₦airaland Forum

Nazgul:
The major reason why most kids are closer to their moms is because a lot of dads out there don't bother to build working relationships with them.

They just settle the bills and move on. Whereras the mom is there all day with them, moulding or manipulating them to love her more. When I was growing up I hardly knew my dad, in fact he was almost like a stranger to me, cos by the time he comes back from work, it's very late and I'll already be in bed sleeping.

I began appreciating him when I started growing older, and saw the magnitude of sacrifice he was putting into the family.

Father's should learn to cultivate the habit of spending quality time with their kids as well. The quality time most men spend in bars, clubs, hotels...etc, if they devout it to building working relationships with their kids, believe me, those children would love and appreciate them till death. Take them out on weekends, talk to them, tell them stories, crack jokes, take pictures, play games...etc. If your impact and presence on your kids is only felt when you're dead, it means you failed them as a father during your lifetime.

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

woginid967:
I have handle all this before.
She was a fresh graduate. I was an uber driver, we got close and her mouth odour was killing, when we started hugging, her sweat stank so much i gifted her deodorant and mouthwash with money bouquet 💐 and lots of chocolates 🍫 and cookies...

Then i visited her, she was embarrassed because her clothes were on the floor, days old unwashed plates, rough bed, etc.... I used gists and fun to clean and rearrange for her.

Why?? Because no Nollywood actress or mbgn was a pretty as she was.... She could be mistaken for a Foriegner.... And she was humble. So why not.

Then i took her on a vacation, gave her thorough skin wash, made good hair for her, gave her orgasms back to back and she was mine. Till there was a clash in her village, her family was attacked spiritually and she and her mom died of food poisoning the same day. It shattered me but... I learned to fear spirituality

MrBrownJay1:
i cannot fall in love with someone who has the above trait... as it takes time to fall in love with someone, and during that time i would realize the above and either try to fix it or bounce.

Tallesty1:
1, 2 and 4 get solution. The other person should work on it.

The 3rd is a bigger problem as far as I am concerned

Anuoluwa12345:
idowuanuoluwa@gmail.com

People have lost job due to Layoff. So please don't ignore this post even if you don't have anything for us to do. Please like , comment and share so that it reaches your connections and someone offers me a job.

bukhety:
Thank you

RoyalRumble1:
Lavy,
Lavy,
Lavy,

How many times I call you? 🙄

kingimmade:
nice write up @op

Titokellas:
I stay in Abuja and I got a regret mail, it is well I push further.
Good luck to those that are in the next stage

omonnakoda:
If you enter any university ideas full ground like sand
Nigeria's problem is not shortage of ideas

Doherty is full of ideas too
Lagos state has a budget of over $2 billion. Can we hand that over to a person who has never managed an eatery

Zonefree:
When criminals are SELECTED to rule, what do you expect from the followers?

Simpubozz:
This days, having to renew IP for machines, especially the ones on AP. As if that’s not enough, only for one to discover that the uplink cable just stop Transmitting from the managed switch to workstation’s switch until you swap the cable to another port on the managed-switch

TyroneP:
Yea, in Nigeria and a few times outside the shores of the country on other official engagements.
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Anuoluwa12345:
Are you for real? Pls let's talk more, explain better sir.

TyroneP:
I receive an average of 25 official calls a day. I meet up with about 15 new people and I'll definitely be in about 5 meetings at least in a day. More than 20 people are willing to meet with me daily. Sometimes I forget I'm yet to take breakfast @2pm. I am a criminologist.