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Herzumpther:
Chai see good food everywhere. This is really nice.

My simple lunch of moimoi and and dinner of noodles and suya ( machai system)

Ma'am kimoni how baby o? Please take plenty pepper soup o.

I crave for this moi moi so bad, wish I could jump at it now. He's doing great dear, thnks

Chillisauce:
This is for you and baby

Awwww, thanks Chilli

No cooking for me tonite

Chillisauce:
Congrats kimoni on the arrival of your Prince .

Hope you getting better. Drink hot pepper soup on my behalf.

Thanks Chilli. I need the pepper soup badly mehhnn

missmalachi:
My dear dat ws wat I did oooo.my speakin in tongues this morning ws nt 4rm dis rheme o

This cracked me up soo bad. Skabashing after kpekus . Pls don't mind me ooo

Thank God you feel better now. Pls speak to your doctor about it at ur next appointment so they can run necessary checks.

Takia dear

debbie:
Thank you all for your concern...I was told the nurses didn't carry out any examination all the time she was having contraction . Nevertheless she asked me not to pursue the case anymore. That she will move on with her life.

This is a lesson leant
I pray God delivers us from the hands of these careless nurses and health workers.
May we all conceive,carry, deliver ,nurse and train our babies....In JESUS NAME
Amen

Personally, I'll love that this case be pursued, it won't bring the baby back but it will certainly put them on their toes help to save babies from that hospital in future. This is a pure act of negligence but I know in Naija, we somehow believe in letting cases like this slide. It is well. God save the future babies from that hospital.

Hugz to your friend.

cococandy:
Kimoni had a baby? Congratulations

For that I can share the peppersoup with her.

Lol...pls share with me oooooo

Thanks Coco. God bless

moca:
Happy batday,cococandy

Kimoni,congrats!

Thanks Moca dear.

God bless.

Herzumpther:
Ah. Kimoni had a baby? Congrats ma'am kimoni.

Cococandy no wonder you are so beautiful, February born rocks

Happy birthday cococandy. I'm waiting for the cake o.

Thanks dear. I had actually composed something in my diary informing you and also thanking you for ur mentions but it's soo bad I have still not completed the little update. I have no choice than to come to this section to eat 24/7, so pls don't stop posting.

He will show his face briefly online tomorrow.

Edwife, hopefully, you'll get to meet the ManU gamechanger I told you about. He tried to come early enough last Saturday but sadly, the game had ended when he arrived and match was lost. Henceforth sha, watch ur back!

bukatyne:
@Kimoni:

Congrats on the birth of your baby.

God be with him now and always

Amen. Thanks dear

opella:
Good morning foodlanders! So many delicious food in here. Okay here are some of mine.
Spaghetti, indomie and egg, rice,meat and stew and yam peppersoup.

Happy birthday cococandy! Just pick one of my delicacies as my birthday dish for you.

Ma'am kimoni the yam peppersoup is for you, congrat on the birth of your dear son.

Oh Lord! God knows I need this food soo bad. This young chap won't just give me a breathing space to do anything else.

Thanks opella, you're such a darling

edwife:
i beg,where is Blackett?

Kimoni nko?

airemon how market?

Lol...Kimoni was adding one VIP member to the ManU squad ni. Now that he has arrived, expect nothing but the best from the team henceforth. Trust me on that

My ds came a few hours ago. The midwife called him a miracle cuz I started pushing when I was just 3cm dilated. She thought I was joking but shocked when she actually saw his head come out. Gratefully, she asked me to obey my body out of hospital protocol.

Same thing happened with my first daughter. I have never known what it is to be 4cm dilated how much more 10cm. This can only be God. Comprehensive story later but we should never relent in our prayers even during the most painful period of delivery

God bless us all.

Preprof:
Good evening all. I have been following this thread since inception but have not been able to comment. I created a new moniker for this purpose. There's an issue I'd like to table before the house and see what advice I would get.
I'm a final year student in one of the universities and have been in a relationship for about three years. My boyfriend has graduated and is currently serving.
Truth be told, I have always thought that I am in a perfect relationship until I spoke with a friend about what has been going on.
I love my bf to the point that I have made sacrifices for the relationship to go on. He disvirgined me. Whenever we have issues I am always the person that apologizes. He made me change my religious denomination.
Sex with him has been far from pleasurable. I do my best to satisfy him but he hardly cares if I enjoy the act. He craves a bj and I oblige him. He only started getting down on me recently. pre-intimacy is hard task for him and when he gets into me, he climaxes within a few minutes leaving me unsatisfied. I have tried to talk to him about it but he accused me of sleeping with other men. Once, he told me I was acting like a prostitute because I was tipsy due to some alcohol I took.
Early this year, he told all the numbers of guys I have on my phone.
I don't make financial demands on him but he hardly gives me anything. He told me to be content wwith what my mum gives me. He scolded me for making a hairstyle that he considered to be expensive (on top my own money o). I bail him out whenever he is in a fix.
He interrogates me about my whereabouts, who I am with and what I am doing everytime he calls.
I have never really caught him with another girl but I recently saw evidence that he was sexting with a girl. I didn't confront him about it.
I have not discussed my bf with anyone until my friend started asking me about him.
I decided to share this with a larger group so that I can get advice on what to do.
Thank you.

Cc: babyosisi, cococandy

You know I typed a response to you, read your story again and asked myself if I should really respond to your type of relationship, erased my comment and was about to move on when I saw babyosisi's response and I had to came back.

My response: it is not rocket science that you should exit this toxic relationship immediately. From everything you have typed above, I can't find any positive comment about him or the relationship itself, so what exactly are you waiting for? Could it be because he disvirgined you? My dear it doesn't matter, pls find yourself a better man.

You also need to work on yourself though. You seem to have a very low value of yourself else, you won't be needing anybody to tell you to leave him or enduring so much rubbish. Pls work on your self esteem, believe in yourself much more and tell yourself you will only agree to date someone who will respect you and treat you right.

Why are you also allowing yourself to be treated like a sex slave? The guy who disvirgined you should treat you like an egg IMO but the opposite is the case with you. You really need to work on yourself and my personal advice is for you to avoid sex for now.

aghaibiam:
I finally got my docs clearance on evacuation.A tablet was inserted in me and i was given 2 tablets to take.i went home and laid down and after 2 hours the bleeding started with me running to toilet to pass out huge clots of blood.I have taken iburoprofen and expecting a hot cup of tea.i will go back to the hospital for evacuation proper tmr.
I wish all belleful mommas happy pushing.hope to join the club soonest.

From your lips to His ears. The Lord shall give you double for your trouble.

Be strong and expect your miracles soonest.

EfemenaXY:
Lunch!

Eba with roast beef, stew & okro.

Dessert: Mandarins & Strawberries.

Kai Efe! ur family must be super healthy. No opportunity for excess weight at all. Wish I could start raising my family like this but no way. I am the biggest defaulter! I eat as the body spirit dictates

Great though, pls keep it up.

urchbarbie:
Last christmas, i spent it all by myself in a strange land(jalingo; nysc parole) . When i tot of d long way home, i just relaxed n had fun in my lil home away from home.
1st pix: my meal served m ready to be devoured. I still taste it tho.
2nd pix: had to share for d force men arnd me who culdnt get some1 to make the, special meal dat day

Awwww, sweet of you to remember them all. God bless you.

The rice look yumny by the way

Hernyolar:
To the glory of God and defeat to the enemy..my precious baby arrived today 19th of feb @ 1:58pm

Congrats darling! May God bless our LO

[quote author=ichidodo post=30880023][/quote]bereft of ideas??

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Not our problem seeing that you're acting true to your job description sniffing goat's bottoms and ichidodo's comments...we cannot be bothered. [/color]

Alert me when you start making sense!!!

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] You're now being hypocritical because you want (hook or crook) your country man to marry the girl,you stylishly avoided calling her father a tribal bigot but you accuse us of the same thing the father is keen on to avoid the predicament of his friend's daughter.......See your life. [/color]

My country man by hook or sinker

I will never call her father names because he is her father and I respect him as much as I will respect my own father. Yet, I won't agree with his tribal fears just the way his own daughter does not agree with him on this issue, however, it doesn't take anything away from our understanding of why he has taken that position but still for us, real character and true love should override tribal fears.

So I empathise with people of your generation who should know better and strive towards changing things for the better but instead, are turning out worse than our parents. Nothing can be more sickening than that my dear.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Who cares what your job looks like..with your nosy background we can guess it involves sniffing behind goats buttocks...Excuse us. [/color]

Whatever it is, at least it involves me thinking sensibly out of the box and not having to sniff out tribalistic comments.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] It only takes a tribal bigot to read meaning into every little innocent gestures....If a man-how much more a seasoned police investigator- is a tribal bigot for looking out for his own daughter then let him be,afterall tis his daughter and his experience that matter..Not ours...And we don't see how our encouragement can help change his mind either.…It is not as if you would practice what you preach if you was in his shoes. [/color]

You are the tribal bigot here, not him.


He means well for his daughter and he just needs some bit of conviction to change his mind.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] You can bring your own analogy to dispute it instead of rhetorics.... [/color]

No doubt you are a tribal bigot yourself. Your advice would hurt the poor girl more than the encouragement and enlightenment she needs. But it's her life and her choices finally.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Sure you can...just think out of the box. [/color]

Think out of the box you say - that's what my life entails, that's what my job requires but I could never think out of the box on a senseless post. The post has to first be meaningful

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] That is his daughter not yours and those are his paternal instincts, observing very well that no yoruba man has gotten that level of police investigative experience in igboland to take a wild guess if we are saints or not.We will leave that to our cultural value system.... [/color]

No Yoruba man has gotten that level of police investigative experience in Igboland? I can't make head or tail of this post.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] [b] We know you're in love..you got butterflies around your eyes where it concerns lakes....but you must understand that we all must be very practical to matters such as these instead of being carried away.We must have a third party to look out for us inspite of ourselves. And that includes tribal,religious,domestic and financial matters. Example you was to put your daughter on a flight somewhere..say i don't know....Brazil? and it was common knowledge a particular airliner had experienced a spate of aircrashes recently...would you feel safe taking that risks with your daughter,even though your daughter likes the interior decor or attendants of the commercial airliner?....i don't think so....So you must look into yourself and the possibility that things may not work as planned,play it in your mind so you don't get crushed if dad says no...he loves you..wants the best for you...And we believe he will be crushed if his fears are confirmed.You can have so many loves from all tribes if you set your mind at it....but you can't repair the crushed spirit of a broken father.[/b] [/color]

Interesting!

You are actually comparing Western marriages to a particular airliner with a history of air crashes Which a mother will never allow her daughter to get into no matter the "external facade" it displays?

You've got a lot of things twisted, right?

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Not every igbo man is a saint but the old man including his family will rest easier if birds from the same feather flock together... [/color]

Because he can guarantee that the particular Igbo man she will bring will be a saint Since the conclusion is that all men from the West are criminals and wife beaters.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Her father is a policeman...an experienced investigator who has been in the field since we can remember therefore he's in the best position to judge especially in matters that concerns his flesh and blood,his instincts are well honed over the years and it will be mighty foolish to disregard his inputs because of a whimsical, smokey non tangible feeling called love.....screw blind love...Tell that to a mother trying to explain her wailing 10 year old daughter why she can't get into an airline she loves because of its dodgy safety records,tell her that aircrashes happen all the time and anywhere as such puttin her daughter on this particular flight wont make a difference never mind giving her peace of mind....goodluck with that. [/color]

We are still saying the same thing bro, from his vast experience, he has only met criminals and wife beaters from the West and non from the East where he wants her to marry from, every Igbo man is a saint so his stand on her relationship is well justified and should not be questioned. True love doesn't matter here at all!!! Smh