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zed7:
Even if the man records himself while narrating his experience, I will still have my doubts.
Everything is for clout these days. Social media will be the end of man.

Which part did you think is fabricated?

To me the lesbian part is suspicious but it is plausible.

But the other part of being thrown out happens everyday, because it is the wife that have the visa, he is a derivative on her student visa as and such he is dispensable.

In fact if he does not get an employer able to sponsor his visa very soon, he will be out of status and would most likely find himself deported.

Word of caution to anyone male or female who find themselves on one of these non-immigrant derivative visas, try as much as possible and the soonest to switch to a visa where you will be primary.

You can also go to school, also get a student visa in your name, e get why.

Yes, I know you guys have kids to take care of and one need to work to pay bills while the other go to school….well, guess what? When they throw your ass in the street and out of the home, the kids will still survive and bills would still be paid.

So let both of you go to school, both work and both take care of the kids, there are day cares, etc.

And Please be wise especially for men, you are no longer in Africa where you have an edge….if you suspect that your wife is cheating and you are a derivative on her visa, please don’t confront her, don’t spy on her, smile and pretend you did not see or know anything but start working on your primary visa applications, only confront her when you can stand on your feet by yourself immigration-wise.

Real plot twist….

Las las when the man settles down he will see fresher and better options in ladies abroad and go come dump her ass.

advanceDNA:
Ojoro...

Someone that threatened the company he hacked and continued to express the intent to return to cyber-crime as soon as possible”, adding: “He is highly motivated.” .....is now unfit to stand trial and will remain at a secure hospital for life ....

CIA/FBI/homeland security ...I carry yansh for una......Una welldone ooooo... Una don carry am go una secret office make e dey work for una

Your ignorance is golden.

This happened in the UK and he was prosecuted and imprisoned in the UK, wetin come concern CIA/FBI/Homeland Security which are all American agencies for the matter?

liamjakes247:
Can you please tell me off these off the corner DNA kits, how can one get it.

This is what I am getting from Google:

https://www.easydnanigeria.com/home-paternity-test/

https://smartdna.com.ng/order-a-test/

https://dnatestnigeria.com/

There are many more, as with any DNA Test, do a confirmation test from another source before making your conclusions. You can also approach a reputable local Chemist store and ask if they have the kit. In the Western world, you can pick them up as you shop for groceries in the stores.

Disclosure:
I am not associated with any of the providers above, only got them through a Google serach.

advanceDNA:
They had a fling.....is she supposed to drag him to be part of the child before he was born...besides the nigga shenked her thinking she wanted to extort him when she told him about being pregnant...

So I don't get...she doesn't want him, doesn't want him to have his son or be part of his life, didn't even give the boy ops name.....so what's the point of telling him he has a son??

hmmm, is a two months relationship still considered a fling? Even one night stands results in pregnancy and serious dragging.

If she truly want to drag the OP, she would take him to court, put him on support and still get custody of the child since it is out of wedlock.

But, she did not do all that. I think her saying she does not want him in the son’s life is out of anger and given the circumstances, her anger is justified.

The OP should give her time but not let go, you should NEVER ABANDON your blood anywhere despite the insistence of the mother that you must do.

advanceDNA:
she just wants is to let u know u have a son somewhere.??......but doesn't need u and doesnt want u to be part of his life...?? Lol...


na format to make u pursue her ..because demanding anything from you will look desperate....if she truly doesn't want anything from u, she go block u....u wont be able to message her at all
...ignore her for a while....na she go message u say u wicked ooo after all she told u ...get DNA testing once she gives u access ....and start being part of your for ur child's welfare if the child is urs.

Tell ur girlfriend the 411...if she wants to continue .... no wahala..
...if u wan go marry the first babe just because she born for u...na ur wahala be that......

I doubt if it is a format.

When the guy was not serious when she told him about the pregnancy about a year ago, according to the OP, the lady did not trouble him again.

She went through the pregnancy and delivery on her own, anyone can imagine the emotional turmoil she went through.

Also, even after the delivery she did not contact the OP, it was the OP that initiated the contact and she had to let him know.

I think she is real and the OP showing interest now is making her relive the pains, emotions, turmoils, heartbreaks, etc and she has the right to go through those cycles of emotions.

My advise for the OP is not to give up, keep sending her message, make it a duty to be sending her message either twice a week or weekly, she will eventually open up.

Also discuss this with your fiancée that, there is a possibility that you may be the father of baby but you have not done the DNA test yet.

I do not think this is the right time to do a DNA test, normalize relationship with your alleged child first.

ppogba:
With your level of education, you believe an off the counter DNA kit will give you an accurate result?

With your level of education,.you think the center is wrong by insisting the mother should be present before the test is conducted. Perhaps, you will be available on Nairaland to represent them in court in case of litigation.

Abeg una, this is a new Nairaland. It is too early for rubbish.

What kind of litigation?

Off the Counter DNA kits are as accurate as the one you get from the clinic, check the stats.

The only difference is that, they are not admissible in any as evidence, they only offer what they say on their face value. If he go for two confirmation tests with OTC kit, the results are golden.

Moreso the OP is not looking for DNA test for any legal purpose, he just wants to confirm his suspicions.

If he is the father there is no law mandating that the mother must be present before a DNA test can be carried out. As the father, he have the right to authorize treatment for the baby in the absence of the mother and the Doctors would not insist on the mother’s consent before moving forward, talk-less a simple test that only requires a swab on the inside-chick of the baby.

That is not true, the owner or Associate of that Clinic or Lab are sympathetic to the women getting a blow back as a result of these frauds.

At the most, what you will need is the birth certificate of the child showing you are the father and your ID, some clinics don’t even stress you to that level.

Find another clinic or buy these off the counter DNA kits to do the test.

TemplarLandry:
I don't know why entitled people feel triggered when patriotic Americans like Donald J. Trump say they don't want too many immigrants. Trump is a patriot.

I dedicate “Big Dog” by Benny the Butcher feat. Lil Wayne to him.
Great jam!

Trump himself, his wife, etc are all immigrants, the USA is an immigrant Country, and this is racism at its core. This is all about the fact that non-white immigrants are posed to outpace white immigrants in the USA, hence this rhetoric. It is much ado about nothing.

BondRiv:
What gibberish is this? That 26 lawmakers with the speaker Amaewhule elected Edison as the new speaker of the house? How? When? where? In what universe? Absurd!

That is how people like you spread misinformation to gullible people. Don't post this nonsense again.

I gave you a Vanguard News Paper link that Carried it, not my words argue with your screen.

BondRiv:
The onus is not on the lawmakers. PDP should go to court. You cannot put something on nothing and expect it to stand. Edison is a suspended member of the house. The court never made him the speaker. Please go and acquire an understanding of the law. You don't wake up overnight and claim to be a speaker. He was seeking for interim injunctions. Does someone become the speaker through interim injunctions? Can a declaration of speakership be made without hearing from the other party? What does Section 36 of the constitution say? Edison is an impostor. End of story.

At the beginning of the crisis, after the failed impeachment attempt on the Governor, 26 then pro-Fubara Legislators implemented Martins and elected Edison in his place as the new Speaker of the House.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/10/breaking-26-pro-fubara-rivers-assembly-members-suspend-speaker-elect-edison/amp/

Things went downhill for the 27 after that time, the court was just reaffirming the election of Edison as the Speaker and asking Martins to stay clear.

So what exactly is PDP going to Court for now, when the current state of things are in their favor?

Jackiedemie:
Pdp and the speaker that declare those seats vacant are bunch of jokers.
Instead of going to court to secure a sound judgement, you guys are participating in illegalities in the name of political intelligence!! Okay

Section 109(2) gives the Speaker the right to declare those seats vacant, go read it and educate yourself.

It is the deflecting lawmakers who are not satisfied with the Speaker’s decision that can go to Court if they choose to otherwise case close.

BondRiv:
Those opposed to the reasons stated by the lawmakers for their defection should approach the court for judicial interpretation. In the absence of that, they are still members of the assembly unless the court says otherwise. INEC is not going to conduct any fresh election because there is no judicial pronouncement to the effect that the seats are vacant. They remain lawmakers.

As per section 109(2) of the Constitution, it is the Speaker of the House of Assembly who declares the seats vacant and those who feel injured by that ruling are the ones to go to court.

The onus is on the deflecting lawmakers to present before the Speaker that their deflection is due to a division or merger therefore exempted from the constitutional requirement of declaring their seats vacant.

If the Speaker is satisfied with their submission, he/she wouldn’t declare their seats vacant but if otherwise, their seats would be declared vacant and if they think otherwise, they can go to Court.

A high Court in PH have already declared Edison Ehin, Fubara’a Ally as the authentic Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Edison is the only Speaker recognized under law at this time unless a higher Court rules otherwise.

Speaker Edison has already declared those 25 seats vacant and asked INEC to conduct Elections within 90 days. INEC is bound to follow suit unless another higher Court Order rules otherwise in the coming days.

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

Where possible, you should never outsource the upbringing of your children even to your mother.

From what you stated, there appear to be no hindrances regarding your job when it come to bringing them up and maybe for obvious reasons you did not made mention of their mother.

Please relocate those children to your base, they need their father, don’t deny them that, you will not regret it.

yinkus6750:
Surprised that the United States has that much.
Didn't even know they have different ethnics to that extent.
Though a very big country with large expanse of land , almost equivalent in size to a Continent.

Surprised that, the United State is not even more than that.

The USA is the melting pot of global immigration and the most popular destination for most immigrants worldwide.

And immigrants come to the USA with their culture, traditions and languages.

The good news is that, with coming years and decades the numbers for the USA will keep increasing and at a point would be the highest worldwide.

Againstallodds:
the governor through the house of reps have declared their seats vacant

What are you talking about?

States in Nigeria don’t have House of Representative only House of Assembly.

Even where they exist e.g. at the Federal level, both Houses are co-equal and one cannot declare seats vacant at the other.

Only INEC can declare a seat vacant in Nigeria and technically these seats should be declared vacant but as you know, everything in Nigeria is politics and since INEC is controlled by the FG, no one know what they will do and when.

Nazgul:
Sometimes the best way to avoid conflict with your spouse from getting out of hand, is to leave the house for a while.

I know some men can be jerks, but women should learn how to control their mouths. Escalating a quarrel to the extent where she was literally nakéd just to prove a point to her husband isn't wise.

The rule of the thumb is never fight anyone whom you know is physically stronger than you. You might end up in the morgue.

I never condoled any form of violence against women, but it appear the wife is the one provoking and escalating this.

Despite knowing fully well that, she is not as powerful as the man, she is still refusing to give him the key.

Why is she refusing to give him the key, why is she seizing the key? Some women invite these upon themselves daring men to do their worst while they insist in not de-escalating.

Is it the key to his car, his office to meet important deadline, event, etc…..woman give up the key.

okoliobinna84:
Good day Nairalanders, I parked my car (2007 Honda CR-V ) in one of my neighbors compound, covered it with car cover and travelled. Behold, when I came back to go pick my car, I noticed that the door knob has been tampered but they didn't get access to the car and I immediately rushed to the bonnet, it has been knocked open.

It was then I noticed that the car has been tampered with and nicely covered back. I called my mechanic to come and check all that is missing in the car. True true, the thief did me dirty.

The fuse box is missing, the compressor was stolen, many wires were cut and some other parts were stolen.

Since I came back, I have tried to fix the car but can't find the exact fuse box that matches my car. I have gotten 2 fuse boxes at Mgbuka Obosi but none of them worked. Please I really need help.🙏🙏🙏🙏

Post
“Urgently Looking for Used 2007 Honda CRV Fuse Box to Buy at a reasonable Price”

On all your Social media handles, eg Facebook, Nairaland, print small flyers join, post am for that Neighborhood, put your phone number.

The thief will contact you to sell your stolen fuse box back to you.

Thank me later, after-all what are virtual eFriends for.

AbuTwins:
Do they think the naira will get stabilised in 6months just like that?

Well, thank God they are not complaining of the terrorism in SE anymore! That Monday sit at home is the new normal from Ekpa Simon Al-Ebonyi!

Even no complaints as regards Nnamdi Kanu Al-Abia!

Always blaming others for their woos!

The price and rate of currencies, stocks, etc are future prices discounted for today.

Let me explain, the current rate of the dollar to Naira is the future price of Naira against the dollar e.g. six months or one year price discounted for time and inflation to today.

It means, if the CBN comes out with a good policy framework and sound economy blue print that will make the Naira to appreciate to a stable rate of eg N500 in one year from now, barring anything the present cost of Naira will be adjusted for inflation and time value and could now be sold for e.g N800 today.

The fact that Naira rate have not changed much is because the market did not see any concrete plan on ground today that would shift the current trajectory or market any investor buy and hold Naira in the hope that, it will appreciate in value tomorrow….in essence Naira is giving a bearish signal.

uniquetechng:
He can at least bribe his way out of jail in Nigeria and find his way to Europe after few years.

With a felony record in the US, he can’t even get into Europe.

His best bet is to change his identity and assume a new name and run to another Country that does not share biometric information with US.

uniquetechng:
If he complete his jail term in US he will be deported therefore won't be able to enter the US again, but if he is transferred to Nigeria to complete his jail term he can always bribe his way out and after few years secure another visa to travel back to the US.

With a felony record? He stands no chance of getting back into the US legally.

Dem dey bounce Green Card holders with felony records out of US talkless of allowing one already outside in.

Lightmykpoli:
Sharp guy, if he's transferred to finish his time in Nigeria then legally he wasn't deported from America and can easily get another visa to America

You are incorrect, plus he have a felony record in the US, his chances of getting a visa back are a big fat zero.

Ginik:
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He was the one that hand picked them to be appointed.

He must have instructed them behind closed doors to resign, so they were faced with a real dilemma either to defile their benefactor or not. It clearly shows they were not there to serve the people of Rivers State but the Special interests.

CasNova:
Your opinion.

So, when you meet the right man who is ready to settle down with you, you will 'ditch' him upon realizing that he can cook well.

Nonsense and ingredients!

The phrase 'the right man' is based on each and everyone's opinion, so just like opinions differ from one person to another, so is 'the right man or right lady'. There are no one-size-fits-all here.

She has aired her opinion and you are drinking Panadol over it, why?

Scarrr:
oga ,Duane is charged doesn't mean he is guilty, besides,he is the only one still alive among the occupants of the car where pac was shot, definitely make sense if he's the one being charged now..the case Is not yet solved,they are in court...

also Suge knight is not in jail cos of Biggie,he is in jail for crashing his car into someone else entirely...

I don't know anything about Jon Bennett

Lastly Jill dando you said it yourself the accused was later acquited and still a focus of investigation...is that solved??

In your previous post, you stated that the "...almighty west has lot of cases that won't probably get solved las las, Tupac and Big's death , Jon Bennet Ramsey, this TV presenter Jil dando.."

And I went into each of the three cases you categorized at 'won't probably get solved.." and show you that, you are wrong that those cases are still active and in fact have key suspects with some in Court at the moment, all these information are from Government sources and Government investigations.

The major take away is that, these Western Governments have not given up on these cases, they have people on trial for these murders, the one that was acquitted was on a technicality, but the Government is still going after them, the government know their man in each of these cases, they just have to get enough evidence to cross the threshold of 'beyond a reasonable doubt'.

If you hold that thought for a moment and switch to Nigeria; what is the position of SCID on MKO, Abacha, Dele Giwa, are those cases still being investigated by anyone at SCID? Was anyone officially charged by the Government for these crimes?

A case is cold in Nigeria if a suspect is not found within a mere six months. I have never heard of any case in Nigeria, where the murder was reported and the suspects are them discovered one year after the criminal act. This is the kind of differences I am trying to highlight.

Scarrr:
we not doing any comparison here...fact is ,it's not perfect anywhere,even your almighty west has lot of cases that won't probably get solved las las, Tupac and Big's death , Jon Bennet Ramsey, this TV presenter Jil dando or so and lots more evn missing children cases...try dey watch crime documentaries around the world on cable,e go shock u the numbers of criminals,killers still roaming free even in the west

I also buttressed your point, yes there are no utopian world out there, but the West is a million light years ahead and it is not happening automagically for them, they have active cold case departments and we don’t.

And by the way, Duane Davis has been charged with Tupac’s murder.

Big Death was killed by hitman hired by Suge Knight as revenge for Tupac’s murder.

John Mark Karr is a viable Suspect in JonBenét Ramsey Murder. Police say new DNA samples would exclude everyone from the home.

Barry George was arrested, sentenced and later acquitted for the killing of Jill Dando but he still remains a focus of the investigation.

These are the results of Active Cold Case detectives still working behind the scenes for decades to solve crimes, I don’t know of a single cold case crime that has been solved by CID in Nigeria.

Scarrr:
you're always quick to rubbish the country,even in the west there are cases that goes up to 10,20 years or even more bfr been solved,this one never even reach 6months..una don tire already 😏

Bros, na West we dey?

We don know who kill Dele Giwa? What About Abacha, we don solve how that Apple waka com kill am or wetin dey inside that Appple? How about MKO we don solve that one?

And these are notable men, men who are rich and whose net worth still exists with us today in dollars and who have people with money still alive pushing daily for answers, yet nothing!

Una thing say the West dey solve 10, 20 years cases automagically? They have an active and fully funded Cold Case departments. Nigeria Active CID departments all combined still dey learn work where one of their Cold Case department dey.

maxiuc:


Naira Marley Because you don come back enter street dash one or two fans money you think everything don calm down b

You better lay low and let everything die down because you can't tell me you weren't aware of what that boy was going through,

Go sue bella shermuda na make they real truth about what transpired be revealed

See person wey suppose calm down dey Ginger up and down even when the news of the boy's death came up everyone saw how you acted who wouldn't think that you had a hand or knew exactly what was going on

But, no matter how he was behaving when the young man passed, you must have proof before defaming him.

Suspicion is not a crime, though it could be true, but one cannot because of suspicion defame another, though it will drive content and traffic but it is still against the law.

MEEVEET:
Only a coward can say this

Fubara has 5 members they can sit and pass budget.
. Anyone who doesn't like it can approach the court simple

How can 5 members pass a budget? They can’t even form a quorum!

MadamExcellency:
These people are devilish, they don't care about the plight of Nigerians, they only care about election victories.

So na today you know that one?

I just dey laugh those Nairalanders beefing each other because the other fellow dey carry another party card!

Everybody collectively is a pawn on these politicians chase board and everybody is conveniently dispensable.

Obavoh:
I have been trying to obtain a loan of ₦600,000 from my wealthy uncle for the past 2 years.

This man has the habit turning me up and down. Come today, come tomorrow is all I hear.

Yesterday morning, I heard he was in the village and my friend and I tracked him down around 6a.m.

We were told he was still in bed. His wife welcomed us in and served us breakfast

Uncle know say na hunger bi your main issue na make arrange with him wife take give you that succulent meal, then topped with packaged fresh fish to go!

Otherwise wetin go make you go visit this man wey you dey eye for N600k ‘loan’ since two years now, dem come set table and come spread leg come chop upon say, dem tell you say the person wey you come see still dey sleep…. Even if you nova chop for two weeks, you for ask for bottle water dey sip to show seriousness and focus.

Na when your uncle come downstairs wey una don go outside come see as you destroy the food na him make am conclude say na hungry dey worry you true true.

NinjaMetahuman:
typical comment to expect from typical brainless Nigerians.

Just criticize and condemn country for the sake of it.

I wonder which country in the world doesn't experience mechanical problem.

Bros kool down, let’s stop tolerating mediocre….

The report clearly stated that and I quote:

“….Our source alleged that the newly installed conveyor belts break down almost 30 minutes daily, especially during the peak period.”

Can you name one Country in the world whose Airport conveyor belt breaks down at least 30 minutes every single day?

Before you cut these Ministers and Politicians some slack, have you seen the Prado Jeep they drive? Have you met any these their Prado Jeep breaking down on the road even for once? They make sure they buy new jeeps every year!

This has nothing to do with Nigeria, it is pure wickedness and I am sure they diverted bulk of the money for that contract and use substance materials but when it come to their vehicles, they go for the very best!