₦airaland Forum

humilitypays:
The greatest fear of all men and women are:


Growing old
Sickness/Death
Poverty (every Nigerian fear this including Presidents, Governors, Senators, etc that's why they steal and loot public money with reckless abandon )

Not getting married (99% of women fear this)

Since when do you speak for all men and women? Isn't it better to just state your own opinion? Anyway, just so you know i neither fear old age nor death, both are inevitable.

Ritzybeauty:
So in your forsaken mind, you are the real James bond.. Lol... When things go south, am sure we would find your scared self creating another topic here crying out for help, I detest guys who don't have balls to keep their mouth shut because you were just giving mere privilege and obviously not because you are smart..

beats my imagination how some ladies will only take you serioriously by treating them like trash. I don't get it, is it mental issue i don't know of?

WoundedLamb:
The more she loves you? Sure about that? While there's a possibility she loves you (and I wouldn't really call that stupid except you're saying you're not worthy of such love), I think the lady is probably using you to satisfy her desires/fantasies and here you are thinking you're the smart one. This whole "we're smarter than women" does not let some of you know when you're being used. It's possible she doesn't love you, so how you treat her doesn't really matter. She probably doesn't care about your love or money and just wants your body. The best way to get anything from a man is by making him believe he's in charge/control of the situation.

At the expense of her dignity and respect? I mean even while treated like trash?

You are doing a great job.

Candidlady:
Please where is CHILDOFDOOM ??


And to you that wanna take your life... Since you are the opposite gender abeg do dey go..

Minus one to be criminal/ritualist/herdmen/bandits/rapist gone for good

Rip in advance

i have been observing your comments and they are nothing short of horseshit. Are you doing this delibrately?

mikkycoins:
Are you sure it's 7k a month? That's slavery
Lagos ain't easy especially if you don't have something tangible doing.
How do I get across to you,I'll teach you something you can be doing in your spare time. It'll pay you 15k or above monthly.

i am intrested in this bro.

Basalt:
Let me just believe you wanted to type #70,000 and mistakenly missed to include one zero.

Because I don't understand how a teacher who is a graduate could be paid less than $15 per month.
This is horrible, but let me believe it's a typo error

it ain't a typo, the op has clarified that it's 7k. Horrible, but thats the reality in Nigeria.

Drizzy5001:
Which one be 7k? I stay in Yola, Where in Adamawa do you teach? It's too small, even if u choose Lagos what about ur house rent,abi u go dey sleep for under bridge?

Are you doubting the authenticity of his narrative? Even in Kaduna state,traditionally the most industrialised state in the North, some schools still pay graduate teachers 12k as salary, this i can tell you with a high degree of certainty.

Emperormartin:
Nigerians in Canada are different from Nigerians in Turkey, south Africa and ghana

Canada and Australia; these countries operate a points-based immigration system thus eligible only for the highly-skilled and educated, a stark contrast to countries like UAE and Malaysia which attracts the opposite.

Thermodynamics:
I wonder how you will be in a sane environment where everything works, where hard work pays and still commit crime.

GREED, AND NOTHING BUT IT.

debbydams:
scan can be messed up sometime oo..had similar experience,,since she is swearing just believe her pls

Bullshit! Anybody can swear, dosen't mean they are telling the truth. Morever, you seem to be backing because she is a woman, despite all evidences pointing she has been seeing other people before she met op, or possibly even cheated.

Aloysius10:
If you learn forex you can use 50k to make 250k daily trading the foreign exchange market

if you make 250k daily you would't be here.

Fiscus105:
You might be earning 1M and still be lamenting sir.

what's your point?

Timoleon:
You don’t explain to them. You live at peace with your parents. If giving them a few hours of your Sunday secures that peace, give it to them. Religion/spirituality is a personal journey. If you like go to church and study online or work online, they won’t think much of it. For the most part, people are more concerned with appearances than reality. So if going to church especially if you still stay under their roof allows you and them peace of mind, do it. If you aren’t under their roof, always tell them church was fine whenever they ask ‘how was church?’ Wether you go or not.
Seek peace at all times.

you are wise bro! Op, this is the best and most reasonable response so far. Do all it takes to be in good terms with your parent FOR THE SAKE OF PEACE.

suprised no one mentioned Germany, Op give it a shot, it worth it.

Tourist123:
Good morning guys. It’s 3:08am here I’m on my way to the Bus station for my return trip Home. Touring NYC was fun and educative. It changed my view about this country big time.

changed your view in what way?

Newborn27:
Yorubas will say"airinjina lao ri abuke okere"

Nigeria is better than this though....las Las NYC no be heaven niyen.

just a spot in a neighbourhood and you got carried away. Do you think there is any country in this world that is 100% free of rundown areas?

Gilbertase:
statements like this irk me. How many people in Nigeria are as comfortable as you are? The reality of about 90% of the pple who aren't as privileged as you, is so easily rubbished by you cos you have a posh life. Abeg. Newsflash! Every country on the surface of this earth is not so bad when you have money. Imagine the statement from this dude propped up in his luxury apartment, luxury car and well paid job 'Nigeria not so bad as you all paint it'. Nonsense

thanks for this reply, it's epic and onpoint.

PerkyJay:
Also add that Vaccination does not stop one from contracting COVID. I did 2 complete jabs. I contracted the Virus. No complications. Just small cough. I am still at the Isolation center. I am fine now. Guys, please vaccinate.

were you jabbed in Nigeria?

Studyinchina200:
Life is good here but Nigerians can’t enter China for now.

You can add me WhatsApp: +8616637133494
Kindly indicate NAIRALAND

thanks. Why can't Nigerians enter China? Is covid-19 the reason?

melodyogonna:
People, especially nowadays likes to convince themselves that relationships are all about money and sex, this mentality has in turn almost completely ruined the whole experience.

I love to think relationships are for times like this, having someone you can really call a friend, someone who wouldn't mind your disturbances, and who's willing to spend long hours talking with you, both physically, text chat, audio and video calls. Someone who's going to help make your free time eventful and satisfying. I truly hate what wokeness and society is trying to make this sort of bond and friendship become.

Exactly my thoughts. Its not all about demanding sex,a healthy relationship offers way more than that.

draj93:
Your story is just a summary of what am going through now. Most times i just have travel home weekends...
Not really comfortable with having a roommate but sometimes i get bored. Thanks to dstv, Netflix and my phone(my normal routines daily after work).

It's a phase though and am not really trying to force anyone into my life... i believe the right companion would come when it's time....

Enjoy it while it last

well said, how about video games?

Loneliness is a terrible thing, but you can be in a relationship and still feel lonely due to lack of chemistry and compatively. Dating someone you sync easily with is one of the best things in this world.

Divoc19:
You mean most ladies don't eat bread? Ha!, Tell them they are missing

as in dey like to dey form especially in the prescence of guys.

HurleyHM:
It's quite hard to post pictures and videos here due to the size restriction but I will continue to give it a shot.

Great thread, bring it on!

deavicky:
irrespective of the sweetness of the bread I think it is unwise for one finish a loaf of bread just in a meal.

what makes it unwise?

900warriorz:
if I chop 3 loaves, nothing go do me

you be hoodlum. 3 at a go?

eROCK247:
The full loaf.

I got myself in trouble when I went to live with my aunt briefly after secondary school. First morning breakfast they said we were having bread and tea. I wanted to be modest so I managed half the loaf. Imagine my shock when I was scolded and told that the bread was meant for the entire household (5 persons)! Bread when only me go finish on a normal day o!!!

I later adjust sha. Before I left there I couldn't take more than 4 slices.

thanks for sharing. I think the economic hardship ravaging the country made them act that way.

Divoc19:
Bread has reduced in size self
With a very creamy hot chocolate, I can finish one loaf

thank God say you no dey form like most ladies

Lagbaja88:
Cheap food

do you know food prices in Nigeria are among the highest in the world?

Bahamas95:
Judging by what I have heard about New York I don't think I can live there just like I can't live in Lagos.......I hate stress.

you are not alone.

fukNaija:
Lol. 250k don release them all from there. I remember that year for Abeokuta.. Them snap us. Post us. Then tell us to pay 250k each.. Case closed. We collect number and start to pay dues to avoid another raid..

Everybody na scam for naija

i'm speechless at how rotten the country is.