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sparklie:
Like seriously! U opened a thread for this!!! If the man was beating u now, u'll be screaming domestic violence, now he's being nice and loving u r still complaining abi na asking u dey ask.
How can we women ever be pleased or satisfied
Men, una dey try!

webdezzi:
that was supposed to be a line of thought i expected you to be able to complete.
forget that,

what am trying to say is, our ladies need to be tutored to be ladies.

if i were ray, i would have wrapped my hands around her till she calms even if i will later dump her a$$ for that daring move.

not everyone will do same my sister.
and pls do not bring up ur boys that way, they will only add to the growing list of fuulish men out there who gets slapped around by ladies.
lol

instead train them not to associate with messd up ladies who display palmer's tendencies.

men should be respected.

coputa:
yes,its possible that when a woman starts working,things will no longer go smootly in thf home,a wide vacuum has bee created,especially,if she is the lazy type..i dont know what the women ase purruing,.check most women that love their career more than their family,there is no single joy in the family,as the man and children always seek for solace outside.

webdezzi:
i cant see u condemning solange here, even with all the kicks and physical assaults on jayz.
To you, it is perfectly ok

so even if this babe had used a baseball bat, it is perfectly ok too.

not every guy out there is well trained and you bringing up your boys to walk away is perfectly fine. what of chinedu's dad who trained him never to accept defeat from a woman, well chinedu is now in college and a member of a notorious cult group.
women should be trained to be well behaved and to respect men and themselves, vice versa

kaboninc:
Just to answer you, not everyone is capable of making sacrifices. And I strong doubt if you're also capable.

In fact sacrifices that seem so silly and foolish yet valid as you said.

bukatyne:
Wonderful analysis

cococandy:
Spot on

chaircover:
Where?? . . I didnt see that bit o . . .

chaircover:
she is a career woman
she did an apprenticeship on how to smoke the fish

Do you know that there are apprecticships for things such as selling fabric and how to repair shoes
All those girls in isale eko measuring fabric are learning how to be fabric merchants too one day

chaircover:
Her career is selling fish

skydeep:
The part she will get frustrated was why I created this topic. How can that be averted?

skydeep:
Time with the family is a basic necessity. It depends on the nature of her job.

TribalEAST:
The grandparents and/or the father mostly have the final say cos they get to name the child after one of his ancestors. This is usually practiced in yorubaland. The woman can name the child if the husband/grandparents of the father agree, but if not, she has no right to argue on that.

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Equal rights go soon enter now

spotit:
i was corresponding with bebe so as to use her services to send money to africa...the next thing, one hopeless little twit came directly at me, calling me a fraudulent spammer whom he had opened a special email for. i simply told him off and he went on to invite his stupid scamming friends who their chief is the effing mod of this place to ban me and let them carry on. Now he has to get that reason enough to ban me justifiably.

bebe2:
And I still dont have the contact for the gele.

I just wasted my time with this thread and see all the fight that has happened.

BananaBender:
Please and thank you is a way of appreciating someone?? I thought that was being a basic civilized human being?

I don't see how cleaning up after yourself is way to appreciate another person. Why does your spouse have to deal with your mess? You are grown, aren't you ashamed that your spouse is cleaning up after you?

I see no appreciation here apart from taking her to nice place to eat. Everything else is basic human courtesy, that should be demanded from even a r*etard.

Godmystrength:
@Phema- going through my post, i never said i took it as a joke or swept it under the carpet. I learnt about all of these same day and time. This weekend. My silence doesn't mean i am naive sha. I just want to be sure i am about taking the right steps.