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GAME OF EMOTIONS.

women are emotional, men are logical: making practical use of the stereotype.

PROLOGUE
You have heard women say "I don't want just sex, I want something real!". Meaning sex on its own is not real enough for them but only when something is added then it becomes "real". that something is EMOTIONS (or an emotional connection). When emotions are part of the sex then it becomes real for her. Meaning Emotions are a woman's reality.

A WOMAN'S MOST EMOTIONAL MOMENT IS ALSO A WOMAN'S WEAKEST MOMENT.
the girl who visits you to cry on your shoulder when her father dies and the girl who visits you to celebrate a big achievement and the girl who just lost her dream job and the girl who just got diagnosed with the worst disease in medical history, will all have sex with you; the common denominator being they're all EMOTIONAL.

being emotional for a woman makes her vulnerable to dick because her "shield" (the c0ck-blocking shield) is down. a girl will Bleep during a funeral as easily as she'll Bleep during a wedding. its not about the ceremony but about how emotional the ceremony makes her. The more emotional she is the "easier" she will be.

an angry woman and an overly-happy woman are both easy to seduce. wherever there's an outpouring of emotion, painful or joyful, a woman's C0ck-Blocking shield will be down. To get pussy learn to hang around places or identify situations that make women emotional, because you will get luckier then. Places like Hospitals and situations like funerals, weddings, graduations days etc...

EMOTIONAL THINKING VS LOGICAL THINKING
What Is Emotional Thinking?: it is Processing feelings not facts where the solution is not what is truthful but what feels good to the person. That's how women generally make decisions, checking how good or bad a situation makes them feel. The same reason women grow to love lies because lies are sweet but hate truth because truth hurts. With women flattery will get you everywhere.

Do Men Ever Think Emotionally? Yes: take Your choice of Presidential candidate as an example. that's an emotional decision that no amount of facts for or against him/her will ever change. Just like your favourite Football Club is "the best football club in the World" no matter how bad it plays and your tribe is the greatest no matter how small or useless it is. these are all emotional decisions that come from the heart and feelings not the mind and logic. And as such no amount of logic or facts can change them. and anyone trying to reason with you on these decisions will be wasting his time and energy because you're not prepared to be reasonable.

women are labelled Emotional Thinkers because this type of thinking (processing feelings), is their default factory setting. emotions are a woman's thought process. while men process facts, women process feelings. a woman weighs statements/situations/developments against how they make her feel, not how true they are; and a man weighs statements/situations/developments against how true they are, not how they make him feel.

You ask a man "What do you THINK of x and y" but you ask a woman "How do you FEEL about x and y". and because you ask a woman how she "feels" about things it is then counter-productive to try to REASON with her. You can't reason with emotions. men consider women complicated and hard to deal with because men employ logic where logic won't work. While logic is about rationality, consistency, fairness, justice, predictability, and common sense (the male approach to the world), emotions are about HOW A SITUATION MAKES A PERSON FEEL AT THAT SPECIFIC MOMENT. regardless of whether there is justice, fairness, consistency or common sense. And what sort of people does that make women? Crazy people! Hence the popular phrase: "women are crazy".

Some men try to be emotional like women hopping to connect with them. But emotional women find that although emotional men may be easy to get along with, understand pain and are a shoulder to cry on, (they are Emotional Tampons) because these men are "in touch with their feminine side", it is however the cold-hearted psychopaths without emotion that make the pussy wet.

now, men (by processing facts), see the world in black & white / good & evil/ right & wrong/ Yes & No/ 1s & 0s; while women (by processing feelings), see the world in shades of gray, where there is no absolute good or absolute evil but where everything is relative ("it depends" ). where "Maybe" is as good an answer as Yes and No.
This is all to say - with emotions, "under the right circumstances" anything is permissible. If the "emotional weight of the moment" is correct, a woman will agree to anything. Be it cheating, homosexuality, murder or suicide.

because women think with their feelings, Any problem a woman encounters, she views it in an emotional setting, complicating simple things by bringing in unnecessary emotions (try working with your wife if you want headaches); meanwhile, because Men are logical, Any problem a man encounters, he views it in a logical setting, making him take cold businesslike steps to solve even problems that needed an emotional touch (you cant break up via Whatsapp. Its logical, but emotionally insensitive).

THE WEAKNESS OF WOMEN
Now, because women process feelings not facts ( "guys, i don’t know how i feel about this!" ) things don’t have to be right to be accepted but they have TO FEEL RIGHT: and herein lies the weakness of women: IF SOMETHING FEELS GOOD THEN IT IS RIGHT and if it feels bad it is wrong. How many times have you heard songs by women about cheating with lyrics that go something like: "How can something that feels so good be wrong?" Or "how can something that feels so right be wrong?"
To a woman if it feels good or right, then its good and it's right.

And by the same logic, the quickest and easiest way to spoil something for a woman is to MAKE HER FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. No matter how perfect and healthy it is for her. Either by shaming her for it or straight-up bad-mouthing it.

THE LIMITS OF LOGIC.
the most important thing to know about logic is that Logic is a C0ck-Blocker. follow logic and you'll die a virgin because logic will always misinterpret, explain away and find an excuse to ignore Green Lights. Why? Because Green Lights by nature use logic as a defense. A girl gives you a Green Light in such a way that it can be logically denied if you shame her for it. Its how she protects herself and her reputation around prudish people. E.g "can you come fix my TV?" where "Can You Come?" is the green light and "fix my TV" is the logical reason she uses as a cover.

And men who excel in logic: geniuses, nerds, geeks and professors are usually hopeless with women, because all the logic in the world will not help you with an emotional situation. Emotional situations require emotional solutions, just like logical situations require logical solutions. Its the reason why girls tell guys "Don’t over-think it, just do it". because men wait for things to make Logical Sense (which never happens in sex) before acting, even though things already make Emotional Sense (she just got engaged but is calling you non-stop? zero logical sense; but lots of emotional sense: she wanna use your dick to double-check her emotions concerning her fiance). a woman tests the strength of YOUR love for her by putting temptation in your path (setting you up) or by watching you deal with other women; meanwhile she tests the strength of HER own love for you by putting temptation in her own path (tasting the forbidden fruit). If After cheating with you a woman's feelings for her fiance still remain as strong as ever, then she knows those feelings are real and she'll marry him with confidence. Your dick was a litmus paper test. no matter how sweet it was, it did not make her forget her man. her feelings for him were bigger than your dick. So they must be real. She reasons.
Just like a lesbian will fvck a man to establish beyond doubt that dick ain't for her.

meanwhile, Logic is about analysing and predicting situations and problems safely from afar (e.g learning from other people's mistakes or reasoning from Cause and Effect to predict an unpleasant outcome and avoiding it); meanwhile emotions are about feeling or experiencing something first hand to form a conclusion. Emotions cant be predicted ("I will keep having sex with this guy i know i will never fall in love with him" - NO!! there is a chance your heart will surprise you and fall in love).
most women will be advised over and over about Bad Boys but still they will fall for and be hurt by the Bad Boys. Why? because Its the nature of emotions. With emotions experience is the best teacher, making women generally bad at taking advice. Women only learn by experience (or personal mistakes) while men learn by others' mistakes (or from the advice of others). Men "watch and learn" from others because logic is predictable and men are logical; but women have to "experience and learn" personally because emotions can't be predicted and women are emotional. Men can learn sex by watching porn, but women must actually have sex to learn sex because it is by actual experience that she can discover what she likes and hates. Women are Emotional and emotions are feelings and feelings need to feel to discover what feels good or bad.

PREDICTABLE LOGIC; UNPREDICTABLE EMOTIONS
logic is predictable: if you run something in your mind and it makes sense, run it by another mind it will make sense also. Laws, rules, formulas etc all rely on logic. Logic doesn't change, making it predictable. the ever-fixed never-failing Laws of Nature make Nature the most predictable thing known to humans: what goes up must come down, the higher you go the cooler it becomes, heat water and it will boil etc. It is this predictability of nature that makes it possible to cook, build, fly and forecast the weather. Similarly, If you know how a person THINKS you know that person forever. People seldom change their mind. You can predict and anticipate how that person will react in almost every situation for the rest of their life. Because how a person thinks today is how a person will think tomorrow. This is how men are predictable.
If a man tells a woman he loves her you can bet 10 years later he will still love her because his love is a DECISION unlike the love of a woman which is a FEELING.

But emotions are unpredictable: if you run something in your heart and it feels good, it doesn’t mean if you run it by another heart it will feel good also. emotional sensitivity varies from heart to heart; women being the most emotionally sensitive. with emotions there's no standard and no two people process emotions the same way. That is: no two people love the same way, no two people grieve the same way, no two people revenge the same way etc. Now because of these variations, there can be no law that can be created to direct people to behave in a common manner in emotional matters. Where emotions rule there can be no law. And because women are emotional, they have a natural disdain for rules, regulations and standards. Consequently they find themselves attracted to men with an equal and identical hatred of rules and regulations: Bad Boys, criminals and generally anyone going against the grain of society. It is with these men that women find a kindred spirit and experience true freedom to be who they are.

emotions are unpredictable and because women are Creatures of Emotion no two women are the same. what works on Sandra is not guaranteed to work on Maria.

Women view logic as too rigid, too fixed and too unbending to have any fun and spontaneity with because logic is uncompromising (hence women always urge men to "lose themselves in love" or "to surrender to the moment" that is, to put a pause on their logic for once and think with the heart); on the other hand, men view emotions as too fluid, too unstable and too unpredictable to build anything of lasting value on. both are correct. logic is unchanging, making men predictable (how a person thinks today is how a person will think tomorrow) which makes men reliable in the long term because they don't change, but unspontaneous and boring in the short term because they cant compromise and "let go and enjoy the moment"; meanwhile emotions are ever-changing making women unpredictable (how a person feels today is not necessarily how a person will feel tomorrow, feelings come and go) which makes women unreliable in the long term because they are always changing, but fun and spontaneous in the short term because nothing with them is set in stone, they can " flow with the moment" and follow where the wind blows. the unpredictability of women's emotions is such that women themselves cant predict themselves and regularly end up surprising themselves ( "one thing led to another" / "i don’t know what came over me" ). with a woman and her forever-changing and unpredictable emotions you win by getting all you can TODAY while you still have her emotional goodwill and her feelings are still favourable to you; making the most of the present moment, because tomorrow the weather changes. emotions are an extremely perishable product. More perishable than milk. every moment counts and tomorrow nothing will be use-able. your goal is to keep pushing on and on TODAY - until you hear the girl say "i don’t usually do this but,...".

You exploit what is unpredictable (women/emotions) by making maximum use of it while the mood favors you. and you exploit what is predictable (men/logic) by attending to it last when you have explored other options, after all its not going anywhere and its not going to change. thats why women have men as Plan B, C and D lined up that they love one at a time. Some of these men will have their chance 10 years from now. there's no hurry with logic. Logic is like wine. Time only makes it better. You can forecast and count on logic. Thats how women save the Good Men for last (AKA Nice Guys Finish Last)

A Player wins the Game of Emotions with women because the age when a woman is at her freshest (late teens and early 20s) is also the age when her emotions are the most unpredictable to herself as well since she's discovering herself as a young woman. Knowing that, the Player catches them young. While other men cry out: "women give their best years to the Bad Boys!". Players 1 - Emotions 0.

A Woman takes advantage of the predictability of logic to make men a reliable Landing Gear for when she wanna retire from fvcking around. She wins the Game of Logic with men because the age when a man is at his best career and financial-wise (30-35) is also the age when he's set in his ways and even more predictable than in his earlier poorer years! So having slept with dozens of men and aborted dozens of pregnancies, the woman goes through her phone book and that boring good guy with a steady job and money saved up who, for years, has wanted to wife her up and "save her" finally gets a call from her...the Nice Guy is finishing last! And himself he can't believe his luck that after so long the girl of his dreams is actually available! Women 1 - Logic 0.

WOMEN DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
because women's emotions are unpredictable even to themselves, they end up contradicting themselves when what they claim to hate today pleases them tomorrow (you cant predict how something will make you feel until you feel it), earning them the infamous reputation: Women don’t know what they want!

its a little flaw in women that a Player capitalizes on with statements like: "try this, you might like it" or "lets try it once, if you don’t like it we'll never do it again".

And true to the unpredictability of emotions, some things that his GF previously claimed to hate, she will try out and find that she now likes them. For whatever reason!

C0CK-BLOCKING WITH LOGIC; PUSSY UNLOCKING WITH EMOTIONS.
Although Emotional Creatures, women themselves use logic for C0ck-Blocking. where logic rules sex rarely happens, remember "when a woman has beauty without brains its her private part that suffers", so a woman with brains protects her pussy. so she'll block with logical statements like "im married/ i don’t cheat/ its wrong/ i don’t know you" etc. common sense excuses.

But a Player is never logical (that's for Nice Guys) and he is never emotional (thats for Emotional Tampons). he is a cold-hearted manipulator who uses the EMOTIONAL WEIGHT OF THE MOMENT to counter: "You've an innocent face and i know you don’t usually do this but its Dec 31st baby" /" you just told me its your birthday", etc knowing Dec 31 (last day of the year), birthdays etc, are situations with "emotional weight" and that with women, the more emotional weight a moment carries the more she will do.
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ubunja:
fear not mah niggah.I ain't removing that post any time soon

ubunja:
Season Of The Thug.

our little blue world has four seasons: Spring, Summer, Autumn and Winter... all different. all coming in order. Each with it's own advantages and it's own disadvantages. It's like four different worlds in one.

There is one other thing that also has its own seasons...although only two. yet those two are as contradictory as winter and summer are.....

THE MENSTRUAL CYCLE aka THE SEASONS OF THE WOMAN.
Two weeks before her menstruation something wonderful happens deep in a woman's womb: her ovaries release an egg (an ovum) jump-starting OVULATION - her most
fertile phase in her monthly menstrual cycle, where an egg is made available for making a baby.

what follows is a radical change of a woman's behaviour and preferences under a flood of chemicals and hormones that can best be described as A SWITCH HAVING BEEN FLIPPED DEEP WITHIN HER. during ovulation Estrogen, the female hormone, and a host of other chemicals and hormones flood her system in unprecedented levels. In that chemical "high", what has been a beautiful "Summer" with the woman being romantically minded (she dreaming of candle-lit dinners and reading romance novels etc) turns to terrible Winter. Her body changes seasons.

Drugged and overflowing with fertility, a woman is pushed into making decisions that are contrary to her everyday nature and she becomes a whole new different person.

Now, men know a lot about the changes that a woman goes through during menstruation (the process that follows Ovulation, when an egg that wasn't fertilized together with the womb lining that had formed to prepare to receive a fertilized egg, is washed away as waste): that a woman' moods are erratic, her temper short etc; but a few men know and appreciate the changes a
woman goes through DURING her OVULATION two weeks BEFORE her menstruation. and women will never tell...

OVULATION IN WOMEN aka "BEING IN HEAT" IN ANIMALS
when a woman is not ovulating she is her normal everyday self that the world knows. Loving the men that she loves. Hating the men that she hates. But when an
egg is released in her womb a switch flips: and another persona appears, pushed centre-stage by her egg. This persona has its own type of men that it loves and its own type of men that it hates.

in some animals ovulation (called "being in heat" in the Animal Kingdom) is accompanied by visual cues that the males can pick up and act on (e.g in some baboons the female genitals become red and swell and the males know its Game On). But in human females the process is hidden with little to no indicators. Only the ovulating woman will know. Mother-Nature conceals women's ovulation from men's eyes to protect the women from being taken advantage of (they are extra h0rny at this time and highly manipulatable ) and to give women an advantage on paternity (men are prevented from "mate guarding" which allows females to easily sneak off to cheat with superior males to get better genes)

SEASON OF THE THUG
But that doesn't mean it's entirely impossible for a man to deduce that a woman is ovulating and is very fertile. There are subtle hints and clues that women can't help but give that a perceptive man will identify and act on.

Here are a few of them: a woman will dress more slutty and more revealing than usual, she will hang around men A LOT. the kind of men she will hang out with will be different from the kind of men she usually hangs out with.

She is a different animal altogether!

she will find thugs likeable, masculine rough-set men attractive, deep male voices sweet to the ear, darker toned men sexy and will flirt with men plenty. she'll seek out gatherings of men and hang around these. If she loves porn, her preferred porn at this time will feature a lot of heterosexual penetration (normally women love lesbian and male gay porn more).

This is a brief temporary change of a woman's preferences caused by the egg. if a woman will cheat most likely this would be the time. if she hated Bad Boys before, during this time she actively searches for them. its not that she has changed character-wise. but the egg is pushing her to the type of men whose sperm is needed for fertilization.

She is going through a season of change. its the season of that one man that moral society misunderstands and hates but whom mother-nature loves and understands: the Thug . The man whose wild anti-societal violent nature places him in tune with his animal side.

when a girl tells you she's on her period just know that roughly 2 weeks from that time she'll be ovulating again, as per the menstrual cycle. just keep an eye on her as
those days approach and watch out for these signs: when a girl who usually dresses modestly every month suddenly, for more than a week or so, dresses like a slut then
know chances are she is ovulating and is fertile. when a girl that hates makeup suddenly, for a week or so comes in heavy with makeup chances are she is ovulating. when a girl who shuns boys for most of the time but once a month for more than a week she hangs around boys, she is ovulating. She is not her self. when you know you are a thug but once a month over a few days a girl who usually detests you finds time to chat know chances are she is ovulating. when a girl you never thought of as pretty but one day you find yourself looking at her and saying"wow, i never knew she was this pretty!": chances are she's ovulating, (estrogen enhances her face a little to"sell her" ). when a girl passes by you and she has this strong scent that grabs you down to your balls, its not perfume, its hormones, chances are she's ovulating. when a girl in class or at work who is never popular but for
a few days every month all these guys are crowding around her like she's some sexy new-comer, chances are she's ovulating. her hormones are whats pulling those males to her. the womb is in control of the pussy . Its Christmas for thugs because as per evolution the pussy is
being directed to the alpha males. its their superior sperm that's needed.

THE"CHEATING WINDOW"
the storm of chemicals and hormones of ovulation brings upon the woman real changes that are so out of character she may as well be completely different woman. the most important change being a woman's susceptibility to cheating.

a woman's cheating patterns directly correlate with her menstrual cycle. she is more likely to cheat when she is ovulating than when she is menstruating. and many women who don't cheat find it extremely hard to maintain their integrity during their most fertile phase of the month, that is ovulation. their animal nature is "screaming at their
ear" urging their mind and morals to stop cock-blocking and allow dicks to bring in their life juices so the womb gets down to doing what it was created to do: make
babies.

women of weaker morals fall easy into cheating during ovulation. and stronger ones, if their buttons are pressed well enough, will succumb as well, ....not all, but a good number.

While female ovulation in humans is concealed/hidden/kept a secret, especially from men, other women can spot it on a woman's face if she is ovulating and act accordingly: that is keep their men away from the Hot bitch. its not clear exactly how women spot this but it has to do with very subtle colour changes on a woman's face that women pick up but men cant. men have to rely on not so reliable clues to spot an ovulating/fertile woman like the fact that she wears a lot of red and pink, uses makeup more etc.

SEASONS COME AND SEASONS GO.
BUT... once ovulation passes, the switch flips again... Estrogen levels nose-dive and the hormones dry up. a new season appears. the warm summer of the woman's usual self reappears.

These are the two seasons of the woman.

when an egg is ready to be fertilized during ovulation a woman is led to seek out the strong alpha male. After ovulation, when menstruation begins, the switch flips and the woman goes back to being herself. Usually dreaming of the gentle Nice Guy.

all you need to know is when a woman is menstruating she just finished 2 weeks of not being herself. in those 2 weeks thugs and Bad Boys have been her bread and butter, either in fantasies or in real life. Now, because the alpha sperm wasn't secured the womb is flushing out the egg as waste.
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OK.I will be good. Nothing will be removed from now on Kazyhm

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I have a new method where I don't have to contact anyone. I prompt NL to remove or hide the entire thread.

ubunja:
Guys Are Like That, Girls Are Like This

PROLOGUE.
here are 5 significant differences between men and women that you'll do well to remember as you interact with women...

1. MARRIAGE-WISE: YOUR SACRIFICE IS NOT HER SACRIFICE
relationships are about sacrifice, but the sexes sacrifice differently.

a woman is always in demand. at any one time she's having sex with more than one man. while 5 more men are begging to Bleep her. and many more are eagerly doing her favors in cash and in kind without getting anything but approvals.

all these things a man isn't privileged to experience.

when a man proposes marriage to a woman the woman considers what she's already getting (the sex, attention and favors) from different men as a single lady; and battles with a decision between the pleasures of being single and the man's proposal. she's weighing multiple-dicks anytime, fun getaways, weekend club nights of booze, freedom to wear whatever, keeping her surname and all the fun things a single or unmarried woman enjoys against the torture of one dick, getaways that will come once a year when hubby finally gets holiday
time-off, no more club nights, having her dressing regulated, having someone's surname replace hers and all the restrictions a wife undergoes.

Her choice to walk away from the pleasures, freedoms and privileges of being single is how a woman
sacrifices for the man. her giving up all her fun for him is a huge sacrifice for the marriage. she has done the
man a huge favour by choosing his one dick over the dozens she was riding.

And so a woman enters marriage with that superior stance, demanding the man show appreciation for what she has given up to be with him. she may not say it in so many words but by attitude.

the experiences that a woman gave up to be with him will always be more amazing than those the man is offering.

meanwhile a man sacrifices in an entirely different way.

a man lives within his means and doesn’t over-work himself, until he gets a wife. and then everything changes... to keep his wife happy and comfortable he works harder and for longer; and may even take another job. he has targets to meet: house, car etc. he works himself to the bone, even when sick, even on holidays and birthdays. sometimes in dangerous occupations that take him in and out of hospitals. sometimes in distant locations that only permit him to visit home once a month.

he's doing it all out of love.

His giving of his sweat, life, labour and energy to build a home he himself will never enjoy because he's always away working and the few days he's home he's asleep because he's exhausted is how a man sacrifices for the woman.

and eventually his over-worked body will pay the inevitable price; seeing him go to the grave far earlier than his wife.

2. PARTNER-WISE: SHE'S DOESNT ENVY LIKE YOU ENVY.
we all at one time or another envy our friends' partners. its an inevitable part of life. but women and men deal with this envy in different ways.

if Thomas' best friend, Andrew, is always raving about how much his fat cute GF Joyce rocks; Thomas will not go after Joyce but will go out there and get himself a
cute fat girl just like Joyce, to experience that for himself.

That’s how guys roll. its how guys end up dating the same type of women as a crew. one guy inspired everyone.

it plays out this way because girls are PASSIVE in sex and do little of the work so what counts more is not her talent and skill but what her mama gave her - her beauty, figure, boobs and ass: her ASSETS. ( you can see this in porn categories e.g M.I.L.F, BBW, teen, Latina, Big Ass; all that group women by looks and appearance, not by
talent and skill)

so for Thomas there's a 100% guarantee that a random cute fat girl with assets matching Joyce’s will rock just like Joyce. so Thomas doesn’t go after Joyce
personally but finds his own cute fat girl with the same type of body as Joyce.

everyone goes home happy.

however!!! if Joyce's best friend, Cynthia, is always raving about how much her tall lanky BF Thomas rocks;Joyce will not go out there to get herself a tall lanky guy like Thomas, no!Joyce will go after Thomas Himself , to experience that for herself.

That’s how girls roll. its how girls betray each other. and why girls don’t brag about their men to their friends, and when and if they do brag its about his money or job
(things the friends already see) but never about his dick game or dick size (things they haven’t seen).

to brag is to apply for your BF to be stolen.

it plays out this way among girls because guys are PROACTIVE in sex and do the bulk of the work so what counts more is his talent and skill and not what his daddy gave him.

so there's 0% guarantee that a random Tall Lanky Guy will rock just like Thomas since its not guaranteed the random will possess Thomas' skill set.

so rather than test drive a hundred random Tall Lanky Guys,Joyce takes a shortcut and steals the nearest "tried
and tested" Tall Lanky Guy she knows: Thomas.

and bitches go to war.

while a woman's prime sexual duty is to maintain her figure and assets, a man's prime sexual duty is to expand his sexual repertoire. sex, like all skills, sharpens with practice; and the more women a guy fvcks the better he gets at fvcking and the more pleasure he can give a woman.

between two 30 yr old men, the man who started fvcking at 16 will obviously deliver a stunningly better performance than the man who started fucking at
27. 14 yrs of pussy will imbue a man with breathtaking skills women crave.

and should women get confirmation that a man blows minds with dick they'll steal him from whoever owns him - friend or sister.

3. PROBLEM-WISE: SHE SEEKS SYMPATHY YOU SEEK SOLUTIONS.
here is a mistake that many men make. when a woman discusses her problem with you, because you think of yourself as this mighty Problem-Solver you try to SOLVE
the woman's problem for her: wrong move!!! women want COMFORT AND SYMPATHY not solutions. solutions deny a woman a chance to solve her own problems and make her feel
inadequate.

but comfort grants a woman that chance to solve her own problems while promising to support her in her decisions. men never discuss their problems with their women because by instinct they know women are only good for comfort not solutions. men take their problems to OTHER MEN because comfort doesn't help a man with his problems.

men are solutions-driven. women are empathy-driven. because women are emotion-based and men are logic-based. worse, when women attempt to give solutions they fail miserably by attaching emotion to it all ("he must take my advice I’m his GF" ) and if their advice is rejected they feel unloved.

men take their problems to their friends to avoid this.

If a girl brings a problem to you comfort and support don’t give her 2 hours of solutions and answers (UNLESS SHE EXPRESSLY EXPLICITLY DISTINCTLY CLEARLY ASKS FOR YOUR SOLUTIONS) otherwise listen and sympathize. Nothing more, nothing less!
Example :
Your GF : "my boss wants me to work this Sunday and has started this habit of asking me to do
his grocery-shopping for him"
You : [s] "tell him to go to hell. That’s how it begins. next he'll be asking you to do his laundry. you know what? you need to find a new job!" [/s]
You : "he's an arsehole. what are you going to do?"

4. GIFT-WISE: SHE DOESNT ASK THE WAY YOU ASK. women ask for things via hints. men ask directly

A man will say to his woman "Did you expect me to read your mind?" and the woman will be angry because all week long she's been dropping hints like crazy. leaving clues like a criminal that wants to get arrested

but men are hopeless with hints and clues that’s why the few men who are good with them make money as detectives. the same reason why men always get caught when cheating is the same reason why men cant pick up hints and clues: if you're hopeless with hints and clues it also means you're careless with hints and clues.
here's a short story:

on a cold day a woman shows her man a jacket in a shop, she tries it on, parades it for him and tells him it will match nicely with his own jacket he has at home. reminding the man her birthday is around the corner and her jackets at home don’t look so good on her anymore since she got her new figure---------> as far as the woman is concerned, she has just asked for that jacket . can she be any clearer than this?

but to the man it was all chatter that flew over his head. and the man and the woman are headed for a showdown when her birthday comes and that jacket isn’t bought. the woman's anger will burst "but i told you I wanted that jacket!!" while the honestly baffled man will ask "when?? baby don’t expect me to read your mind!!"

but women don’t come clear and direct for two reasons: 1) Men have ego. and women have to tip toe around it. unsolicitated ideas are best given in such a way they appear self-generated: hints & clues.
and 2) No woman wants to be seen as demanding so some things will be asked for via implanting the idea: hints & clues. when the man buys the gift he doesn’t see it as one more thing the woman asked for; but "i saw how she liked it; i wanna surprise her with it!!" NEWSFLASH!!! you're not going to surprise her dummy! her liking it was her asking for it....

5. PUSSY-WISE: YOUR WASTE IS NOT HER WASTE.
if a woman is no longer a virgin she considers a waste of pussy if that pussy is not being pounded.

pussy and economizing are words that don’t belong together. if the pussy is there it must be fvcked. no excuses. No stories. No becauses. no saving it. go easy on a woman and you"ll lose her. be economic with pussy and a woman will give it to someone else. to get a woman you have to show you're prepared to destroy pussy and have no intention of saving, hoarding, preserving, economizing and storing it away.

"use it or lose it" is a woman's motto: The law of biology.(tie up one arm to "save it" and after a year it will grow weak, wither and waste away. Use it or lose it).

meanwhile men have a different outlook. the more a pussy is fvcked the less valuable it becomes in his eyes. Hence a woman's Body Count will always matter to him.

A married man likes to fvck his wife gently and softly so as to keep her fresher for longer because he takes pussy to be like money that should be saved for future use.

But it's all a big mistake.

Its the reason married women cheat and the reason everyone wants to cheat with a married woman. her pussy is always in mint condition. but this also means that pussy is not being properly destroyed and the wife is definitely unfulfilled.

"waste not want not" is a man's motto: The law of business. to a man a pussy that’s fvcked 24/7 365 is a wasted pussy. its being ruined. But to a woman a pussy that’s not fvcked, ever, that just lies there 24/7 365 is a wasted pussy. its not being utilized. while you take it easy on your girl and fvck her gently and sparingly, she feels like she's being squandered, toyed with, trifled with and her time being wasted. she's not getting any younger and she wants her body made use of NOW. a GF unfvcked is a wasted GF. a pussy unused is a pussy wasted.pussy is not money it cant be saved. to save pussy is not to fvck it and not to fvck it is to waste it.

same goes for dick. women pretend to respect that guy keeping it in his pants, "saving himself for his future woman" or whatever; but deep down they hate him for not making use of that dick. every study where girls are asked what they'll do if given a dick for a day shows they'll be no better than the Players and pigs they profess to detest. worse, as much as a woman publicly praises the chaste man she never loses her virginity to him but to the Bad boys, Players and Pigs. and no matter how much she tells the chaste man "you'll make a good father" she never gets pregnant for him, but for the Player that’s baby-daddy to dozens of other girls across town. a woman herself cannot explain the draw Mr. Baby-daddy has on her, especially when common sense is screaming "walk away bitch!!". its biology. its the woman's evolutionary impulses subconsciously
propelling her into the arms of that man who can make good use of her perishable goods - the womb being the most perishable of her goods.

gender bias and romance aside, women view a man committing to one girl in a world of pussy as a man absolutely, totally, betraying the marvellous gifts mother-nature gave him. he was designed to impregnate the whole World his whole life: from adolescence to old age; that’s why he manufactures millions of sperm daily and his sex life doesn’t slow down for menstruation or pregnancy. a man's sexuality is a highway with no stop signs, no traffic police, no traffic lights and no speed humps. he can fvck everyday till he drops dead at 100 because his dick and his sperm are active till his last day. The only roadblock on a man’s sexual highway is the one placed by society: love. For love a man gives up all his privileges granted him by mother-nature and wastes everything on one woman.

in comparison, women see that their own sex life is like an inner-city road; corners, speed humps, stop signs, traffic lights, zebra crossings and traffic cops everywhere. always speed limits, slow downs and stops. if its not menstruation stopping sex play for days, its pregnancy taking the woman out of action for months. If its not motherhood putting her on the sidelines for years, its menopause putting paid to her sex appeal.

even if she wanted to or there were willing men, a woman can not have solid non-stop daily sex for a full straight month, not to speak of a year or a lifetime. that gift mother-nature gave to a man. a lot of women secretly envy men for the easy-going, non-stop, low-consequence nature of male sexuality, and see men taking chastity vows or being faithful to one woman as wasting a good thing. Oh what havoc they would cause if they had those dicks....!!! What fckery!! as it is they don’t fvck willy-nilly for fear of pregnancy; whats the chaste
man's excuse?

a man is over-blessed. for him to commit to one woman is a waste of resources. it may be romantic but its stupid, biologically. sentiments and emotion aside; a man makes sperm till he dies while his wife's womb will only work for the first half of her life and all sperm the man will manufacture after that point will be water wasted on a dead plant. romantically this fact hurts but biologically its gratifying. As such, women are to be enjoyed timely because their bodies have a short shelf life. to store her away is to waste her. to keep her for tomorrow is to squander her. because her clock is
ticking. just do it already.
TheRedPill
#MGTOW.

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InSanety:
well, for one thing, I do not think that committing a crime is a sensible way to solve a problem.

If he still has the lease to the property like he claimed he did, he should have simply stopped payment of rent first. Then wait to see how she raises the money, because the woman obviously wasn't raising any money if she couldn't recover from a setback of that nature. She didn't put any capital, she didn't get any loans, so, all the money this man wants us to believe his wife was making, where did it all go?

Who had control of the money? Obviously, it wasn't her. So, if he had control, he could have manipulated it until she would beg him to return her to her life. He could have gotten someone else to come in and outbuy her, pay more for the shop so that she is kicked out, then he takes up position as a silent owner.


He just went to great extremes for no sensible reason, because he is another person who typifies the stereotype that the black man is brash and illogical in his ways. I am ashamed that I am lumped in with such a person, this is first grade neanderthal behavior. He destroyed properties to prove a point when he could have easily taken control of same properties to prove a point.


A woman had her husband paying her house rent on her property for a decade and the man was none the wiser. That is sense.

Ziggylady:
You know nothing about marriage at all,all you know are rants from crazy males on Nairaland against women..

What that man did is extremely bad and will destroy his marriage completely if his wife finds out..He is actually a criminal who deserves to be arrested for burglary and arson

besides its on record that Nigerian males in their primitive thought-process are the most insecure male in the world..easily intimidated by a successful woman yet the first to cry 'women are parasites who are lazy'

AZeD1:
"Now she's so humble, the problem now is that she has become a monitoring spirit following up and down and beating young girls around me ."

Ziggylady:
I know he is your hero,when you marry steal and burn down your wives business because you want a toy with no mind of her own you can control...as see how far that gets you in life.

AZeD1:
Yes I did.
There's the man's side, the woman's side and the truth.
From the man's story, my guess is the man was mistreating the woman because she didn't have money and when she had money he felt threatened.

The man wants a submissive wife but still chases small girls around.

XhosaNostra:
There're 2 sides to a story. This is only his side. Surely you don't expect me to believe some perv & his perception of events. I wonder if you'd be taking this guy's side if something similar happened to someone you're close to. God forbid! Food for thought. What he did is punishable by law. Fullstop. And the girl should have undergone some type of therapy to help her "get over it". People don't simply get over things like that on their own. It changes them & not in a good way. I know of much older people who still struggle, even when they were adults when it happened. How much more for a child that age? I'm sure she's acting out one way or another.

XhosaNostra:
Educate yourself then. Your focus is mainly on the perpetrator & their so called remorse. Do you believe a child that age won't grow up to have issues after being violated by someone they trusted, a brother of all people? Come on! He screwed her up in more ways than one & that is a fact.

XhosaNostra:
I don't have to be the victim to understand their ordeal, you fucking slowpoke. There're lifelong consequences, like promiscuity etc. You need to educate yourself before you vomit your rubbish on issues you know little about like a true empty vessel.

XhosaNostra:
You're the demented one & probably a sleazeball too if you think what he did is somewhat forgivable just because he confessed to it. Do you know the long-reaching & damaging effect molestation has on its victims? You shut your trap before you speak up on crap you know zilch about!

XhosaNostra:
So what? He's still a twisted individual & shouldn't be left with small children unsupervised, in case his perversion shows up again. Certain things don't cure themselves, they just lie dormant until something triggers them up again. Wouldn't trust him with a hole in the wall or a pet!

Yonce:
There are no good girls. Only bad girls who haven't been caught.

TheGenius001:
Thanks for your observation. I never mentioned that a lecturer deducts mark for not writing the answered questions' number on the cover page.Not indicating such makes it more chaotic for a lecturer who is handling so many scripts (like a thousand or more).The lecturer briefly goes through the column to find out if the student actually attempted his own question.If so,he quickly opens to the page in which the student gave answer to his question easily and give his mark and record.

If reverse is the case,the lecturer may not have all the time in the world to start looking for the particular page in which you answered his question.. By so doing,he may likely skip your script and pass the script to another lecturer. He may find it difficult to also mark your answer when you answered his own question and another lecturer's question on just one page.

Mind you on few occasions have I had the D's.(like one or two in the school courses and it really pulled my GP)
I also have never had an E or an F.

MoxxxxO123:
In as much as you are experiencing this tough situation in your marriage divorce won't be a way out of this, firstly you take it to God in prayers..For the sake of your well being and your son find a way to act blind to her while you still make efforts for the marriage.dont seek divorce or separation at this time

EfemenaXY:
Divorce. Divorce. Divorce.

Divorce isn’t always the answer to marital problems and should never be taken lightly especially when there are children involved.

This should only ever be the last resort if all else has failed.

Besides, there’s always three sides to every story:

~ His side
~ Her side
~ The truth

Based purely on your side of the story, you need to do some serious soul searching and ask yourself why your wife changed overnight.

The first few years of marriage are the honeymoon stage. You courted this woman for 11 months. That’s quite a while to have studied her. There is no way a person can keep up the pretence for 11 long months (unless yours was a long distance relationship?). There must have been red flags. You just chose to ignore them.

Nonetheless, there HAS to be a reason why she’s suddenly turned 360^os on you. Obviously there appears to be:

1. An emotional black hole in your relationship. The ex turning up is a symptom of the underlying issues with your marriage. A woman would only turn to an ex or another man if her emotional needs aren’t being met. For example when discussing with your wife, do you seek her opinion / input or do you wave aside her views? Do you say “Thank you” to make her feel appreciated when she gives / does something you are a recipient of? What is your sex life like with her? Do you take the time to satisfy her needs? Or is it all about you, you, and you? Is life with you one endless boring routine? Or do you make efforts to spice it up?

2. Trust Issues. When a wife starts stashing away huge sums of cash in secret, it means she’s preparing a nest egg for herself and her kids without you in the picture. Most times this action arises from betrayal or if she perceives you to have betrayed her. Have you ever cheated on her? Or done something to make her feel insecure in your union?

3. Immaturity. A refusal to acknowledge one’s fault / mistake and apologise accordingly is usually down to misplaced pride and immaturity. Wisdom comes with age. How old is your wife?

For a marriage to work, both parties have to roll up their sleeves and get stuck in. You have to ask yourself if there’s any part of you that wants to salvage the marriage. If you do, then you need to ask your wife if she’s still interested in the marriage too.

If the answer is “yes” from both of you, then both of you need to make the effort to save it. Start by seeking help from a neutral third party such as a marriage counsellor. Book a couple of sessions with them so you and wifey can talk through your issues.

Your problems didn’t start today. They’ve festered for over four years so you need to be patient and not expect everything to be miraculously resolved in one day. A lot of patience, perseverance, and constant communication will be needed to get your relationship back to a healthy state.

It is well.

DavidEsq:
U don't have one?

DavidEsq:
Thats how powerful that guy is o! He can deceive u to make u believe that he doesn't have a hand in any of our problems. Quite alright, we have ourselves to blame for a lot of tings that befall us but the scriptures clearly point out the tricks and deceits of the devil. Besides, wat do u think? Shey bible no get better advice ni?

DavidEsq:
As long as man continues to accepts satan's advice that man can be like God "deciding for himself wat is right and wrong" (Genesis 3:4,5) and reject God's standards of right and wrong, life would always be chaotic for man. Man cannot guide or govern himself, that's why the bible at Jeremiah 10:23 says: "I well know, O Jehovah, that man’s way does not belong to him.It does not belong to man who is walking even to direct his step".
This is why those who always adhere to God's words, sincerely, would always have peace because God knows wats best for us, just like parents know wats best for their kids. That's why the bible says at Psalms 19:7 says: "The law of Jehovah is perfect, restoring strength. The reminder of Jehovah is trustworthy, making the inexperienced one wise".
Until we stop this attitude of "I know wat I want", "I can do whatever I want". "I expect a man to take me as I am"......bla bla bla, and accept God's standards of things, we would suffer the misleading acts of satan, according to revelation 12:9: "So down the great dragon was hurled, the original serpent, the one called Devil and Satan, who is misleading the entire inhabited earth; he was hurled down to the earth, and his angels were hurled down with him".
One may ask: "what then is God's standards for a family"? Jesus Christ said this at John 13:17: "If you know these things, happy you are if you do them".
So it's a must that a person who accepts God's standards of wat a mate shld be like, wen one should have a mate, wat are the things needed as a family, how married mates should treat one another, etc. These rules are in the bible. Have u read them? Do u understand and accept them?

Jeferious:
Abeg where my brothers dey see this kind girls... because to me they don't exist. Abi na brothel op go find this im girlfriend?

The thing is that most men are so poor that the only thing they have is money. It's the only thing they can use to impress a lady. But the thing is, women value great sex more than money. I've been with mainstream prostitutes so I know what I'm talking about. They often have lots of money, mostly running into millions, that they don't know what to do with. But funny enough dem go still collect maximum payment from the next client. And intelligence is another trait that women admire a lot. Strength, eloquence, good looks are also capable of capturing a lady's heart.

From a personal point, I've a gf who I kept under my spell not with money(she has not even begged me money before in the first place), but with so many other qualities. And I can't remember her denying me anything before. The only bad thing is that I don't want to marry her, or anybody else. I just want her to give me children, preferably males.

WinningEleven:
then use it to connect to her account. You'll watch her like a hawk