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Family › Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Joshcoli(m): 2:40pm On Aug 28, 2022
I thought it was forex

Chai....
Romance › Re: I Mistakenly Got A Friend Pregnant And Now This Is Happening..wat Should I Do??? by Joshcoli(m): 11:10am On Aug 28, 2022
Eeejoooot.... While you where knacking bestie did you inform anybody

Carry you wahurlur and go

You lif has being compromised, fatherhood is not a joke

Body go tell you

You deserve cable for neck
Politics › Re: LASG Explains Parking Fees, Lady Who Accused Government Apologizes by Joshcoli(m): 8:08am On Aug 28, 2022
Another avenue for local government touts to generate money.
Romance › Re: Should A Woman Be Bothered About Not Being Good In Bed? by Joshcoli(m): 7:05pm On Aug 26, 2022
A man who want to cheat will still cheat regardless if the woman is good in bed or not

Compatibility in marriage is not the in thing it's commitment

If you are comitted to your partner you will never cheat
Family › Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Joshcoli(m): 10:14am On Aug 17, 2022
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.
What are you still doing in that marriage
Quit that marriage immediately
The marriage is dead and rotten already

When you see her each morning what crosses your mind... Nothing but an holosho

The sacred temple has being broken, there's totally no remedy

Move on, please move on and take care of your kids and forget about her

Also report the issue with her relative to embaras her the more, she's only guilty because she has being caught, forget those emotional game and crocodile tears she's playing on you
Politics › Re: Nigerian Workers, NLC Demand 50 Per Cent Salary Increase Over Biting Inflation by Joshcoli(m): 8:36am On Aug 14, 2022
Not only in the history of Nigeria but the history of the world that no doubt this APC government is the most insensitive, choking and inhuman government to it's people

All they care is how to still remain in power

God forbid APC in 2023
Family › Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Joshcoli(m): 7:35pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"



What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
There's alot to this
I believe it's a mental thing

- What are your experiences,
- Are you on the same page sexually when it comes to sexual experience
- If you are more experienced how have you talk down on his in-experience
- do you shout on the man and disrespects him because he's not meeting up
- How is your approach to him for not meeting up, do you shout on him or make him feel measerable
- nothing pushes a man far away from a woman like disrespect

A man will
respect those above him
Love those bellow thim
Fight those who claim equality with him

Submission is bringing your strenght under control

Maybe he's begining to see you as his mother who has authority over him and he can only respect her but he's not attracted to her

He may not tell you but your man is fighting a silent supremacy battles with you and you are not aware.

I wish you best of luck in your marriage
Romance › Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Joshcoli(m): 6:25pm On Aug 09, 2022
The only thing I have to say is that that 4 times she say she nacked the married man

Multiply it by 32

That's all
Politics › Re: Muslim-Muslim Ticket: Nigerians Have Thrown Away Competence, Capacity - APC by Joshcoli(m): 9:37am On Aug 01, 2022
PandoraObi:
Muslim Muslim ticket is purely for winning, political calculation.
Taaaaa getout
Sports › Re: Bola Tinubu Congratulates Tobi Amusan On Her World Record Breaking Race by Joshcoli(m): 8:12am On Jul 25, 2022
You are quick to congratulate to gain cheap popularity but when the lady in sokoto was killed you lost your voice

You will surely fail
Politics › Re: Davido Rejoices With His Uncle, Ademola Adeleke And Bukola Saraki by Joshcoli(m): 8:41am On Jul 17, 2022
othermen:
Davido supports his family as most of us would have.

Davido didn’t tell the Osun people any other basis of such support or endorsement.

Davido knew his uncle would engage in vote buying and yet performed an outlandish display of hypocrisy by pretending to condemn such corruption; when he and his family cohorts sponsored same.

Was his uncle the most qualified or even competent? Davido don’t care, except assisting his uncle fulfill a long term dream of becoming the CEO of Osun’s treasury.

Would Davido aid his uncle towards competence or does Davido feel he owes the Osun people a duty of ensuring they are rightly governed and their resources, appropriately spent? Davido don’t care, except assisting his uncle fulfil a long term dream of becoming the CEO of Osun’s treasury.

Now Davido’s father definitely would be the minister of procurement and supply and be the recipient of state contracts he is not competent for.

Adeleke victory is a win for the Adeleke family, not so much for the people of Osun.
Aeyaaaaaa... Kpele drink some water
Romance › Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Once Madly Inlove With by Joshcoli(m): 11:22am On Jul 05, 2022
On our first date her father fell sick, she ran out of data, the bank frooze her account, she needed urgent 10k

I can't remember the last thing she said because I disappeared
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Increase In BRT Fares By ₦100 by Joshcoli(m): 11:31pm On Jul 01, 2022
Why won't they increase fare when they have used all Lagos money to campaign

Na to generate money for phase 2
Celebrities › Re: Taiwo 'Ogogo' Hassan Beat Up Area Boys Trying to Extort Him by Joshcoli(m): 12:10pm On Jun 25, 2022
Their grand patron is about to be enthroned
Politics › Re: Kidnapped Train Passengers Fall Sick, Vomit Blood, Attacked By Snakes by Joshcoli(m): 3:12pm On Jun 21, 2022
This is indeed sad, some people have spent three months in the bush with trigger ready terrorist wielding Aks in their face ready to open fire and the government is busy holding rallies as if the country is flowing with milk and honey

Indeed this country don't care about it's citizen
Romance › Re: I’m Marrying A Woman Twice My Size – People Say I’m Not Man Enough For Her (Pic) by Joshcoli(m): 9:23pm On Jun 15, 2022
My spec...
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Celebrates Getting Married At Age Of 52 (Photos, Video) by Joshcoli(m): 11:31am On Jun 13, 2022
Loneliness na your mate...
Congrats madam
The companion is what it
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russian-Major General Roman Kutuzov Killed By Ukrainian Forces. GRAPHIC PIC. by Joshcoli(m): 10:06pm On Jun 05, 2022
I've being asking myself one question
Don't Ukraine have generals
So since the beginning of this battle
Non of Ukrainian generals have being killed
Romance › Re: MY Girlfriend's Sister Is Acting Strange by Joshcoli(m): 10:17am On Jun 05, 2022
Tow tow mara will not allow this country move forward....

Abeg we have enough vawulence matter
Fashion › Re: Woman With Protruding Belly Button Goes Viral As She Proudly Shows It Off by Joshcoli(m): 11:06am On Jun 02, 2022
Won ti motivate were si wrong way
Christianity Etc › Re: Deborah Samuel: Family Arrives New Home In Port Harcourt Donated By OPM G.O. by Joshcoli(m): 11:02pm On May 24, 2022
And that is how the children of peace left the room
Sports › Re: PSG's Idrissa Gueye Causes Stir By Refusing To Wear Jersey Supporting LGBTQ by Joshcoli(m): 7:29am On May 19, 2022
You know what i find absurd about this issue, is that #IdrissaGueye didn’t say a single word, but he is getting investigated for not supporting what happened to a world that claims everyone has their freedom of speech? This guys didn’t say a single word.
Politics › Re: NURTW Crisis: Lagos CP Meets MC Oluomo, Istijabah, Reads Riot Act by Joshcoli(m): 8:31am On May 03, 2022
martinslaura:
I THINK YOU WANT M.C OLUOMO TO SLAP SANWO OLU. NA WA FOR U O. DONT U KNOW THAT M.C IS SANWO OLU'S BOSS.
And sanwo will be like "thank you sir my lord and master"
Crime › Re: Expatriate Hangs Self In Lagos Office, Police Begin Probe by Joshcoli(m): 11:46am On May 02, 2022
mecussey:
Good question... They use English dey deceive us.
The difference is if it's African it's an expatriate
While abroad its an immigrant

Africans need to change the narrative
Celebrities › Re: Tega: 70% Of Men Abuse Their Women, Don't Be Fooled by Joshcoli(m): 10:50am On Apr 25, 2022
Small yansh dey shake
Properties › Re: My 3 Bedroom Bungalow At Shimawa by Joshcoli(op): 7:04pm On Apr 21, 2022
Window fixed

Pets › Re: The Little Chick I Found That Doesn't Want To Go Away by Joshcoli(m): 7:00pm On Apr 21, 2022
Has the thread officially come to a close
Romance › Re: My Ex Who Is Married With Kids Wants To Have Sex With Me by Joshcoli(m): 11:26am On Apr 20, 2022
You don't even know if the husband is trying to set you up....

Mumu
Romance › Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Joshcoli(m): 8:29am On Apr 10, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.
By their fruit you shall knoooooooooow....
Foreign Affairs › Re: Colonel Alexander Bespalov Killed! Putin Loses 9th Top Ranking Officer by Joshcoli(m): 8:29pm On Apr 09, 2022
One thing baffles me

You mean Ukraine has not lost any of their commanders or soldiers

This is indeed wonderful
Family › Re: Help! My Woman Caught Red Handedly Romancing Another Man Publicly by Joshcoli(m): 9:28pm On Apr 06, 2022
Don't send her packing please, it will ease the pain for her. Make her life measerable by cutting off any form of assistance. For any slightest issue remind her of her holoshoism
Family › Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Joshcoli(m): 2:40pm On Apr 03, 2022
Every shovel can always dig a hole but a hole can never dig a shovel

If you don't Gerrit forge abarit

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