Family › Re: My Wife Accuses Me Wrongly by Kimoni: 8:54pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
edwife: Who is the twin brother? 
kimono i never know you be trouble maker o   |
Family › Re: My Wife Accuses Me Wrongly by Kimoni: 6:59pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Dinachi, you never told me you have a twin brother nau Chai!!! una resemble well well oooo  |
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 6:55pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 5:30pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental by Kimoni: 5:19pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental by Kimoni: 3:04pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
pickabeau1: well, nationalists............hmmm...... they were also great ethnic leaders who got the principle of federation right You cant build a federation without strong federating units/regions
Don't forget Sardauna
All of them these days are only interested in their tummy Stomach infrastructure  |
Family › Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental by Kimoni: 2:54pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
pickabeau1:
 You should have been born in the days of Awolowo, Azikiwe, Balewa and co. Those were true nationalists They would defend this country with their blood. But these days, na stomach infrastructure sure pass or to carry chair dey fight for senate  |
Family › Re: Did I Make A Mistake by Kimoni: 2:50pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Gracie4Ugo: I have two kids now 4yrs and 2yrs+. i decided to stop having children becos of financial problem and to get a job to suport my husband. he works in an oil company bt they dont pay them well.
I have been searching for a job since march and nothing has happend. now an thinking if i should just go ahead and have my children (two more) or continue searching.
Before i got maried i have always wished i woud finish having children before am 35 and now am 33. If i had gone through with my initial plan, my third baby would be 9 months now and i will have one more and i will be done.
Am just thinking if i made a mistake. What has changed from the bolded above? Do you or your husband now have other sources of income? It's okay to desire 4 kids but reality should supercede wishful thinking. Why do you want to bring more kids to the world when you are still struggling to maintain the ones you already have  Pls focus on how to get a job or start a business albeit small to support your husband so you guys can have better lives. |
Family › Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental by Kimoni: 2:43pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by Kimoni: 2:38pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
zemaye: I make it with plenty oil as usual it won't fry without it now, after cooking I sieve the oil out and enjoy  No b only me Waka com No way! For ayamase and rice, I must see oil at the bottom of the plate when I finish eating the rice  |
Health › Re: Teenagers Create Condoms That Glow When Exposed To Stds by Kimoni: 12:13pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Married And Faithful Club by Kimoni: 9:31am On Jun 26, 2015 |
Great to know there are still people who believe men can be faithful. Good one OP
Faithful men out there, the floor is yours!
Encourage someone today |
Family › Re: Gender And Chores- Issues In Relationships And Marriages by Kimoni: 12:04am On Jun 26, 2015 |
limamintruth: It seems you didnt understand my post. I never absolved the man from cooking as you put it. The man is expected to do the chores whenever he is the one home & the wife is busy, sick or not home.
And i also said that wherein both spouses are home together, they should endeavour to do the chores together. It should not necessarily be 50-50 though (so that it wont seem like a competition/challenge; thus no need for any measuring tape ) Note that the restriction on cooking which i made mention of in my other post arises ONLY in instances whe both spouses are home & free.
However, i admit that this is not a one cap fits all thingy cos what may work for Couple A might not be same as what works for Couple B. |
Education › Re: Bad Condition Of Yabatech Students Sleeping In The Classroom(pics) by Kimoni: 11:56pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Eeeyaaaaaa, this should be the floaters Life is a battle  |
Family › Re: I Am Here To Answer All Your Personal Finance Questions. by Kimoni: 11:51pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
moca: Exactly! Though,left to me,i will put it into any biz that will yield good income than treasury bill.
How r u and family? U no dey sleep? How baby? Moca!!!! Business is the most profitable but also very risky. One has to be really sure of the business I am typing with one hand oo and carrying him with the other hand. He sleeps around midnight though. And you? How are you and our angel? How is vigilante going? Hope you are getting small small sleep sha It is well with us |
Family › Re: Gender And Chores- Issues In Relationships And Marriages by Kimoni: 11:44pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
bukatyne: I did not say cooking should fall on the women only. I know you said bulk cooking while he said and meant all cooking(I believe), just wondering why any chore should still be restricted to a particular gender if we are to accept chore equality. However, each home is different and the couple should find out What works for them.
My hubby for instance 100% prefers I cook the soup and store in the freezer and the first person to get home makes dinner. Exactly! Is this rocket science? **modified Bukatyne, I just read ur post on chore equality. I get your stand now |
Family › Re: Gender And Chores- Issues In Relationships And Marriages by Kimoni: 11:29pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
armyofone: The guys don't eat I guess. How were they living before the ladies came into the picture ....quite puzzling. Honestly, I'm lost |
Family › Re: I Am Here To Answer All Your Personal Finance Questions. by Kimoni: 11:26pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Uchefrancis16: Hello Akaglue!
Based on the tips you gave to mdbissalla, like how much will i get on placing my 100,000 on a fixed deposit account? That is whats the interest percentage pls? Instead of fixed deposit, you can buy treasury bills. It yields more income |
Family › Re: Gender And Chores- Issues In Relationships And Marriages by Kimoni: 11:18pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
limamintruth: Well IMHO, home chores must neither be shared 'equally' nor restricted to a particular gender.
Hence, chores should be voluntarily carried out by the partner who has more free time in his/her hands & is not in anyway incapacitated by illhealth.
And even in instances where both spouses are home & not busy, its advisable that such chores be carried out together by them both(with the exception of cooking which is the wife's sole responsibility to do). Bukatyne said something similar to this. My question is why exempt cooking? Why must cooking alone be restricted to females? |
Family › Re: My Wife Accuses Me Wrongly by Kimoni: 10:30pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by Kimoni: 9:55pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Gender And Chores- Issues In Relationships And Marriages by Kimoni: 8:34pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Accuses Me Wrongly by Kimoni: 8:27pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Words are like daggers; when used carelessly they are capable of causing so much injury... .... Ishilove. True...but if you try hard enough, words passes from your left ear and leaves via the right ear You don't give it room to germinate talkless of grow I'll be the first to admit it's not an easy process |
Family › Re: Powerful Prayers Every Husband Needs To Pray Over His Wife by Kimoni: 7:01pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Hallelujah!!!! |
Family › Re: House Issue by Kimoni: 6:59pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
babyme1: She actually cited that as the reason she is terminating our tenancy . My husband approached her and said what i told the son was wasnt bad considering the fact that i did it politely. He also made her to understand dt the son isnt d only one we've cautioned abt dt.
She asked hubby if our children are angels or what That actually got me pissed. She is adamant that we should vacate d building, and to know tht she is a very enlightened woman is baffling I am not sure she has the right to ask you to pack out if you are ready to pay your rent and have not committed any offence. Seek advice from a lawyer. Also, tell her politely you have spent so much in renovating the house to suit your taste and you will gladly pack out only if she is ready to refund you. |
Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by Kimoni: 6:43pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Chillisauce: The fun is soaking it in sauce and tearing away life. 
I would suggest cow head then. It has the skin like the leg but no bones.
The image and the look of the nose is what I dont like. If it taste like cowleg, I'll probably try it. Wetin consain you with image?  |
Travel › Re: An Unhappy Train Experience From Enugu Railway (photos) by Kimoni: 6:41pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
 You gat to be kidding me Naija I hail |
Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by Kimoni: 6:37pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Chillisauce: You don't need to buy cow leg then. With cow leg the fun is tearing the bones yourself. I prefer that to the cow head that has just meat. With the leg, I take my time to eat one part, by the time I finish .. and more water. Gives me less calories and more space for my dessert .
Another thing you could do is tell the butcher to cut the legs very small for you. They have a machine for that. I don't buy the leg without cutting it over there. Lol... They butchers cut it in small pieces but don't debone. I want it boneless  The fun of cowleg is to let it soak in the stew before eating awwwwww heavenly taste except that the bone gets in my way |
Family › Re: My Wife Accuses Me Wrongly by Kimoni: 6:23pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Accuses Me Wrongly by Kimoni: 6:23pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
dinachi: OK. So following your argument if nagging cannot kill him then slapping her cannot kill her either, right?
That means the slapping is not also expected to stop anytime soon. I mean following your line of argument abi?
Can she also learn to ignore the slappings? Sticks and stones may break my bones.... However, If he is weak and not mentally strong enough to ignore  while a solution is being worked on, rather than physically abuse or kill her, he should separate. |
Family › Re: My Wife Accuses Me Wrongly by Kimoni: 6:18pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
pickabeau1: You said if the woman is a perpetual nag,, leave the environment  I believe leaving is common to both of you Timing difference. Seek a solution first Pick, my hand dey pain me o |
Family › Re: My Wife Accuses Me Wrongly by Kimoni: 6:15pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
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