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Family › Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Kimoni: 10:33am On Mar 29, 2015

justwise:
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Imagine, your mum will be happy for her grand kids to be without their mum or daddy, she really up to something and your wife knew that hence her action.

Family › Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Kimoni: 10:33am On Mar 29, 2015

justwise:
@Op.

Get some stronger backbone and stick with your wife, you have been married to her for more than 4 years with 2 lovely kids, destroying your marriage now because of your meddling mother is foolish, leave your wife to do what? Start afresh with another woman recommended by your mum? Your wife can apologise to your mum later but your marriage moves on.

Family › Re: If You Were The Mother Of This Child,what Would You Do? by Kimoni: 4:52am On Mar 28, 2015

pickabeau1:
Looks fake

Obviously

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Kimoni: 9:29pm On Mar 26, 2015

FexCathy:
Wow! Stumbled upon this thread again and feels good 2 see mytestimony, kimoni and some oder mamas here. Pls my 2 weeks old son`s tongue has already coated even under his upper gum. Am I supposed to leave it like that or clean it up and with what do I use to clean it?

Welcome!!

Some mothers use glycerin to clean it while some other mothers just leave it cuz it clears on its own.

Family › Re: How To Communicate With My Yoruba Husband's Family by Kimoni: 5:42pm On Mar 25, 2015

Chillis:
The man is not a kid for him not to know of any indigestion.

People should learn to respect others.

If the man wants to eat his mother's Amala , then let him!

Or, she learns to say things without hurting any party.
All these petty petty problems of MIL , DIL.

Exactly! OP, not everything is worth fighting over, learn to choose your battles

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 4:26pm On Mar 25, 2015

sheweezy:
Hearing this for the first time, i thought they say the best position to put a baby is to make the baby sleep on the stomach or side so if he wants to pour out milk it can easily flow to the bed or something rather than put them on the back. i thought the putting them on the back is the one that chokes them? please i am unclear about this.
AFTM thats why i am asking cos i dont know ni o

That was the belief then but due to the incessant cases of choking, doctors now advise that babies be put on thier back to sleep. The milk will still pour out even when babies lie on their back.

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Kimoni: 4:21pm On Mar 25, 2015

rezzy:
I have stopped taking it cos I no longer cough but he still coughs

Maybe you should let him be for a while but if it persist or get worse, then you will need to see your doctor.

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Kimoni: 4:06pm On Mar 25, 2015

rezzy:
My baby and I had cough early this month. We took neofylin, it worked for me but didn't work for him. So I bought cofflin for him, it s still not working. He doesn't cough often but sometimes, when he breaths, it sounds as if catarrh is in his throat or abi lungs don't know which. Abeg, what could that be?

Pls be sure that the cough mixture you are using is safe for breastfeeding mothers, most are not.

I had cough too early this month but surprisingly, my doctor didn't give me any cough medicine to use and when i expressed my fears of passing it on to my baby, he said it will only build his immunity level. Truly, he got the cough from me but it went on its own after about a week.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 3:57pm On Mar 25, 2015

Hello mamas, pls lets be careful how we place children to sleep on their tummys especially when we are not there with them. When they are still very young and not able to lift their heads up, it might be better to lay them to sleep on their back to reduce the risk of choking.

Well done to everyone!

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Kimoni: 3:45pm On Mar 25, 2015

Hernyolar:
Thank you...is Goya oil the same as olive oil?

Yes, there is Goya olive oil and very popular in the market.

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Kimoni: 2:20pm On Mar 25, 2015

Hernyolar:
Pls mothers,am a ftm...my baby has this dandruff like stuff on her head...could it be dandruff or the scalp??

It's called cradle cap and will go on its own. You can use olive oil for his hair also.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 12:51pm On Mar 25, 2015

ahmanim:
i lost it.

Take heart sis, it is well with you

Family › Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Kimoni: 6:38pm On Mar 24, 2015

Personally, I won't advise any intending bride to become a permanent stay at home wife. There are no guarantees in life, anything can happen. It also diminishes the self esteem of some women.

Yet, it's also not okay for any working class woman to look down on the SAHMs. It has its numerous advantages also. There is nothing like a mother giving her children 24/7 care and attention as against having to outsource this important role to a minder, nanny or house help. There is reason why it is mothers and MILs that do omugwo.

Looks like I am talking from both sides of my mouth se cheesy

. Well my siblings and I were raised by a SAHM and we could never have achieved what we have today if not that she was always there for us. I had become a professional accountant even before I finished my undergraduate study Cuz she was always there for me 24/7 through these tedious times, travelling every now and then, risking her life on those journeys to provide whatever I needed. This is asides the constant encouragement and emotional support. Same with all my siblings. We owe her all that we have and will ever achieve.

But growing up, I know she always wanted to work but my dad refused. She often had very low moments and sometimes would cry cuz she believed her self worth was nil. My heart bled for her during those times but today, I am a beneficiary of her sacrifice. Right now, she only has to mention a need and my siblings and I will be falling over ourselves to get it for her, still I wonder if that is enough compensate for her "lost" years and if she will live the same way if given the chance.

Hence, my love and respect for SAHMs but will I live the same kind of life? Capital NO however, I strive hard to achieve both goals. And I will also not advise anybody to do same except it comes from their heart. My mom had a supportive man, so it was ok, what if my dad had turned out to be an abuser like we have in so many marriages these days? Not forgetting that an angel today can become a monster tomorrow.

Herzumpther, how is pops?

Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Kimoni: 12:42am On Mar 24, 2015

Herzumpther:
Check my diary.

Delete

Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Kimoni: 12:40am On Mar 24, 2015

Herzumpther:
I've missed you o.

It is well.

My dear, my hands are full right now ehnnn

I am many things rolled into one right now but my workload will get better in the coming months

Besides, this family section is getting less appealing to me these days.

Notwithstanding all the above, be rest assured I am following every post of yours wink

Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Kimoni: 12:32am On Mar 24, 2015*

Herzumpther:
Remember the last mail I sent you? I'm feeling very very uncomfortable.

Take things easy and slow. Like she said, dad has agreed does not mean he must be the one.

While it is normal to have cold feet, there has to be a strong conviction from your heart and you must be at peace with yourself regarding this decision.

Ultimately, only YOU can take the final decision concerning this matter.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Kimoni: 9:14am On Mar 23, 2015

Akposy, welcome back. We missed you but don't tell me you ran from school cuz of the election??

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 12:08pm On Mar 21, 2015

Motun31:
Good morning everyone. Gave birth to a bouncing baby boy yesterday. Thanks to kaffy4bill for ur advise. Birth story later.

Waoh! Congrats mama. God bless our LO

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 10:19pm On Mar 19, 2015

Motun31:
Mamas in the house, feeling menstral cramps since mid night o. It comes and go. Am 38 weeks gone.

Lemme be the first to congratulate you in advance. Congrats my sister! Na so the thing dey happen o

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 9:30pm On Mar 18, 2015

Prouddad38:
Hello Mamas... @All-The-Mamas, @All-Preggy-Mamas, @All-Vigilante-Mamas, @All_TTC_Mamas, .... Greetings from the Proud Family.

I have received all your words, and thanks to u all.

Proudmom have kept me busy ooooo. No be small tins ooo. In fact, iv been in the third clouds.

I don take break to wait for my little one soon.

@Kaffy4bill, @Clinik, @Modathn @Beedam, @Mytestimony, @Mummy2be, @Mgeey, @rezzy, @tchiwinnie, @Kimoni, @Ifefunmi, @imurboss.... And other Mamas...
I hail una wella. Hope ur families are having the best of life.

Lol...this thread has missed you, prouddad. Good to hear you are being kept busy.

Hope preparations to welcome proudbaby are in top gear. Regards

Celebrities › Re: Girl Stabs Boyfriend To Death At DS ICT Polytechnic Abeokuta (Graphic Photo) by Kimoni: 4:57pm On Mar 18, 2015

PidginYarns:
I don yarn am before, babes dey reason like fowls. If chick use vex carry weapon for u, my guy kpake o. Coz she must use am. The devil wey dey her head dat time pass wetin dey control boko haram. Na later dem dey regret

U don't mean it shocked

Celebrities › Re: Girl Stabs Boyfriend To Death At DS ICT Polytechnic Abeokuta (Graphic Photo) by Kimoni: 4:15pm On Mar 18, 2015

Tallesty1:
The way women dey kill men these days dey fear me walahi.

I think I will start being nice to them.

Better be!

Crime › Re: Wife Allegedly Beaten To Death By Her Husband by Kimoni: 1:01pm On Mar 18, 2015

Rose2014:
Yet another abusee dies in the hands of an abuser. So so sad
Dinachi are u happy now?

According to you, women deserve to be beaten by their husbands cos they must have provoked him to lay his hand on them . So your campaign seems to be paying off

Chai the woman didn't even die immediately after the beating o but some days after. Victims of violence should always endeavor to get medical attention no matter how mild the beating is.
Rip madam.

dheartless
sweetcocoa
Genbuhari
greatgod2012
Kimoni
Cocoacandy
Babyosisi
Bestestgirl
Dinachi
5minsmadness
Owliver
Freecocoa

If I hear they send him to jail.
Nah, they should free him and give him internet access so he can come and open a thread to justify his action here on nairaland

I'll be very disappointed in dinachi if he doesn't personally get involved in this case to ensure the man gets a good team of lawyers to convince the jury the late wife was evil, demented, devilish, crazy, stoopid and the chief abuser in this case. The jury needs to know the man was only reacting...death was just a co-incidence here cry

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 12:50pm On Mar 18, 2015

pjthatcher:
thank God with me my prince is here

We thank God for safe delivery. Bless our angel.

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Kimoni: 11:11am On Mar 18, 2015

kaffy4bill:
Gripe water, bitter kola,paracetamol for a baby is aa NO NO, dats y u r asked not to tell ur doc cos they knw dey won't agree to it. We don't even prescribe multivites in my hosp and neva used for my kids, exclusively bosom fed them and they drink water well, either u bosom fed or not children grow differently.
Pls b careful ao u approach d matter wit mil, u can talk to ur hubby and let him take over in discussing wit her. The baby system is nt matured for all dose tinz oo I beg.
Even excessive paracetamol use in adults have side effects and sum pple even don't tolerate it nt to talk of babies.
All the best sis

Mothers pls listen to this. There is really no need for all these stuffs we are giving to babies, agreed it may not harm them but it impedes the power of their natural body to fight against immunities. Let's allow their bodies to grow stronger by letting it build its own antibodies. Babies are a lot stronger than we think.

As per water, I have always combined formula and breast milk for my kids and I do not give water till 6 months when they start taking solids because both milk contain about 80% water already. Yes, I know this is very controversial but even if we want to give water, pls let it be very minimal our babies need milk and not water at this stage. Water should not replace feeding.

I know it's a running battler with our mothers and mils' and it requires a lot of wisdom to handle. God help us.

Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Kimoni: 2:54am On Mar 15, 2015

^^^

Na wa ooo

Financial institutions, tranches, disbursement, bad loans, IFRS....all these big big grammar on top dis money shocked

Take am easy o bros

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Kimoni: 4:48pm On Mar 14, 2015

mytestimony:
From one thing to anoda. Milk is flowing small but she is rejecting it as if d tin bitter I had to taste it. Lol
Nd bossom getting hard. Wat do I do ooooooooooo

Your bosom getting hard probably means it is engorged ie full of milk cuz ur baby is not sucking it all.

Why don't you try express and give to him till he gets a hang of it but Pls don't stop giving him the breast even when u are expressing.

Health › Re: Please Help Save My Brother. by Kimoni: 10:46pm On Mar 13, 2015

Chillis:
The guy na monkey! I don't think he is human.

Enwe! Nwa nkpi

Very annoying and irritating!

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Kimoni: 10:45pm On Mar 13, 2015

tchiwinnie:
does sit up really work to reduce tummy?

It works! from personal experience

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