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pheelhip:
Look at me reading this messages
Wayback in 2019 during my service year.
Someone mistakenly transferred 78,000 to my Access bank acct, same moment I was badly in need of funds. Especially to get a new phone so I can browse up on topics to teach my students.

I left the money lyng in my acct for 48hrs knowing fully that the bank will Contact me. On the 3rd day, bank contacted me and I had to do the transfer back to the man same minute, I transferred 4times because it was 20k limit with not minding the transfer charges then.

Man called me after all, told me I am a good man and said I should send my acct number shishi. He didn't send till today. It really hurts me. I called him weeks after, he acted like he couldn't remember.

Bottomline, if any human mistakenly send money into my acct, its either the person forgets and move on or we share into two. Else #5 the person no go see. Anything whey bank wan do me make dem do.

he go later carry u go kiri kiri

NobleSeed:
how can we now tell if you are telling lies or not?
You just closed eyes Open mobile app, type the account number you no confirm name then you come input the amount you still no check the name You now put your password you no still confirm.
After you don do am finish you now screenshot the transaction before you no say na wrong account
Just dey play You hear.

those people dat mistakenly sent 280m to alfa are Liers also abi

The negligence of Nigeria banks and bankers is becoming something to watch out for

balo777:
First off, the sucide was a joke. I would never do such. But I really need help What is a man without his dick?

I'll start from the beginning.

As a child, I used to be very anxious, it's even worse now that I'm a grown man. My anxiety can be so bad that my heart will be beating super fast like I want to die. This even happens when I'm with a woman, or when my woman tell me she's coming on so-so-so date. I've tried breathing technique but it doesn't work.

When I wake up in the morning, I get normal erection, say thirty minutes, after urinating. But when I'm with a woman, I can't perform. The only time I get effortless erection is in the morning. Every other period it's not so easy, and especially before sex.

I used to rely on drugs to help me. But one day, even Viagra failed me. Although, the anxiety was through the roof on that day and I had weak erection that can't penetrate. But when she left, after some hours, my anxiety level went down again. This happens with every girl. I usually don't have sex drive, in fact, it's only when I wake up I do.

I've failed my girlfriend. Although she's been understanding and told me she'll stay if I can find a solution to this.

From test to medicine, what can I do?

drink all those aloma bitters and those plastic local acholic drinks they do sell around 200naira whenever you want to knack. Thanks me later

datola:
Yes, they should increase workers salaries. But what's the fate of non government workers?

They should also jettisoned the idea of increasing any tax. In fact they should adjust VAT such that locally produced goods should be 0%. Tax can increase on luxury items and other non essential imported goods.

And the plan of sharing $800 millions from World Bank abi IMF loan among 'poor Nigerians' is bad except its the World Bank that will come and do the sharing.

if the importers increase their goods bcus of increase in price, the local producers should are not paying any tax will likewise increase their local goods price to par with the foreign goods.

Nigerians are the problem of nigeria

Crumbian:
Kovacic's problem is that, in most matches, he contributes nothing to the teams attack. That's why Sarri sometimes prefer Barkley.


He should be playing the Jorginho role and Enzo should be push forward.

kovacic can't play the Jorginho/enzo role either. He is too soft, he loses ball easily, he can't control when pressured. I wondered why they sell Jorginho instead of Kovacic

Are there no good managers out there again. Why do Chelsea bohely kept given oloriburuku people jobs.

Imagine this one just putting players into the pitch with no tactics the funniest thing is him removing Enzo for Kovacic.

Why am I the only one seeing kovacic as useless in Chelsea

dotun4luv:
No, not a Nigeria of today. For a modest 3 bedroom with big master's bedroom and all ensuit you will probably need like 20m...

NB:

Gerard roofing sheet
Parapet
POP
Fencing
Electric security wire
Plastering
And others ...

6 inches block is around 300 while 9 inches is 400+. Based on calculations, you will need like 4k+ for a modest 3bedroom with all facilities and at least 1500 blocks for your fence if not perimeter fencing.

We haven't talked about sharp sand, German floor, and others.

over 30m

engrrichie92:
Builders/Architects/Engineers,

I need your expert advise.

So I have got 10M naira I want to invest in my first building project (Land inclusive)

I know it is not feasible in Lagos, so looking at Ondo/Ogun state; Is this feasible within my budget?

I am even willing to pay for a comprehensive project plan from an experienced builder.

It will be nice to have a detailed breakdown of how to achieve this before I proceed

Thanks in advance.

depend. A friend 3bedroom project.

Land was =1m
German floor to lintel level = 3m
Parapet = 700k
Wood work= 1m
Roofing (gerrad) 3m.

He Spent about 9m too Roofing level. Didn't know he just start spending.

Over 30m gone now and still spending

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

I'm 100% certain your wife is funking another guy outside. 100% certain

For the zombies

1MILLIONLiGHTS:
Abroad is not bad for everyone. There are people still enjoying those places . Just some lil time.

is Nigeria bad for everyone?

BmAe:
Nice game... Chelsea just needs Harvert and Mount in thier usual position to win matches.... Callagher or Kovaci one should start from the bench

That is
Callagher Enzo
Hervert
Pulisi jao sterling

kovacic has no biz still being a chelsea player. He should be sent away sme way realmadrid loan him out. Very useless player

tunapawizzy:
The problem is that chelsea football club was sold to bad decision makers.... even if chelsea gets guardiola, believe me , these owners will somehow mess it up.
see the timeline...
1. TOO HASTY TO SACK TUCHEL...u bought expensive players that tuchel requested for him then u sacked him few weeks later(after 6 EPL games) claiming u guys want to go in a different direction.....chelsea was just 6th on the table, 6 points from league leader then when Tuchel was sacked....
2. WRONG APPOINTMENT Appointed Potter who obviously doesnt have the charisma to manage a team and club as chelsea
3. STICKING WITH POTTER FOR SO LONG now that u should be hasty in making a change so that a new world class manager will see there is so much to play for ..u decided to stick with Potter until when it is too late to salvage anything
4. POINTLESS LAMPARD APPOINTMENT very pointless to me.....but we shall see

if Boehly appoints Guardiola as Chelsea Manager, Boehly will still find a way to mess it up.......He is the problem...indecisive when he should decisive.......dillydallying when he should make swift decisions.

they spent billions bringing in new players because the old where not performing, but still stick with the old players that where not performing and bench all the players they bought with the billons

Chelsea that bought many players because they where losing, benched all the players they bought and continue using the set of players that make them buy the new players.

You will see as all of them will start take the next God is good motor's going home because dey have spoken. Always behaving same way zombie will behave

madridguy:


" A member of the National Youth Service Corps, Janet Ufodi, while narrating her ordeal in the hands of the hoodlums, said she was waiting for a commercial bus to carry her at Upper Iweka when she was accosted by two louts.

“They demanded I pay them for the luggage I carried, threatening to seize it.


“I was surprised that nobody came to my rescue as everybody was just watching as they were almost violently attacking me. At the end of the day, I parted with N2,000,” she added."

Sentiment aside, Anambra State is the worst state in Nigeria.

Their hatred for MC OLUOMO is simply because he is the richest and most popular agbero in Nigeria.

they also hate Tinubu bcus he is probably the most influential politician in Nigeria

Mumusaphire:
hmm mm. U are right, but many people are just heartless. They won't change no matter what. I also have a brother here in Nigeria, abuja, our first born. Doing well, real big man, working in federal ministry of justice, abuja, na real Senior staff ooooo, that before u get to his office, u must pass many securities. To cut a story short, he can't help financially, he can't help getting we his siblings a job, or connect us. Even his wife also work in federal interner revenue in abuja, high rank also. Last too weeks, I was so down, even till now, but am just managing myself. I summoned my courage to call him because have knew that he won't help. I sent him message on WhatsApp with prove of my health. It was on sat that day, election day. He replied that haha, that i should pls give her till Monday, that he will run around to help me. I thought in my mind that my brother want run around on top how much. Even have spend more than 50k before I decided to msg him. At last, it was on Thursday my brother sent me money. I was surprised to see just 5k. So u can see many of them can't change, but just heartless. But they can donates for church to show off.

ur brother is probably angry fir something you or anyone in the family has probably dine to him before. It might not be you, ut might be another family members

CosmicDust:
Thanks for the messages. I am sharing my story here is to air out a piece of my mind and also I believe many people also do have stories of sibling rivalries.
For those who told me to call and discuss issues with, anytime I do that is a reason for a fight. Infact I have been exhaustive on that. She has left the family whatsapp group and claims we all use it to extort her. 2 of us are doing well for ourselves.



Even if I dey wipe nyansh for Canada, e no go reach situation wey I no fit send at least $150 back home to my parents. This girl sends 40k. $55 a month for your parents that trained you. That is unthinkable.

some people never even send anything swishing home after 5years. Just continue praying to God to bless you and ur sister more..

There are ways u will disturb someone when dey don't have that will make them not to help when they finally have. Maybe una don call extended family on her that she's not responsible and not sending money home

ganisucks:
Datti was on Arise TV, a day before appearing on Channels. It was there, he first made the speech pertaining to the unconstitutional nature of the president elect.
Why was Arise not fined as well?!

there is wat we called scapegoat.

You might have heard someone probably a teacher saying I just need one scapegoat so all of you will behave

KingsCity:
Nothing like that

Where there is no president-elect, interim government is justified by the Doctrine of Necessity

The Constitution makes the president the Governor of the FCT and you cannot be installed as the Governor of a place if you have failed to win even 20% of the votes there.

Yakubu erred when he declared someone who failed to score 25% in FCT as President-elect, effectively therefore, there is no president-elect

DSS make una use this one do scapegoat

Donjazet2:
Very wonderful development.

Raumdeuter, come and see oo.
You will no longer be tolerated for those hateful words towards Igbos.

Nice development Seun. This platform will see a beginning of sanity and healthy discourse. This is long overdue.

We're watching myndfourfour who has enabled these people to see how they react to this development.

chai

SLAP44:
Sir, I don't agree with you, so many of the people who got new voters cards already had voters cards in other places, and sometimes, in the same locations. I know of people who are registered in more than one place, and they were being contacted to come vote in the other location.

I understand apathy during the governorship elections, but the presidential elections had people coming out in heavy numbers, and yet the figures were still very poor.

I think IREV cut people to size and exposed the likely population of Nigeria if we're to do a proper headcount and not this allocation of figures as guided by the NBS.

guru that beat fact and know everything. ITK GO KILL U. In lagos alone over 7million over 18 registered. And two parent will be busy giving birth yo four/five children. How many under 18 do u think we have in Nigeria.

Abi under 18 are not part of the population. And not even upto 60% of the over 18 will register for voters card. I still know countless of people that haven't registered for voting before

BurialGround:
You Yorubas are yet to attack Samuel Ogundipe the publisher of peoples Gazette but your problems are Igbos.

you igbos moves and behave like a pack that has only one direction. As long as its coming from an Igbo person, you guys do not care. Infact igbos are the real almajiri.

But yorubas are learned individuals who have different perspectives. You will see a yoruba man counter his other yoruba brother if he had a different view. But 98% of igbos will support their own weather Good or bad. The remaining 2% who knows what the person is doing is wrong will not support but will rather keep mute than to condemned

Well the fear of gunmen showing up in their houses or pulling them over is real. So they rather keep shut

Massiveglory:
Ffk the free food merchant has talked his way into uneccessary issues.

me wey no see money travel I die?

Bryan88:
oga face me and stop calling on ur yoruba brothers to fight 4 u...highest na 1 month ban...more over do I look like some¹ that even care if am banned from this yoruba people blog or not? Noise makers...always starting what they can never finish...if only u knw how this NL irritates me with u people's bigotry and hate speech against one particular tribe and yet calls it nairaland instead of yorubaland blog so people will knw it's for the yorubas and stay clear entirely from the blog...pls seun come and do the needful and do the same to yorubas attacking and insulting igbo tribe on nairaland as well...back stabbers and saboteurs...ozuoh!

make igbo build their own website na

AnotherMANpikin:
RIP.....both tinubu, ghaba shehu, isa patami, mamoud yakubu, fani kayode, dino melaye, and all those behaving like they will live in this world forever, one day we will all die.

put the name of the one u are supporting too, so u won't sound biased

Carcholce:
There’s no comfortability in Nigeria. Even if you have plenty money, the imaginary comfort ends inside your house.

who told you. Tiktok don open those oyinbo yansh them wella. We know there is baba nla suffering there too to even some citizen

Ireportlive:
We have 300 tribe in Nigeria, 3 major Ethnic group... Must anyone imagine it's Ibo for any reason

You look for bigotry and still form victim

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eyaa sorry, its just that only one tribe is known for this.

Same way we attribute all killings to Fulani herdsmen. After that we gat unknown gunmen

Ireportlive:
We have 300 tribe in Nigeria, 3 major Ethnic group... Must anyone imagine it's Ibo for any reason

You look for bigotry and still form victim

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eyaa sorry, its just that only one tribe is known for this.

Same way we attribute all killings to Fulani herdsmen. After that we gat unknown gunmen

Olumighty123:
Bros, you seriously need to stop this, I use God beg you. Please!!!

yea sure, once a while I just try to dish them their own soup. We would still go mute here and keep reading comments as usually