₦airaland Forum

zinaunreal:
a tribalist on the loose. You need slap for mentioning tribe. You lucky im busy, would've been all out for you today

I think the tribe question is very appropriate; there are some tribes who don’t joke with age group.

In my tribe, the way two people greets each other depends on their age difference. Though ladies are usually told to greet their husband as if they are greeting someone their senior even if their husband is younger. Even with that greeting, the lady is ever conscious that you are junior to her and that very fact will one day surface to spoil a good mood or event or social gathering.

OP should also note that, ladies are more mature than guys of the same age and when someone said the lady may later become the husband, this may be the reason.

At the end of the day, there is nothing like ‘love in a vacuum’ or unconditional love. Since Love is conditional, it is truly no longer love, but like that is based on some conditions on ground. On her part, she is giving up a lot including towards herself to ‘love’ you....sorry like you...when those conditions begins to fade, she will snap back into reality faster compare to if she was not older than you...

biacan:
97% of Nigerian men are suffering from masturbation mostly young men...... It takes the grace of the creator for one to overcome lust....


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For all those masturbators quoting me please that's not my hand writing

Sister, can you share how you came about those figures?

Or is it from the personal experience of those you have had some type of contact with, past and present?

Checked86:
because google contents are written by God. as if you do not know that this topic and the comments here are already part of google

I guess you must be replying to someone else.

May I add to your topic; google contents contain opinions as you have indicated, there are also scientific contents; I doubt someone using google to research a topic will pick opinions over scientific contents.

Checked86:
and sell as eggs or display as an art?

Yes to sell, go to google or YouTube and type ‘plastic egg’....there are fake eggs out there and there are instruction videos on YouTube on how to know the fakes from the real ones.

marvin904:
i don't understand..
she wanted to abort the baby or what

Read n learn.

Checked86:
big lie! no one in his right senses will take his time to build plastic fish. how much is fish that one would take that trouble. come on.

Dem dey do plastic egg that cost less than a fish per unit.

horia:
I read everything yet don't understand her /the reporter's initial statement of "pregnant Virgin". She never mentioned anything about... But she said she tried Ivf.
My question; did she get pregnant trough that or?

Yes, that is what the article said.

The first person she met was the IVF specialist who told her that due to her irregular hormone, she will need an egg donor + a sperm donor; she was not happy and that is why people told her it is not possible for her to do it.

She eventually went to a fertility clinic who did the IVF with her own eggs.

Amirullaha:
Wont the hymen break during childbirth

Not necessarily, she might go for C-section.

NwaNimo1:
Bad news for drivers.......

They still need drivers, the drivers will be retrained in hitect and will be professional drivers.

They will always be available for emergencies, look at it as a plane on auto-pilot....still needs pilots.

This story sound made up, I will just wait for the part two...

Somethings that didn’t add up:
1. Father gave up on hearing the news.
2. Sister gave birth and gave up on heating the news.
3. Prisoner doing video call.

lefulefu:
bros this is naija not jandon
if dem get any small disagreement right now that guy go collect the car from her faster than the speed of light .is not the nigeria we staying .at the time Timaya and Empress relationship was going well he bought a car for her but when their relationship went south bros collect the car back from her fast fast .

Agreed, what you stated also happened abroad.

My point is that, if the matter is brought before a court to decide, they will all rule even in Nigeria that, gifts are gifts and can’t be taken back unless they were deceitfully received.

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with.

In that case, you were not the one that let them go as you claimed...They are the one that let you go, because they love someone else, despite your professed love for them.

lefulefu:
In otherwords the dude just bought the car for himself cos in marriage ur property is also my property. Congrats to the couple .

They are not married, even in marriage gifts are not marital property.

Though, it’s dicey in this situation if the car is a gift or an item given on the condition of marriage like an engagement ring.

An engagement ring legally need to be returned if the marriage did not take, since it was given in anticipation of a marriage. So, this car can been seen in this light...but once the marriage has been contracted, the car is hers 100%. She brought it into the marriage, it predates the marriage and just like the engagement ring, the guy cannot get it back after marriage as the lady fulfilled her part by marrying the guy.

Tomoyayi:
Someone has to be held responsible for the crash.

Not in all cases. Investigations of this nature usually start neutral and could change if something comes up that indicates a criminal act.

Awoo88:
I did not know that! I checked and discovered that numbers can truly be delisted.

It is ‘delisted’ in that, their app will no longer map your name to your number for future queries.

However, to make sure your number don’t get relisted again the future, when someone else who have your number downloaded the app, they have to keep that number in their database.

Usually, they do this by moving delisted numbers to a different table in the database and strip them off of the identifying info like name, etc...this table is checked each time a database update is carried due to someone downloading the app and any matches number will not be downloaded.

Why is it a criminal investigation right out of the get go?

Daejoyoung:
lol, the lady couldn't stop him, not necessarily because she is selfish but because it was a matter of life and death, she had to save her life.
l agree with your post though.

But, we are saying the samething sha...agreed, it was a matter of life and death, but she was thinking more about herself at that time compare to the guy and his feelings; which makes her selfish.

Selfishness in itself is not a bad thing. We are all naturally wired to be selfish, it is a survival instinct and that is how God created us...it takes great courage, determination and working against your instincts and sometimes best judgment to be selfless.

kimbraa:
What's the hypocrisy in what I said? Someone did something to save someone's life out of love, and that automatically means she should say "yes" to his proposal? Why do most of you think rendering help automatically gives you a pass to someone? SHM.

This is not an ordinary help.

Half of the guy is living and breathing within the lady. The guy would have died as a result and they were together before he denoted his kidney and the lady must have known before the donation that the guy loved her and what’s to move the relationship higher. Any lady out there knows which guy among her many friends wants them beyond friendship.

The lady would have stopped him, she didn’t because she was selfish. If a guy who is interested in you starts buying you expensive gifts or about to sacrifice their lives in other to save yours, you should stop them and tell them that, you don’t love them the way they do to you and despite their sacrifice, the relationship will not go anywhere.

Don’t wait until you have fully benefited from their live saving sacrifice to tell them No.

coolestofall:
I wish more pple can emulate her. She simply said hw she felt even though she'll b forever grateful 2 him.

Oga proposer, next time u self propose b4 giving out ur remaining kidney.

You think if he had proposed or offered his kidney on the condition that, she should marry him afterwards, she would have said No in that state and prefer rather to die?

Looking at her reasons, something tells me that they will get marry eventually. She didn’t allude to anything negative in rejecting the guy, unless she is not truthful in what she said.

Greene66:
Its called Privacy

I have given my phone number to numerous people over the years and most likely that number would have spread. That does not now mean, that anyone who gets hold of that number should know my name! I see some people photo on truecaller. Imagine that.

If someone is planning your assassination, it will be so easy to get you with true caller. Its wrong. I also removed my number from their database.

Another provoking thing is that truecaller gets details, from people's phonebook. That does not guarantee accuracy. Nigerians save numbers anyhow. Someone can save my number as Greene.66 Nairaland. (Does that mean its my name?) just like I save my mechanic number as "Ahmed Mechanic". Now, anyone who gets that man's number will know he is a mechanic. Is it right? I saw my friend's number as "Janet Runs" (Are you kidding me?). Truecaller should be scrapped. Its unfair

O boy! I no like true caller, look as dem just open your friend yash for public....Janet Runs, so your friend na Runs girl for one guy, but she go dey form for you.

Awoo88:
It is those who foolishly allow permission to read phone book you should blame. Removing your number from the app will only work for your phone. Others who have the app and allow permission to contact will make you name available to any person

If you use the link to remove your number, it remove it really does not remove it from their database, but mark it such that if someone with your number in their contact installed the app and give permission to read their contact list, the app will exclude your importing your number from their contact as there will be a marker on their database to exclude your number because you have delisted it.

It is the same way that do not call list work in the USA. The fact that someone else who have my number in their contact list gave true caller the right to read their contacts, does not mean true caller have the right to do so, especially when the real owner have opt out.

Plus, I don’t you can install the app if you decline to give access to your contact.

I have removed all my numbers from true caller, but uses the web version sometimes to check the identity of some unknown callers.

divinehand2003:
IBB the renowned Maradona of Nigeria is the fellow causing you all these travails. He should have been man enough to publicly own up to his first letter. But rather, IBB dodge am and secretly released another statement.

To your tents oh Israel

IBB is not the same guy, we use to know.

He is so old and fragile now, don’t thing he is capable of public of speaking. He speaks through spokesmen and issuing statements and have issued a statement affirming that he is the source.

Kobicove:
As far as I'm concerned, the pastor in the centre of this scandal still has some nagging questions to answer...

The Otobo girl gave very vivid descriptions and named names...only someone who had first hand knowledge could have done that

This whole saga is looking more like a well orchestrated plan right from the beginning, the end of which we may not have seen.

Ms Otobo made some serious allegations against Festus Keyamo, the kind that could lead to him loosing his license to practice law in Nigeria, if true.

The onus is now on him to defend himself. He must not make the mistake of doing that on the media, he should straight to court and file a suite against Stephenie for bring his good name into repute.

JohnnySavage:
Thanks. but can the person do it now or later after the reg. closes?

Anytime, you might be asked to pay N2,500 if done after registration...so it’s preferable you do it before.

janga02:
You can sell it to a frnd that want to do jamb.if u get any bd that is willing to buy it from you. PM me I will explain the processs of changing ur name to the buyer name to you.

How is this possible? I thought profile IDs are tied to the form?

JohnnySavage:
Lets assume someone whats to change his name so what exactly is he sending to the code 55109??

Text the correct name to 55109 from the phone with which you registered, you can also do that plus do many other changes e.g. course/Univeristy changes, etc just login to your profile.

MRAKBEE:
HIV is the only STD listed there that has no cure..
But some of our ladies fear pregnancy more than the virus.
Yeah raw sex is BAE but HIV is like the DEVIL.
ZIPPING UP IS NOT EASY BUT U CAN STILL ENJOY SEX WITH N100 condom.
Or u had better stay faithful to a faithful partner.
Cos when HIV enter your body ehn u go begin fast and pray but all to no avail.
Ur D*ckson or Vera will be weak and the devil will be happy

STDs caused by virus are incurable; they can only be treated.

Oral herps is not STD shall and it’s common, about 70% of the population have it. Mothers transmit it to their babies, when are young via kises, licking baby feeding bottle before feeding the baby, etc.

datola:
So, the Facebook rescuer still left the child on the highway to take the pictures and post on Facebook.

Hmmm....

Didn’t you notice that, there was someone else in the vehicle taking pictures?

Ubenedictus:
there is nothing like holy water and holy oil there don't start making stuff up...

as you can see the money for baptism and confirmation are small on purpose, these are sacraments and the Church doesn't commercialise them. but there is a stipend attached to them even though it is small, it is based on the biblical principle that a labourer deserve his wages if u are poor you don't pay.

marriage though is different, the choir and all other church groups like the urshers who left their house on Saturday to help with ur marriage will have to be paid...

Dude,

Which church dem dey for pay ushers and choir people?

Contrary to your assertions, Holy water aka miracle water and holy oil has been commercialized, I don’t want to name churches, but if you are in 9ja you will agree to that.

God’s blessings and sacrament suppose to be free. Also remember that these practices started recently, even in 9ja....10 years ago no church charges for these things....did God change?

kilokeys:
No biggie... If we were to be stuck in the old.. Bibles would be scrolls. And we would all wear gowns and sandals. No mics and all..

Freeze is distracted.

Lots of biggie here!

This is pure commercialization of the church, the same type of commerce that Jesus angrily drove out of church.

Baptism - N500
Marriage - N5000
Confirmation -N600
Harvest - N10000
Holy Water - N1000
Holy Oil - N2000

That is what I expect to see on an ecommerce website or App not a church’s.

I wonder how much Jesus paid John The Baptist, be he agreed to baptize him...wait, let me search for it in my Bible...in case am slow and you came upon the passage be me, please post it under...