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Romance › Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by Lucifyre: 10:13pm On Apr 07, 2023

Not bad... Your peice is kind of apt. Kind off cause there are some major things off about it. First of it's presented like all three are categories of the same thing which they're obviously not. It's like presenting red, circle and blue like they're all colours, which they are obviously not. You could have a red circle just as you could have a blue circle, but u can't say they're all colours.

Narcissm is a personality disorder which affects people's behavioral patterns in their general relationship and interactions with everyone else in all spheres of their lives. It's a mental disease diagnosed, researched, studied and proven by science. The other two on the other hand are basically male behavioral patterns in a relationship with the opposite sex and its psuedo science at best and like astrology not backed by actual science. So they are very different where its not a situation of one or the other.

Let's say the psuedo science of alpha, sigma, beta and all that is valid. An alpha could be narcissistic, just as a simp could be narcissistic as well. They both could have the mental disease that is narcissism, even though one of em are more likely to be narcissists than the other(you know which). So they are not all in the same category where its one or the other. Narcissm is an illness, the others are behaviours. Totally different things. The whole alpha shit theory is really flawed but that's discussion for another date.

Romance › Re: Don’t Bring “independent Woman” Idea To Marriage, Harrysong, Tells Woke Women by Lucifyre: 4:54pm On Apr 02, 2023

IyaebeTheGreat:
I'm highly dependent ooo, infact if I have my ways I won't want to do anything while raising my kids. I'll love to give them my 100% attention.

🤢 That's sad.

Romance › Re: Don’t Bring “independent Woman” Idea To Marriage, Harrysong, Tells Woke Women by Lucifyre: 4:52pm On Apr 02, 2023

etrange:
The same people asking what they bring to the table are the people that want them to still be dependent. You can't eat your cake and still have it. I've said it here over and over again, feminism isn't just for women. Everyone benefits when women are fairly independent. When they work hard, earn and contribute to home funding, the pressure we face as men in this country is reduced. The men only need to adjust and also learn to be fairly independent too. Learn to do some basic chores or cook on certain days. This is the recipe for a happy home. It doesn't take away mutual respect.

Couples are supposed to be inter-dependent in the sense that one can easily focus on one thing at any point knowing the other is there to take care of other things, not that the woman and the children should depend on one man to provide for the family while she does home economics. The issue with this is that they get so much used to these society-created roles that when one party is temporarily unable to function, everything breaks down.

Apt as f.uck bro, pick up each other's slack, work as a team and compromise where necessary. It's a good thing a balanced and nuanced take can still be found in the sea of dross, bigotry and vitriol that is this site.

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Romance › Re: THIS IS WHY MEN ARE CALLED SCUM. by Lucifyre: 3:26pm On Mar 31, 2023*

PSA: To spot a rabid dog disguised as a normal being doesn't take much skill. Like the cliché goes : "it's not rocket science". Firstly thier thoughts are binary and in absolutes, void of any nuance. They potray subjective opinions as objective ones with extreme hubris. Usually they are extremely narrow/closed minded and can reason in only one direction, like they got tunnel vision or something. Thier pov or thought process stinks of cognitive dissonance and when u try to apply logic to their arguments, they go on a tangent and come up with an irrational strawman. Gents, when u spot a rabid dog, ur best bet is not to engage. If u engage u would lose brain cells which the dog doesn't hv to lose hence its irrational barking and ranting. I've just spotted a rabid dog.

Health › Re: Lady Raises Alarm After Failed Nose Surgery In Lagos (pic/video) by Lucifyre: 2:35pm On Feb 08, 2023*

Good filter. smh!
Edit: So majority of u here are really this dumb, does that look like a botched nose job to u.

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Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Lucifyre: 1:32am On Feb 05, 2023*

I totally understand ur pov but for me i've come to understand that it's not a good thing to speak in absolutes. Human emotion, peresonality and behaviours are very different like u are saying, but its all on a spectrum with two extremes and it's very rare to meet or experience people at any extreme of a spectrum and experience them at that extreme all the time. Its always closer to the middle than one extreme and also not most of the time.

You explained that women are emotional and men logical, which is partly true, partly with the caveat been what i stated already. Emotions are one extreme on the spectrum of decision making and logic another extreme. The average woman tends to find herself towards the emotions side of the spectrum and not at the extreme end.

She would not be 100% emotions and 0% logic in her decision making all the time, but instead somewhere in the arbitrary range of 65-75% emotions and 35-25% logic. So yeah, the average woman makes decisions using mostly her emotions. Also you can't absolutely say they are all like that. "the average woman is like that ergo all women are like that". It's not a good way of thinking. They are not all like that.

I know women that make decisions logically, more so than emotionally and the reverse for men. Not all men think 100% logically either. The average man thinks more logically and less emotionally, but there are outliers that the reverse is true for. They are just as fucking annoying, just as the women are fucking annoying. I'ts just a difference in our behavioral trait you hv to accept and deal with however u deem fit. We are all so different and its quite ironic.

Different in virtually every aspect ( male/female, black/white/brown, extrovert/introvert/ambivert, open_minded/narrow_minded/close_minded... ) that we can hardly co-exist without issues. Quite ironic, like whoever made us is having a laugh watching this shit show of issues. Anyways my main point is there's good, there's bad. Any metric u want to consider there's more bad than good of it. Noting the fact that this trait has a negative outcome, there'll be more "people" with this than without. That's just how it is.

Just so happens that its women with their default set to make their average decisions emotionally... and it's a major flaw from our pov cause its different from how we think. They also hv stuff that they view as a flaw about us men just cause both genders view things differently. We are all flawed by default. I think what majorly pisses u off is the fact that some times, they try to use their emotions to manipulate situations but if u can see through the bs, it gets annoying fast.

So just be calm and accept that's how things are and manage the situation instead of getting angry even if it's not easy. It is what it is.

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Romance › Re: See The Chat I Had With An AI Today by Lucifyre: 8:45pm On Feb 02, 2023

GrammarNazi1:
It's most likely chatGPT.

Thanks. Doesn't look like its ui though.

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Romance › Re: See The Chat I Had With An AI Today by Lucifyre: 7:33pm On Feb 02, 2023

What AI is this?

Romance › Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Lucifyre: 7:13pm On Jan 28, 2023

abobote:
I guess this question is for our baby girls.

Me I don't fall in love, I have never falling in love before, any girl wey I wan toast, I de Imagine weda she go sweet, weda she go clean inside.
Even, my wife use to say that I don't love her, that I married her coz of the kids. Na after she born 2 pikin for me, before I pay her bride price

You are definitely aromantic. Im same, never been in love before. My partners say the same thing that they dont think i love em.

TV/Movies › Re: I Didn’t Brush, Bath For Days Over ‘Shanty Town’ Role — Chidi Mokeme by Lucifyre: 11:09pm On Jan 26, 2023

ukaface:
Chidi please
For as long as I can remember, since I started seeing you on the screen I fell in love with you.
Please don’t be scar, be chidi please

Omo, you smoked because of role? Put your lungs at risk because of role? God Abeg oooo
I hope your pay is hooge ooo

Its called method acting. This aint even extreme.

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Celebrities › Re: Portable Spotted Trekking Barefoot On A Street In Sango (Video) by Lucifyre: 4:48pm On Jan 13, 2023

wiseone28:
I don't comment on such news

Hah! The irony.

Romance › Re: Who Have Slept With A Married Woman by Lucifyre: 6:11pm On Jan 07, 2023

Nyascobar1414:
Fvk her if you want to..
Dont mind these clueless girls that has slept with a married man b4,shouting curses everywhere..

Only curse is transferable in sex,but blessings cant be transmitted..

Who raised these half baked moral men

As in very backward myopic, delusional and superstitious people.

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Romance › Re: What Are The Songs You Can't Get Enough Of? by Lucifyre: 3:41pm On Jan 05, 2023

Avicii - Faster Than Light
Avicii - Dear Boy
Enya - Flora's Secret
Kygo - Firestone
Lupe Fiasco - Show Goes On
Jon Bellion - Hand Of God....

Food › Re: 3 Bush Pig For New Year Celebration by Lucifyre: 7:53pm On Jan 03, 2023

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian , I will encourage we Christians to emulate our Muslim brothers and sisters by abstaining from that filthy animal called pig. The bible warns we Christian to abstain from consumption of pig in Deuteronomy 14:8. Any Christian that consumes pork meat will end up in Hell

Abeg shut up. U ignorant Bleep.

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Romance › Re: Love At First Sight Ko by Lucifyre: 4:27pm On Jan 01, 2023

Fortunately or Unfortunately ive never experienced falling in love.

Phones › Re: Phone Manufacturers: Please Give Us The Power Button Back by Lucifyre: 10:44am On Dec 28, 2022

falcon01:
What am I missing here? There's literally an option to choose what the power button does
For me you can call up Bixby or Google assistants, you can launch the camera, you can Turn it off, restart or select Emergency mode.

Ignorance is a disease bro. You're the only sensible person on this thread.

Phones › Re: With 400k, Would You Buy Xiaomi Or Samsung? by Lucifyre: 11:19am On Dec 21, 2022

Elxandre:
If you knew how to read you wouldn't type rubbish.
I said dual apps is limited to messaging and social media apps on samsung.

Yea i read wrong. Presumed u were still talking about secure folder. My bad.

Phones › Re: With 400k, Would You Buy Xiaomi Or Samsung? by Lucifyre: 11:18am On Dec 21, 2022

gogeekish:
I think he meant dual app functionality here.

Yes, when I used Samsung S20. I couldn't do with it. I used the device to wait for Xiaomi 12S Ultra.

My saved password on Google wasn't working on that Samsung. Samsung was forcing me to use Secure pass.

That alone made me say i can't use Samsung for now.

Yes, just seen that my bad. Presumed he ws still talking on secire folder.

Phones › Re: With 400k, Would You Buy Xiaomi Or Samsung? by Lucifyre: 5:40am On Dec 21, 2022

Elxandre:
Yeah dual apps is limited to only messaging and social media apps on samsung.
Also, Samsung has no default app lock and third party options simply do not work as well.
I love second space on xiaomi too. Secure folder is good but doesn't do the same thing.

Are u sure u know what u are saying. How can u say secure folder is limited to messaging and social media apps. Some of u would just spout dross confidently.

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Phones › Re: Which Android Skin Do You Prefer? by Lucifyre: 5:08pm On Dec 16, 2022

One ui is amazing.

Christianity Etc › Re: Pope Francis Issues Dire Warning To Humanity ( Pics) by Lucifyre: 8:59am On Dec 14, 2022

Antimarraige:
Time is infinite, nothing like the end of the world. Death is the end of one's world. People will continue to live and survive trillions of years to come.

There's a reason why we are all organic matter, and we shall all be nutrients for the Earth's crust at one point in time.

That's ignorant of u. Everything that has a beginning has an end. No matter what this earth will end and im not talking from a religious perspective. I remember watching a doc on discovery where they said we have at most 200 million more years as humans and the earth itself can still survive for a couple more billion years but itll eventually be swallowed by the continously expanding sun. Except we find a diff planet to inhabit by then. The only caveat here is im talking from memory abd the stats are not exactly accurate but u get the gist. This world has an end even if its a million years from now. Shows how inconsequential we are in the timeline of life.

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Romance › Re: Judging Of Women Over Virginity by Lucifyre: 12:16pm On Dec 13, 2022

Lucifyre:
First off typing in all caps doesn't suddenly make ur statement a fact, instead its more like a factoid or screaming to get across a poorly thought out message.

You've got a point in ur message even though its frigging ironic without any application of nuance. In an attempt to manipulate the whole situation to favour urself as women usually do regardless of objectivity, u've instead exposed the irony and flat out hypocrisy in your simplistic daft thought process.

While virginity does'nt gurantee/determine the "dignity and character" of a woman., its a very big indicator that can not be ignored. Let's apply some nuance and look at it from a different angle. The fact u'r not a virgin doesn't guarantee uld hv a good character/dignity or whatever bs u were saying. So if both don't gurantee anything, as a sane person why not go for the one with good/better indicators and a higher chance of success?! It's common sense nau.

A virgin has been able to push away a lot of advances and pestering from various men. This speaks of her having great discipline and character already. So the chances of the virgin being ideal for marraige are higher than one that isn't a virgin, all other things considered equal. Whatever hypothetical issues u might want to point out with a virgin, someone whose not will have 10x those issues. Its like predictive analysis, u use historical data to predict future outcomes and draw conclusions.

If the historical data is positive, the likely prediction for the future is positve and if its negative... U get the gist. So why would anyone who is sane go for something lesser when the indicators are there that it's lesser all because the future outcomes for both scenarios are not 100% guranteed. All these to say in the hypothetical scenario with 2 good ladies of equal character and standing, 90% of men take the one whose a virgin.

Let me use some analogies to drive home my point, cause for u to reason with that ur pov, u must be dense as a brick. No sane person would go to a restaurant and would choose yesterday's soup when presented with a choice of yesterday's soup and today's freshly prepared soup, all because the taste of both is not guranteed ro be sweet... U get.

No sane person would choose a second hand car with milage over a brand new car even when they are not sure of how long the car would last and serve them. No sane person would prefer to get a second hand phone instead of a brand new phone with same specs because they cant tell how the phone would perform over time.. No sane person would pick used clothes over brand new simply because u cant tell how long they'll last.

At the end of the day, new trumps the old everytime in the same conditions with unguranteed outcomes. U can't eat ur cake and expect to have it and then cry out loud when u cant have the cake. U can't go ahead and embrace woke feminism liberation, empowerment through sex and freedom agenda and sleep around and then cry/complain when men choose to have prefrences and standards which everyone has a right to, even women.

But no, lets shame men instead for having preferences we consider superficial, cause we want to ironically manipulate things to favour us while we keep our own Superficial preferences like money, looks and height. Dont u see the irony. Anyways virginity shouldn't bother you cause one in three men are simps and don't care as long as u give em small attention afterall most of the people getting married every sat aren't virgins. U can do 2 football teams in the name of woke liberal feminism and there'll be a beautiful simple man waiting on u when all's said and done.

P.S: High on weed hence the plenty epistle, but u get my point.

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Romance › Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Lucifyre: 1:11pm On Dec 10, 2022

Depending on the type of phone there's a hidden part u could hide stuffs. Second messaging apps, gallery, etc.. Like a whole different compartment within the phone. I have secure folder on my samsung and thats where i hide all my sins. If u like check from now till nxt yr nothing. Especially when not tech savvy, so it could be that. My partner cant get proof of anything even though her instincts tell her there is something.

Romance › Re: Where Is The center of gravity And What Does It Do? by Lucifyre: 11:23pm On Dec 07, 2022

Wordsfrombimpe:
We all know you are a hater and you are not appreciated �

"Hater" lol. Quite the simple girl, not great.

Romance › Re: Where Is The center of gravity And What Does It Do? by Lucifyre: 5:09pm On Dec 07, 2022

Wordsfrombimpe:
The book is for people who want to explore and know more about sexuality

Both single and married

Let's not condemn those who want to learn about sex and categorize them on being prostitute

No one is a saint

Don't want to imagine how bad the vocabulary and punctuation of ur book must be if u write like this. Let's not even bother about quality of the content.

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Romance › Re: Don't Know What's Wrong With My Skin by Lucifyre: 2:15pm On Nov 26, 2022

I hv this same iss. Doc said it was contact dermatitis or an allergic rxn. Still watching it tho.

Romance › Re: Men Now After If A Lady Earns Money by Lucifyre: 3:34am On Nov 24, 2022

BABANGBALI:
I'm looking for true love and infection, I don't care if the lady is working, jobless or pour, all I want from her is true love and infection

Since u are looking for infection ill be a good chap and recommend hiv, tb or hpv. Those are very good infections, good luck in ur search.

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Romance › Re: Men Now After If A Lady Earns Money by Lucifyre: 3:16am On Nov 24, 2022*

Op u are daft and ur iQ is obviously in the negative. What kind of fooolish, ironic argument full of cognitive dissonance did u come up with there. Not surprised about the unitelligent dross u are spouting from ur halitosis infected mouth, typical of the average nig girl. I know u are too dumb to see the irony in calling someone that can tk care of himself and has prefrences hungry, when u a liability is looking for who to take care of u, cause u are obviously adverse to making use of ur brain, hands and legs to make something of urself. Liabilities like u that end up in dead marraiges they cant leave because u cant even get urself ur basic needs cause u are shamelessly relying on a man. U end up depending on ur husband to even buy ordinary toothpaste and maggi in the house. If u end up divorced that means ur own don finish nau or u would look for the next man to leech off of. Ur thought process is frigging sad and i feel sorry for the simp that would end up ur husband. What's even more sad is that ur parents would most likrly hv wasted money in sending u to school only for u to come out a confidently delusional entitled free loading daft cunt. Ur stupidity and warped pov really set me off.

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Romance › Re: Nigerian Cultists Vs The Italian Mafia Vs Mexican Cartel. Which Is More Deadly? by Lucifyre: 5:48am On Nov 19, 2022*

Intresting. Don't think u should compare Nigerian cultists in any way to those other two. They have more structure, orgnization, financial prowess and are more brutal especially the mexican cartel. Ive seen what Nigerian cultists can do and its not pretty(dieing is never pretty) but its like child's play compared to the Mexicans, dont even think the Italians are as brutal as them.

Those guys dont joke, ive seen gore videos of what those crazy mexicans do to people that hv run afoul of em and its crazy. Dont even know why i used to watch those shit then. Imagine your skin been flayed and u are injected with adrenaline shots so u dont die. Diffrent insane torture methods i dont think ild use on my worst enemy and thwy wont let u die so they can torture u more in phases.

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Romance › Re: My Wife Is Learning Bad Things by Lucifyre: 5:41pm On Nov 13, 2022

Lucifyre:
Sorry to say my g but u are very dense. U are not matured enough mentally even if it appears u are cause of ur age. Y drag ur wife online and post her pics everywhere because of issues that should be between u too. Maybe u re trolling though and i fell for it. At least that would be slighlty relieving explanation than the other one of u being immature and dense.

Romance › Re: My Wife Is Learning Bad Things by Lucifyre: 5:36pm On Nov 13, 2022*

Sorry to say my g but u are very dense. U are not mature enough mentally even if it appears u are cause of ur age. Y drag ur wife online and post her pics everywhere because of issues that should be between u two. Maybe u re trolling though and i fell for it. At least that would be a slighlty relieving explanation than the other one of u being immature and dense.

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