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LordReed:
You are the gullible one here. A book that can be used to support any position is a book of confusion.

What was the EVIDENCE he presented from the bible to support his position ?

You are making another Fallacy again, was his position supported after I gave you a straight verse that knocked him off ?


You need to relax when Religious issues are discussed or you end up embarrassing yourself more

jaxxy:
In simple terms... men don’t get emotional so easily like women. They can be emotional don’t get me wrong. We are made made of stone bt not always like women. That’s my point.

Are you aware women are emotionally stronger than men?

Who will die first

Husband confess " I mistakenly had sex with my secretary " .. she will flare up , but trust me she will still come around to forgive most times, Emotionally strong to put it behind her


Wife confess " I don't know what came over me, had sex with this long term friend, we are mates in school, please forgive me " ... Do I need to explain what could occur after this ?

ihatebuhari:
stop reading the Bible without understanding, you are so fake and this will lead you to hell.

Titus 2:4 was never a commandment rather an advice from older women to teach the younger ones.



You have to apologize to the man of God because he's so right

You fail to think about the fact that he was Showing them What is EXPECTED of them

donnie:
I "liked" your comment but to see it in context, looking from the previous verse you'd understand the apostle is actually admonishing older women to be of good example to the younger ones. It's not like an outright command to women to love their husbands like you'll find in the instruction to men in Ephesians 5:28.

Titus 2:3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;

2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

It's what is expected of them. Hence the adminition ...

solite3:
there is a command for young women to love their husbands

Titus 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

Thanks for highlighting that point, Solite

Seun:
You can command a husband and wife to be kind, respectful, and seductive to each other, but you can’t command them to love. People can’t control their emotions, but they can control their actions. The Bible should be updated to reflect this understanding.

Think about this :
Before they married were they not in love, if not, why marry who they don't love ? the command is To Maintain what's already on ground, so as not to lost it.

Your post assume the love started when they got married .

LordReed:
LoL. The book full of confusion.

Don't let your anti religion stance make you gullible to be deceived. The man didn't verify his claims . Titus 2:4 ask women to Love their husbands

scantee:
just that the more she calls & text the more i feel for her and melt, and all these our outing/tripz pics on my phone & laptops is not helping matter @all, & i don't even have the mind to Del them..just can't believe this happning to me, but i have to face the reality.

This story is a sad one, hope uv moved past it Bro

Lostz:
was she not planning to take okada home before meeting him?

Juliet11111 is just teasing him. On every thread, someone must act like a clown ��

okoroemeka:
if you marry virgin or not a woman with a high sex drive cannot be compatible with a man suffering from premature ejaculation, that is why it is very important to test run whoever you want to marry thoroughly to make sure she will be compatible with you, but seriously I pity men that married women with very high libido because you simply cannot satisfy them and such woman can be fvcked by any tom,dick and Harry that can read women body language.

Typical Nairaland, Who told you they didn't test run ?? Who told you both married as Virgins ? Or who told you they didn't have sex before marriage? ... This foolery of testing before marriage has led many to Marriages that are like trap . Haven't you heard of females who act like they don't like sex in the beginning only to get married and change ? Or haven't u seen Females who also pretend to Like sex only to change and start denying her husband sex after marriage since they have gotten the ring they wanted ? .... Or men who uses different drugs to perform but after marriage and many responsibilities can't allow him last anymore ?

Be deceiving yourself .

CANTICLES:
Just go and park somewhere, seems you don't know what to say again. Jwfact owner doesn't believe in the Bible as God's word , you are Satan's agent to direct people to such a person.

They have been " ... trapped and disgraced by the devil. " 1Tim 3:7 CEV

CANTICLES:
don't be a stupid man, the quote Jozzy4 brought to the thread is real . You are the liar here and should apologize to Jozzy4

That paulgrundy guy is silly, Good evening brother

spiritedtete:
Your opinion is very valid... but learn to reply without insult.. behave like you are civilised in public ... even when you are not, it will go along way in fostering harmony.

Sorry about that .

socialmediaman:
Some agreements are dead on arrival. If they were planning to get married in a month or two, that’s okay, but 6 months? Come on now.

On a lighter note though, let me attempt to explain what’s happening between both of them:

When a man meets a lady, he tries to woo her. In doing so, he’ll agree to all her rules and she’s in charge at that moment. The man follows her. At this point he’s infatuated, he’s ‘foolish’ and would make lots of compromises to keep it going. Remember though that infatuation fades with time.

While the infatuation is fading, a lady’s love is building up though, she’s losing her guard gradually in favor of building her world around the man. On the other hand, the man is gradually regaining his ‘senses’. At some point the lady has become comfortable with leading the leading the relationship and she has completely put down her guard.

At this point the man, fully back in his senses, decides its time to take lead. He makes his move. The lady becomes confused at the sudden change of character, but she doesn’t want to lose ‘a good man’ she has fallen for, so she succumbs! Now she’d do anything to have him back, including compromise. This is the time many previous agreements are rewritten. Each party rushes to secure their place in the relationship and the rest is history.

At least this is true for a relationship that both parties are fully invested it

Cc: Lyydia

The Red part is highly stupid . Weak men everywhere, why bend your Rules for a woman validation ??

spiritedtete:
To the unmarried... Never try this no sex before marriage shit..

I repeat! Never Never try no sex before marriage shit..


It is shit..
Deceptive...
Boring
And it will affect you sex life in the union eventually.

Your mouth like deceptive. You haven't seen many cases of people who had sex before marriage and still end up with a boring sex life in marriage. Where the woman play along to get the ring , and after marriage start treating him anyhow when it comes to. Sex. Or where a man drink different concoction to last long, but after getting the woman in marriage, chairman change tone to. " I cannot come and kill myself, if it's one minute do, manage am" . U don't know what's called Pretence

Malcolm123:
Any agreement wey no get legal practitioner backing na invalid for naija ......mouth fit change anytym...lol

Lol but it shouldn't be ... better to just leave such relationship than forcing the other party.

IamCookie:
Because yesterday is not like today. More so, life is in a state of flux

Then in that case, he should have left the relationship, instead of forcing his terms that's contrary to what he signed

IamCookie:
You may be wrong, Gina2019. Sometimes , flexibility does it! It's a good thing she's not a liability and she also acknowledged LOVE between them. You dated for 6months ,cuddling and kissing sometimes, due to your own personal reasons. What about his own personal reasons? He was so reasonable as to allow u get along for good 6months and decided to give his own personal reason a thought , and then u became furious. You are selfish , Lyydia.

One would have thought your reason could be Virginity issue but Nope. Everyone wants emotional security..I only imagine the thoughts running through the guys mind to make him make the move again.

Well, I gave it to my guy very well ...and now he is my MAN. Your decision is your decision, though.

They both reached an agreement from start. Why did he signed consent when he won't be able to keep the agreement

Gina2019:
He has been getting it somewhere else. That's for sure. But rules are rules. Why is he trying to break the rules now?

He didn't wanna put too much pressure on her because she is not asking him for money.

If he can't wait till marriage let him walk away. Respect ppl decison biko.

The fact that he agreed to such in the first place sold him out as a pretender

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me... Now the real intention of the guy is now showing .

I agree

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achorladey:
Activate THINKING CAP or DEACTIVATE am. The BABIES will ONCE on RESURRECTION FACE TEST. Abi no be SO? Loooooool.

Correct that English, when you explain yourself better , I will definitely reply

achorladey:
What can I DO but loooooooooool. Its no longer what happens during the 1000 years when you saw what happened as explained by the organization you are a member of STORYLINE change.

I mentioned " A Test " to you . That should have activated your thinking cap that am reffering to an event after the 1000 years.

TruthHurts100:
So if the Bible tells someone not to touch or eat blood, then because he want to save his life he broke God's law... Even if he didn't die then... Wouldn't he still die later? Will he die as a Saint or a Sinner? How will God judge him.

We believe God has the power to bring people who obey God till the end back to life even if they die.

It's because these people don't believe in resurrection, that's why they can disobey God to save their lives now.


See them ooo... They want to go to heaven because this world is bad but they don't want to die.


They want to go to heaven ooo, but see as they are struggling hard to make money and amass plenty properties.... If God says oya it's time... What happens to all the properties and wealth?

Instead of spending their time in God's work... All they want is riches and positions.

We believe in aljana, paradise.... But these people don't believe in it.

It's wise to be obedient to good to the end.

They are bunch of jokers

Nothing was reversed.

ImaIma1:

Are you saying drinking blood is the same as passing it through the vein for medical purposes?

So why was the doctrine reversed? Did the JW Bible change?

Are you denying fornication through the vagina is same as through the Anus ?

The same verse mentioned abstain from fornication, abstain from blood.

ImaIma1:
But why are you lying? Where in our discussion did I mention the bolded?

Is this a feature of JWs? Reading their meanings into things, twisting and turning words?

Why not be plain and clear in your discussion? Why are you saying what I didn't say?

Which lie, didn't you believe people go to heaven when they die Expecially babies ?

achorladey:
I was thinking with the THINKING CAP that you gave me that's why the said "TEST" will be done in planet PLUTO before BRINGING those that passed the TEST into planet PARADISE EARTH. Hahahahaha.

Within the few sentences you already have "DAFT" and "THINKING CAP". Remarks everywhere.

Let me bring to to your NOTICE what the ORGANIZATION you are a member of TEACH about what happens during the 1000 year reign.


SOME EXPRESSIONS EXPLAINED

THOUSAND YEAR REIGN: After Armageddon, Jesus will rule from heaven with the 144,000 for a thousand years to help humans become perfect and to make the EARTH A PARADISE AGAIN.

“ALL THOSE IN THE MEMORIAL TOMBS”: All those who died and whom Jehovah remembers and will bring back to life.

Or perhaps as from your post above the BABIES resurrected will GO STRAIGHT for the TEST when resurrected. Hahahahahahaha.

Jozzy4: so how exactly will aborting them make them a CANDIDATE of paradise Earth?

Achorladey: the keyword here is CANDIDATE, when you know what it means and how it applies you will know why they ARE CANDIDATES?

Even unrighteous people are ressurected, it doesn't mean automatic ticket to Paradise
Sense is above you , the issue here is not just Candidate, everyone on earth now according to Churhianity is a candidate of either heaven or hell, so everyone is always a candidate . But automatic ticket is the issue here .... Nobody ask you what happen during the 1000 years, What happen after the 1000 years ?
( REV 20:7-9) THIS IS WHY ABORTING THEM DOESNT GIVE AUTOMATIC TICKET , . But for immortal soul adherents, a baby dying automatically gain heavenly citizenship,

ImaIma1:

The points raised are trivial. So I guess people who eat cake also take alcohol too.

Abstain/avoid...whatever. they still follow that command because they had been made to believe the doctrine for decades. Changing it now means it was a mere doctrine that people lost their lives to and not necessarily what the Bible says.

The word of God doesn't change. It is always the same.

If the point raised are so trivial , Do you now accept someone who accept transfusion all because the blood is not passed through the mouth is not different from a person who accepts alcohol through the vein yet claiming he didn't drink through the mouth ? Or someone who says he has abstain from fornication as the Bible said , all because he had sex from another route different from vagina , the Anus ?

achorladey:
Would God be happy IF JWS KILL or ABORT children instead of ALLOWING them to GROW up and become MEAT of ARMAGEDDON since ALLOWING them to DIE would have made HIM/HER a candidate for PARADISE EARTH.

You forgot before anyone enter paradise Earth , there is a Test at the end of 1000 years ? Your thinking cap is lost man, are you this daft so how exactly will aborting them make them a candidate of paradise Earth ?

ImaIma1:
What would make the child a "hellfire" candidate?

Growing up to know right from wrong. Some people today are theives, prostitutes, fornicators etc . Due to sin that surrounded them, such ones if they died as a baby would have gone to heaven , isn't it ?

ImaIma1:
From your premise, the conclusion is that you should allow the baby die since he has no sin?

Am actually using that premise of yours that babies go to heaven when they die.
You know you are the one who beliefs babies who died are automatically heaven candidate, isn't it better to save Lifes by allowing the child to die instead of growing up to be exposed to sin and becoming an hellfire candidate in the process?

ImaIma1:
How come the JW doctrine on blood transfusion has been relaxed? Did the Bible change?

Firstly, I guess you have no rebuttal to the points raised.

Nevertheless, Bible says avoid/abstain blood , JW's still follow that command.