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It is not sacrifice if you derive benefits from it, if it brings you joy, happiness, fulfillment, etc! don’t call it sacrifice, you simply did it for some selfish self motivating gains that you will derive from it.

KingDash09:
Funny enough I’ve never fuckkked any girl in a public place before

The way you said it, it appears that is one of your life long fantasy that you can’t wait to check off your todo list!

Wishing you the best of lucks😜.

1TrippleCee:
Was it really necessary for the husband to tell her. Just thinking out loud

That is men for you, including yourself….

That is why it is a foolishness to put head for inside husband and wife quarrel, last-last na you dem go take settle the matta at the other room!

Nwodosis:
It is still a win win for the Landlord. The Landlord will simply tell her to fix the apartment the way she met it and collect her caution fees. Na now she buy market that may take her to prison for malicious damage.
There is no way you will park into a house and the house will remain the same when you are parking out. What of the wear and tear on the house fittings like the doors, tiles, wardrobe, wall paints etc
Are they not damages? How do you quantity such damages?

I am not in anyway supporting her, but caution fees is not for wear and tear.

After a period of usage, it is expected by both Landlord & Tenants that, there will be reasonable wear and tear due to use.

No! Tenant is not required to restore the house to the condition they met it, they are only required to not damage the place and to leave it broom-clean.

Yes! It is understandable that Landlord may need to put some facelift e.g. paint, etc in order to re-rent the place out, this is not what the caution fee is for.

The Landlord is just making the place attractive for the next renter and may even increase the rent as a result of that, which would directly benefit the Landlord and not the previous Tenant.

She does not look happy!

Anything Poly.... when it comes to marriage is against the law in the United State, Bigamy is a punishable offense.

Therefore, she is not actually married to to two guys, they are either both her boyfriends or she is married to one and the other is her boyfriend.

popweezy:
Abeg If the strip show one thick red line and one very faint line what does it mean

Na steal you steal the strip, because dem dey write am for the wrap.

In any case if the second line dey faint, na him be HIV 🦠positive bi that!

sulakishop:
Reason why Nigeria is in this mess.

Does this improve the value of the Naira and put food on the table?

Actually it does, sexual education and awareness is very important is very vital in any economy.

If the population is aware of how to avoid these sexually transmitted diseases and even unwanted pregnancies, that would increase our purchasing power indirectly by rechanneling our money and resources to other vital areas.

These diseases also rob the economy of many vital manhour people people would stay home from work to nurse them which collectively would drive down our labor output as a Nation.

There are many other benefits that can be tied to the economy of the State.

tunjijones:
We are heavy spenders...

How wld a celebrity like Mr ibu not have health insurance (HMO)?

You can get a good health insurance for as low as 100k a year. Yet they spend more than that buying dstv subscription yearly or buying data yearly.

This applies to everyone reading this my post. If you dey work and get steady income, go and try to get a good health insurance for yourself and family. The thing no too cost as you dey think am.

Where is that Health insurance my who will under write and pay your medical bills when you fall sick.

Shinjawestside:
I wish the Bible allowed men to married two wives...

This our Christian women wahala too much ..

Head slammers women no dey bhave this way...

Where in the Bible were men commanded to marry only one wife?

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

Whether you grant her or not, you should be worried why she should even nurture such an idea.

The countdown to her cheating has begun, just brace for it!

Thank Almighty God that she is still a fiancée, cut her loose and cut your loses now!

Beverlyjean:
According to her...she had been begging him to Bury their son...then she said after begging him, she went to the police commissioner, and the police commissioner said the police had released the corpse already....now does that make any sense??

So why did she go to the police commissioner?? She contradicted herself

It make complete sense, in Nigeria tradition women are kept completely out of this or are ignored especially if they are not in the know.

She may have not known the stage of the autopsy, inquiry, etc and being the man, he must have approached to start facilitating burial for their son, it appears the man was not forth coming then she approached the police for but they told her that, they have hand over the corpse and their is nothing they can do.

immortalcrown:
Why dem never investigate Mohbad's wife and the boys that announced Mohbad's death?
At least, let all righteousness be fulfilled.

But how do you know that, they are not been investigated or that the Police did not ask them to write statements or that they were not interviewed?

You are not part of the investigating to know how far they went, you don’t have to put someone in detention or jail before investigating them.

frozen70:
In all these drama and accusations

The nurse will now suffer and be punished for his death, because she administered the drugs wrongly

But we all know that emotional pains caused by the bullying he received from these two people, was part of what killed this Mohbad

It was the emotional pains that caused him vomiting, goose bumps, convulsion and the emotional pains kicked in immediately after he was injected with a mix of three different drugs.

It must truly be the emotional pain, even after the Nurse that injected the drugs admitted and stated to the Police that..,

“She acknowledged that it was the injections that she administered on the deceased that triggered the reactions which eventually led to Mohbad’s death”

This is a simple case of an unintentional death, it happens every in life. No Nurse would put their life and Career on the line to place themselves in the position or be used to inject anyone with deadly poison when it is openly known to everyone that, they and only they injected that person with the drug that lead to their demise.

How much do you think they paid the Nurse to throw her life and career away over an alleged beef that does not concern her or her family?

Aonkuuse:
I came acrose this heartbreaking hypocrisy of the west and could not help it but to share....

This man was shot dead while preaching in the states and there is no single public uproar or any single news outlet carrying it.... But imagine it happened in Nigeria, the states would have said Nigeria is this and Nigeria is that.... They would have even gone ahead to place visa restrictions and all sort of things.

The west really need to stop looking at others as bad while they are doing the worst things.

False narrative and conclusion…it is in the news,,

https://www.azfamily.com/video/2023/11/17/glendale-police-provide-update-church-leader-shot-while-preaching/?outputType=amp

https://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/man-seriously-injured-following-shooting-near-glendale-church.amp

https://www.foxnews.com/us/arizona-street-preacher-father-fighting-life-being-shot-head.amp

https://www.abc15.com/news/region-west-valley/glendale/police-investigating-after-a-man-was-shot-near-51st-and-peoria-avenues

Whereas

Kehinde Adesanwo, was shot dead while settling a dispute between another customer and members of staff of the bar around July 18, 2023 in Fadeyi area of Lagos no single western News outlet carried it.

Jj

Map1:
most of the loan sharks are asking for BVN before granting loan.

They can’t get your contact’s info and photo through BVN with which to embarrass you.

The whole excess of my post is to save yourself from their embarrassment and not to avoid your responsibilities.

mascot87:
The secret of loan shark is very simple.
Before you borrow money from any loan app company, MAKE SURE you take off all your phone contact and store them in a different phone. Make sure you have FAKE contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app.
Make sure you have fake phone contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app

Make sure you have fake phone contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app

Please take that information seriously.
Don't keep your original contacts on that phone you are installing that loan app.
That's is the only way they can blackmail you.
A word is enough for the wise

Remove your pictures and documents too and never add contacts and pictures to phone.

After installing go to your settings and disable access of the app to your contact, picture and even call logs or better still delete the app after loan disbursement.

Preferable to do this on a new SIM card that you can discard after loan disbursement.

NJV:
Did this Jasmine lady cast a spell on Mr. Ibu or what? What a strange relationship. Adopting a full grown divocee.

Stop the ignorance, you can’t adopt an adult and certainly not a divorcee.

The Adoption Act states that, one must be sixteen (16) years old or younger to be eligible for adoption or States that have passed and incorporated the The Child Right Act into their laws, that number is Seventeen (17).

phemmie06:
I will like to know the yardstick for this promotion cos the Southeast are over represented

Each region have a slot in the Supreme Court, SE & NC has been under represented for many years, many retirements over the years were not promptly filled and this has caused controversy in these regions for some time now.

What I don’t get with the Original UK plan that, after sending them to Rwanda…Did I read that, they intend to process their asylum in Rwanda and those who succeeded will remain in Rwanda?

What happens to those who fail the asylum process? Send them back to their Country of origin, Rwanda and that Country, which is better?

oluwaseyi0:
It's not step daughter, step daughter is he marry/date Jasmine mom, he outrightly adopt her as daughter but of cause for fucking purpose

Do you have any evidence that he truly adopted her?

You can’t adopt an adult in Nigeria, the Child or person have to be below 16 or 17 years old depending on the prevailing law e.g. Child Adoption Act or the Child Right Act.

It may just be that he took her as his daughter which is bad to be sleeping with her, but not as you put it that he adopted her outright.

IAMBOSS1990:
What is she going to gain from this now? Marriage don end, what's the point in tarnishing his image further?

She is just disgracing herself, I truly don’t see how this tarnishes the lad’s image.

She will just be tagged a sore loser, life goes on!

grandstar:
The only thing worse than being outed as gay is to be exposed as a bottom.

Most homophobes picture guys like Will Smith will be tops.

I doubt Will Smith is gay. If he had, there'd be rumours circling round for years. This is the first time such as come to light and its from someone who has a axe to grind with him.

He most likely is gay...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqfQRxj6h8E

virginchaser:
Baby mamas were once the golden girl.

Come to think of it…..inside life!

Just like Aston Villa, one moment they will be forming that they are best in town, and that they will win the Cup, the next moment they have been relegated……Chelsea watch out!

Mhizzard:
Big man,the best way you can be having your share in this lucrative business.you let him know that you will be getting percentage from the revenue the business generate.it is better to be having continuous share than a once share

Even without that, or even an agreement, the underlying base is that, the Source of the business is a family Compound and family-owned borehole, so at the minimum, he should be paying royalties back to the family.

Since the family out-numbered him, they could even vote him out legally and shut him from accessing the family borehole. A better advise is to setup a rival water company using the same borehole and compete directly with him....run him out of the market by producing quality products at a better price point, he will come back and beg.

ChristianMuslim:
I made it first today.. wow

Na una type dey rush first row or seat for Mosque and Church only to start sleeping immediately service starts, with absolutely nothing to contribute...

AllDModsAreMaad:
He ad dey pain you...

A man's child is the ideal person for next of kin position, because he/she has time and everyother thing on their side.

If your true intent is to ensure that, your kids have preference over your surviving spouse when it come to inheritance, look into Last Will & Testament.

If you have a surviving spouse, naming your Child as Next of Kins does nothing as your surviving spouse have preference over your Next of Kins.

The Ibu’s seem a pretty young family, how can your son be your next of kin’s when your wife is still young and active?

This most likely means that, there had been underlying issues before now.

We seen to get this Next of Kin’s thing backward in Nigeria….Wives and Husbands should be each other’s Next of Kins unless they live far apart, which if is the case, it should be the closest relative.

Inheritance does not flow to Next of Kins. It is simply the person physically closest to you that we can contact when you are unable to do that!

Babangidapikin:
May be the man is not giving her the necessary attention ... Shey when there is no TV to watch, you would have her time ...Some men kukuma like watching TV rather than having communication with their wife, turn their wife to piece of furniture to decorate the house... And some women too can Nag for Africa ... They would sha find something to complain about no matter what you do....

If you are a married woman and your husband watches his TV at home kneel down and praise God!

TV full joints, beer parlor and even mama Ikechi get 85 inches TV for her bar!

lecoeur:
While growing up, sometimes my father takes me out with him and during those times he teaches me certain things that a man should know.
Thing is, something happened I can't recall but that thing made him tell me he preferred my younger brother to me (We are 3 boys tho), I even noticed it because he took him out more and bought things for him. I was this kid that's so quite, reserved and always on my own and he never liked that. On the other note, my brother is very agressive have this agbero type of behaviour lol. My dad fell ill and I took care of him both at home and in the hospital to the point of his death I was with him, I didn't take what he said to heart and he never apologized but I did all that because I loved him very much, I saw him as a hero, even the person that he preferred wasn't interested in taking care of him as much as I was.
I totally forgot about this whole thing until this my younger Bro accused my Mom of been bias towards him which is true but as the first and oldest son I always stand for him whenever that happens because I know how it feels.
Please I urge present and future parents to do better with hiding or avoiding this favourite child thing, it's not really ohk.

I guess you met to say bias against…..which is the opposite of bias towards.

sandygechy:
No marks of rope on her neck according to the police only points to murder!
Autopsy should reveal more facts.

The man should be detained! He’s a prime suspect!

Plus, of all the women and ladies committing suicide in Nigeria, how many have hanged themselves?

Person to hang themselves no bi moimoi oh, ladies prefer method is usually poison, but to tie rope and hang yourself, that is a gangster move, it would take gut!