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ohaleoghene:
the issue is just so complicated that is why It seems like I am in a tight conner. the little girl told me it was his hand he used. the proprietor said it was uncle T who reported that she was bleeding so there was no how he could have been responsible. now the question is,if the little girl said he has been doing it,how come that was the only day she felt pains and got blood in her panties? and why did uncle t report the case of blood by himself. mothers in the house,is it possible for a girl child to bleed because she fell ? secondly is it possible for her age to lie with that ? because uncle t mum said she lied.

Let the parents and authorities answer these questions, that's thier job. But why were they also threatening the girl if it was just a fall? Moreover, you saw her privates yourself and noticed the abnormally.

ohaleoghene:
I don't intend keeping silent though. I have plans on what to do. I don't mind loosing the job as I am planning to quite teaching soon . is boring. I just do not want to start pointing fingers, as the girl might not talk again . my colleague told me the girl was taken somewhere and was threatened to be flogged by uncle T 's mum. she is a teacher there too. but I promise I won't let it go off like that.

OP, I don't know when this happened but I join other posters to appeal to you to report this matter without further delay. No long or medium term plan is required to report. Don't wait till you are about resigning plsss. Inform the parents and the police immediately. Everyday that this animal is on the loose, this same girl or some other girl is suffering the same fate, and they are just babies for Christ sake. The girl does not even have to talk again, medical examinations will reveal forceful penetration.

The proprietress will surely get mad at you for reporting her cousin, but there comes a time in someone's life when he/she just has to damn all consequences and do the right thing and trust me, you will have more fulfillment at the end. Plss save these childrens' lives, their future is in your hands now. I am so disturbed right now.

Gboliwe:
So where are the traumatic pictures na @tpia6?

Lolllzzzz....latecomer

Nothing wrong with it. Love has no barriers!

yinkard4me:
Being an arsenal fan and a supporter of the super eagles is the worst thing that can happen to a black man.

Lollzzzz

dominique:
That's exactly what went through my mind as I watched that video. That nanny was most likely transferring aggression to the innocent baby. Notice she was also taking scoops from the child's meal (yuck!). For all we know, the parents must have been starving and maltreating her. Still not enough reason to brutally beat up a sick child like that. She deserves any form of disfiguring bashing that will eventually come to her.

Not necessarily, infact, I doubt it in this case cuz the man is a single parent. It could be transferred aggression from her own parents, siblings & relatives, her previous bosses or she could just be plain evil.

FlirtyKaren:
see the child's pic. The nanny was sentenced to just 3 years in prison

http://www.lailasblog.com/2014/11/have-you-seen-this-heartbreaking-nanny.html

Case is not concluded yet. The link below gives the latest update.

http://investigator.co.ug/crime/4346-maid-tortured-baby-identified,-still-alive.html

Rest in peace Chaz B. You fought the good fight and died empty.

bukatyne:
I agree with you

Paul said if an unbelieving partner wants to leave, he/she is free to do so.

I strongly do not believe a cheat, abusive partner etc. is a believer

And what if the believing partner wants to leave? Is he or she also free to do so? #just asking

Kanwulia, I was going to disagree with them but I took a look at ur profile pic and instantly, I realised they are very correct. Like why??

That pic alone is a departure from the norm and I kinda believe that is you in the pic.

The major problem I have with you telling her is that this type of information should be confidential and should only come from her boss, not from a colleague talkless of an outsider. If you tell her, she can easily use the information to blackmail her boss and your contact that told you. Hearing her appraisal from an outsider will certainly put her bosses in trouble.

In the interest of these ones, I would say you should keep mute about whatever you've heard.

motunri:
Come join me. Rice n stew with fish, egg n plantain.

Looks yummy! This is exactly how I love my stew.

Na wa oo, a 2 years old already going through this kind of pressure? For wetin naa? At least she is reciting and able to hold a pencil? What else does uncle want?

Come to my daughter's room and see how she has decorated the wall with this "yama yama", yet I find it difficult to get angry cuz I know it's a developmental stage for her. Uncle, take it easy abeg

Mekateka:
yoruba, yo-robber. Hmmm, if I talk now seun go flash me RED CARD.

you may collect yellow card first naa

This must be "cheating week" on NL family section.

majekdom2:
not all children learn from their parents ..... I learnt nothing about family from my father.

Too bad hun, I learnt loads from my parents and I would forever remain grateful to them.

majekdom2:
who cares about who s watching ..... You wanna live in sadness because you wanna please your next neighbor.

The word "learning" should have given you an idea of who I'm referring to. Children learn from their parents not neighbors

She's sooo charming. God bless her.

All but I love cooking once in a while.

lawlahbammy:
Pls can u finish reading the story? Twas culled from somewhere. Not my story ooo make una stop attacking me.

Lol...bolded is meant for the owner of the story naa. Ok, I have edited it.

Congratulations OP, you are now part of the New World Order where the norm is for a married woman to also sleep around once her husband is doing same.

Infact, It is only a stup.id woman that will leave her husband for cheating reasons regardless of whether she is capable of taking care of her children or not.

Hehehehehehe

Gullible nigerians! Smh

jennykadry:
Why are you preaching divorce? Don't you know divorce is a sin ni?

I don o. I didn't realise cheating is now more honorable than seperation, I must be living behind time.

Jahblessme:
I'm not her..how am I supposed to know?
Ask the countless women who do the red bra nairaland treatment ,endless prayers or petting the men and ignoring.
Many are now going undergee to help themselves.
I no de judge anybody o jare.

Like I said earlier, she should just start already. Since its so easy for her to sleep as around well, they must be a perfect match. No wonder they attracted each other in the first place. Good morning!

Jahblessme:
She said she won't divorce naaa. U go force am?

And I asked why? To be called a "Mrs" at all cost?

Jahblessme:
@Kimoni

Na soooo.The kids are watching gist scare tactic expired long ago...As the husband de knack dey go the kids no de watch?
As she wan shag so she go do am for where her kids dey?
My point is this, scare tactics used to dissuade women from cheating dont work anymore.
Let someone decide not to cheat simply cos she doesn't want to not cos of irrational fears..there's a practical solution to it
A. USE CONDOMS
B. BE DISCRETE.

I repeat s ex is sweeettt and doing it to keep body and soul together well,I can't castigate anyone with a useless husband who tows this line since she must not divorce.She dedicates her life to some man and his stale blokos ,toils night and day,bears kids only to be cheated onconstantly and now she wan chop clean banana wey stand brekete una don remember std ?
Its not revenge se x,its just trying something sweet and new.Man must not chop one blokos forever.
Abi na prayer she go use de scratch the urge?
When they are tired and old,they repent and sin no more.

Why?

Jahblessme:
How do you know the kind of woman she is?
S ex is actually really enjoyable ,is it only cheating men that enjoy s ex? Or you think if she finds a fresh blokos to give it to her well she won't enjoy it?
So you think that if she wants to knack she won't protect herself as per condom? Std ko std ni..tell that to the useless men

Op do whatever makes you happy..if its to massage a stray banana to keep you sane,enjoy.Especially as you won't leave.
All na temptation...go and sin no more

He runs after babes, then she strays after every banana she sees, who suffers? Who are those watching this lifestyle and learning? Or you think they are blind?

Anyways, if that is already a solution, no point in feeling bad about ur hubby or opening a thread. Just start already!

See gobe!

coogar:
if there's an opening....
it's a better option. her employers would even see reason in that.

A good option for then but employers don't like it except they don't know.There is always that fear of collusion amongst relatives or couples working in the same place.

@OP - let your wife take the job since there seems to be no better option but she really doesn't have to do it for long. She should save aggressively for some months and use that to establish herself in a business. Hopefully, you would also have gotten something doing by then and your family can get back together again.

happywife:
Story for the Gods. I m d most submissive wife out there. i use to pride myself in making my husband happy n family happy.

Some men just life the extra on d side that i knw is d case here

So why do you think cheating on him is better than leaving him? You just said you are capable of taking care of yourself and the kids so why are you afraid of leaving him? Societal pressures?? Just remember that you might catch these STDs you are currently running away from even faster than your husband if you decide to go this route. Don't understand why you want to force yourself to be somebody you are not over a man that is not worth it??

Try and make adequate preparations for your children's future before you start.

Tinubu:
op, shey the yam and the oil dey quarrel ni? Why the yam come dey distance himsef from the oil na? Why can't there be a synergy of purpose between them


Op, your porridge is RACIST!!!

Hehehehehehhehehehe