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MichealKin50:
Hello good evening everyone. For those of you who contributed in my previous thread, thanks so much.

This is the part 2 of it.
Today I didn't go to work so I invited my girl over. She came. I told her I was lying about cheating on her. I brought a Bible and sworn that since e met I have not have sex with another person.

She told me she was lying as well. That she didn't want me to feel guilty so she lied that she cheated on me.
I told her to swear with the Bible she refused.

Friends help me because I really love this girl. But then, I don't want to end up with a cheater.

She left my place in anger. I am confused.

oga stop disturbing nairaland with your I really love this girl abeg....why swear with a Bible? She has cheated on you so leave her let us have peace

NuissancePolice:
WHO IS A CHEAP GIRL?

1. A cheap gal is any gal who is living in a man's house and the man has not paid her bride price, no wedding but she is living with him.

2. A cheap gal is any gal who is already having sex with a common boyfriend and she does not know where the relationship is heading to, she does not know where the guy comes from, no marriage plans, no wedding hope but she is having sex with the guy because of the money she is getting from him.

3. A cheap gal is any gal who sends her nude pics to her boy friend in the name of love.

4. A cheap gal is any gal who has done one or more abortions and she is still doing more.

5. A cheap gal is any gal who dresses half naked in the name of fashion, exposing her boobs and other erotic parts of her body in the street or post such pictures on Facebook or Whatsapp and receives 500 likes and 100 comments that you're "beautiful" and you say "thank you".

6. A cheap gal is any gal who has an affair with a married man even after knowing it, having sex with him, abort pregnancy, receives money, cause havoc in the man's marriage in order for her to be married.

7. A cheap girl is any gal who reads this post and gets Angry and will refuse to comment.

Source: http://news-af.feednews.com/news/detail/62f3a87c9f9131f660c3e32e44737c77?client=news

lalasticlala, Rocktation, farano

A cheap guy is nuisance police

77up:
watch me criticize him if Court endite him publicly and expose him for stealing and distributing public money to his goons like dasuki did,until then ,pls good morning.

please name the court that endite dasuki publicly? I'm sure you did not hear of the two bullion van parked on the eve of election....or did you think the bullion van was carrying sweet and biscuits...lol. The truth is we are so bias in this country

77up:
am also surprise with his annoying comment, defending a known thief just to show his hatred for Buhari.

But we also have many known thief that you also come out to defend na Eg Tinubu

jahsharon:
There is only one C-in--C in Nigeria, his name us Major General Muhammadu Buhari. He is the Law.

If you steal our country's money like Col. Dasuki did, you will vomit it. If you commit Treason, Felony or Treasonable Felony like Sowore did, you will pay dearly no matter what the Courts say.

Where were the Courts when Col Dasuki was looting our treasury? Where were the Courts when Sowore was campaigning for overthrow of a democratic government?

Anybody that does anyhow will see anyhow.

zombie...

hefelove:
Lagos would have been better than it is today if Ambode had finished all Fashola's project too the way Sanwo Olu is doing now. Think about it

nobody is against the completion of a project. Read the post very well so you will understand the reason why he was mentioned

Xano:
Interesting
As regards ATM Withdrawal, it's 65 naira for the first three in a month, then 35 naira from the fourth withdrawal.
It makes no sense.

It will never make sense to you...lol you are supposed to have sense first for it to make sense to you

alexvic12:
I made a transfer this morning. Still normal N52 charges.

Too many uneducated ppl in this country.... Did you bother to find out when it will take effect?

GamalNasser:
You notice how they carefully avoided talking about that hideous 50 naira POS charge

50 naira POS charge is for transaction above 10000 naira but some greedy merchant still charge when it is less

CrimeKsmart:
I will be glad if you can post what your constituency rep has done here with govt money. Sometimes you people reason like a baffola

It is this level of Illitracy that is why Nigeria can never move forward...

Magicians:
And one PDP bastard hyping Makinde N Iheadioha claimed 6 month is not enough time to complete talk less of commissioning any project but the Sanwo they insult as pointing governor as been commissioning project up n down within this 6 month but the lunatic the praise are yet to embark on any meaningful project. Shame #

Mumu is he the one that started the project? Did he use 6 months to build this complex? So if his predecessor did not do something like this will he have any project to commission?

CrimeKsmart:
God bless Mr. Femi. Far better than doing nothing

Is it his money ? If the Money is meant for the constituency project then it is rubbish

healthserve:
Like you're in my I.Q-Rank. I've stop dishing out private hard learned strategies.


Enjoy your ignorance

lol empty head.... They always think they know more than everyone else

ibkayee:
It's normal for you to feel some type of way about not being the priority, what she did is actually pretty common, people just don't tend to be as outrightly blunt about it as she was.

Your being hurt by it isn't an overreaction in my opinion since the average human would've felt the same way, however pulling out of the proposal makes you come across as salty. I don't think either of you have done anything wrong to be honest, you're both just being...human

How exactly did you 'pull the proposal' if you don't mind me asking

reverse the situation I hope you will come still type the same thing right? Imagine your boyfriend telling you that there are two of you on top of his list ....lol

Abdul3391:
what of the one we are paying ex presidents in this country.
Buhari is still collecting pension since 1985

we must always have one idiot normally...lol

YorubaKing:
Africans sha... why is that fool holding an umbrella for him? Cuz he's rich? Na wah oo.

I bet Bill Gates, Steve Jobs and all the richer folks won't have done such.

The Black man with money is just another NUISANCE!

You are sick.... In all the pictures the only thing you notice is a man holding umbrella....

Rochas2023:
6 yrs is better, reduces election cost, reduces rigging, gets elected people focused

how?

xendra:
go and rest! las las na so e suppose to be, no be me do am like that. even though I get I go still chop my husband own.

and your husband no go chop your own abi?

dasparrow:
She probably is working hard and does not want to settle down with some broke loser who has nothing going for him. Nigerians love rushing into marriage and making children they cannot afford to adequately take care of and that's disgusting. Tomorrow, these poor kids grow up to become a nuisance to Nigerian society and the world at large. Why do you think Nigerians have such a bad reputation worldwide?

she is probably working hard and the guy is sleeping...lol. The way you guys defend women...The guy is not forcing her to marry but the guy don't want someone perching with one leg.

Ariza:
Oh well, in this part of the world, a woman is expected to "suffer" with her man as a proof of love.

The way you men reason in Africa is so backward... Who is asking a woman to suffer? Is a woman handicap? Is a woman amputee? A woman is the head of European bank that same woman was former head of IMF... In other parts of the world no women work hard and build the dream they want for themselves... Oga you can use your money to buy women if you like

xendra:
what is there to be feeling down about? that's why many end up marrying pretenders as they well deserve. las las na woman go still chop him money. let him be feeling down � mr downer

are you handicap? Las las who go chop ur money? Are you incapable of thinking how to generate your own money?

SBL28:
The girl is just being truthful. She grew up poor and she wants to have a better life. Can't be drinking garri at home and still continue in her husband's house. We are praying for progress not stagnation.

Who is responsible for her poverty? Is relationship poverty alleviation? It is up to her to work hard and not expect that marriage will take her away from poverty.

Rollymax77:
Apc should just support the next most popular candidate and party and booth pdp out.

Zombie....I'm sure you did not even read the post at all

Giftexx:
my Lecturer was told me Debt is good.
Abi y is USA d biggest debtor?

Go and ask your lecturer that same question.

Aufbauh:
Boy, go back to what you call facts and figures in your first mention, and you'll realize that there are vague, sterile and disjointed akin to bear-palour analysis you hear from aggrieved fellow in the streets. Such i owe it no rebuttal cus it degrade my mental capacity.

give us your own fact and figure Mr mental capacity

Aufbauh:
Sorry, you sound very aggrieved to reason critically. With this anger and bitterness in between the lines of your statement it will be extremely difficult to see any good thing in this government.

Unfortunately i can't help your situation either.

You have to be able to help your own situation first.... Everyone cannot be a zombie

Aufbauh:
Honestly i don't know how some people reason.
Same people that will criticize the government about poor infrastructures and lack of opportunities are same people oppose to Govt borrowing to solve same problem.

I've look critically into this and discover that most of those critics are just being mischievous and angry that they're not the one in power to spend the money.

Meanwhile Saraki should be kicking in his oblivion for being upturned in all directions.

You sounding like a kid. Ppl lack trust on the government, is it the first time Nigerian government is borrowing and claiming infrastructural development? 2005 we had a debt relief from Paris club and just 14 years later we are going back to square one. Have you asked the benefits of the previous borrowing? It is normal for the country to have a debate on the issue and stop sounding like we all should just be a zombie because you choose to be one

Fountainofyouth:
This is exactly what we are saying on a thread that got to front page today, imagine this mistake of a man and father, him and his wife have issues, instead of him to resolve it, he wants to involve the kids and make them antagonise the mum, what has the kids got to do with it? Instead of the ones above to comment fairly, they are looking for his version, no matter what the woman said, what type of man will tell his kids to do such? If reverse was the case and woman told their kids to insult their dad, the comments would have reached page ten by now with all manner of insults on the woman,

The husband doesn't obviously want to be challenged in the decisions that involves the family, he wants a 'yes sir' kind of woman, he wants to subdue her smh, does he expect his decisions to be right all the time? How will they be able to rub minds together on whats best for the family

Madam Op, anytime he says anything, don't challenge, react or talk back, just be looking at him and ignore, let him say his own and do whatever he thinks is right, you too, do whatever you think is right, when he sees the arrangement isn't palatable due to clashes, he will remorsefully call you for a heart to heart talk.

We know your problem....men haters...lol

Fountainofyouth:
Another one, get the husband to air his version nah, shey you know him and where they live, we are waiting.....

madam give your own advice....lol you are just busy quoting ppl

jesusjnr:
It's blasphemy to say that Jesus was under the Law, because the Law was under Jesus!

You are entitled to believe whatever you want, but that saying of Jesus about tithes proved that He wasn't against tithing even if you are.

You can still prove me wrong by showing me one instance where He spoke against tithing as He had done concerning several other Laws.

"woe to you scribes and Pharisees". How you tell yourself that this is commendation beats my imagination... Today's church is not different from the scribes and Pharisees, they neglect the weightier matter and focus on the tithe. Please show me one place recorded where the gentiles paid tithe or just show me one place In the new testament where the early Christian preached about or paid tithe... You entitled to believe what you want to believe

Pauldollars:
One of your duties as a Christian is to make sure you always give your tithes and God will bless you abundantly (Read Malachi 3:10) How the money is being used by the Church should not be your concern. BTW it is good that you give your tithes in the church that spiritually nourishes you...not just any random Penterascal church which have no business propagating the gospel of Jesus Christ.

So why do you complain about buhari since it is not your business how they spend your taxes? Why don't you leave it to God to judge....clowns

jesusjnr:
IS TITHING NOW A BAD THING BECAUSE MEN ABUSE TITHES?

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No! Because tithing wasn't a bad thing to Jesus.

For Jesus said:

Matthew 23:23 (KJV)

23 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone.

So this saying clearly shows that Jesus the Master Himself wasn't against tithing, but what He was against was the tendency of the Pharisees to omit or sideline the majors of the Law such as judgment, mercy, and faith because of a minor matter as tithing.

So that is exactly where I also stand on the tithing matter, that it never get emphasized to the point where it begins to take preeminence over the most important things, because that would inevitably lead to abuse of tithes, amongst other corrupt practices, which the majors are meant to prevent.

Therefore I'm not against tithing as some here may have wrongly assumed, because as a matter of fact I believe that tithing works, and I have some personal experiences while I still tithed and preached tithing to back that claim.

Tithing somehow seemed to be the first revelation from my own study of the Bible, after I first repented and began my walk with God. I was so convinced about it to the extent that I couldn't keep it to myself but had to preach it to someone then, and that person was my mum. And my preaching was appeared convincing enough for her to give it a shot. And it worked for her as afterwards she kept telling me that ever since she started tithing, that she noticed that her purse never dried up. So the idea of tithing really proved itself to her that up til date about twenty years later, she doesn't still joke with her tithes.

Another experience associated with tithes, was one testimony I already shared here when I still used to tithe many years ago, but at the time it was sixty percent I gave as tithes not ten. My tithe was at the side pocket of my traveling bag, when some armed robbers invaded the room I was with five other guys. At the end, everyone in the room was robbed of some money and valuables, except for me for nothing belonging to me was lost or taken from me, even though the side pocket I kept the tithes was the most exposed thing in the wardrobe that the robbers took most things from.

The full story can be gotten here:

https://www.nairaland.com/5478528/one-important-lesson-church-members

So I do really believe that tithing works, however I don't believe that tithing (ten percent) ought to be the standard of the church, which I believe ought to operate at the standard of the kingdom of God which is a hundred percent as was illustrated on this occasion:

Acts 4:32, 34-35 (KJV)

32 And the multitude of them that believed were of one heart and of one soul: neither said any of them that ought of the things which he possessed was his own; but they had all things common.

34 Neither was there any among them that lacked: for as many as were possessors of lands or houses sold them, and brought the prices of the things that were sold,
35 And laid them down at the apostles' feet: and distribution was made unto every man according as he had need.

Hence it could observed that giving in the church that Jesus built wasn't at the level of tithes (ten percent), but a hundred percent which is the standard of the kingdom of God. And this was why Jesus had taken His time to acknowledge that poor widow who gave her everything before His disciples, because that was the standard of the kingdom of God.

Mark 12:43-44 (KJV)

43 And he called unto him his disciples, and saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That this poor widow hath cast more in, than all they which have cast into the treasury:
44 For all they did cast in of their abundance; but she of her want did cast in all that she had, even all her living.

So a hundred percent ought to be the standard of the church as it was in the beginning of the church when they had already given a hundred percent of themselves to God, so that meant everything they possessed already belonged to God, hence no one considering what he possessed as his own. But considering that the standard of the church has crashed and is now a far cry from what it used to be at the time when it was a hundred percent, does that now mean that those who are not able to give God a hundred percent, should not give Him anything?

That's where tithes (ten percent) comes in, at least that's better than giving God zero percent.

So that men abuse tithes, doesn't mean that we should altogether throw away the idea of tithing, because it is still very useful and plays an important role for God's work here on Earth. It has also shown itself to be very useful in provide for the poor and needy when not abused but well managed.

Therefore instead of doing away with tithing, i suggest we all put our hands on deck to ensure that church leaders and those in authority are held accountable for the tithes they receive, so that the mismanagement and abuse of tithes would be brought down to the bearest minimum if not completely eradicated, while we hope and pray for the day that God would give us the kind of church that would give him the hundred percent that He deserves, and also the kind of leaders that wouldn't abuse it but would use it to God's glory and to the benefit of everyone in the church as it was in those days.

NEITHER WAS THERE ANY AMONG THEM THAT LACKED: FOR AS MANY AS WERE POSSESSORS OF LANDS OR HOUSES SOLD THEM, AND BROUGHT THE PRICES OF THE THINGS THAT WERE SOLD,
AND LAID THEM DOWN AT THE APOSTLES' FEET: AND DISTRIBUTION WAS MADE UNTO EVERY MAN ACCORDING AS HE HAD NEED. {Acts 4:34-35 (KJV) }

God bless.

Jesus was under the law, so speaking against tithing would have been blasphemy...This is no way means Jesus was in support of tithing. Tithing was a law and the law was meant for a purpose. It today's generation that law is not required