₦airaland Forum

That's how I was treated when I went there for admission in the year 2002. The academic secretary (which was in charge of admissions) told me to my face that 'THIS SCHOOL IS NOT FOR SOUTHERERS' even though I had 13pts in IJMBE. I saw northerners with 3 points gaining admission into my department screeming allahu akhbar at the notice board. I was totally demoralized then.

They hardly admit Christians into faculties of medicine and surgery or Law.

B.B Mshetlila (academic secretary of ABU 2002), in case you, any of your children/grand children are reading this , I leave you to God.

It's obvious that getting UK citizenship is your highest achievement in life. By the way, whaysup with the accent?

If all you said is true, then I'm sorry to say YOU MARRIED A BOY

For me, any man that hits his wife just to merely prove a point is a useless man. More so, no responsible man will return home after a stupid outing by 2am. Grow up man, grow up!

Joshua bleeding but digging better

Ruiz bleeding already

I used to work there and I saw these recent events coming . I really pity southerners that are still there.

Poweramp music player is the truth people, y'all should try that shit out.

Mark my words, Ruiz will die that day.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

DM me, I can help you.

You guys are crazy in your family, except your dad and sister of course. As for you, pack your stuffs, go live with the chief priest(dibia) in your village, since you love tradition a lot .....idiot!

His life is over 4 sure. In the US, inmates hate pedophiles and they'll kill him once they find out he's one.

iaamxavier:
I'm writing this post with a heavy heart

So I'm 21 and I finished secondary school at age 17 (2015) and to be honest I just got admission this year to study pharmacy while my mates are in their final year and it hurts alot because my mum keeps telling me that my cousin is in final year and is about serving next year and I'm just gaining admission to a university, she even uses her friend's child as an example and it made me go into a Little depression, I actually felt sad because for the first time a comparison actually hit me...

She claims they (my parents)are supposed to be resting and not paying school fee. That I'm stressing them and ever since I was a teenager I always vowed that I wanted to leave my father house before 25yrs of age

Now I'm studying a 5 years course (7 years to become a full graduate) and by then I'll be 28 I actually feel ashamed because this isn't what I wanted since I left secondary school
I wanted to finish on time and remove the burden from them

I've never failed jamb, my least Score was 245 but circumstances kept dragging me back

I finished my ND program in 2017 (Distinction in SLT Yabatech)

So it feels more like I'm parambulating up and down and don't know what I want for my self but I actually do!!

I need an advice or something to make me feel better or confident about my self

OP, don't worry, everything will be fine. I had same experience and I must confess it sucked then.

I never knew God's plan for me. I sat at home for 7yrs despite passing JAMB severally.....Couldn't secure admission. I had to go for IJMBE and passed with 13 points yet couldn't secure admission.

I remember clearly when I went to ABU, zaria (2003) to struggle for admission, and maneuvered my way to the office of the academic secretary then (which is the admissions officer) to plead with him and he sounded a clear warning saying : YOUNG MAN LEAVE MY OFFICE , THIS SCHOOL IS NOT FOR SOUTHERNERS. I wept that day because I saw northerners with 3 points gaining admission and screaming allah akhbar at the main gate.

At a time , I threw away my WAEC and IJMBE cert when I was rejected at common Caritas University Enugu just because I'm from Delta State. The excuse was that Deltans usually engage in cult activities. That really hit the limit for me , I couldn't take it no more so I threw my certificates away on my way back to Lagos. Someone picked them up, saw my dad's mobile number written on the file and called him. My dad arranged for them to be posted to Lagos. That was how I got the docs back.

I finally secured admission, but I really put my family through hell. Tuition was really expensive and I felt bad and selfish but God was merciful and saw me through school. I channelled that anger towards my studies and made good grades.

Today, my story is different. So many of my age grade secured admission before me and at the so called right time but cannot come close to places I have access to. I've travelled to so many countries to the extent that I'm tired of travelling. I really thank God for his mercies.

As the for B.B Msheltlila (not sure of the spelling) the then academic secretary of ABU, Zaria (2003) that threw me out of his office, I have no grudge towards you, you prepared me for greater me.

To the OP, stay strong. You're being prepared for a greater you, channel this pain and anger towards your studies, pray , stay positive and watch your dreams come through.

I know him very well, he's my younger brother's best friend. I've never seen a human being as courageous as Tomi despite everything that's happened to him and I pray God restores his sight in Jesus name, Amen.

With all due respect sir, you're spewing thrash and God will punish you and your generation.

I drove from Texas to California for 1500 miles which is almost same distance as a return trip from Lagos to Maiduguri and didn't see 1 single pot hole on my way.

It's obvious that you people are just heartless, callous and miserable. Your generations will one day pay. That country will soon implode and even the high and mighty will cry for safety. If almighty Gaddafi hid in a hole like a rat before he was caught, yours will be worse. You and your family will probably hide in a septic tank. Useless man!

maxiflexy:
any headsup

I stake very high oh, like 500k

Mine is linked to money oh. I've made lots of money from sports bet and could have made more if not for teams like Bayern, arsenal and both Madrids.

There was a day I could have made up to 7million naira. I just needed arsenal to win or draw but they messed up and that's y I hate arsenal with a passion.

I've won and still making millions monthly.

Stop self diagnosing by reading stuffs on google and drawing conclusions. Most likely, there's nothing wrong with you or prolly a psycological issue.

Nigeria is finished.....run away while u still can, I wish all of una luck.

He was my student at Fed Uni Lafia. A brilliant one too, Congrats to him.

Iamdazzle:
Jidenna is wearing skirt and gown



This is hilarious ROTFL......

Jidenna is obviously trying to link to his Nigerian root which is extremely commendable.
It is obvious Nigerians cannot be satisfied, you should be commending him instead of making fun of him.

Whatsup with the accent ?

If na Nigeria, boys go don slice the throat

Your wife is most likely focused on her ex and like someone earlier pointed out, she got married to you cos her ex wasn't ready. Go get a DNA test done.
HER EX IS PROBABLY DOING WELL FINANCIALLY NOW AND SHE'S REGRETTING MARRYING YOU HENCE, HER ATTITUDE. Get this movie CONFESSIONS OF A MARRIAGE COUNSELOR BY TYLER PERRY and specifically ask her to watch using earphones so every word would sink in. it's a good movie especially for ladies that don't value what they have.
I live in the U.S my brother and believe me, you don't want a woman giving issues here. A woman can technically ruin your life here easily so if this attitude continues, I'll advise you divorce her ass before leaving for the States.

You obviously just wanna trend cos you're in a cruise ship.....silly assss!

They're fraternal twins

I just pass Luxembourg 1hr ago. No more private cars oh

Keep killing English "my camera just fall"

See her back like native grinding stone .....THOT !

aolawale025:
That's assault!
The victim can sue the judge.

......and battery.