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5minsmadness:
Very true words right there!

They have no problem going to these places but will open threads of hypocrisy when the man tells them to "come to my house"

youngberry001:
abeg oh am on fasting

senier007:
Well like I said earlier we choose how to live and how to live it, what may be seen private to you might not be seen as "private " to another person, the only road to succesfull marriage is to always ask for permission not to be sniffing around looking for something that you don't even know how to handle it, take for instance your wife checked your messages and saw tones of text from other woman not a single reply from you, how do think she will take it? Majority of women will think you were flirting with all the women, if you said no she will ask you how did they manage to get your number? As if it's a rocket science to get number and in actual sense those women are looking for way to get into your life but u shut them up in your own way by not replying them. Keeping secret is bad in any relationship same as sniffing into ones private things without permission, if there is nothing private in marriage why is your wife not aware of your bank acc digits? Am yet to see any man that will indulge all his secrets to his wife, including his worthness. I will advise women and men to be patient with their partners and never have the notion that you own your partner, a wise husband will always try to keep his wife away from depression, sadness by keeping things he did but in the past and present that will hurt her private in as much as she will be safe from not knowing.

fem29:
Duuude, I said nothing about as long as he is taking care of me! She has said that she works and has her own money. Listen I'm not a die there in marriage person but I believe in Al least giving it a chance unless he has proven that he is an unrepentant cheat. Reading on she has brought out more revelations that it seems he is so yeah leave the guy.

fem29:
That is your opinion. I have given mine!. What she described of the hubby shows he has redeeming qualities. Fact is they were not married when he cheated. If it was before marriage, yes leave immediately. After marriage give him merry hell, 1 more chance , plus marriage counselling. If you disagree we agree to disagree, finito!

fem29:
Of course it's very wrong to cheat on your girlfriend or fiancée but nobody is perfect. Fact is if she had found out before the wedding I would have advised her to pick up her shoes and run as fast as she can but they are now married and she needs to Al least give the marriage a chance. Would you advise her to leave him over this?

senier007:
what you did also was wrong to go 2ru his personal stuff, what if it is what it is? n

fem29:
Take it easy calm down. Fact is at least this was from before your wedding. I don't know where you live but I sugg you confront him and go for marriage counselling with a professional. Make sure he understands that if you ever catch him again, you are going to leave him. Also don't have kids until you are very sure of him. Wait a couple of years

Tapout:
chasing the devil away, yet still inviting him





interesting, ....

I detest ra'pe, but this is just being stupid, she's trying to avoid him and yet she normally goes to his house to while away time, ..who goes to someone's house by 9.30am on a Wednesday to while away time??

please we shouldn't jump into conclusion yet, like some posters have already done...there's more to this story, someone is not just telling the truth.....ra'pe my a'ss she probably has been having an affair with the guy in question, just that this time she wasn't expecting a foursome

MEILYN:
That was how a girl deceived me. I was a virgin too at that time, so I didn't know what'sup. She told me with all seriousness that she was a virgin and no man would ever touch her till she gets married. I loved her more because of that, I gave her everything she wanted, hoping to get married to her someday. Things happened so quick and we found ourselves making love. I wanted to give her that respect but she declined, she held me tight, this girl held my manhood and twisted it from left to right. I was afraid, I didn't want to cu.m too quick because I was a novice but her romance made me so Hot. I took of her panties, did a little pre-intimacy (The ones I see on Porn). I inserted my joystick and walahi it was free like badagry express way. I jumped out and asked her why she lied that she is a virgin when she is not? She told me that she didn't feel anything, she also said I didn't penetrate very well and insisted she is a virgin. As a Jew man, I went again to confirm, doubting my ability in the process. It was as wide as ever. I came out again and her excuse this time was that she was circumcised at a young age. That was the last time I saw her......

JiggamanGh:
Her body is on point.

alberto2k:
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Acidosis:
kandii you're spoiling me

Ishilove:


One will have to make sure that place is extra clean before allowing any man go near that place. Clean, well shaved and sweet smelling

Kandi no spoil me abeg

Ishilove:
I don't think my vagina is gross. I just feel the vagina is not a very sanitary place to be licking, you know. Besides, I'm squeamish

Ishilove:
The voice of experience

Even if my knees are made weak, I still insist guys should keep their mouths away from there.

Ishilove:
Lol. Where they at?

Ishilove:
Be that as it may, personally I don't think men should put their mouth down there. Like seriously. I'm a woman and I know the level of biological activity that goes on down below.

dinachi:
Look it is very clear that most women only mouth feminism mantra but cannot walk the walk. She invited him out so she must pay! The guy did nothing wrong. Yet everyday guys pay bills for foolish women who turn up with her friends for a night out for only two. Women are terrible hypochrites!

adeh39:
1. I did my research

2. You can't understand dear, every lady out there at some time or the other wish that they are a still a Virgin, So imagine a situation whereby, 5 ladies are living together as best friends, then one of them decided to keep herself till marriage, while the other four have been disvirgined since they were in Secondary school? Those four ladies will envy her very very much. It's only the ladies that can understand my point.


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adeh39:
Being a virgin is a very good thing but its better if the lady keep it a secret, because ;

45% of guys wants a virgin for a wife and they will do anything possible to marry her even though they don't really love her.

26% of guys wants to know how it feels like to disvirgin a lady, so they pretend and deceive the lady till they achieve their aim.

18% of guys just want to get into her pants simply because they want to add her to the list of the girls that they hv disvirgined...... Those are the people that
called theirselves Professionals in disvirgining a lady.


Some of her female friends that is no longer a virgin will feel jealous, and they will try all their power to make sure she joins their league, either by convincing her or planning against her.

Some people won't even believe her, they will start calling her all sorts of names.

So I think it's better if the lady keeps quiet about her virginity. though its nothing to be ashamed of but it's better if she keeps it to herself.

Yustash001:
This one is strange to me o....the one I know is mixed okro...what we call asepo....I haven't seen any soup like this where okro is mixed with vegetable...and cooked with the ingredients...