₦airaland Forum

jos4kay:
I have over mingled and done with mingling. Until today, I ve never seen a woman values intelligence above money. Maybe you grew up amongst boys, you are not thinking like a girl

Funny enough, I grew up amongst women. We are a product of our environment, association, exposure, experiences and the value systems we enmesh ourselves in.

BarrElChapo:
Wait, did i quote you in the first place ? Or are you the person behind the male moniker.. ohhh i see ride on.

..if you lay claims on a thread I created, even if not quoted directly, I would take that as an affront.

Johncuppa:
Intelligence=700, spirituality=300.
#1000 spent wisely.
Wisdom and power are the greatest treasures of life.
When they lead, it's a matter of time, every other thing will follow.

Beautiful!

metaluterus:
A perfect man will have NO PENIS

Wow! Care to expatiate?

Anashe:
IF I were to choose, it will be faithfulness and intelligence. The rest can be taught or learned.

Beautiful!

jos4kay:
Also speak for yourself, I have never knew a woman who values intelligence above money.

Maybe white women o but I m not used to them but Nigeria women money first

You are a rare womanhood to have score intelligence very high above money and sex

I would advise that you keep an open mind, mingle more, desensitise your mind from some of the gospel preached on nairaland about women. This way, you can be able to see certain virtues....

Advancedman:
Intelligence also can be negative.

I factored all of these options in the positive sense.

emmyluizzz:
why are all the ladies going for financial worth??

guys this is to tell you .without money no girl will love you genuinely..be wise

Not like a man's financial worth matters, but a sane lady would factor that in when choosing a partner. Just like men, no woman would consciously want to marry a liability without prospect. The assurance that a man can hold the forte solely assuming a woman's finances runs into deficit is reinvigorating.

BarrElChapo:
If look scroll down on FP, you’ll see a man first made a thread like this before you start your chauvinism

Slow your role! Did I not pay credence to the thread created earlier? I believe I stated succinctly that the motivation for this came from that. Take a deep breath, bruh. It is not that deep.

DrAda:
Finances, funny, romantic.

A good finance correlates well with intelligence, spirituality, looks, toned body and hygiene.

A great sense of humour is crucial particularly when we are going through a rough patch since dopamines are released etc.

Romance is the spice that ties it all up and correlates well with loyalty too.

Spot on!

900warriorz:
Faithfulness N300 (I no wan get hbp on time)
Spirituality N300 (E get why and if you no get money for this country and you no get praying partner to support, you are gone)
Hygeine N200 (I no fit dey follow bed bug and cockroaches drag who get house)
Looks N200 (Wanna be attarcted to you everyday, e also get why)

This is very realistic.

BigYash:
In real life,you will hear.. Tall,dark and rich..

Your pardon has been begged for. Please expatiate!

chris4gold:
Issokay

N100 own no dey, shey we fit price ham?

Prices are fixed, but you can wait for clearance sales 50 years from today.

jos4kay:
Why rate intelligence high, I thought all women want is money and sex

My advice to Men, just make money, everything else will follow

Please speak for yourself. A real woman would hardly ever pay attention to your money.

ddippset:
A very vital factor which you overlooked is sexual prowess.

I am sure I am speaking the mind of many ladies.

Maybe I was a bit self-centred then. We could add that to the list.

obinna58:
No woman on sight, men takeover let’s help them create their dream man


They want money, the thread is contradictory

Last time I checked, I'm a woman and I have seen some comments from my gender. Don't turn this into a gender war please.

D4gmail1:
Ojoro dey this one. For woman you carry ass and breast for 500 Naira,
FINANCIAL WORTH suppose be 500 or 600 Naira.

Also bring intelligence down to 300 Naira. Imagine intelliegence getting higher value than financial worth. What is the essence of your intelligence if it cannot fetch you money?

What is the difference between faithfulness and loyalty? Aren't we talking about the same thing here. Oga edit this nonsense wey you write.

I did this on purpose, bruh. I pinned intelligence at 700 to see women who value this virtue. I do not want intelligence to be picked because it is a convenient statistic, but because it is truly valued. If this thread thrives, another topic on the concept of intelligence would come up. Facts cited would come from this thread.

Beverlyjean:
Loyalty 200
Financial worth 400
Hygiene 200
Romantic 200

This is good!

inoki247:
Lol na competition.....

Lols! Honestly, I wasn't privy to the thread created earlier.

RepoMan007:
spirituality can be towards God or towards that other one named Satan.
Financial worth isn't a static thing. N300k salary now is like 80k salary 3 years ago.

Potato-POTATO. What is spirituality? Shoudnt that mean the believe in a higher being, be it Jesus, Allah, Oduduwa and so on? At least, the devil worshippers can have a go at this. Financial worth bearing in mind thriving Financial trend of the time. I appreciate your input,nonetheless.

Brandiebird:
You have N1000 to create your perfect man so choose wisely!

Big dick = N500
Faithful= N300
Rich = N500
Handsome= N200
No MIL= N300
Generous =N300
Romantic = N500
Good In Bed= N200
Good cook = N200
Funny= N300

Let us see what the ladies will choose.

How did you beat me to this?



I wouldn't be building. If he possesses all these and is far from being intelligent, I would gladly pass.

Juliearth:
Consider this a sequel to the thread earlier created.

Thus if you had 1000 naira to create a perfect man, how would you go about it. Bear in mind:

Six packs/perfectly toned body = N500
Faithfulness= N300
Intelligence = N700
Looks = N200
Spirituality= N300
Loyalty= N200
Financial worth=N400
Hygiene= N200
Romantic = N200
Funny= N300

Ladies, let's ruffle up these numbers.

I would go first:
Intelligence + faithfulness

Consider this a sequel to the thread earlier created.

Thus if you had 1000 naira to create a perfect man, how would you go about it. Bear in mind:

Six packs/perfectly toned body = N500
Faithfulness= N300
Intelligence = N700
Looks = N200
Spirituality= N300
Loyalty= N200
Financial worth=N400
Hygiene= N200
Romantic = N200
Funny= N300

Ladies, let's ruffle up these numbers.

GeneralKoko:
Straight away!
Let's go.
My girl is 5 months older. She has fears but I'm adamant.
Is there any disadvantage??
Share experience or advice

Age is nothing but a number. Enjoy your relationship.

Sirchiboy:
Bolt is a slave work and they are heartless.
Bolt is the most useless platform in the world.
This morning I got suspended after one stupid passenger that gave me wrong direction reported my account.
Imagine driving for 15-20 minutes, to pick this evil passenger and he cancelled your order because of impatience.
And not done still
Reported your account and got your account suspended.
If not for the impractical government we have.
How can
Person go to school,
Graduate and start doing taxi or bolt...
I now have peace of mind.
It is well

Since you have the means, can you try again? The same way a client gave you a bad review that made things sour for you is the same way another can give you a review that would positively spike things for you. Quitters are not winners. Winners are not quitters.

Exceptional300:
I totally agree with you on this, I shouldn’t use the experience of a few people as a yardstick to draw conclusion but like the saying goes “You learn from other people’s experiences”.

Learning from one's and other people's experiences doesn't necessarily connote drawing general conclusions.

IkengaRussell:
As my interview was ongoing,the HR lady received a phone call from her boss telling her to pause the interview and discharge me.. Apparently,their preferred applicant changed his mind and decided to take the job..Her phone speaker during the call was quite loud...

That must have been a sad experience. A good offer would locate you soonest.

Exceptional300:
I get your point but any Nigerian Lady based in Nigeria that is worth dating is a lady that has things going well for herself there. Good Job, Booming Business, financially stable etc. anything short of that is absolutely a big red flag, ( At least for me). Also, the western system is very different from Nigeria, unlike Nigeria where only the man pays the bills.

Now, I can agree with you....but not completely (lol). Having a few bad experiences with Nigerian women should not be a yardstick for you drawing such conclusions.
You also, didn't notice that the paradigm has long shifted and Nigerian women are likewise, keying into the patriarchal role of providence? Have you not seen or heard of cases where women keep the family afloat? The world we live in has evolved so some of these archaic beliefs should be jettisoned. What I'm expecting to here is how women become boastful and arrogant when they start bringing "bread" to the table. Note that, that is spurious.

Exceptional300:
I approve this message!!! Dating a girl back home is risky!
You won’t know who really loves or you just want to use you to Jakpa. Abroad girls especially those that migrated after degrees in Nigeria understand the systems very well and off course have the Nigerian cultural values imbibe in them. They know what if feels like to pay bills and living in the abroad

This sense of generalisation is overly and overtly flawed. While it is true that some women venture into this for the benefits, as you have highlighted, others do not even care. Are you aware that there are Nigerians (women inclusive) who are bothered about japa-ing)?

matify83:
She's brave parading this Caucasian around with the level of insecurity in the country.

Nice yam barn. I love the sight.

It is an unavoidable risk, considering the fact that he has to meet her family to kick-start the process of "buying off" their daughter.

Nwatulee:
about distance my last business trip late last year was the longest.. I spent 3 months then came back to a total different stranger.. I tried to break up.. Because I really can't take it no more like she just keep having different new friends this party to that party every weekends night out.. Omo I said am not doing again she came home from work that evening with 2 of her female friends to help her packed her loads (this friend she just made in space of 3 months I traveled). Omo I shock... See the way their are hyping her while she was packing sef lol.. A week later she came back begging I no answer her she begged and begged for 2 weeks swore she won't do it again and if I don't take back she will commit suicide.. That period she like went back to normal not until I noticed something and behold I checked her phone omo what I saw I was shocked.. I was like again?

Threatening you with suicide is cheap manipulation. Do what's best for you. Take a decision that would be of benefit to your future children.