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tellwisdom:
op---YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO HIM YET AND YOU ARE CONSIDERING THAT AS A CHEAT, sometin wey married women dey do with pleasure wel wel and e dey sweet them na em u dey form HOLY WENJE for we here, I was seated in front of my Mansion wen i saw a married woman CATWALKING the stairs of one hotel with the NACKER behind her near my home , I hope u never taste your bfrnd IGBOH-WEED??

Haba make you even give the girl credit for her conscience na. Look all the married women wey dey cheat "in the name of the lord" and dem no get one ounce of regret. At least poster get conscience

Poster: I say once you have confessed to God, with true repentance, you are good to go. However if someway, somehow, your bf finds out (and trust me the truth always has its way of surfacing, its life) then you have to decide whether or not you want to tell him the truth or not. To those who say she should keep her mouth shut on the sole reason that her bf MAY have been cheating also, that is a very cheap excuse. Very invalid.

First off, guys don't try option 5 oh!! A nagging wife has one goal: to get under your skin and get you worked up. When you laugh at her, it backfires and she could go postal.

So don't do it ohhhh. Just ignore her. If you try option 5, she will kill you, YOU WILL DIE!!!

Yeah, like mr maguy said. Best way to get OVER a guy, is to get UNDER a new one

@ Poster:

Take heart my dear. I was so heart broken when I caught Mrs. Chima asking other dudes if they missed her. I almost jumped off the bridge if not for CNN.

<<<<< Heavens to mergatroids , o my

@ Poster, You will DIE! Don't.

I gerrit 2 long years? The guy relentless oooo.

Na wa oohh.

@ Mrs. Chima. So its like that eh? I turn my back and you dey talk like dis to other dudes? Do you miss him too? I thought I was the only one ooooo. Chei!

, <<<< Grabs popcorn and wears 3D shades. This will be interesting. Forget going to the movies  

@ poster:
Don't do it, you will die!

^^^^ "Whareffa!" But that girl was CRAAAAZZZYYYYY!!!! Any female co-worker that tried to talk to me, it was war! And me being a private guy, I had absolutely no privacy. She knew I hated my business out there and she really spread my "gospel."

Omo I made that mistake like 10 years ago and I went through HELL! Anytime I notice any kind of vibe from a female co-worker I run like I'm scared of the punny men. I'm just paranoid like that.

Mrs.Chima:
My husband has his special words that I have reserved strictly for him and hardly calls him by his government name unless necessary.  But I will call you suga in a heart beat because that what we call everybody in my hometown. I don't think there is nothing wrong with calling someone sweety or sugar in my opinion as long as it is innocent.

Now I had men call me some pet names that would make a blind man see and the lame man walk.  Now the fact your boss calling you baby and call you eye candy that a red flag!  You do not want to get involved because you don't know what you are dealing with blindly.

Haba I would NEVER go there with my boss ooo. I beg. I won't even deal with a co-worker despite the fact that she (boss) tells me that women at the job come to her "inquiring" about me. Been at my job for 1 year and I have NEVER even hung outside of work with a single co-worker and I prefer it that way. I don't believe in crapping where you eat.

In my opinion, it really isn't about him "obeying" his wife. It's moreso about priorities. When you marry, you become ONE with your spouse and he/she become the priority. While I sympathize on his brother's death, life still continues and he (husband) does have a life (wife) to live after the burial of his brother. And here's another thing that everyone fails to notice, how on earth did his family find out that his wife insisted that he not spend too much on the burial? Did he go and tell his family that his wife said so? A big NO NO. He has no balls if that's the case and that is wrong on his part.

;d

Mrs.Chima:
Yes!  Mr. Chima doesn't hold anything with me and tells me things that I needs to hear not necessarily wants to hear but needs to hear.  So you are right about that.  

It is important for spouses or couples to keep it real with each other but of course not in the sense to break each other down which wouldn't be good for bonding purposes.  If couples and spouses keep it 100 with each other and communicate EFFECTIVE it would REDUCE DIVORCES AND BREAKUPS.

How long have you guys been married?

talina:
Its great to hear someone say they are best friends with their lover and have fun together AND are married. Rare these days. I strive for that, but recently fell right into that head over heels thing.Didnt see it coming! And as you can guess, its already ended. Just gotta ask yourself,(what did I learn this time?duh)

Learn to take time out and be that person's friend Talina. Don't push it, don't force it let things happen naturally. Love will surely happen if it is meant to be.

BTW - cool pic.

Mrs.Chima:
I learned growing up with clan of women and many of these women were friends first with their husbands before marriage and it works out for them.  I adopted it when I became older enough to date or be with boys without adult supervision. 

I took my time with Mr. Chima and still had other male friends I went out with but I never engage into sex with them because like you said it clouds the judgements.  When feelings start getting all hot and heavy somebody ends up hurt because there were no foundation. 

Mr. Chima is my best friend and we have fun with each other that what makes the marriage last when you are real good friends with your lover. 

To give you an example, I know what Mr. Chima will say about certain situation or incident and when people ask me do you think Mr. Chima would like to do this or that. I can answer it right away because I know and vice versa.

It's a good thing when u can be best friends with your lover. Very good when u can tell ur lover what they NEED to hear, not what they WANT to.

;d

Definitely the bride

Why do I have this ugly feeling that the one who your mom finally approves will be the one who will destroy your life, Consequences of allowing people to make YOUR decisions for you.

^^^^^

Let them think what they want to. What matters is that you know who and what you are.

The wackest.

Singz, "omoge yesterday, no be gree your own today. She go tell u say, no be only u be her lover."

Ladies, do you find a guy who can cook "selgzy?"

LOL!!!!!! You see, she so wants me to be pissed that's why she insists that I'm "fake laughing." Awwwww, So this is how to deal with the Mad and Bitter Woman? Laugh at them. You served your purpose today.

Thanks for an entertaining night.

Ok, I won't send the flowers to you. I'm sure you get enough with all your anger and bitterness. Lol.

Good night!!!

I think someone pissed in her garri too, hahaha!!!! Omo she seems to be really getting worked up. Pele, I'll send flowers. lol

Awwwww, she is pissed that she fails to piss me off! Hahahahahaha!!! I am really enjoying this. Thanks for the link ooo. Remember that also applies to the supplier (YOU) of drugs, not just we who smoke it ooo. Hahaha.

With my fake laugh?? So you proved me right!! You want me to be angry and I'm here laughing at you. You are a joke!!!! The other day you even tried to get under my skin when you made a comment about what I wore in my old profile pic. I didn't even find it offensive as a matter of fact. I remember saying that I was "attempting" to look cool. Meaning that I didn't take the look or response seriously. Sorry Mrs. Chima, I am a happy and secure man. Find you a miserable man to insult. Lol!!!!

Too funny!

@ Mrs Chima,

You gave me this weed remember? Lol! You are funny! Wow! People on NL who find you offensive don't know how to take jokes from a clown. Seriously, you crack me up. Your intention is to get under peoples' skin and piss them off. That might work on those who give a flying porkchop about you, but sorry that doesn't work with me.

Please keep up the entertaintment. What would NL be w/out our free clown, Mrs Chima. Ku ise!