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Marvieduke:
I love and respect him the same way he does to me, so no just think am.

Yes MA

BRATISLAVA:
everything becomes emotional once you see the logic in apologizing to your oppressor. Your emotional standpoint that all women become unruly when their husbands are poor is your experience. I get that as men you must stand with men, but put that sentiment aside. So because he is going through hell he should put you through hell and later you will respect the hell he gave you because you are now a man/father and he was right? Let's hear something new that isn't male sentiment and retrogressive. You give too many excuses for terrible fatherhood

You don vex?
The first way to healing is to forgive and forget but clearly you still hurt inside. The fact is so long you're born into this world,you're on your own. Your father was meant to be a dad bit he messer up. That hurts but then there are those without fathers(almajiris in the north especially) who decided to strive and make it against all odds. I decided long ago to look at life from a perspective that my happiness and success rest on my shoulders,not someone else. So no matter how bad I was hurt(and I have been hurt like you will never believe),I forgive them and move on. Talking to him and relating with him after such evil deeds hurts him more than you. It means you have progressed to the point of looking at the future,not the past. You are not little anymore,are you? Why does his deed ghosts still haunt you? Holding in such pain damages you more than him. He is old already while you're still young. Dont let animosity ruin your own future.

Humans are humans,flawed and limited. Dont put your whole trust in them.

One love

Ariza:
God bless petite ladies. Those who love us do for who we are not what we carry

Even though I have nothing against petite ladies, your running mouth on NL is enough to put me off.

Now goan make me breakfast ASAP!

Billionsmith:
It is only when a woman made herself available that a guy can sleep with her. Most women of good character and clear visions respect their body and they are not easily wooed to bed .

NASO!!

Marvieduke:
Hungry never worry you because if hungry worry you, you go enter kitchen by yourself go prepare eba and soup wey go full your Belle. And mind you I have my guy okay.

Lmaoooooo....
Hope you dont treat him this way too sha.

Girls with huge assets are sometimes prey to this...
They always look good enough to fuq but guys are scared of marrying them due to fear of competition from other males.

If you see wetin some girls dey pack, you wonder how their husbands won't get jealous of the lustful stares from other men

Marvieduke:
No wahala I will also add sniper to the tea since am not okay

Babe calm down na....I was only asking if you were joking ni!

Just make me something ermmm...breakfast-worthy na...and then we rock it like mummy n daddy@ ur dp.

A real life Mudafvcker!!!


Nawa o

Marvieduke:
Crayfish, and yellow garri sir.

Are you ok?
Which kain food be that for this harmattan period?
You want me to lose weight ni?

Bread and tea would do. Make that ASAP!

crackhaus:
You're probably one of the only ones here who actually has working neurons in the brain. I've been following this since yesterday and wondering why people were antagonizing the OP.

Now you see why I most times ignore some comments? Most People here are incapable of well grounded logic. Is it frustration,bile,anger or some emotional bullcrap that drive their thoughts,I dont know. But they just can't reason without clouding their judgement with emotions.

You and the Mia bloke can see well. I'm glad people like us are not extinct on NL.

Marvieduke:
Grammarian weldone ooo

Thanks babe...what's for breakfast? I'm so hungryyyyyy!

chriskosherbal:
Easier Said than done, op first of all I want to use this medium to say you are a man, for trying to make peace with your Dad, there is a particular blessing that biological father's carry that NO man on earth no matter how highly placed in any field can give to you..Am quoting you because you are still trying to condemn and Judge his Dad, the OP said we never listened to his own side of the story cos men just know how to suck in emotions.

Being the last male in the family I stayed with family for a longtime before I left, and I must say mother's are wonderful but can choke a man to death sometimes if that man lack emotional shockabsolver when things start to fall apart especially finance, Seeing my mum cry complaining to me sometimes you will think Dad is just heartless until I grew to understand that mum most times just want things to go her way always forgetting Dad feelings, and the fact he still the head of the home, irrespective of finance and mum sometimes couldn't just be submissive.

You see when you grow older in life you will definitely love your mum but tend to appreciate your Dad's effort so far in trying to raise a family ( we were 8 in number, even though we lost 2), providing for everyone's need, food, academics, name it, and coping with mums constant nagging sometimes can be really frustrating and unbearable, you will see it practically clear when you start to have kids..

It takes God and a man that is determine to keep his family together irrespective of trials/temptation to still keep going, sincerely I love my mum no doubt but my RESPECT for my Dad have skyrocked when I came face to face with real life ...I love you DAD.

I feel your points.
The scenario you described happens more than often. I had to be very logical too while young or I would have resented my dad. I opened my eyes,saw things from his perspectives and knew that man would sell his soul to make his children prosper. He proved it to us all. Financial downturns sometimes make women very unruly at home and I understood that too. They are still together and waxing strong and I have learnt a valuable lesson.

Leave Bratislava alone. Dude or chick is running on emotional fumes and I totally get that.

Subzero047:
Dude why are you displaying your childishness and insecurities

Shut up and move out of this thread

He told you the truth but most of y'all won't like it.

Marvieduke:
Women rules the world

Women RULE the world.

Basic grammar naaaaaa

Location?
The phones are all brand new I hope(I saw your thread title,just had to ask again)

Dagelv:
Because datting people lost their head and may do unreasoned actions. Moreover, when people break out they break each other's hearths and lost themselves for a long time. And that's sad.

Dafuq u talking about?

Dozie32:
I even misplaced my ATM card this morning too

Lesson 4: Don't be fuqin careless!!!

See those lazy youths up there


Would it kill you to read?

Use skimming or scanning and you will be over it in less than 2mins.

Take this up....

With gifts. He made you

Lies....

I have enough experience to know this is some fake bullshit!

Bad luck!!!

Besides, what's the famzing all about na...