₦airaland Forum

DesChyko:
I'm not sure why people would rather he begged his way to recover his property which was sold without his consent.

He is using the law to recover his stolen goods. Those people should also use the law to recover their money. If I judged correctly, the OP isn't an emotional wimp but a logical fellow. He doesn't seem the sort interested in shielding anyone from blame.



Our prayer be say make emergency no meet us. Else, you will understand the value of your home being accessible in dire situations.

I think it's better to give the extra key to a trusted individual than leaving it outside.

Nwatulee:
Hi guys am not a good writer and will try to keep this post as short as possible.... I met a girl 5 years ago at first year we are just fiends and bedmates, a year after we decided to take things serious.. First forward to covid 19 she moved in with me a year after my precious business collapse due to China scam.. She tried her best to contribute the little she have even upto changing my boxers and money for hair cut she provided... The relationship has been good with the off and on.. But my gf have a bad habit that she is quickly to adapt to things both good or bad things.. Which to me I worry a lot... she cheats on me with other guys one time I hacked her WhatsApp I saw all her sexpades with other guys... I talk to her about it.... she begged but to no avail she refuse to change.... Fast forward till last week I keep complaining how she always come back late.. Snext 2 days after complaining she texted me with a picture that she is out chilling with her girls.. I was so angry because we just hard a semilar argument about, late nights days ago I told her if she didn't drive home next 30min she should just remain there.. She replied she is on way.. I was so angry and tell not to worry omo this girl stayed back.. Went clubbing and stayed in the hotel next morning she sent me a video of her and the girls in the hotel.. I didn't reply because I was angry.. Talking to you like this she is yet to come back to the house since Friday called all her siblings.. She was with none of them. .. and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst? Thank God I got back on my feet in business and now am doing all possible best we get married this year and relocate to abroad next year.. One part of me have actually decided to let go and just block her off the other part is not willing.. What should I do guys.. Because me am am 33 years and trying to settle down..

Overfamiliarity breeds contempt. I think she has gotten too comfortable and has "seen you finish". I am tempted to say that the Egypt you see today, you shall see and experience even more when you marry her, but let's not judge too quickly.


First, you need need quit cohabiting with her. Infact, you two should be separated for a while to figure out what you truly desire. If after this separation a reparation occurs, you can carry on with the relationship and then marriage.


Hold on with the marriage plans for now. One doesn't marry because he or she is of age. One marries because he or she is ready in all fronts and has met the right partner who is equally ready.

Note that you need to be fully convinced that she is not cheating and has fully changed before you settle down. Old habits die hard.

All the best!

MrOposter:
Did I ask him to burgle my home and steal my stuff? I should leave them because my brother is the thief? You wey wan buy something, you no suppose do due diligence?the right thing to do is to retrieve my solar system from them and anything wey dem wan do to my brother when they see him is up to them.

You are absolutely wrong, sir. You think you are the only victim? Your brother sold it to them under the guise of being in dire need of cash. Such deals happen every day. The country is a mess. The only thing you can do that is sane and seems best is to refund them and retrieve your items. Deep down, you know your brother has gone AWOL and won't be found any time soon.

MrOposter

First things first, hiding your key outside of your home is totally wrong. Desist from such act.


Secondly, please release that woman from custody. The person who should be held in custody is your brother. That family is also a victim of your brother's heinous act. They deserve a full refund of what they paid and even an apology.

You should be able to retrieve all the items, but you should also be ready to refund all they expended in buying the stolen item. Be prepared to shoulder that cost since your brother is at large.

All the best!

Jewessgratitud3:
Nice. I'll get that lavender fragrance and use with my electric diffuser. Was using red berry fragrance until I got tired and sick of it and stopped using altogether.
Just love my room to be airy and neutral when there's no artificial fragrance from my perf.

Then lavender-based fresheners should be your holy grail. They are subtle, yet get the job done.

Jewessgratitud3:
I saw this on Facebook and thought to throw it here too. Lets know what smell is oozing in your apartment .

Below are hilarious comments from Facebookers. .

Here's mine.

For me, most times, its the perfume I sprayed in the morning before leaving the house you'll perceive once you open the door. But when I cook ( like the afang I made this afternoon, the smell saturated my room because it was coming from the kitchen directly into my room. Once I shower now with my vit C scented soap, the Vit C fragrance will fill my room and neutralize the afang smell.
LoL .

That has to be the smell of lavender and geranium from my diffuser. My windows are rarely open, safe for when I want to cook. I hate the smell of food in my space so I cook for the week a day before general sanitation or on the same day. After cooking and dumping cooked food in the refrigerator, I clean and bleach my kitchen to get rid of the smell of food. Same goes for other parts of the house.

datribune:
Thank you so much. I'll try it & watch out for the triggers.
I am very grateful for your help. You are really very kind. God bless you richly. Amen

You're welcome. I pray you find healing soonest.

datribune:
Ee

Thanks for your prompt reply to my enquiries.
I am very grateful that you took out time to do that for me.
As for the Aloe Vera, will I eat it and gulp it down with warm water or cut the fresh one, leave it to sit in warm water for a while & then drink the water?.
Pls bear with me & throw more light.
Thanks a lot for your help.

Extract the Pulp, mix with warm water and drink.
You also need to know and avoid your triggers

datribune:
Good afternoon & thanks for this information.
Pls can you kindly explain how the mixture is to be made.
Is the Aloe Vera juice the type that is bottled & sold in some pharmacies?.
Ulcer is dealing with me seriously & this might help.
Thanks very much in anticipation of your urgent reply.
God bless you

For the aloe vera, you will cut fresh aloe vera and use warm water to drink it.

For the bitter leaf and lemon grass
You will squeeze the juice of the bitter leaf and use the juice to boil the lemon grass. Then filter and drink.

I hope we record no death like the last time. Please if you feel tensed, be like me, do not watch the game.

Agunesinjaweola:
I have the feeling the host country CIV is the favourite to take the trophy 🏆

And my feelings hasn't changed because they deserve it.

Same way south Africa was the favourite team, yet they lost.

I'm positive we would win and even if the odds do not favour us, making it to the finals is victory on its own. Defeating South Africa again, is yet another laudable win for us.

LibertyRep:
It is my conviction that estimated Billing is nothing but a bare-faced, government sanctioned extortion scheme

It is crime against the hapless and helpless masses that must be criminalised.

Consumer Protection bodies must ensure that this sanction is not audio but must be seen to be effected and reflected in the March bill.

#EndEstimatedBillingNow

Yet, some people swear by it because it is a water drop in the ocean compared to how much energy they consume monthly.


Either way, it is a sham that should be obliterated.

placeofallure:
Hmmmnn! I don't think my husband's family like him cause if they did, they should extend the love to me. Meanwhile, my own family likes him so much, even the little ones like nieces and nephews, babies in the family are growing up to like him.

The woes of a Nigerian wife.

I'm sorry about your ordeal, sis. What was your relationship like with them before you married their son? If it was good, at what point did it start going sour? What caused it? Can the situation be salvaged?

If the current situatio can be salvaged, please leave no stone unturned in achieving this. Marriage is a lifelong enterprise, so its best you run it with wisdom and patience. They may be wrong, but it is on you to make attempts at peace. I pray God gives you the wisdom to turn things around for good.

Ketamine9000mg:
In today's Nigeria's situation, can someone manage 1.5million for a wedding?

Definitely. You can cut cost further by doing a parlour traditional wedding and then capping it up in a registry.

theredaddy:
You just being Bias, why make it all look as though the problem can only come from the inlaws,

Is it a known fact that women are territorial, most of my married friends we hardly meet in each others house sef ... cos women are just something else when it comes to space

How many of ladies we have now even have home training not to talk of respecting anybody

I penned down one out of many possibilities. Feel free to do likewise. But then again, this argument is baseless. In the eyes of a mediocre Nigerian man, all women are monsters. So let's simply leave it at that. I do not like to argue for long.

VULCAN:
This is yet another clear reminder that very few woman are capable of logical thought.

A man emanates from his family.

Whatever he is before marriage, part of it emanates from the family where he came from.

The woman saw him relating with his family and such started decades before she came on the scene.

So a woman claiming she loves a man while hating his family is delusional.

When you try to reverse this- you obviously see how stupid that turns out to be.

A wife is a stranger that a man brings into a family. She may have a completely different orientation from that of the family. Whether for good or for bad is secondary.

The woman is just knowing the man and cannot claim she knew him longer than his parents or siblings.

So the onus is more on her to connect with the family she is marrying into just like it is the responsibility of the man to connect with his in-laws as he has come as a stranger.

So therefore your question doesn't make much sense as my love for my brother may not extend to his wife if as a stranger she refuses to integrate into her new extended family

Your point of view is valid and I accede 100 percent (I wont take to heart your first paragraph).

My thought however, is borne out of the possibility of the wife trying her best to fit in and take her new-found family as hers, yet gets condemned and rejected unjustly by her in-laws. It is easier to love your in-laws when they are willing to accept you. I know you dont live in Lalaland. Thus, you may have heard or seen certain members of a family frustrate their daughter in-laws/sister in-laws. How can love thrive under such toxicity?

DenreleDave:
I have read again.. Read the contradictory statement you typed and try assimilate

Don't crucify me for your inability to understand the intent of my text.

DenreleDave:
They should blame the voting committee, are you a better analyst than them or you know what they don't know..

Read to assimilate and not just to reply.

ekelebeXstunner:
Good for him then. I know the idiot moderators will move this to the front page. “Yoruba” land’s population is 99.9% members of the tribe. Some threads are penned in the language and enjoy high traffic. The same hardly happens featuring other dialects.

You can airbyour views without the use of derogatives.

Emmanuel900:
This Babalawo song won three Grammy awards this last weekend. When it comes to Grammy, if it is not Yoruba pipu, it will be Yoruba language.

Dude should have featured Adekunle Adeite to help him sing the Yoruba part.

Blame it on the voting committee that penned in the nomination and subsequent selection. There might be a deeper/darker rationale that we are not privy to though.

chinasaekpere:
I graduated from the University 12 years ago. Since then I have been jumping from one job to another with no progress in sight. I discovered that I have been stagnant for Years, so I decided to learn a skill.

I started by learning how to make footwear, I learnt that for a year but I later discovered that it's not what I want to do, although I can make every type of footwear even boots.
Last year I took an online course in frontend web development, for 6 months I studied for an average of more than10 hours daily learning from HTML and now React.js. I learnt figma, scss, CSS, Version control, jquery, bootstrap, Chakra UI and react.js, it was a tough one because I had to forfeit other means of making money. I got hungry so many times, I used my last card to buy data so I can keep studying and doing my projects.

Earlier this month, I finished by portfolio project, I had already worked on 4 projects using react, Jquery, Chakra UI and bootstrap. I designed coupled of web pages using figma.

Earlier this month, my girlfriend who's a data analyst sent me a link for a front-end developer role. In my mind, I didn't feel like I was ripe enough so I didn't apply. 2 days later, I decided to give it a try and so I applied. I was called to come for interview this Monday.

On getting there, the company was working on this revenue web app project they are doing to for a particular state government. I was asked to develop the UI of one of the pages using react, CSS and Tailwind. I have heard of Tailwind before but I have never used it.
I told the interviewer that I have never used tailwind and that I'm proficient using bootstrap. He replied that I should go through tailwind documentation and then use it to style the page on top of react.

So I started reading the documentation, I discovered that it's syntax is somehow similar to Chakra UI which I have used once in my project, the are the same concept of class utility. So I decided to start coding, getting snippets from the documentation and then applying my Chakra UI knowledge to work around it.

To cut the long story short, I coded from 9am in the morning and delivered the page by 5pm.

I was sent an appointment letter today. So my tech journey officially started. It's a junior role though but I'm glad I broke the ice.

The salary is what I have never earned in a month since I was born. 😊

Congratulations and more wins ahead to you. Big ups to your girlfriend.

Cc
Intergrated

MisterBanny:
Women are always the initiators of this family issues

It is wrong to generalise. I am certain you are just trying to catch cruise.

Intergrated:
that's just the way it is now.

Who made it so?

Intergrated:
Omo it's not easy getting a good woman honestly. the country has changed.

Why is this so?

Can a family love their son and not extend same to the wife?

Wickedness at its peak. The woman should dance to the tune of her action. A mental evaluation is also in order.

RIP! Yesterday's game was not for the faint-hearted. I low-key suffered a panic attack and had to disengage. My head still hurts.

etrange:
Goal?! Yeah!!!

I couldn't keep watching the match cause my heart was popping out of my chest, yet I can't concentrate at work cause my mind is on the match.

Please, tell me the match is almost over.

I couldn't watch the game, but even at that I have been hyperventilating with rapid heart palpitation, while using "one eye" to look up the scoreline on nairaland. I'm glad the Eagles are doing us proud.

SALLYBERRY01:
This or that

The second option appeals to my sense of style. I would however, apply a few tweaks. Thus
1 more ambient light
2 Acrylic frames
3 Expanded couch positioning( I do not like how closely knitted the chairs are)
4. The TV console area looks bare. I have seem better designs also. A wall-to-wall wall flutted panel is more like it.
5. Other walls would be styled with wall cladding and the acrylic frames quoted in 2 encased in the cladding.

Ebukamatth:
I still need fridge

Anyone with good and clean fridge should dm me
Contact on my signature

DM abi? Seems you want to be scammed again. If I were you, I would seal the deal here and inquire about the legitimacy of the seller before sealing the deal.

Zadokzoe:
This looks like psoriasis. The plaques are dry , raised and most likely itchy. Micaceous scales as well. I might be wrong though.

You are right. Those are plaque psoriasis.