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pocohantas:
So you just come online to type “K”, then go offline again. The thing really pain you o. I will keep quoting you and your slimy self. Your response is irrelevant, just read it and be pained.

Luminouz: K

K

Dapcity007:
Bro's you are young and it's good you are getting an education on the nature of women at an early age, so many men wished they had redpill awareness when they were young

The redpill is not a social movement but an individual philosophy, a guide to make pragmatic decision when it comes to women and life

The redpill consists of two aspects , the anti-feminism and the personal development aspects

With regards to your path, you first need a vision for life,what's your life's purpose,what goals do you want to achieve
,how to define happiness and success because they are both different.

We focus on your mental wellbeing, physical fitness,your health, how do you improve society, how can you create wealth, how can you be impactful to humanity

With regards to women , you will understand their manipulative nature, why feminism is a big lie,why men and women are not equal,then you have four options

1)Men Go There Own Way (MGTOW)- which means monk mode and introspection for only your personal development and achieving your goals in some cases you avoid women totally

2)Men Rights movement (MRM)- Not what redpill wants,but some men begin social awareness campaigns with regards to issues affecting Men

3) Pick Up Artistry (PUA)- These involves you gaming with several ladies, having sexual non- exclusive ( no serious dating) relationship with them , it was the earliest form of the redpill online, you can also game to have female friends

4) The girl friend's game- These involves gaming in a long term relationship (LTR) with your girlfriend,the skills and knowledge required to sustain your relationship

5)The Patriarch- These the family man who has settled down with his wife or wives having kids and dealing with family dynamics with redpill awareness



As a young man I expect you to pass through all these five phases then settle down with one in the long run

If you have any questions and anything on your mind feel free to discuss with me

You already nailed the points I was about to pen down.

You can also mail him those books you recommended for a member back there

pocohantas:
You didn’t have to respond, stop fooling yourself in 2021.

K

pocohantas:
No woman blamed her where? Is this the first time this matter is gracing Nairaland. Did you go through all the previous threads and NO WOMAN blamed her. Your own is to stay on the sides and be typing chuchuchu, claiming Ibadan fineboy, but when they face you, since you know how to talk- you will na type “ok”. Nonsense snake.

K

MLTR:
The major determinant of a good woman, is her submissiveness and peace she offers.
Black women put up with more bullshit, and is that why they top the chart on paternity fraud.
Men are cheat is what we hear everyday, women are saints buh paternity fraud is on the rise.

Whether you agree of not, men and women are not equals, if ladies are so vested in emulating cheating from men why not emulate other things men do. seems the only thing black women are capable of emulating across the globe is just the bad things, naija gurls watch zeeworld religiously buh emulate nothing. just curious why is it only the bad things ladies wanna emulate

Stop quoting that cococandy babe. She would always give you the excuses for bad behaviour from women. Imagine if it was dangote that released that lady's nude...'men are scum' would rent the air!!! But that akata did and no woman even blames her for that. It's just to show you how lopsidedly fuqed up their emotions are.

Rajosh:
$5mill kee you there.
if you like, show my nude videos. The scandal will pass away with time.

Which scandal sef? Who no dey fuq?

And the western laws would let her release his nude videos without prosecution?

KosiGee:
I don’t think it has much to do with races. The woman lives in an environment where women are better appreciated and much more empowered.
Having dated Dangote for almost 10 years, I think they had a solid romantic relationship but the woman might have developed paranoia due to her age and certain behaviour displayed by Mr Aliko.
I think she wanted to secure her future more by making such demand, sadly for her, Dangote is a man who once withdrew $10m just to look at it and feel good that he has arrived. You don’t mess with such a man. Their ‘tightness’ is second to none. Even Nnewi business men are more generous. Dangote would develop high blood pressure if he paid that woman even $500k. She made a mistake, she should have dated a rich sports star.

In my opinion, she has got more explicit videos and photos and was only testing the waters by releasing the more decent ones.

I’m surprised that Aliko was only demanding $30k. Was that the extra he gave her all through the years??

I don’t believe that Dangote has ‘treated’ her well. I think he used a northern Nigerian Muslim man’s orientated way of treating the females on this lady. She knew she’d be dumped at any time and the rugs would be pulled from her feet leaving her empty and poor. She had to act desperately before it happens.

I think both should go back and settle out of court. It won’t end well for Dangote. His bum crack might be revealed next.

So what if his bumcrack is released? How does that affect him? His investors would leave or what? He is an African man. SM posts don't affect us.

Isn't it funny that a man can release a woman's nudes and go to jail but a woman does same and it's termed defense of palimony?

What's dafuq is palimony? Chai, these Western men don enter better trouble o

Junnior:
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Thanks so much boss.

You welcome,I already updated it sef..so check it again.

Junnior:
I'm taking note of this. I've been wondering lately the things that are okay to spend on ladies you're
1) dating and
2) friends with.

If you can make a more exhaustive list for each, based on your experience, it would be great. Thanks

Lmaooo@exhaustive list? Bro, I no get such list abeg.

Check these out:

1. Dating: I don't give women money for hair,shoes,clothes,bag, school fees,house rent or allowance. These bills are not mine to pay, especially if she has extant(living) parents. If she is kind, nice and generous, then, I give her stuff on her birthdays(whatever I have in mind), after she must have demonstrated such at my own birthdays. I'm not a fan of eating outside,so all these daily/weekly hangouts are not for me. But taking her out once in a while(as a surprise) is still ok.
I love hardworking women and if she has skills that need money to invest in, I don't give her that money outrightly,I make her a partner and let her know business is different from dick/pussy issues and I won't hesitate to collect my investment if she ain't serious.
Girls go broke,just like guys. So tfare and miscellaneous expenses are still ok for me. But these must NEVER become the ritual in the relationship. She must never believe that I'm her ATM for each and every need. That ain't my role, mudafucker!!!

2. Friends: I have very few female friends. If they are the generous type, then I can give them food when they come visit or if broke,some recharge cards to call. If they are the not generous but the "urgent2k, I'm always hungry, gimme-gimme" type, their texts,calls or WhatsApp statuses are forever unread, unreplied and on eternal mute mode. Business wise, the skillful ones would be partners and I will control 60-70% of the stakes. All other bills are NEVER mine to carry.


N.B: Once a girlfriend or friends start giving you orders on what to do for her, with your own money and threatening to do bla bla blaaaaa...it's time to let her know you are in charge. It is your money,not hers and you don't owe her sponsorship, only her parents do.
I was chatting with a babe yday and she said " I ghosted a new guy sometime ago when he asked for tfare after coming to see me at work,for the first time". According to her, that was uncool and I told her, women have been collecting first visit tfare that we give willingly without crying,so why was she upset? She wanted to convince me but I said I wasn't unconvinced, then she asked "are you part of those who believe in spending their wives/gf's money?" I said why not!!!! As my wife,she has access to mine,why shouldn't I have access to hers? She wasn't Ok with my reply. I smiled inside me. Nothing is sweeter than watching a woman squirm with discomfort because you have a mind of your own and you maintained frame.

StacyO:
What are friends for na?
She confided in me and gave her permission.

She's damn serious.
But,it seems Nigerians don't like Kenyans.

We don't hate Kenyans,just entitled women

StacyO:
I am ooo.


The lady is Kenyan. There's a BIG difference.

Why u dey advertise for her na?

StacyO...


So you are not from space after all?

naenaesosa:
Big facts. My level of redpill is getting to the stage that i don't attach myself to material things. The most red pilled man i know is from the east, a real man's man. He lost everything when he moved back from Europe. Loving man but he rules his household tightly. He started from the bottom despite having lived abroad for decades, a small danfo business he drove by himself (ultimate red pill frame of not caring of what people say). He drove his family to church with the bus, and he still maintained control his UK nurse trained beautiful wife. Believe me, this guy became a multimillionaire under 10 years running a full fledged transportation and logistics company. He oozes of redpill without even knowing any of the lingo or slang. From the guy i learnt that being a redpilled alpha is an internal essence that has nothing to do with material things.

It is just you and your frame of mind

Fuqin on point!!!

4ckz:


I collected it, that was the bone of contention in the first place

Ma nigga!!!

CamusMidas:
Bro e tire me oh, I ask her that when the thought of needing a phone came to her mind; why was I the first person that came to her mind? Shouldn't you be your first respondent before seeking for help.

Finally told her that buying phone for a girlfriend is what I don't do.

She vex go and refused to have breakfast, haven't communicated since yesterday.

Refused breakfast in your house? You mean your own food? That's better na...you just eat it and be happy.

Guys dey try sha. I have never bought a phone for any woman. I haven't given any woman money for hair or cream or allowance or urgent 2k. Apart from the usual tfare or food you eat in my house and occasional hang outs, whatever else you want as a woman, get it yourself. You are a human being,not a mannequin.

SPLENDID25:
hmm, the thing is, whenever i tell him he's making a mistake, he always says "i shouldn't worry, that one day, i will take my money and be running after women to 'please' collect".lol ...thats what most of his other friends tell him about me(i am certain they are the energy behind this mistake).lmao

I guess he had it coming then

emmaodet:
You are completely right bro. 100%

I dated a lady or will i say we dated? she is working (custom)
For over 8 - 10 years, i dedicated my time, strenght, attention and money into the relationship. At a point, she started misbehaving and insulting me.
it was at that point something changed in me, as if a veil was lifted. I realised have invested sooooo much in the friendship without any tangible thing in return except occasional naked pictures and masturbating videos from her. I spent a lot, gave gifts, i do buy things on jumia and konga to deliver to her house for she and her kid (a single mum presently).
Recharge cards nko? many abi na to load her dstv from my app. The list is endless or should we talk about writing love poems for her or the plans to take her on a vaction to ghana. My brodassssssssssssssssssss, hmmmmmmmm God no go shame us
What a story, the typical life of a simp.
After the yangas, cold shoulders and insults became too much, i came to my senses and ask myself one day that what am i really benefiting from this uselesssssssss friendship? money i no see(na me even dey lose despite she working and earning 120k then), gift i no see even during my birthdays, sex sef i no see unless audio/video sex for screen.......... Tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
I lock up finally, she hold her side, i hold my side for good 3 months before she came to her senses and realized she has lost it, that am no more in her grips.
Tried severally to bring back the relationship but it was too late to cry when the head is cut off. At a point she became frustrated and blurted out that am stingy like an ijebu man when i stopped giving gifts and money again and insist she should give me gift too.
Why will a stingy working lady call a man that has given so much stingy? have proven my worth, she is the one who hasn't.

Nice one.

If I were in your shoes,I would have taken it further. I would make sure I recover a substantial sum of my investment on her. Draw her close, feign some deep emotional shiit,wait for the perfect opportunity to strike, then drain her of money,then disappear like a ghost.

I can be a stone cold mudafucker when I want to.

naenaesosa:
Guys lets discuss this. Are yahoo boys simps or naturally red pilled?

Yahoo boys start off with a red pilled philosophy by not focusing on women, and just spending time on their laptops 24/7 trying to make money. They practically spend all their days indoors on a computer. Then the money starts to roll in; step 1: Buy new car and move to lekki or magodo; step 2: Gucci bag and clothes; step 3: Find an average babe and just start buying phone, bone straight, car and giving her allowance.

A yahoo boy i know casually said "Men i have to reduce my monthly expense oh my rent na 4m/per annum, fuel na 50k/month, i dey give my chef 120k/month, outing and enjoyment na 500k/month, then i go give my babe allowance of 400k/month". My mouth fell to the ground. I remember when he started, he was red pilled to the core, he knew women only like money. He worked day and night on his laptop, and immediately he started making it he started buying phone for girls, paying for plastic surgery, popping 500k champagne and pouring it on woman's head.

I am conflicted. On one hand he acts alpha and has a strong frame and controls women and brings them into his environment; on the other hand he spends on women, gives lekki high class oloshos $3000 etc.

P.S: I am not a yahoo apologist.

He is no alpha.. he is redpilled in business but not with women. Most rich men are like that. Most brilliant guys are also like that. You would think the effort and brainpower channelled into making money would crossover to their dealings with women but nope. They end up helpless when confronted with female wiles.

So men still give allowance to their girlfriends? Why won't those ones act like they are goddesses?

CamusMidas:
True told I can even repair her phone for her, but to buy is out of it.

E dey look like engagement ring for my eyes, if you know what I mean.

Sai her previous guys dey guy for her, told her maybe it would be thoughtful if she consider dating other guys because I can't in good conscience buy a phone for her. One come dey tell me sai she see how important she is in my life.

If you buy that phone, na me go first curse you for here.

Your last line is a classic manipulation trick. It is the "come hither mudafucker" slinger. For weak men,it makes you wanna strive to prove how important she is to you. For strong men,it's just a recipe for some good old comedy laughter.

If she is that important in her own life, she would hustle and buy the phone herself. But she is not.

SPLENDID25:
A Friend Who Is A Still A Student Just Sold everything He Got From Rice Farming and Paid A Ladies Bride Price. because She Compelled Him To, or Risk Loosing her. Now, school Has Resumed, and He Is Looking Up To His Dad, who Is Old,retired, and Been Very Ill For Like 3years Now For Money To Resume. To Say The Worst, her Highest Edu qualification Is Just ssce(manipulating an Undergraduate, who Doesn't Have An Android phone To Aid His Studies).... Now I Shared This, not Because I Am Seeking For Any Sort Of Advice for Him, BUT BECAUSE,"I DON'T WANT TO BE LAUGHING ALONE".

This is no laughing matter bro

How can you call him a friend and still let him make such a mistake? You were supposed to aid,guide and instruct him on the tenets of the redpill. That's why we are men, not backstabbers like the female gender. We understand loyalty and sacrifice.

Unless, you had talked to him and he refused(no mention of that up there). Now,he is going on a journey of penury and unending marital woes. How in hell does any man fall for that lane line of 'do this or lose me'? That shiit is the oldest con in the book.

Your friend had no android phone and school fees and he is now disturbing his dad,who should by now be taken care of by that same son, that's messed up. How dafuq would he maintain that marriage or even be happy? And since he yielded to the babe on that issue, she would keep giving him ultimatums till he goes crazy.

A woman who can advise you to offload ya rice farm and pay her bride price is no keeper,but a jailer.

I'm not laughing right now, I'm angry.

4ckz:
There's this that was bothering me after going through this thread.
I started applying it immediately, especially in the aspect of giving to ladies, I have a lot of female friends, which means that from time to time I get to lose money foolishly.

One who works or is close to ladies should be aware of the "buy me this or that" from time to time, doesn't matter if you are fuking her or not, doesn't matter if she is above you financially, they're always asking for favors.
I was the classic nice guy, conditioned myself into giving in to those pilfery and not expecting anything, although I always got that "you're such a nice guy, you will treat your woman right" complement.

However, lately I have been on guard over this foolishness, it was hard to start, I do fall back occasionally, but I have gotten a lot better, and I have noticed a lot of changes in attitude towards me.

One of my colleagues, the first lady that made me feel welcome when I was still a work newbie (I call her my work mother), got into a little squable with me over 500. We were out together and she needed 500 to complete her money to get something, I gave her. When we finished that day, I went to collect my money, she was stunned and told me, she will easily leave that for me if the tables were turned that I should drop my resent attitude.
I wanted to defend myself, then I thought thoroughly and asked her "when have you ever given me?". It was then it dawned on me that even though this lady was a senior colleague, obviously better financially placed, I haven't received anything from her.
Her answer shocked me further; she answered the question, talking a lot of gibberish but ended with the classic reply "after all you are a man".

We got into a little friendly argument and she maintained this stance "fight it or not, a Man's role is to provide".

I got to ponder on that statement for many days, I actually believe in gender roles and even if you observed animals, they still had gender roles too.

However, recently I got to talk with my old man, and I carefully raised the topic with him to see his view. He also reaffirmed to me "a Man's role is to provide".
However, he made me understand that women had roles too. In the olden days, the father had the role of providing, while the woman had that of house keeping and the likes of it.

Today, women are rapidly dropping their roles and see it as slavery and today's woke woman doesn't go through those parts, however men are still being subjected to their's.

I have come to this conclusion: Money is earned and it's meant to be. Any money you remove from you should be satisfying a need atleast 90% of the time.
For people like me that would still like to get married, here's an advice, if she (your wife) drops her convectional role of house keeping and is actively working (like is mostly obtainable today), you too drop your role and make family provision a "collective thing".

I have seen this play out steady in some marriages I observe, the wife works, the man works yet the man takes care of family provision, while house keeping is done by a hired maid, wtf is your woman's role in the family, to eat and get obese?

Remember this, Money is earned, and if you must spend let it meet your needs.


Peace!

Nice points

But my own be say: DID YOU COLLECT YA 500 NAIRA BACK OR NOT?

E GO PAIN ME IF YOU NO COLLECT THAT MONEY BACK O

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RedRay:
Buhari please resign. Your political ambition is not more important than the lives of Nigerians.

He won't hear you here...

Try Ask Rock babe

Oh God!!

These mudafuckers just don't understand the Fulanis don't respect peace.

odinson1:
These Golddiggers are relentless

U get am, mudafucker..

U will see what u fit do, till 2130 AD

What a clown


How on earth does he twist the truth and sleep well at night?

BabbanBura:
My babe made me cry last valentine, she did similar with almost nothing that she has. Drop me the best notes I have ever read after my appointment letter.

Baby u too much, love u everyday!

What exactly did she give you? Balloons ? And poems?

bukatyne:
See me smiling all through.

The husband's expression is awesome.

The wife, very resourceful woman: see how she decorated their one room, using their bed as the base and balloons to make it so beautiful.

God bless them both.

Yen yen yen

Yet you will never agree to marry a man with one room o,talkless of marrying a bricklayer..

Iffa wooze u ehn