct one side of the septic tank

I supervise the whole process myself
The septic is 8 meter by 10 meter

200 block at N56,000and 3 bags of cement @ 12,600

I used the sharp side I still have on site

Fashion › Re: Mother Going Blind After Tattooing Her Eyeballs Blue And Purple (photos) by Joshcoli(m): 10:47am On Dec 07, 2022
Shebi she don calm down now
Politics › Re: Man Empties Bank Account For Tinubu/Shettima Campaign Organization by Joshcoli(m): 11:58am On Nov 30, 2022
Taaa getat
Politics › Re: Bayo Onanuga: We Didn't Apologise To Duke For Using His Childhood Picture by Joshcoli(m): 10:01am On Nov 29, 2022
Asgard73:
Weda he apologized or not … Asiwaju no fit govern Nigeria as President.. in this life time and next

Osun in bag already
Oyo is cruising

Over 40% loading in southwest 3 states … if not outright win..

Haters can keep hating on Adeleke .. Apc urchin must keep wailing .. that’s what expected of them .. to wail

3 kings depose … 120000 useless Tinubu urchins sack.. from dia wayo job..

Thugs changed …

Adeleke is completely incharge ..instigate violence and see your papa brother wey senior your mama

All noise ends on this Nairaland.. not even on other social media .. na here e ends

Power to the people
No be likes and shares

Over 40k likes and shares .. yet e no transform to money or assets.. in a total nairaland month.

Power to the people
North 2023

E clear .. to clear


Atiku no get Opposition
Wotowoto on a cruise level

Comrade decrease this vawulence it's making my phone hot
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Joshcoli(m): 9:36am On Nov 11, 2022
Ah... If only this man know what God is about to do for him

My brother I know you are blinded by love
Run oooo

Run ooooo
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia's "Dead Hand" Nuclear Trigger Can Wipe Out U.S, Europe In A Strike (Pix) by Joshcoli(m): 9:17pm On Nov 10, 2022
How many country is Russian fighting by proxy
Even a quarter of the use weaponry has being depleted
Properties › Re: Building Of A Septic/soakaway In 13 Days - Photos by Joshcoli(m): 8:36pm On Nov 09, 2022
Thank you for this thread

I will follow exactly how you did here no need of engaging any engineer

Here's a link to my own project

https://www.nairaland.com/5131058/3-bedroom-bungalow-shimawa#77492542
Politics › Re: Miyetti Allah, Rice Farmers, Others Endorse Tinubu In Minna by Joshcoli(m): 9:11pm On Nov 07, 2022
If Tinubu loses this election, that's the end of him because the money being spent can times three the Nigeria budget

He's throwing in everything he's got because this is a do or die matter

Hope the north doesn't fail him
Travel › Re: Lagos: Bus Drivers Call Off Strike After Stakeholders Meeting - JDWAN Member by Joshcoli(m): 7:42pm On Nov 04, 2022
Emilokan and agbado crew will avoid thread as this
Family › Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Joshcoli(m): 5:06pm On Oct 26, 2022
Your emotions are already bottled up waiting to erupts momentoriously

Just wait till you will finally get to the stage of Killin her

A good woman that collect prick and give you another man's child

Ode Le leyi
Politics › Re: Aisha Buhari Greets Wike: "As E Dey Pain Dem, E Sweet Us Well Well" by Joshcoli(m): 5:48pm On Oct 18, 2022
Just the way akwa ibom rejected akpabio the same fate awaits Wike

Very soon we will say how has the mighty fallen
Business › Re: Pictures Of Kaduna Galaxy Mall by Joshcoli(m): 8:56am On Oct 15, 2022
2 billion built this small thing,

Na so Naira take useless
Family › Re: Rebuttal- Complex Marital Issue Https://www.nairaland.co by Joshcoli(m): 11:38am On Oct 08, 2022
My brother it time to flex

She's on the loosing side
Don't worry about the kids

They will locate you
Family › Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Joshcoli(m): 6:28am On Sep 30, 2022
A taste I your own pudding you come dey complain
Travel › Re: Lagos Tests The Blue Rail Train Service (Video) by Joshcoli(m): 10:03am On Sep 28, 2022
Please I'm confused here, is bola tinubu still the governor of lagos state or sanwo-olu
Politics › Re: Commuters Commend Tinubu/shettima-Nairaxi Transit Card Initiative by Joshcoli(m): 2:42pm On Sep 25, 2022
Ladies and gentlemen

Get ready to chop
chop as much as you can chop
then vote your choice

I wonder why your choice is now Peter Obi
Romance › Re: My Husband Met Me When I Was Doing ‘hookup’– Lady Shares How She Met Her Husband by Joshcoli(m): 1:59pm On Sep 16, 2022
wow... your husband must be very proud of you

He's SIMPleness has earned him load and loads of repect

My respect Your Royal SIMPle man

Never go broke because this babe will dump your SIMPle a**
Foreign Affairs › Re: Uju Anya Insults Jeff Bezos: Says "Otoro gba gbue Gi" by Joshcoli(m): 5:31pm On Sep 09, 2022
This is nothing but boldness
Family › Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Joshcoli(m): 5:51pm On Aug 29, 2022
A woman who just gave birth is normally wild... Na simple thing dey trigger them

Just manage the situation till everything normalise

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