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Mrs.Chima:
She will know all of that on a short stay vacation in Mexico? Let be real.

mekadude:
had to create this username to discuss this topic.
there are several issues here and i will address only one of them.

This is getting more and more common, and this is beginning to show that the marriage system we practice today is unsustainable and a lie.
For one, I don't believe that the woman made a mistake. i think she wanted to try another man for whatever reason, and the result is the pregnancy. i don't think she will abort, so let no one go there. she got what she planned and wanted.
my advise is that she should talk to her husband and the father's baby now, because this issue won't end well if she doesn't.
we live in a culture of pretense and I suspect that a sizable number of kids in families are fathered by outsiders. during my days in uni, a friend told me that a girl wanted to abort her husband's six weeks child and wanted him to replace it if she does. she wanted to have her boyfriend's baby instead of her husbands. she argued that the man won't know! you see why our current marriage system is a lie? only God knows how many women do this these days and more.

so, Op please tel your girl friend to carry out what she planned to the full. stop wasting our time here.

Fangasia:
@Lax, it was tough.he was broken.i cried nd pleaded buh he said he was done, then, today.he told me he is taking me back for d sake of love.that he cant aford to lose me and he wil poison me if i try such again
now.am working on being a better gf.puting my all into dis second chancee and loving him the best way i can.any tip on how to do all dis without me exagerating it?

Fangasia:
So, am finally free of any guilt.i told him the truth.it was very hard buh i purged it all out.

Andre Uweh:
Forget what you read here. Ndigbo and Yorubas are good friends and there are no hostilities between the duo. Nairaland is a forum that was started by Yorubas. To attract attention, Ndigbo became their target. Most times, Ndigbo are just defensive in their posts. The constant attack of Ndigbo further led to the emergence of some militant Igbo posters such as Sunny BOBO, Mekusxxx, Mekuslogan, Nchara, Ezeuche, Chino etc. Some of this guys have been banned parmanently while their Yoruba counterparts such as Ileke IDI, Desola, Seanet, Blue.t etc are all around.

alj_harem:
Ndi = people/person

so ndigbo mean igbo person or people

Sisi_Kill:
Yes they mean Ni Gba ti.

When Yoruba people are caught in a lie and they are trying to wiggle their way out of it by placing the blame on someone else, they launch into a long explanation peppered with Yoruba Ngabti. Since that's about the only thing a non-Yoruba speaking person can make out of the long tirade, they started calling them Yoruba Yoruba. If you think I'm lying, next time a Yoruba man is caught lying. . .pay close attention to his explanation.  

You heard it here first



Hmm. Ok I'll pay attention to that next time, lol. Thanks.

omoola007:
i am Yoruba and i used to hate the "Yoruba" stuff till i started listing to all the Yoruba people i know, na so so ngabti, nbati, dem dey talk so it is totally justified.

If you don't agree, Try telling a story in Yoruba without saying Yoruba.

I dare ya

uju_1:
Lol thanx for all your views and God bless all the people helping me catch the stones they are throwing at me.

Kpoli, dunno if i see a future with mr yoruba, and he hasn't told me his intentions so till then im single and this my igbo family friend is making sense, We will see sha,

Thoniaslim i think some people dont look at the bigger picture just wanna crucify me, Thanks for your analysis. Funny enough he called to apologise and ask me out again, I wasn't rude just told him i will check my diary and call him bak.

uju_1:
hmm,  its possible oh,  seems they treat you well because you are one of their 'sisters' but then again,  there are good and bad people in every tribe. All na nigerian to me, don't really discriminate as long as they are not muslim (sorry oh) uneven yoking and all that lol

bhusayor:
Sorry,this post was directed to premechaz,

tellwisdom:
Na woman you wan beleive/TRUST, My broda u don LOST , All the cheating wey she don dey cheat before naw nko?? sheby na because d guy dey show marriage interest, dats why, why e come be say na dis wan she wan come dey seek advise on, on hw to manouvre her bad deeds,,u dey pity her, MUHEHEHE.bros are you a member of MUGU ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA??