seborrhic:
But how did she expect to collect the money since he wouldn't have made her the beneficiary on his death,as she is only a girlfriend?

The essence of the boy friend meeting the lawyer is to claim the inheritance after being of age, the next step would have been the money released to his bank account.

Bitch probably have access to his bank details and ATM card from where she would enjoy the spoil.

kkfada:
Go to labour court.

You self, na the 20k wey dem dey pay a month na him go take go labor court so?

Godwin4444:
The most annoying thing about these people is that na dem call tinubu drug baron pass

Imagine a tribe who are d most jailed throughout d world n are d highest drug pushers calling someone a drug baron

These peoples relatives will also come online n call tinubu a drug dealer

Like seriously I wish we can add tribe to our passport so the whole world can know d real criminals


I notice one thing that since tinubu won election igbos no update us about his health condition again

Suddenly tinubu hands n legs no dey shake again

Igbo propaganda na grade A, I twale for una

e get why, birds of the same feather flock together and it takes one drug baron to know another!

There is one vital instruction followed by another missing from that list, Israel & IDF of all people should know better…

6. Remove all your clothes, Yes be butt naked!
7. We will give you brand new clothes.

E get why…..don’t trust those guys for one minute, they could be hiding suicide vest under their clothing.

Ladies, please & please if you must do anything, please don’t die a virgin, e get why…..terrorists are waiting for you to complete their number of virgins….😂

All hands must be on deck to prevent them from getting their hands close to those 72 virgins!

At make you dey put say, the story is fictional and make it more believable!

Which year Fred Fvck Vivian self, because HIV no longer kills, it would have been easier and Vivian to kill Fred through poisoning those food.

For men, the chances of getting the virus through a singular sexual encounter with an infected ladies is very low. It is like 0.08% based on a study.

https://stanfordhealthcare.org/medical-conditions/sexual-and-reproductive-health/hiv-aids/causes/risk-of-exposure.html

If Vivian was not ‘dried up’ like Fred despite carrying the virus, it is most likely that she is taking medications.

And if she is on medications, she cannot transmit the virus as the viral loads would be very low and she will even be able to live a normal. This even begged the question, Fred have a lucrative promising job, a scholarship and access to the company health care and they could not give him free HIV drugs after detecting it? They just let their promising rising star go just like that?

Abagworo:


When small or inexperienced children talk you'll know. I don't know aboit others but to me love does not exist but rather tolerance and compromise. If eventually you think you love someone and marry him your eyes go clear in one year and you will divorce and start looking for another love .

Here are mine thinking that, I am the only one that have this mindset.

Only God is capable of love, anyone that say they love someone in my books are committing sacrilege.

What we humans call love is actually LIKE, like @ jewessgratitud3 stated, she is looking for her ‘spec’, her spec is the person that checks most of the boxes in her laundry list of ‘what it is to be a good man’.

Every lady have this list and they defer one from the another, guys also have this list….and when we find the person that checked the most boxes, we say we are in ‘love’ no you are not in love, you just found someone that checked off most of your list.

If you settled with your supposed lover now, the truth is, tomorrow you can still walk into someone that checked more of your boxes or your current lover can even uncheck some of the boxes that were previously checked with time as a result of nature, age, circumstances, etc, so what do you do when that happens?

God is love and loves us unconditionally and He is the only one capable of love…at our best, we can only love conditionally and conditional love is LIKE because it is based on existing conditions that may or may not be there tomorrow.

Come to think of it, we even loved God conditionally talkless of our fellow human beings.. We loved him because He first loved us and gave His Son to die for our sins….if not for that sacrifice, we wouldn’t have loved God….therefore we don’t even love God, we only LIKED Him because He sent His Son to died for us, we liked Him because He will protect us, we liked Him because He will take us to heaven with mansions, we like Him because He forgives our sins, the boxes goes on and on.

Jewessgratitud3:
author=Newborn27 post=126658739]Wow!


This is deep!

I don't even know what to say or where to start from... truly you're courageous and strong.


At this point, if it comes fine, if not, fine. I'm not the one to make such plans. If I get what I want, oh.. why not but if not, men e go hard o. Like I said... In this year alone, I've had two suitors. A very responsible guy and a man but the thing with me is that I'm too picky. if I don't like you first, it will be very difficult. These two were not my spec and I won't trap myself in a loveless marriage all because of age or "time is going " , if it's not what I want, I won't do it.



Like I told you before, what tickles every one's fancy is different likewise what bothers them.
You may fancy all the bolded and I may not. What you want out of marriage is different from what I want. So it's not a one size fits all" thingy or compulsory that we all must like to do or have things the same way. That is why you will never see me envy married people or people with children because to me it's really nothing. Now, my Mom married at the age of 10 . Had all of us before 30 but died in her Early 40s. So of what use was her early marriage and child-bearing to her? Fine they use us to remember her but she as person, what did she enjoy in her life for achieving those? Just suffered to raise children that she didn't live to see even one grandchild? Abeg abeg.


Why? That's like saying I regret.. I have saidvit countless times that I've never regretted it for once . Ok let me even pause for a moment and try to remember if I ever wished I did.......... 🤔 🤔 🤔.... Ogbeni nothing like that o. Rather I've always thought that if I had married maybe by now I would have left the marriage cos e for don taya me and that's the truth. In fact.. sometimes I used to silently thank my stars that I'm not married with kids in this economy because I can't endure suffering and hardship with children. Not like Im wishing myself hardship but men in this present economy, everyone is facing it and someone like me can't take the heat with such responsibilities even when shared.
There's a friend of mine that always wish to switch places with me saying I'm enjoying because I don't have anything bothering me and I'll tell her I'm glad I don't have those bukata.



Stigmatization? LoL.. see so far e no affect my pocket, whatever anyone says in that regards does not bother me. it's when you listen or go close to people they'll stigmatize you. I don't keep companies. I'm a loner and it helps a lot to stay away from such. No be if I smile with you you come know wether I don marry or not. I feel free saying it here because no body knows me in person and it all ends here. Of course some people in the past have said some things like your twin is married you're here forming oge, but I didn't give a damn because when I look at their lives im doing far better than them and living life to the fullest. Abi What is life about? No be enjoyment? See it's all in your head o.life no hard reach like that




I love my family. They will never pressure you. My dad before he died would be like, if you do anyhow I'll take my daughter back ( referring to my in-laws.) So all his inlaws are pals with him. They'll be like ogor, oya make we go chill. He will tell you, don't stress them for me o. As for the single ones he'll make sure he provides our needs so we don't look outside. Even as a working class lady, my dad when he collects his pension, he will buy a bag of rice and share to every one of us in our various houses. He was still giving me money till his death in 2012 ( miss you pop). My dad na guy man. Him no send o.

Forget, this life is what you make of it. I try as much as I can to enjoy myself and make every minute of it count

@ Jewessgratitud3 what you must realize or had but ignored is that, life is full of compromises!

That perfect man you love, I mean that your spec, would not love you as you loved him, it is never equal.

You might not be the spec to your spec. The most perfect ones without faults are angels and if they show up today as possible suitors for you, you will be imperfect before them.

You are bold and courageous but the downside of that is, you are too selfish. Don’t get me wrong, we are all created to be selfish and our very natural survival instincts is built by God to be selfish, but sometimes we also have to balance that with empathy. Empathy is the ability to put one’s self on the side for a moment and listen to the other person, travel in their shoes for a moment and see if you can feel what they feel or understand but not condole what they do atimes.

A healthy relationship is one with two imperfect people who have acknowledged their imperfection and have come together to help each other in the journey to that more perfect self, the truth is, none of will ever achieve that perfection hence it is a journey.

You are also a believer, I don’t mean it in the religious sense, but they are parallel. As a believer one is tied or anchored, and that anchored restricts or defines all your life experiences.

The downside to that is, all your life you don’t get to live to your full potentials, you don’t explore the unknowns in your life, you don’t venture out on faith, you try to predict and orchestrate what would happen in the future before going on the journey.

Lastly, you are a lady and probably leaving in Nigeria, have you started thinking about, retirement, old age? When your strength and intellect would not be as sharp? Who would be that next of kin you would trust your care and affair to while you age?

If you were living abroad with enough money saved, you can check yourself into a nursing home or some type of Assisted Living arrangement, how are you going to do that in Nigeria?

Now your strength is top notch and you can bend an Iroko tree, but there will come a time when you must rely on someone, a close confidant to fetch you a clean glass of water, who would that be?

Now you have company of people around you in church, works, the local club, suitors, admirers, etc there will come a time that those companies and admirers would be no more and the only ones that would be left would be families. Mom & Dad would be no more, and siblings will be dealing with their own sets of aging challenges, who will be there for you, to make sure you are properly taken care off, they make sure no one takes advantage of you?

eepeepook:
She’s talking rubbish no different from loose people claiming everyone has sex. If such was the case, incels would not exist.

We know she is stretching it because there are no absolutes positions or situations.

But she hits the nail on the head and what she meant and you know is….majority of the girls who are actively sexual out there have done abortion either actively or passively by taking preventive medications.

I think she is on the mark here because that will be close to about 99.9% and what is the percentage of incels worldwide again? I know they are not up to 0.001% but I gave them a whooping 100% boost by reserving 0.1% for them.

StOla:
Foolish sensational headlines.

I don't know why losers keep grasping at straws with sensational headlines, that has nothing to do with the content.

How does stating that the office of a CJN has powers he considers should be subdued, become an abuse of power when the function is legitimate and the extant law?

All the Justices including the CJN himself were at this farewell dinner.

So you think that leaving vacate slots at the Supreme Court un-filled is not abused?

Even the zones represented, only about two and they are in the North that have the full 3 slots occupied, why do you think it is so?

If the power is not abused all the geopolitical zones will have their allocated slot of three justices filled.

I sure na one of those women wen dey spend sleepless nights for night vigils praying for husband by fire by thunder na him write dis one so…

Or one of there close sympathizers.

As husbands no dey come ‘by fire by thunder’ na to start to dey use psychology for dem head na bi dis!

Bobloco:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/10/supreme-court-judgement-well-be-victorious-tomorrow-labour-party-declares/amp/

no pressure 😂

More like, The Supreme Court has fixed Thursday to DISMISS the Motion filed against Tinubu by Atiku & Obi.

Anyone expecting anything otherwise is deceiving themselves.

rdsco:
“He told me that he would give me 20million dollars , buy a house for me in America and connect me to his rich friend in America where I would be driving big cars. I was excited.


All these one one kidney and you didn't notice a red flag?

With the way the country is going now, people would even start auctioning their body parts on the street in exchange for bread!

Pray that Nigeria should not happen to you or any of your friends or family.

A hungry man is a victim and vulnerable by default and it is only a matter of time, an opportunist would take advantage of him.

Was black market Forex lawful before?

It is called ‘black’ market for a reason. These are just much talk about nothing.

They know the system and those profiting from round trips, because they are the ones releasing dollars to them in millions.

Additional, until they start arresting all those Aboki and Mallams around Transcorp Hilton Hotel Abuja and International Airport Lagos truly prosecute them and throw them and their Bosses in prison, they have not started anything.

koladata:
You have a very strong point here, but there was a way this was being controlled back in the days. All we need is a strong auditing system.
The major use of dollar is basically for payment of international bills including school fees and importation of goods. Dollars purchased on the ETF can only be used for services by major international merchants and dollars used for importation must evidently show proof of the imported goods.

Even 100 dollar monthly limit for every naira card will go a long way to reduce the need of dollar. I usually don't need more than this to renew my services as a tech entrepreneur and this is the major reason I visit aboki.

Back in the days it is very hard for you to round trip this 100 dollars monthly limit even if you have 100 naira-cards with 100 dollars monthly limit because at the end, the international charges are high and what you will get back after your round trip won't be up to 100 dollars.

It is not a rocket science, just create a forensic unit that follows the dollar and back it up with a strong audit system. Every importation must be done by registered companies and once found guilty while trying to fault the system , you are ban for life. Create a system that Give every company and every transaction a frequent code name where the forensic unit monitor transactions by their code names so they can't go back door to Strick deals with importers. Every imported goods are linked to some kind of port of lading and if after three month you didn't import anything, then return the dollar and face jail.



 

Bros, you dey talk as if no bi Nigeria bi dis.

If the audit system you talk about is created and implemented, we would not even need this Naira/Dollar ETF.

The bank managers know the exact people who do these dollar round-trips, the Government know and aid them.

If they carry mopo go Transcorp Hilton in Abuja and round up those Mallam just from Monday to Friday, Dollar will fall, but I will bet you, that will never be done!

Do the same at International Airport Lagos, sanity will be restored to the system…..before these round trippers recover from the audacity and shock of such a raid, they would have taken huge risks and wiped out of business.

It is only in Nigeria that economic sabotagers are aided and given cover by the central government while they work in broad day light and the government is ‘crying rivers’ for solution to the problem that is of their own creation and can only be fixed by them.

TheBillyonaire:


I have stated that numerally but the CBN Governor have no knowledge of this. I see no reason we should not have a trading platform so we can bid and sell currencies digitally and get taxed instead of hoarding the physical tenders. Launching a local trading platform will transform the economy and prosper Nigerians.

They keep threatening those profiteering on the arbitrage as if they are even smart enough to know how to stop it. Until the Government have square pegs in square holes they can not do a fucck, cos no one can stop anyone from benefitting from the rot they create.

It is Naira/Dollar ETF is not going to work, not only that the CBN will never create, but they will never allow entity to do so!

The reason is simple, CBN want to hoard the dollar, they want to be the only dollar liquidity source in Nigeria period!

Creating such EFT will see them lose their control total control and autonomy over the dollar.

With such an ETF all the foreign Airlines and MTN whose funds have trapped in Nigeria would not be crying to CBN to allow them repatriate their money, they will simply use their Naira to load up enough Naira/Dollar ETFs and then sell same internally and collect the proceeds into their foreign accounts in their home Country.

Also remember as with Futures and ETFs if the owner of you the security wants to take possession of it, you must provide the physical cash. e.g. if MTN sells their Naira/Dollar ETFs, the buyer can sell it and CBN will be on the hook to transfer dollars to the exchange who will then credit the seller.

Additionally don’t forget that speculators are mainly in the game to make money, as the guarantor, they will bleed CBN dry because CBN have to keep up with liquidity in the system as speculators take profits and cashes from time to time.

Babangidapikin:

Isn't he chasing clout ... Jagaban don't have his time , the Supreme Court is the one to give Judgement base on evidence already submitted...so tell him to stop clout chasing ..

Jagaban don’t have his time, but his lawyers were is the USA fighting to prevent CSU from releasing his records, according to their filings, the release would tarnish his image.

They are now in the USA taking FBI to court to stop a freedom of information request.

The problem is not the Supreme Court, most people know already that the Court would side with Tinubu.

Tinubu and his lawyers knows also that they will win at the Supreme Court but they are still fighting against FBI requests because they know the damage is beyond Nigeria shores.

How would BAT be able to maintain dignity, parity and standing with world leaders his drugs dealings details are revealed to the whole world? He will be side show, a point of gossip and a public ridicule on the international stage.

This is what discourages many people from running for political offices because despite the fact that they may have repented, their past lives will catch up with them.

IyaTola:
Yes
Amina Lawal Kurami (born 1972) is a Nigerian woman sentenced to death by stoning for adultery and for conceiving a child out of wedlock. Lawal was sentenced by a court in Funtua, in the northern state of Katsina, in Nigeria, on the 22nd of March, 2002.

Bros, those are penal code punishment, they are always by default bias against women.

Imagine how can you stone a women to death for adultery and conceiving a child out of wedlock, if the same is apply to men, 90% of the male population would be extinguished overnight!

I have seen lots of those, I was really talking about capital punishment under the criminal code.

My point really is, just like the penal code is biased against women, it appears that the criminal code is biased against men.

God1000:
End of the road for him, death penalty awaits him.

What is the latest with Ataga Usifo case? That girl must be given capital punishment too

Has any lady/woman ever received capital punishment in Nigeria before?

I am drawing a blank….🤔

anonymous1759:
I lost interest on BBN after Efe’s set. The rest has been shambolic to me DavidO fit know know her truly

True true, I no know say BBN don finish not to talk of knowing dis lady or who was the winner! She is just forcing herself, her 15 minutes of fame would soon be up.

Wetin make me response self, na Efe wey you mention…..Where Efe the Logistics dey self? If Efe fame fit erase like dis, all dis ones go fade too.

Kingsnairaland:
I challenge you to find three things that everyone on earth can agree on..

All of you are ignoring the main terrorist = The United States of America and her puppets (NATO).

They do not blow up one or two buildings, they blow up countries.

They do not kidnap one or two people, they kidnap thousands (Guatemo bay)

They do not kill two or 200 people, they kill thousands to millions of people

They do not steal oil tankers, they steal oil blocs and even a whole country.

They do not belong to one or two terror groups, they create and fund terror groups (Taliban, Isis, al aeda, hamas, boko haram etc).

While you lot are here deceiving yourselves calling small flies terrorists, the main terrorist is out there constantly causing death and misery all over the world.

They steal lands and give to whoever they like.

Only few understand the above..


Israel should find a way to live side by side with Palestinians.

Yea right, it was the US and NATO that forced and coerced Hamas to invade Israel and start killing civilians, children and pregnant women.

What were they think, that Israel will turn the other check and pray that God should forgive them their sins?

Or like Religion bigots in Nigeria, Israel should instead call for a 40 days and 40 nights National fasting with the flag half mask?

They should quiz the husband, it is too convenient that, it is when he left for evening prayers that the killers strucked!

DARLINGTON869:
Let me tell you guys the game here. She's purposely doing all these to force Will Smith into filing for a divorce so she can take half his wealth. Biggest mistake Will ever did was not making her sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage. Will Smith knows this very well and that's why he is just holding on and avoiding her by all means. Man is stuck between the devil herself and the deep blue sea of losing half his hard earned wealth

You missed the mark!

She can still file divorce any day, any time…whether Will like it or not and still walk with the half.

siofra:
Yes.
That's because Nedu came and persuaded her to leave her relationship with her ex (she was already pregnant) and married her immediately.
It's not like she was being deceptive.

If Nedu already knew she was pregnant for another guy before their marriage as you claimed, why then did she said..

”during the course of our marriage Nedu became insecure when he found out the first child was not his?”

She also stated that, Nedu found out after he took both kids for a DNA test and it was then according to her own words….

”…Nedu started doubting the paternity of our daughter the small one and he took them for a test and unfortunately for him, it was the first son that was not his.”

Is that a Court or village people meeting?

Just 10 days left, it would have been 40 days and 40 nights; the next one should be 40 days!

I thought, Jesus said we should Fast and Pray, I see the first talked about and nothing on the later.

Inlands:
What the hell do they gain from spreading unverified rumours?

Clicks and money!

sweerychick:
So never knew United airlines fly to Owerri

It’s United Nigeria Airlines and not United Airlines, the image on the front page is deceptive.

In most cases, it is the left one that is bigger and the reason is simple and it because we have more right handed men.

In the other room, men’s right hand goes straight to the woman’s left breast and that breast receives more attention, massage, exercise, pressing, sucking, etc thereby making it to grow bigger.

Am coming

hmmm

marenx:
A christian doesn't speak like that.

They are Jews and not Christian and as such they are ardent followers of the laws, especially the one that says…..an eye for an eye.

So, as the whole world is sympathetic to their plight, it is high time they extract their own pound of flesh and I sure believe Hamas saw it coming and never expected Israel not to strike back and with fury and vengeance.