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felifeli:
There you go again. Are you sure you have a job? This figt-fight you dey do for early Monday morning pass me o. If your employees (assuming you do have a job) have any sense at all they should sack you and replace you with a Nairaland account. They will definitely get more value for their money.

Have you finished washing the toilets this morning? Are the pigs well fed?

Next time don't insult ppl online with an empty brain.

felifeli:
I accept your explanation jare. Not like that other foolish man who says he is a manager and can't even hold his temper online. I wouldn't hire him to manage a piggery. One love

Hehehehe

Truly, I have low tolerance level for people who behave like pigs. No matter how hard you try to wash their brains and keep them clean, they always go back to dirt and result to insulting you. So Felifeli, you are quite right, I manage human beings, not pigs like you.

Anybody can go through our chain of mails and see that you started the insult when all I did was to tell you the right thing. The takeaway from this for you should be "don't throw jabs online esp on a subject you are ignorant about cuz you really don't know who you are discussing with.

@krall - Chairman, Troll Association of Nigeria(TAN). You write very well though, and really funny. Explore ur talent bro

I can see pastors are trending now. All other subjects have become stale. Every blame for our actions must now go the pastors. Smh

Anybody can change but pray & wait for him to change from a place of safety. Safety first!

From your lips to His ears. It is well with you and yours.

bukatyne:
Kimoni to binu

Lolllzzzz

bukatyne:
Lol!

What if it is a Redeemed Church and it is just one branch?

Will you tell your folks to avoid RCCG all together?

Then he should tell me the parish naa, cuz personally, I know Redeeem has no such doctrine. Any pastor in Redeem that preaches that C/S is a sin should be reported.

crackhaus:
Please tell me the name of the church that preaches such doctrine, I need to tell all of my friends and family to avoid it.

Very important!

OP, pls dont forget to provide the name of the church and if possible location. People have to be informed to steer clear of such places.

bukatyne:
See my response to crackhaus

Thnks. I actually saw it but I was hoping you would expatiate further. I think it has less to do with pastors/churches and more with individual application of what is preached. You and I might hear the same message on faith, you get home and based on this faith message, you decide to stop taking drugs while I get home, develop a headache and the first thing I do is to take pain killers.

The pastor never said we shouldnt take drugs oo neither is it a church policy yet, two members of the same church now have different beliefs about taking drugs. #my opinion

@OP - for the fact that she said God forbid does not mean she thinks it's a sin or she goes to a church that preaches against it.

Most women prefer vaginal delivery to C/S for different personal reasons.

I know of women who say they don't want to go through the pains of labour so would rather go for C/S. And there are lots of those that pray against C/S due to the healing period after, families who plan to have lots of children also avoid it cuz with C/S, there is a limit to the no of times you can go under the knife.

bukatyne:
Religious people need a lot of liberation.

@Crackhaus: It is not church per se but individual pastors.

Or you mean individual beliefs...cuz if not, I am also interested in the churches where these pastors preach.

felifeli:
You are a liar . Manage ko ? You can't manage a toilet cleaning team. I own the bloody company .
I will die with my funny lies.

I didn't realise the word 'manage' will confuse you, I grossly overestimated you. Now I know you wash toilets. Anyways, It means relationship manager. If you are still confused, google is ur next best bet.

Several years after you die, I will still be enjoying the sweet reward of my labour. Confirmed!

latifatai:
No need fighting over the true ownership of Nigerian Eagle Flour Mills, it's a subsidiary of Flour Mills of Nigeria Plc, bought over from the Chagoury Group. Look out for the Golden Penny Logo on the Eagle Sack. Same goes for Rom Oil. The FMN group is growing and consuming smaller companies that can not cope with the competition. There is therefore no political attachment to the true ownership.

Maybe the silly guy felifeli arguing with me up there can read this and learn. Coming online with empty brains to spew thrash.

felifeli:
Ode ni mi forever .
You are talking about an entirely different project , abi you no get common sense? Okay I will spell it one by one.
1. ROM is owned by Flour Mills of Nigeria
2. Eagle flour is owned by Chagoury

Se you now understand or wahala dey ?

You are a wasted brain. This is why guys like you stay on the same level forever without promotion. I manage this company and other flour milling business in Nigeria. I am industry expert.

Your future is very bleak if you continue to argue senselessly with people more knowledgeable than you are.

felifeli:
Foolish man. The mills at expressway is Nigerian Eagle Flour Mills and it is owned by Chagoury Group not Nigeria Flour Mills

It was founded by the Chagoury brothers alright but ownership structure has since changed. It is now a subsidiary of Flour Mills.

thorpido:
Lol at ladies who are avoiding the word headship but still implying it.
What's wrong with headship?It doesn't mean someone who makes all the decisions in a family or lords it over the other partner.A good head obviously allows others to make contributions and even take responsibilities.
There can't be a vacancy of a head in a home so someone is the head definitely.

I understand some women have decided to wear the shoes and keep their men under them.

Same goes for a lot of argument in this section, both sides implying the same thing but calling it different names, yet this arguments can go on for ever and get really bloody. It amazes me


Maybe if these arguments starts with personal definition and objectivity from both sides, Family section would be devoid of senseless arguments and fightings.

Sunny, I give it to you biko. I am so intimidated this morning. Well done

@ goodheart4God - once you have convinced yourself he is not having affairs with these women, which to me is really why I would be bothered about these relationships, then pls make yourself happy. Do things that make you happy and ignore this aspect of him. If deleting chats is not you and brings you no joy, then don't, if it gives you satisfaction(it would surely give me some good satisfaction) then go ahead and do it. In essence, I am asking you to take charge of your happiness and don't let his actions dictate your mood. And try not to bother about how much he is giving out, getting your own job and earning your pay would help a great deal in doing achieving this.

I know a lot of what I have written is easier said than done but hey, you've talked, begged, cried and all has not helped so take some time off and face yourself.

Nashville:
You ladies obviously had alot of fun yesterday. I expected your responses because I had noticed the trend. And I quite agree you dont want to start fighting every girl you see with your husband.

My point though is that these young girls need to be taught that it is not ok to date a married man. In fact it has consequences and sometimes I wish they bear the consequences of dating married men and ruining another woman's marriage. It is wrong to date married men; the girl is no better than the married man in my view as they are both cheating.

We all talk about the law of karma, but hey it doesnt always work. Some of these aristo girls end up marrying very good men that will never cheat on them. And some good girls who never cheated would end up with bad guys. So I wouldnt go the karma route. But I think there has to be a way to teach those girls a lesson. Men sometimes are the hunted now.

For the married men that cheat, they should also be punished with stiffer divorce laws that ensure women get a fare share of a man's wealth where infidelity is involved. But I think one of the ways of reducing cases of infidelity is by punishing people. I have focused on married men cheating with single girls; it does not mean that married women don't cheat but I do not want to discuss that.

Everyone wish these girls be taught a lesson, but who is going to bell the cat? The wife? That a NO NO, Nash. Her only goal is to do whatever it is in her power to save her marriage if she is still interested but punishing the other woman shouldn't be her objective as much as she would love to see the other woman get punished. I guess it's this state of helplessness that make most married women console themselves with this Karma theory just that it doesn't always work that way like you said.

When people say life can be very unfair, this is part of it IMO.

damiso:
Not confrontational talking to her (leave my husband alone or else ish) per se but more like including your wife in your interactions with Said person.if she calls when you are together you can give the phone to your wife to say 'oh he is busy can i take a message' who is speaking oh Lara I have heard so much about you ' tell her you can't come to her house as you and your wife have an outing except she won't mind you bringing your wife with you things like that.try to limit your interaction with the person.flee from all appearances of evil.

But that said not everyone has that kain temperament.I can but I know loads of people who will go down the leave my husband alone route.

Appreciate the bolded. Not every woman will be gentle with a potential homebreaker who consistently refused to back off.

damiso:
Which is why he should open up before he falls ..if a woman is making advances that he is not comfortable with he can open up to his wife and then try to avoid compromising situations with the said lady.If she calls all the time or is making advances you can use your wife to fend her off (with her knowledge of course) then they can both work out to tackle the problem.I can help my husband confront a woman who keeps chasing him despite him telling her he is not interested. But not a woman he is already having a romantic relationship with.

Why should I tackle mistress issues with him after 'deeds' have been done ?

Exactly Dami, but remember, from Nashville's classification, the bolded still falls under "confrontation". So once you help your husband by talking to the girl yourself, you have confronted the mistress-in-waiting. I guess the understanding of most on this thread is that confrontation=fighting which really doesn't have to be.

edwife:
Leave me o,karate skills kwa?

What i do in the gym is enough for me....

I beg,there are differents ways to kill a rat...

As long as the rat is dead ba?

Sophyrocks:


How will she handle it? Remember, both she and her husband are involved. Not every woman is the same.

Not everybody be edwife ooo

Some women can fight for africa esp when they don't believe in divorce or separation.