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So if you don’t like a ladies lifestyle why not leave? Go look for another lady, whose lifestyle you love. It was his choice to kill another human being. Instead of walking away like a normal rational human being, now he will either be put to death or spend the rest of his natural life in jail. Three lives destroyed. His, the wife and his son. The son is now an orphan.

LearnITsmash:
This news will be an avenue for bad ladies who lack manners and good lifestyle, to also come out and be advising women, instead of these bad ladies to advise them to work on their lifestyle before marriage, no man wakes up one day to beat his wife to death, find out what the lifestyle of the woman was like before hanging the man

lol he is 38. He was Dubem on kidivision 101 in the 90s and he was about 10ish. It was an NTA show about kids. He was a child in the 90s.

kenzosky:
This guy is not 38, he is more than 45, since he has decided to be a BITCH forever, what else can we do than to wish him a happy birthday, happy birthday Denrele.

Depression does not mean you are sad. You can be ‘happy’ and successful and still be depressed. Depression is a mental illness, a chemical imbalance in the brain.

Neddstark:
People should stop hyping depression. Its human to get sad once in awhile. Its abnormal when we dwell continually on it.

TheLordIsGr8:
I found you a suitable boyfriend. I would apply but you deserve better. Hurry. His inbox is almost full

https://www.nairaland.com/5240981/need-smart-girlfriend

I don’t know why Nigerians don’t like to let people be, the young woman said she is not ready, that she wants to discover herself first, that person is telling her she can make money in her husband’s house. Nigerian women are not a monolith. Some women will like to be married, some will like to be married later, some do not want to be married at all. People should stop imposing their beliefs and values unto other people.

Thank God! Very good goal from Oshoala. Scrappy win, a win is a win. We are playing France next, hmm.

Clickbait. A horrible attempt to expose supposed hypocrisy in feminists. Bashing feminist, NL favorite pastime.

koyyes:
Why did the op first describe the lady as a feminist?

What feminist reasons like that?

Is the op alright?

Fish head.

Exactly why should an able bodied human being be allowed to jump the line? Does she know if some people on the line are in a hurry? She felt entitled to some sort of preferential treatment. She is not a child, she is not disabled, she is not even pregnant. Being female is not a disability.

koyyes:
Of course. I am not surprised at all.

Anti feminists are the ones who reason exactly the way she does.

That's the reason they are against feminists in the first place.

I hope negroes learnt something today but I doubt.

Chikwelu again! You have a yellow card!

I think she is about to replaced, there is a player on the sideline.

gbosaa:
Chikwelu need to go. A sub is better than a red card no matter how valuable she is. She hasn’t been playing well.

Offside!!

Oh no!

Second half, here we go. If they can’t score let them just hold on to this one abeg.

I can’t believe in 2019 we still don’t know to take set pieces.

I agree.

gbosaa:
That wasn’t a goal abeg

Goal stands!

Wasn’t that handball?

Most rational people without an agenda already inferred from your posts that the title meant “should I leave and take the job in another state”

nahzyla:
Yes, the misleading title was deliberate.
I wanted to draw attention to the thread and get responses.

Too bad some people are already drawing ridiculous conclusions from the title.

Exactly! My father always told us girls “there is nothing like a free lunch” “nothing is free in life”

AntiBrutus:
Yes, I think that is one of it. If lots of them are dating you and you are not collecting, they are actually very uncomfortable. They think your mouth will be very sharp and they have no hold on you.

I take gifts o, but it will be something I can afford. No come collect my bb, give me iPhone X. Or change my Camry 2.2 to an AMG. That one is the gift of the devil, the type I flee from. This is the type they like to give; the one people will see and know there is a MAN in your life.

Abi, that escalated very quickly! Many are reaching here to confirm their biases.

ibkayee:
Lol oh boy

Exactly her life, her choice. It doesn’t mean she is right though. I am sure it wouldn’t be that difficult to see a man in Nigeria that will honor her wishes.

lilmax:
but its her life her choice na

why the attack? she can't believe in what she believes?

please people let women do whatever they want without judgement

if women are hailed for runs, there's nothing wrong in this

carry on

It seems like an interesting write up but it’s hard to read. Paragraphs.

KingsleyOnwuka:
I’m moved to write to anyone who’s passing through relationship-related heart trauma or depression. As a human being that you are, it is normal to feel bad when you’ve been hurt and jilted especially by someone u loved with all your heart. I want to avoid making this write-up too lengthy. So I want to simply just urge you to know that it takes a day to begin a story. And as well, it takes a day to end a story. But surely, every story that ever began will surely end. That’s the kind of mindset you should have towards any break-up situation you’re facing. The break-up of any relationship is not the end of anyone’s life. There’s more to life than relationship. Please, stop feeling depressed, and shake it off your life and forge ahead. Contemplating suicide because of a relationship-related depression is not a wise decision at all. Do away with any thought of suicide, and preserve your life for the better days ahead. There are better days ahead. The future is much brighter, the future holds much more. There is more to life than relationship. Meanwhile, do you know that you still have a long way to go in life? As you go on in life, you will still come across many more people (there’re over 7 billion on earth), you still have many more people to meet in life and some of them are people who will make life so lovely for you to the extent that you will forget the people you had in your life before. The person who broke up with you manner might have done so just to hurt you and show you that he/she has the key to your life. Now, I want you to prove him/her wrong. I want you to show him/her that the key to your life (whether you will be happy or sad at any point in your life) is not in anybody’s hands. Do not let anybody manipulate your life to the extent that you will want to end your life because your fellow human being walked out of your life; PLEASE STOP! IT’S TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT! When you terminate your life, the person will continue with his or her own life while you waste your own. Please again, do not think of wasting your life just because your fellow human being walked out of your life, it’s not a wise thought at all! Your life is for a very special purpose, your life is very important to the world and to your creator; do not disappoint your creator! You should rather disappoint the person who broke up with you. When someone breaks up with you in a hurtful manner, show the person that it’s no big deal, deny the person the fulfillment of seeing you sad and depressed. When that person says it’s over, surprise the person by quickly smiling and saying goodbye. The person will be very surprised and disappointed because he/she expected that you will stark killing yourself once he/she said it’s over.
Instead of trying to kill yourself when someone breaks up with you, you should look at your life and re-identify your vision in life. What is your ambition, what do you want to become in life? This is what should dominate your heart; you should be engrossed with thoughts of how to attain your vision and ambition in life. Just learn from the break up and be wiser. When going into a relationship next time, do so with the mindset that any story that has a beginning also has an end. Do not engage your emotions, do not invest too much hope, just make it an open-ended relationship that could take any twist at any time, just roll and flow with the person on a free-style basis, and always expect the worst to happen (so that it will not shock you when it does).
Has the worst happened, have you been hurt and abandoned? Please shake it off your life and forge ahead, there is more to life than relationship, and there are better and brighter days ahead!
Thanks for reading this write-up
Kingsley Onwuka

Obviously I said women, because the post was talking about women. I respect people’s choices, MAN or woman as long as they don’t impose their choice on me. I don’t judge ALL human.

A prostitute sleeping with my husband obviously causes me harm, however she is not the one responsible for my distress. So I will judge my husband.

A yahoo boy causes financial distress to me. I will judge, society will judge, that is why it is a crime.

Acidosis:
You don't judge other women? Because men do bad and society condone their wrong?

You won't judge a call girl that sleeps with your man, or a yahoo boy that hacks your account?

You won't judge a thing until it comes to harm you?

Obviously the title has been edited. The whole post has been edited. No need to be emotional in your reply. We are all grown folks here.

deltateam:
So those guys there are meant to ask for her name, then go and search for her online posts abi?
Ozhou

Obviously the title has been edited. No need to be emotional in your reply. We are grown folks here.

deltateam:
So those guys there are meant to ask for her name, then go and search for her online posts abi?
Ozhou

That’s a misleading title, she is not a feminist. Go to her Twitter, her tweets are against feminism.

collinsuchendu:
From: collinsuchendusblog.com

A suppose young lady who is a feminist has shared what was a bad experience for her when she wanted to use the ATM which has more than 20guys on the queue, the lady was expecting the guys to respect the fact that she is a lady and should be given special preference, but to her surprise the guys did not even look at her side. this is what she shared online:

Cc: lalasticlala

Source: https://www.collinsuchendusblog.com/2019/06/feminist-shares-her-bad-experience-at.html?m=1

I was just about to ask if you added SF. For Alcatraz and SV.

warriboy21:
I wanted to drive to San Francisco but at this point

I don tire.

Im fatigued from enjoyment


I moved my flight fwd so im flying back to Chicago today

Wow that’s a short wall.

Was LA like you pictured? Where next?

warriboy21:
Thanks!

I already left.

I was feeling kinda claustrophobic there.

Too much people and traffic

Love your thread. Are you still in LA?

Maybe because it’s in the romance section.

Ramos16:
Why do you feel they are doing it for the babes? Do you think the babes cannot earn more?

No no seriously, if you ONLY refer to marriage as the relationship NOT the ceremony, you would come to the same conclusion as I did. However, reading other replies and putting it into context I realized OP meant wedding which is the ceremony. I never say marriage if I mean wedding. I have always differentiated both that way.

crackhaus:
You're a funny chic
You're assuming everyone else put it in context after reading replies even though the first question was quite clear enough.
I'm almost certain everyone took it to mean ex-boyfriends/girlfriends.

That aside, you have disarmed me in my inability to get under your skin.