₦airaland Forum

HealingHeart:
You are joking right?

Probably depending on your perspective about the topic....

usermane:
The truth in red pill did not convince me to embrace it because of the bias and narrow-mindedness behind it. Not to mention the psychological manipulative tactics it recommends to get women. Although, I would say I'm a bit of mgtow, since these days I mostly keep to myself.

What is surprising is agreeing to something to be nothing but the truth yet not convincing.....

That's kind of confusing...

usermane:
I don't see the bright side in red pill. It is a dark side, it is biased. I've learnt a lot from the mgtow or redpill community. They speak a lot of truth, but I was never convinced. Because they are biased and want to discuss about the harms women are capable of dealing men, never about the harms men are capable of dealing women.

If all you want is attention from women, then redpill works. But it works via psychological manipulation of another human being. Too much of mind games. I'd rather invest my mind in something else.

What exactly do you stand for ?

A lot of truth doesn't convince you......what will ?

And what the disjointed crap you posted then

One fact I know is boys were born innocent and pure hearted until girls come along...



Boy were taught by girls how to man up.....


Boys heart were gold until broken by one naive cunning girl....

dazzlingd:
Some of these ladies crying victim are so guilty.... A woman gets a job and within 3 months, already gets pregnant, works sluggishly for about 6 months then go on maternity leave for 3 months, resumes work as a nursing mother and after 6 months gets pregants again..... Her contribution and time on the job after 3 years if calculated may not be up to a job of 6 months.....then if she did not get promotion or get laid off when they are downsizing, she will be crying victim.... Can she run her own personal business like that, is it her fathers company...africans be giving birth like fowls

You didn't add the several sick leaves you permitted and two months later she is pregnant........ The op is sure not a business owner or a boss that has a sensitive job to deliver

Nbote:
100million ko, Vault of England ni

MarieSucre:
I see what you're saying but I want you understand where I'm coming from. Have you seen the way men talk about women on nairaland here.

"cheap", "LovePeddler", "slut", "olosho" etc

A lot of ladies are always on guard.

Alrt. I understand

yeyeosoronga:
The innocent boy needs siblings and a father. She will be very lucky if her new husband is ready to accept her son and treat him as his own. She has found happiness and is enjoying her life.
OP specifically says she wants to remarry and she is pregnant. If she didnt want to remarry, she would not have agreed to do so.
May God allow this new dick last long with her in good health and happiness. May this new dick raise her son with her in love and fairness. May her new children be born in joy, wealth and prosperity. Many this new family be filled with happiness and joy. May God grant the late man's family the peace they desire and the strength to move on from their son's demise.
The show must go on.

You're so funny.......with your genuine prayers....more strength to the diik.........

She is three months pregnant but not married to the man responsible yet..........what's the probability that your prayers will be what the case will turn out to be ?

Point of correction.... The boy came to this world alone and will go back alone just like his beloved Dad...... So if he truly need company he would have been born twins or more......


I know you're a fan of the popular saying that what a man can do, a woman can do it better.....

Then you sounded as if the woman has moved in with the impregnator already..........

yeyeosoronga:
If you want to cater for the world's children, please don't have any of your own and adopt enough to look after. There are many orphan children who need decent homes. That's very noble of you. But remember not everyone is you, and not everyone can be as noble.
The woman in question wants more children, and wants to remarry. She is well within her rights to do so. The dead is long gone and she needs to find happiness elsewhere. The earlier, the better as time waits for nobody.
If she spends the most productive, young and active part of her life grieving, and not moving o,n, what has she gained?

I'm just curious.... How comes you know what this woman want.. ? Are you the woman ? Because you sound so specific...

And can you quote the section of this her right in the Nigeria constitution......

Respect to the dead.....yes he is long gone and I suppose he is an ordinary man that has no legacy..........

Happiness is free, it reside within and not tired around a particular things such as a dicck......except there is more not stated here

Go back an read my earlier post on thus issue.....OK...I guess she is in between using her strength for either grieving or moaning to a diik rather than living within her means, nurturing the innocent boy to become successful in life, contributing to make the society a better place and aspiring to be rich on her own.


Perhaps, a diik is such a gain

yeyeosoronga:
She has a right to more children if she so wants, and can look after them. Her husband's life was cut short unexpectedly. Eucharia Anunobi not to recently lost her only child, and she is very nearly menopausal.
The half bro/ sis thing is not new in any society and this might still have occurred if the man had impregnated his girlfriend or married more wives.
She has a right to moan in ecstasy every night under the new dick. The new dick is no longer a stranger and its only a matter of time before she would have spent a longer time with the 'stranger' than even her first marriage.
The marriage contract expires automatically on the death of one of the spouses.
Even divorced women are allowed to remarry as soon as their marriage contract expires, how much more a widow with not a hope of reconciliation.

Yeah I agree with you on this....it all about more children and more abandon children the world need to cater for and worry about.......because one wants to enjoy the five minutes strength of a standing dicck till it erupt a molten milk.......its note worthy how you miraculously knew the late husband would have impregnated an imaginary girlfriend(s)........

The right for more children is only in the book of the poor and idea less citizens

Losing a child is a probability not a certainty........ Why make the world complicated based on assumptions ?

You're portraying men to a senseless, irrational and stupid being that values perishable piece of meat over peace of mind

Ryan03:
She have a son for her late husband, yes he died at the spot. I Dont know how you want me to have answers to the remaining questions. A virtuous woman you say, truely, we are victims of our belief (your signature)

My signature has so much to do with my belief and orientation........... That why I could asked all the afore questions as she is a victim of what she does or doesn't believe.......why don't she work hard and give that handsome, brilliant and smart innocent boy a good life instead of moaning in ecstasy every night underneath a strange man ?

He died on the spot meaning no debt incurred as a result for hospital bill rather than the burial arrangement


Moreover, you didn't mentioned that the in-laws were dragging properties with her rather they are hugging her to stay and take care of the boy as oppose to her preference for sweet dicck


Perhaps she need a companion for the boy by subject him to complication of competing half brothers and sisters.......

Ayotemide:
Had she been the dead one, you would probably be the one looking for another wife for him in 6months, but Here you are questioning 'loyalty'.

You are only loyal to a living partner, leave this ideals of toxic patriarchy behind and stop with the damned double standards, heck!

You wait until we have the reversed of this case,, until then comment as if there can't be a reverse scenario.....this will relieve you the burden of being bias

Ryan03:
Lol, you have to come up with a better point as to why she shouldn't get married/why you think the mans family have a say as to when she gets married after their sons death other than me being the "new lucky guy". Like i typed earlier, put sentiments aside

I never said or support her in-law dictating how she live her life after what.........


However, you're covering up some very vital info.....how many kids has she with her late husband ?

She is a working class........what the hurry for dicck just few months after her husband demise ?

The husband died as a result of an accident........instantly or he made it to the hospital ?

What's her relationship with the new man when her husband was alive...?

For how long was she married to the late husband ?...etc


Nevertheless, a virtuous women as we're all made to believed are attached to their spouse even when he is no more......examples everywhere.

Ryan03:
There is on fixed time to mourn for someone you love, every one griefs differently. I Dont see anything wrong in it, marriage vows says till death do them part, why then do you think you have a say over the woman after the death of your kinsman? Do you realise you have no formal relationship with her after the death of your brother? Was there any signed contract as to how many years one party is to mourn incase one dies? Put sentiments aside, open your mind, you will find the truth

I understand you to a point...........you're probably the new lucky guy........enjoy you short time with her

Ryan03:
So loyal wives have to mourn for long to prove they are loyal? So if she stayed unmarried for 10years but continue to fvck multiple dicks she will be a loyal wife in the eyes of society? Who are we deceiving? So you think all those widows who stay unmarried for years Dont fvck? Why do we love pretence yet accuse women of being pretenders?

You said she is pregnant not sleeping around....

How long do you get over people you love ?

Ryan03:
Now reverse the roles, would you have typed same thing if it was the woman that died?

What are you reversing for.........
This is a peculiar case......... You said she is three months pregnant............18 - 3 - the number of months she has known the impregnator =.......is that how easy it is to found love again ?


Does she appear as a loyal wife to her late husband to you ?...... Besides, you didn't tell us how many kids she had with the late husband

MarieSucre:
Kazyhm

So all the big men who look down on poorer and less powerful men who cross their path, all the ones that they will send their guards to beat or harass them, and be asking them "do you know who I am"? They are all women se.

Recently Elisa Abbo beat up a woman in a intimacy gadget shop, an Akwa Ibom commissioner beat up a craftsman who he was owing money, there are countless stories of men beating, assaulting, arresting, harassing, oppressing or getting people to walk out of their compound other men who they feel are lessesmm than them in one way or another hence cannot fight back but yet you are blind to all these.

Only a quick search on nairaland will clear your doubt but instead it's to be crying how women make poor men feel bad.

Honestly, I feel women who behave disdainfully towards men because they feel they are poorer are horrible people. And unlike you I don't just cry online, I have called out women in my circle who have behaved in such a manner, it speaks badly of a person and I do not like to be associated with that and will not sit quietly and just watch.

The take away from this sha is that nobody owes you a relationship. Simple! Whether you're a man or woman. You can only hope they feel the same way about you as you do about them, but if they don't, MOVE THE FVCK ON!!

I agreed with you however those are rich men vs their aids, sales person and poorer friends. My point is you don't even have to be poorer than ladies.........the prerequisite for bad treatment from them is in their head.....they treat you by their own perception of you even if they have no idea of who you are in the first place...........

I can tell you from experience in my place of work.......like for example a lady that is far junior to me in level talked to me rudely in fact reported me to her friend (same level with her) in HR department to discipline me........thinking I'm a corper............just because i look young. At the end, I had to plead with her HOD not to give her query after she and her friend had written an apology letter to me.


Nairaland is even worse with ladies....... They insult you anyhow even without them having an Idea of how you look.......they describe you in an unimaginable manner..............meaning you didn't search well enough to come to such conclusion

thesicilian:
Everyone looks down on poor men, not just women. Even the poor men look down on themselves.

This not true......applicable to only a brainless poor dude

It is especially common about ladies.....all they need to treat you anyhow is their judgement... Once they perceived you as being lower in status.... They just become difficult and change almost immediately if they found out you not as you're perceived........ Talking from many experiences


In addition.... I don't subscribe to don't generalize when its comes to fairly young ladies in Nigeria........

I have stayed more than two years in many States (north, south east and west) in Nigeria and on average every young ladies act the same way

Your first point is another shade of brainwash stop encouraging bad leadership......... Government should be responsive, responsible, proactive and create enabling environment for citizens to live better......


Governance should be inclusive........ Some countries that have less poor people does not mean that all the considered above average citizens are genius but the difference is that government policies encourages growth, peaceful coexistence and rewards hardwork

stagger:
Why are they putting their kids through such public ridicule?

Good question.... Is it for money or fame ?

Lol......just thank God and move on bro......female words are written on an ice......





All of them are the same.........if you start applying this experience in dealing with them now.... They'll start their national anthem "men are scum" forgetting that they are the teacher people call LIFE

The end of earth pix though...... It disqualified the rest from been facts

Timi dakolo is a fool


Oby no get sense.......imagine the judgement of someone that want to occupy the most powerful seat in the country ?

diji04:
hmmmm my people use to say na leaf make de sweet goat dey kill goat only if you know how masturbation addiction have destroy so many souls.


It's demonic and kill slowing we do have a NOFAB thread here on Nairaland pls join the Challenge thanks.

Challenge for what ?....the most chronic masturbator ?

eodavids:
So whites are liers, isn't it?

Tell me, is there anything that come from the White that you believe?

What about the Gregorian callender we are using?

Today is 18/07/2019. Do you believe this date to be true or one of the lies from the whites

Your date of birth, that of your father, that of your mother and that of all the people you know are only calculated using the Gregorian callender.

If only lie emanates from the Whites, then your date of birth is lies because the callender itself isn't true...

You go and calculate your dates with the African moon(lunar...)

IT SHOULD INTEREST YOU TO KNOW THAT THE AD 2019 AS WE HAVE IT TODAY HAS A TRACE TO THE LORD OF LORDS, KING OF KINGS; THE JESUS YOU ARE TRYING HARD TO DENY.

You no nothing and to educate you will take too much time and resources


Why don't you add clock time to your references ? And you would proudly say you're educated/ graduate of an approved school of federal republic of Nigeria.

she is using you for industrial training...... Just encourage her, she will soon blow into international investigative journalism




And by the way, Nigeria just lost to Algeria......

Amakavula:
My answer is going to be long , let me book space..

I am a fencist when it comes to God. Intelligent arguement would suggest God doesn't exist, but we all know the world isn't intelligent or logical.

On one part, believing there isn't a God is quite intelligent, but believing there isn't isn't fulfilling either. What we are left with without a believe in a great force is a void of hopeless and emptiness ; that our lives offer no purpose ( my supervisor from Japan mentioned how Japan is trying to get people more religious to avoid suicides )

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I always likened the God argument to a person lost at Sea. There is a 10% chance people are coming to find you, or there is a 90% chance nobody is coming. But I would take 10% all the time due to the hope and believe it inspires. Which could determine how best I thrive for a better life.

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Hopelessness isn't cool, Whether God exist or not could be debated back and forth with no conclusion, but Believe brings you assurance of a better future.

Compare this two scenerio: The Doctor says you got Cancer and there isn't a cure and you will die , and nothing can be done.

Or after going back Doctor says he made an error with the Cancer type , that you still got Cancer but people survive it 10% of the time.

The change in emotion in that person could be the difference between life or death. God is that 10%.


On life and meaning, we find our own meaning through our Passions. There is no collective purpose just individual things. I want to be a writer ( script Writer ) to inspire and educated people, that is my purpose and I hope to find fulfilment there.

Lastly there isn't a good thing about pessimism. it makes you depressed, achieve little and look at things in gloom. Cheer up love.

Hence, holding up to the 10% hope is not the issue.......(after all, we're all subjected to the same level of hopelessness in the first place) but rather the issue is when someone suddenly began campaigning (forcefully, cunningly, manipulatively and deceitfully) without ceasing to convince others that there is 100% within the supposed 10% that someone deliberately planned the voyage for you without consulting you and holding the misery of the 90% to himself as the master planner, the person also has a planned rescue mission without hidden charges. Then proceed to enact and implementing a standard doctrines that will be applied across board irrespective of your location and conditions on the sea.......which by extension is eroding your psychological instinct to device means to increase your hope. Meanwhile, his campaign has not even 1% solution instead it increases your fear by proposing/claiming that an inescapable phase of life ( after death) will prove and verify the authenticity of the idea.

Its similar to the question I asked a Muslims friend then and he couldn't come up with an answer........its was dawn on him too that he didn't really know anything outside what he was told......

The question was; why is female criteria for solat different from male, does that mean female are going to be judge with different standard from male.

If righteous males are going to be rewarded with virgins females, what is the reward for righteous females ?

“I felt I needed to be at peace with my mind as regards the issue, and to give a voice to whoever is suffering or has suffered the same fate as mine, hence the outburst. Like I said on my Instagram page, the molestation of a woman is a desecration of her values. Rape trend or not, we all have our ways of addressing issues peculiar to us

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The above statement is the real gist to me