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mrbenjame:
Judging from the fact that old ladies are better off, you’re absolutely correct. The only problem I had with one 10 years ago was that she almost employed all her community to monitor me when she wasn’t close. I would honestly tell you that I was very faithful to her but her monitoring was annoying. I called it a quit and stayed for 3 years before having another date.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmmmm Life is unfair to who doesn't have money - hmmmmmmm. Oga oooo

excessmon:
Weldone intelligence locator.... u don see d Ned before?

excessmon:
Weldone intelligence locator.... u don see d Ned before?

Michellekabod2:
you wouldn't get an answer from me on this..for now. Till you can take off the blinders(stereotypes,social constructs and myths) you peddle as truth. I don't think one who cherrypicks a particular gender to harass for their sexuality under the banner of "truth" can have an intellectual discourse.

Michellekabod2:
you wouldn't get an answer from me on this..for now. Till you can take off the blinders(stereotypes,social constructs and myths) you peddle as truth. I don't think one who cherrypicks a particular gender to harass for their sexuality under the banner of "truth" can have an intellectual discourse.

Mitchelll:
nice post

DoomsDayX:
Hahahaha Foolish human. What makes you think I am a man?

lasher1:
As I said Good Sex is the main reason why men stray from their homes into the hands of the side chicks. There are so many boring wives who hiss in disgust when their man tries to be adventurous in bed. They have a textbook mechanical procedure for sex which they partake in half heartedly as a duty. No man wants that no matter how regularly he gets it. Sleeping with a woman who is anxious for you to cum and leave her alone only makes a true manly man feel like a sadistic rapist. No real man likes that.

Side chicks are different, they seem to want the man, they make him feel wanted and he mistakes it for real love. They care or at least pretend to care about him asking about his day, some even pray for a good day and good fortunes for the man, extending beyond their primary sex duty. Its no mystery that a person would reciprocate love from where he receives most, where he gets his source of value and perceived strength, this for some men becomes priority and they hence focus their major resources on this person who's the sidechick. It is not right but its human psychology.

Lostz:
I am in a slightly different situation now. there was this girl I had a conversation with in a bus one day. met her at a seminar months later, she offered something to drink during the break and we exchanged contact. all I wanted to do is just smash and run but became close later, found out she is a virgin and a decent girl who just wants a serious relationship.
I am afraid to date her now preferring just friendship because I know I will just ruin everything while she want something serious .

sometimes it is the fear of losing both the friendship and the relationship makes them to hid the feeling. they just keep hoping things change someday

Lostz:
what if it is a relationship he want from the beginning but came with friendship hoping things change along the way?

pryme:
Cos they feel their best friend knows to much about them, some feel insecure about this.

Michellekabod2:
can't you leave us girls in peace?

pryme:
Do yourself a favor,
Date your best friend, cos there will be more than enough things to keep you guys together for a long time.
But this is not for people with insecurity issues.

Michellekabod2:
the nl boys will come here to troll. Ignore them when they come

Realmenlovetruly:
Whats your point here pls?

lasher1:
I'm sorry to say this, Side chicks are necessary to keep many married men sane these days.

The primary reason men get side chicks is sex!
Men NEED and are programmed to want sex according to Myles Monroe and if wify ain't putting out he will eventually be tempted to get it elsewhere and eventually become addicted.

A larger number of married men are struggling through sexless and loveless marriages despite their efforts to be the best husbands they can be, yet these days any man who complains about his wife not tending to his sexual needs is given a list of like 20 things to do to see if his wife will reconsider his advances. To me that's trash, do you know that with a side chick on a fair budget a man can get the satisfaction he needs without madam being affected or affecting the home front.Yes he can, he only needs wisdom to set his priorities right.

I'm one husband with a very hot secret sidie who services my engine weekly while madam keeps her once in 2months sex timetable after plenty ceremony. Im a model loyal (mumu ) husband and great father at home in every other way. I am happy how things are �

hashtagged:
That's the problem with friendship between opposite sex, one will love the other, while the other can't requit that love.

I had a situation like this last year, I just let go. I think that's better than preserving that friendship since it will hurt you both
And lead to other unreligious things

Pascopele:
If you're a married man, and your wife can identify or recognize your side chick, You're a Failure.

Only Legends Can Relate.

PerfectMatchNG:
We decided to use it because of the unlimited number of person it can accommodate unlike WhatsApp that has limited number that can be added.

Michellekabod2:
what is wrong in any human setting standard for him/herself?

Ekakamba:
I don't take expired breast milk.

obatan:
Don't know why they are lampooning you, thumbs up girl, i see nothing wrong with your write up.

funmisticqueen2:
Money does make one wet.

Are you minding these desperate incels. If he thinks he is smart, then you outsmarted him. Let him get Vaseline for his indomie prick and play soapy.

All these 5 naira chewing gum boys on nairaland, so immature, they probably think you will be easy to get. Babes are wising up this 2020. They will open threads and wail tire.

funmisticqueen2:
Money does make one wet.

Are you minding these desperate incels. If he thinks he is smart, then you outsmarted him. Let him get Vaseline for his indomie prick and play soapy.

All these 5 naira chewing gum boys on nairaland, so immature, they probably think you will be easy to get. Babes are wising up this 2020. They will open threads and wail tire.

Ekakamba:
How old are you?

AstroG:
All these simps here NL are thea reasons why the female NL folks insult we guys. Assuming the guys werent seeking pvssy validation from the ladies by sliding into their DM,the females wont have mouth to insult us. Anyways,ah don't blame u female Nlers,is the Male ones ah blame.



Imagine this Op,u tink aff forgotten ur Codedruns debacle ??


The day ah will bring it up again,u will cry

AstroG:
All these simps here NL are thea reasons why the female NL folks insult we guys. Assuming the guys werent seeking pvssy validation from the ladies by sliding into their DM,the females wont have mouth to insult us. Anyways,ah don't blame u female Nlers,is the Male ones ah blame.



Imagine this Op,u tink aff forgotten ur Codedruns debacle ??


The day ah will bring it up again,u will cry