₦airaland Forum

Esseite:
The Honest truth is okada and keke business kept a lot of Nigerians LAZY...

Now people are growing up with ambition of riding okada/keke.

People are leaving Vocational skill aquisition for keke and okada riding..

Vocational skills that the salary has no value ...

AlhajiImam:
In Islam we share peace but not afraid of war

By entering a Christian nation and forcing the Islamic religion down their throats,,,,is that your defination of peace or defination of war

Darkmode042:
Mr Integrity and his family

Na waooooooo,,,,see inside life

AlhajiImam:
We don't care about America because they are the problem of the world. They keep on intimidating the Muslim nation. Few days ago, a true defender of Islam was killed in Yemen with the allegations that he was a top member of AL Queada.

What makes them feel like they can kill anyone and go? This world belongs to we Muslims and there's nothing that can be done about it

U day crazy ,,,u get luck say u kw talk am where I day na both slap and blow I for use enter u ...

You are trying to impose your Islamic law on every nation either by force or by crook , hoping for 7 virgins ,,,

naxclimpsey:
I don't even know who to blast out of the. The GO is right yet the lawmakers are right. You can't build schools that the poor in your churches can't attend. You can't fly private jet when your members are trekking all their lives. Yes you can help by releasing certain percent of tithes and offerings to national development. But come to think of it, even If the pastors and GOs are willing to contribute to national purse tell me if the monies won't be diverted and siphoned by this hungry lions in the house? Why can't they cut their pay but always think of increment at any slight opportunity. What are they really doing in their various constituencies that warranted the pay rise or what they are earning presently. We are in a situation of economy brouhaha. Every sane government should think of cutting cost and not increasing same. Who am I to discuss further. Both the lawmakers and the GOs are to be blamed and in other news, they both speak out what is true. We are in soup in this country!

This thing no reach quarrel o,
Make both of the drop 5% of their income
That settles it

AlhajiImam:
The mosque can never be taxed because we are not profit organization like churches and pastors that ride private jets

We never near u conscience don day judge you

Jayy10:
I can't remember the movie title, but I know they sang something like "egugulegu gulegu legu, egugulegu gulegu" . I watched that movie alone during the day, and I was still super scared.

That should be karashika ,,,
Or the one they use pop corn to biwich children

gaskiyamagana:
Decide what? What was decided in Kogi? Nothing but rigging, started by PDP and taken to 'next level' by APC.

Your vote in Nigeria is just formality ,who go win is already decided few days to the election

gaskiyamagana:
Where do you want us to go?

Any where the leaders head day hux ,,for Nigeira to be at peace na violence go settle the matter but no body wan throw the first stone or bullet ..

Even Ghana by far is better than nigeria

Goldencheese:
The only positive for APC in this ongoing crisis is that the only man in PDP who could have proved a threat against their chances of retaining the governorship seat, i.e. Pastor Ize-Iyamu, has decamped from PDP to APC.

Unless something spectacular happens, like it just did in Imo State where a number 4 on the list was catapulted to number 1, APC will retain the incumbency or if Ize-Iyamu wins the primaries, APC has more chances at winning the gubernatorial elections than any other party in the state.

Politics is now like gamble ,the interest of the citizens is nothing to consider ....who no leave nigeria u have your self to blame o

Kalashnikov102:
Sometimes dem dey play hard to fall..jus keep tryinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng!!!!
Once e nack 5:00am my broad lock upp..you no fit kii ya self

That's y I always make my intention know to ladies sometimes it's the best ,even if u can't just come straight at them like "hope we go fuvk o"
U have to use in direct statement,,,tell a girl you just took out and ask her hope we go fuvk direct "bro na from the restaurant she go give one excuse say e mama day sick and she needs to go ,,,,,,

And if u don't even tell her at all ,,she will still accuse u of not been open to her of your intentions,,,so it's best to come Abit indirect even a mad man or woman will understand wats goin to play when we get to the bed room ,,,,

akpoguma1989:
If you read very well, I used protection throughout

Bro next time just abstain from it ,
Better still hold yourself and when you get around ur vicinity or state u can always call on some one u trust ,,even though trust is involved ,still wear your condom

ndcide:
I thought women are helpers. Woman she go question your authority go do am, even if you provide 100%

Yeah ,they are but you don't give them a responsibility ,make they use their mind talk say don't worry I will do dis ,or I will buy the wedding cloths or fill the gas or take care light bill
That's y you don't just see a beautiful lady and quickly take her to church for wedding bro na green snake wake go send you to early grace most times we day carry ....

There are is also probability that the girl you meet over night and take to the alter might also be good but the chances are very very slim...

Take your time to date her well enough that she can confidently tell u "I know they never pay you salary ,don't worry I will take of kids school fees or choices .....Don't impose it on her


When you have nothing to loss in a relationship it becomes dangerous ...and that type of relationship is the one that doesn't involve enough courtship .....she didn't invest her time or energy before saying I do ,,,like wise the door is very very open for her to japa

ndcide:
Plz simplify.

Women are always know to cross boundaries when u give them an inch

They them selfs are fully aware of that it's just an in born trait. ..

If u know you are cool and okay with it for your authority to be questioned or u are ready to share your position as a man with a woman ,no problem ,but I just pray your kids don't grow up to see u as a weak man who has his authority been questioned in the house , becus of I want my wife to take care of some responsibility ,...
If you still don't understand,it's okay , every one with what he or she wants in life ..some men are cool been insulted by a lady while some aren't cool with it


Make she use her church mind or Muslim mind do the responsibility to assist you don't ever voice it out ,debt that is waiting for you at the front,you will wish u never made such a statement

faithfull18:
Error, last time I checked, we had more men than women, the only thing is irresponsible men are more thereby creating the impression that there's scarcity.

If not for African's tradition and the undue pressure placed on ladies, most ladies won't send you o#fact.

Are u sure madam....

Munzy14:
Exactly.

when a woman starts contributing money by obligation, she is bound to insult the husband at any given opportunity.

And it's worst if she contributes majority of the finance.

But in all, if your wife is your best friend, that's when marriage is sweeter. You literally do all jointly and u Will value and respect eachother very well.

That's why I advise guys to date their girl for a very long period of time ,and I see it as the best means of courtship not the one year courtship when u tell ur babe thing's are hard she will just make a funny laugh at u like u are not serious ...

I have come to notice that most lady way day stay with their guy even carry Belle even born before the guy do marriage this can go a long way upto 4 years or even 5 years na them they loyal or mellow pass when it comes to marriage ....

While the ones u go just approach,after 9 months una go do marriage , when they enter hux na misbehave they go just day misbehave ,, probably they have hit a jackpot

creolehunt:
Lol. I get your point man. Especially the last paragraph.

Bro I thought my dad was just speaking of advicing me not until our new neighbor packed into our vicinity and then I understood my dad's point .

Munzy14:
Are you the woman?.....

Why crying more than the affected.
moreover I am not a fan of that.
[/b]I am meant to provide for my family, whatever my wife will do, is willingly and out of her own free mind. [b]

And it will be like a bonus for me.

Then, again their is nothing wrong in a woman teaming up with her man to make life easy for both. Infact it settles unnecessary side talks and hear say.


All fingers are not in equal, it tAkes conscience and maturity for a lady who earns cool amount than her man to assist him so they both stand firm in the society.

Well, there are many women, but few wives.

Exactly
When men feels it's an obligation for the wife to drop money ,they end up taking insult from the wife

omamush:
OK, but I dunno what to do with this information though

Just swallow it ,,

Juliearth:
UG is an acronym for Undergraduate.

No vex ee ,,na new terms we day hear every day

creolehunt:
Excuse me. Please is there anything even remotely wrong with her contributing to her own wedding? Should this even be a problem at all? It will be interesting to know why the woman in question is angry.

Somehow I detest selfish, entitled and unreasonable people. Shee earns 200k which is a whole lot of money given the economic realities of the time yet she won't want to be a financial partaker. When it suits them, they become equality advocates, other times they conveniently turn a blind eye.

I read where some of them were rambling incoherently on how they don't want their in-laws in their house. This is same women that bring all their family and ancestral problems to the man the moment he proposes.

Quite disturbing.

You don't allocate bills to a lady bro ,that's an advice from an old man ,don't ever do that ,and people who don't see anything wrong in such an action don't end up well in their marriage
Make the woman use her mind ,,
U don't wake up and say ,make ur babe day pay light bill
Make she fill gas
Make she day buy cooking stuff

Don't ever try it ,,,,,am sure u don't want to wake up and ur wife see u finish and definitely she will ....


My neighbor way e wife help am get job ,help am pay school fees for final year na every day she day use M sing for the neighborhood when ever they get slight misunderstanding

Toks2008:
He is very married. Read again.

He is only complicating issues for himself by opting for a white man's type of wedding when he is not even financially ready.

When men are looking for a working class lady that's what it leads to ,,,
I have a brother like op who asks every lady he meet if she is working just because u want to share responsibility ....

Make the woman use her mind ,and if she doesn't let her be

sylvestersamuel:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.

Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...

On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....

Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.

Bros I will give u an. Advise my father who is still alive gave me


"Don't ever in this life or in the next life use your mouth to allocate any responsibility to a woman "

Reason is very simple


Be also ready to share your position as the man of the house with her or in a very simple English be ready to sell off your position as the man of the Hux to her ,,,,...

Juliearth:
Nothing out of the ordinary. I wasnt much of a social Bee in my UG days so it was a school-home thing for me, same thing now.

Schools 4 9ja with their acronomy,,,wats UG dear

Juliearth:
LOL! For me though, education is "bae" and I wish (among many other things) that there'd be schools in the afterlife.

You really seems to have a lot of fun while in school

mabebe1:
Only 4corpers.....and people are shouting nysc members..when I thought they were more than 20 sef.

Anyways it's very good o...corpers should enjoy their money jor...no time

Proverty is a BASTARD ooo
Na 33k this man do for people not even upto minimum wages in many countries ,,

It's a pity Sha

Sijo01:
You're welcome.

I just sent u an email and can hit me back

Juliearth:
Learning/education is a life-long experience. If you miss school that much, you can sign up for PG programmes just to feel the heat once more.

Heat keee
lol
I will just face my career for now ooo....Watin I suffer for University I kw wan even think of am sometimes
Drink garri go bed
Go class without bathing
And some crazy stuffs

Sijo01:
Child of the soil.

Really ..
While I am pikin of the soil ...
Hope you don't mind if I email/pm you

kay29000:
Exactly!

And I just got ban few hours ago for saying the pictures need to be covered with emoji ...

It's because other competitive website to battle with nairaland isn't yet developed ,else there is nothing information about nairaland these days

Ishilove:
Why are Nigerians so sensitive? If a much older person tells my father "you were in primary school when I was in 100 level", does that automatically mean he is calling my dad a kid?

Now u are taking it personal
Sorry to ask you live in Nigeria , because it seems from your statement u don't live in Nigeria

Sijo01:
Indeed, this is a solid work. Unlike the once painted with black substance in the name of constructed road done by oshiomole across Edo state.

So u know about Edo state so much ?