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It's perfectly okay to not want a 3 some with them.


Don't let anyone guilt trip you. How many girls would agree to that even if money is involved?

Rozcol:
My mom always want me to keep shut on everything and its not my way to be keeping shut at things no matter how hard I try and most times I'm usually glad that I didn't keep shut.She's too gentle for my liking.

My own mother gets scared on my behalf, whereas, she takes risk from time to time.

I once wanted to involve the police in a case between myself and one influential fellow in my community, I asked her for advice, she said I should let it go. I went behind her back and involved the police and got my result.

There and then, I was a proud disobedient child.

Start learning HTML and CSS, then add Javascript to it. Or you can learn Figma.

Just learn anything IT related. Even if you don't like it.

IT jobs in developed countries are just too much. Way too much.

Since you asked.

My mother is my favorite but she's the reason I stayed home for close to 3 years before gaining admission.

Since then, I don't take her advice on career and education. I just do my thing, if it fails, it fails. If it doesn't, then fine.

eniolorunfe:
Never say never! When there is life there’s hope!!!

The below picture should encourage you:

That's not kante on the left.

You no get money you go marry. You marry finish you come born pikin.

I could remember in 2018 when we spent 75k when my kid brother stayed in hospital for two weeks.

I'm sure you thought raising a kid was easy.

No. It is a very useless course.

MJBOLT:

play England vs Denmark,both teams to score

Guy!

somehow:
1 or 2 of us already told you they modernise /commercialise football.

To invent means it was never existing before, but in this case, it was existing before they worked on it and made it what it is today.

They actually re invented football.

Whatever you do, never accept that you are normal.

Some introverts would come here to tell you that you are okay but you're not.

Try to work on it sha. Take a job that puts you out there. Something like a teaching job, learn a musical instrument. Great people and engage in discussions that doesn't concern you from time to time.


Feelings na mumu.

PeaceJoyLove:
@Lordally, thanks for your kind words. How does one respond to nasty kids below:




I said I find you and your thread annoying, that's it.

If that's why you have been barking like a rabid dog for days now then it means you need to have your head checked.

Your reference to yabaleft makes it obvious that that is where you reside.



@Lordally, the so called nasty nice guy posted direct insult and abuses in several places apart from the above. He said his own father is crazy. A kid I know that if I handle, his papa and mama will both prostrate and knee to start begging. Is that one a nice person? He has no home training. And all the above nasty friends of his above. I am telling you the truth. They are not nice. They sounds nice when their ego is in place, but as soon as my words start itching them, they became nasty. I do not even know any of them before I started this thread. So, why did they come and say rubbish? Imagine the Africonn idiotaaa saying his father is insane and no one should work with him. I think his mother is in Yabaleft as we speak.

I mean, why such insult? For what?

You are a very foolish person.

It is your father, I mean your real dad and mother that are crazy.

You can't just stop thinking about me right?

Guy rest, I have a bigger fish to fry.

Maj196:
You are somewhat right about the Karleb guy, he poses like an expert but he's a novice himself. When I saw him explaining some codes to someone, I knew he knows nothing.

I am not an expert. I have never claimed to be an expert. If you dig well, you'd know I created multiple project some months ago in search of my first web dev job.

I only share my opinions here and you are free to disagree with it but when I see a bullshit opinion, particularly the annoying one, I point it out.

Mustiboy:
It's not easy not to join. One small boy in my hood just cashed out and bought his elder brother and himself an iPhone 12 Pro Max each.

He has left the hood since it happened last two weeks and has lodged in Eko Hotel since then. This boy is barely 19, and it's his type that are spoiling our girls. These girls now broke-shame struggling guys even though their own father was never successful in life.


Yes, virtually every guy on the street is into it. But I, for one, have never contemplated It, as I have a remote job which pays decently and with potential of increasing my earnings into thousands of dollars monthly.

I have friends who are doing it, but I can't tell them to stop. There is no other option for these boys out there.

This is the result of a failed system. The financial status of many boys on the street have changed, thanks to the so-called 'Yahoo-Yahoo'.

The aftermath in a few years will be damaging, and we will be left with a dysfunctional society.


It's a fast lane, everyone; tighten your seat belts.

You write?

This was the same opinion I gave in a church program I attended 2 weeks ago.

Internet fraud and prostitution are here to stay and the number of people involved in it will continue to grow exponentially until something is done concerning our failed nation.

It was easier to be decent in 2000 compared to now.

RioCarputo:
can you believe I'm 29...will be 30 by next year April...yet most people thinks that I'm 22 or 23....most of this kids think I'm their mate... that's how one girl told me I'm like her younger brother... checked her profile on Facebook lo and behold she's just celebrated her 27th birthday...and she look like 32... when she got to know my age...she was astonished and beg for forgiveness.....

make una see me ooooo......people no believe say I be 29 ooooo until I snapped and share them my birthday certificate..

Guy just forget it, there is nothing you can do.

Just take heart.

This is the same problem my mother has. She's young in both look and stature. A friend of mine here on NL once went through my Facebook profile and posited the my mum was my sister. It's so bad that a colleague once heard her voice on phone and asked if that was my sister.

My own problem is that I look exactly like her.

My Project was a waste of time as far as making money is concerned.

PeaceJoyLove:
Shut the crap up and tell these young guys looking for clean and honest ways the truth. Stop deceiving them. Stop it. You are a pathetic liar. I hate people like you. Stop playing with the lives and future of these kids. Stop it. You are a kid too. If you continue this your deceits, I will shock you. You are a terrible person. Stop manipulating these kids. Your thread is a big lie.

I will tell you for free that you are crazy! Very very.

PeaceJoyLove:
Be innovative....amd dont give up. If anyone tells you that you many will be mid level whatever working for huge companies around the globe, the person is deceiving you. There are many Indians in this game before Nigerians dream of it. And most companies will look their ways first.

Let us be truthful to ourselves, they are deceiving you. I am not trying to pull you down, but you need to realise your situation.

Be innovative and look for how to make your cash. Just learning so many programming languages and looking for peanut jobs will not do it. I dont want you fall for this crap this person is saying. He doesnt know what he is saying. If you doubt me, meet him real life and access him. You may see that you have more opportunities than him.

But you can make it. Not saying working for big companies is not possible but be sincere. How many are employing Nigerians? How many are really making it? Maybe they get a job and dont get any in the next 8 months. It is only when they have they loud it. I love sincerity and honesty. He knows deep within himself he is telling you lies. You are truthful, and that's ok. This is why you will be greater than him.

Just be innovative. And start looking into the future. The standard to make it is higher than just learning coding. There are more skills to have in your arsenal to really compete out there.

Having said this, I will not release anything in this thread. Let him release proofs of jobs and how far the people he mentioned are doing now. Let us see their total income and we can judge. I know what I am saying. They are all bunch of deceivers.

You have issues. Serious ones.

oyaskii:
This Priest?

You people should stop using IMDB rating as standard for everyone.

I saw a movie rated 8/10 on IMDB last month and it was shit.

Etinosa1234:
More than a year learning Android/ Java and yet.. I've not made anything from it...

How am I supposed to tell my family that IT is the future when I still depend on them

Even companies I apply to will say they need a senior or intermediate developer... How am I supposed to grow if I don't get a chance..

Las Las we go dey alright

You just need to keep applying, trying and learning.

I was once offered an internship role for 75k.

There are companies that would employ you the way you are.

The OP's question is not clear.

You've arranged your database, now what you need is the code to create the database and store and retrieve data from it using PHP and (my)SQL, right?

I recommend using w3schools.com. Go to the PHP category, scroll down to MySQL section, you'll see some examples that'll get you started.

For most checks, == is okay.

The way to know a junior is when they check if a boolean is true or false in an if statement.

Rather than if(found == true) use if(found).
Rather than if(found == false) or if(found != true) use if(! found).

I see lot of people want to make it quick and make it fast in this computer thing. That's perfectly okay but in reality, we are different individuals from different backgrounds, environments and exposures.

I see programmers especially newbies getting excited about other programmers breakthrough, this is very good but you own story will most likely be different. You don't know the work these programmers have done behind the scene, you only hear about the end results.

It took tensazangetsu20 6 months to get his first gig.
It took spartan117 a paid internship program to land his first job
It took Danny Thompson 8 months to get his first job.
Eji Mudi who used work with Danny Thompson before he(Danny Thompson) joined Google started out with a 25k salary after his internship.

Whereas, there are some people who are paid to learn how to code. Some got job after learning CSS and HTML for a month.

Funnily enough, some developers get sacked in their first job, not because they are not competent though but mostly because the company is not the best fit for them.

Some learnt Go, Java, PHP, Python or some other languages.

Where the developer you admire got a gig, another would have gotten a job, another a job with relocation package and another will even go unnoticed.

Don't be jealous and don't compete against another developer success story, run your race, drawing inspiration from other devs is good and I recommend it but your journey will most likely be different. Mind that.

All that matters is that we keep grinding, in few years time, na we go be the mid-level and senior developers for major companies around the globe.

What people don't understand is, there are opportunities in Lagos. There are some opportunities in Nigeria that only exist in Lagos.

I personally believe Lagos is worth the hype but it's not for everyone, you can live a decent life in Oyo State or Ogun State.

My brother rented a room for 109k but in my place in Ondo State, my mum is the care taker of two 2 bedrooms flat, tiled, each goes for 120k.

Just involve the police and a lawyer.

You'd be surprised at the results you'll get.

One thing about people like you is, by the time you learn, you now become the direct opposite of what you used to be.

It's like a person who turned to a player because of an heartbreak.

The best way to deal with this issue is to be moderate. Be the good-bad person, not the good or bad person.

Good people get used, bad people also lose opportunities because they've locked their heart.

olabrinks:
I think it’s because most curvy/large women don’t age well after children, sorry but it’s the truth. Slim women tend to look better after giving birth to 2+ kids. If you can be disciplined when it comes to food, it’s a very good thing.

Most curvy women eventually get fat. Some of them develop this huge tummy.

Only few retain their shape after birthing.

Tomorrow War. 8/10.

This Chris Pratt guy dey act sha.

HTML has caused serious wahala.

Guy, don't kill yourself on top your friend problem.

Let his parent/guardian help him.

LovemoreNC:
Privacy reasons please.

Let me send you the link to my portfolio website.

And I'll appreciate any tip and advice you can still give.

I really do need to start working and getting clients. So i'll appreciate any tip from Freelancers and People working in this field.

And thanks for taking time to read my post.

I didn't get your mail though, as we are not following each other.

Why do you fear making your portfolio public?

Most employers would want to see what you've built to be sure you are not an imposter, so add the link to your projects you have online to this thread.

You don't have to make the source code public if you wish.

Hey guys, how do you use Vue with Alpine, vue with livewire when using either Jetstream or breeze?

I found a solution on stack overflow which I've not tested out but I just want to hear your input.

You are job searching and you need people to request for your portfolio before you post them?