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*yawns* all I see up there are 23 reasons OP is a pussay ass nigga!!!! Its only autistic guys who behave dis way!!!!

davidif:
At no point did i contradict myself. What i said is that a fighter is not the same at 41 as he is at 27. He might still beat some bums at age 45 or even 50 but will he be the same fighter that he was in his 20's? The answer is a big emphatic NO!!!!!

Ogbeni u can lie ooooo....klitschko was beaten by deontay wilder Where? Ur dreams N stop with d bullshiiit weak defence ur putting up...u contradicted ursef n its pathetic!!!!! Ur just a sore loser!! Hope u didn't use ur house rent to play bet9ja on d match!!!

Malawian:
This Joshua guy doesn't even look like a Yoruba. First, he does not have the Yoruba physic, secondly, unlike a typical Yoruba who runs towards the opposite direction at the first hint of a fight, this one runs towards it. His mother should tell us the truth biko.

How do Yorubas look? N what is d physique? Yorubas are cowards Do u even attend any history classes in SKUL or u no even go SKUL self!! No wonder ur retarded!!!

quivah:
you see, I think it's rather funny when people think they can know another person over what he/she wrote online...esp from one single post.
I like the fact that you were able to caution yourself over what you perceived I could be..
while I know I don't get angry easily or fight back, I also do know am stubborn and introverted. many of my so called friends who give me shits or whatever that I refuse to throw back, also have to put up with some of my bad vices.
so I marvel when people on nairaland are quick to accept your online personality as real.
that's just one side they are showing, or who knows... trying to show!

so I could be gentle, fun to be with, stubborn and introverted,vampire,cool,virago.. I could be anything!! you can never know over my posts on ñl

Wow!!!!! At least tell me u can cook!!!
N I will forgive whatever vice u may have!!!

Basic123:
lolz...Another "bragging" and " chest beating".You guyz and empty chest beating are like

I was bragging bro...I quoted a nigga who did!

folakemigeh:
What a sad story.

But does sniper kill that fast?

I onced had suicidal tendency while i was a student also..


May God give her family the fortitude to bear the loss

Don't dare try DAT suicide nonsense again!!!!
U have me now babe n its all good dear!!!!

curiositymaster:
a

D guy just won sniff our parole but kolewerk!!!!!

quivah:
my mama dey say if your lover's family no give you eye, accept you or respect you.. flee!! love is nothing!! love isn't enough.. love isn't even supposed to be the reason you stay in such relationship. your hubby's attitudes. I.e if he stands for you in cases like this, should be the sole reason why you decide to stay or leave..

but worse off most of these guys in this sort of relationship don't stand up for their girls. after all it's family first!. a typical example is the guy in the OP, with time he might fall to his mum's pressure.

I no sabi talk, I don't know how to fight back..I take every shit thrown at me but all I do is walk away and most times, I don't ever get involved with such a person again. These persons mostly are hostel mates, my 'friends', class mates.. I don't know how to talk back, can't say no, state my displeasure or fight back.. all I do is laugh painfully, or just rub it off..
now imagine,if one gets into a family who doesn't accept you, disrespects you,of course she gets to take all those shits, they get to her, she cries within, self esteem get shattered and even worse the partner doesn't know how to stand up for her, or probably didn't see how his family hurts her.
it's terrible!! but it doesn't stop there.

knowing the kinda person I am, I can never marry someone whose family doesn't accept or respect me. it cant work! and I can't stay with a man whom my mum rejects either. this goes beyond physical, really!! that woman enh!

I think op should tell her friend, to leave aside that yeye love, love that can't make her partner stand up for her... love isn't enough!!! she better be wise.
if her lover can't stand up for her now, he can't stand up for her ever and the maltreatment goes on no matter how hard she tries to earn her mil's respect. Only her hubby can make things work out with his mother, something he is failing woefully at. With time, she won't take it no more, and then she explodes and release all the venom inside of her back at the mil. believe, she's sad her mil to be treats her bad, but believe me more....something deep is growing inside of her too. it's just a matter of time.
have you ever been bullied so hard but you werent too strong to retaliate or you hated to fight back?.. but you feel not only sad that you got bullied, you also feel very angry after each incidence??..but it's all in a matter of time. yeah right, you get my point.
from whence, things get really worse and the marriage/relationship go crashing down.. who gets the Blame? the wife!!

@op, her fight isn't with her lover's mum, it's with her lover.. if he cabt stand up for her, or he's afraid to talk to his mum..it's better she lets go. the woman is feeding on her son's silence, if he just talk to his mum..things will mellow. and it's better he makes his mum realize what he wants, if he waits till marriage before he stands for his wife, believe me, a typical Nigerian woman in this state,would revert back to spiritual uhm uhm. thinking her son has eaten concoction.. you can see how complicated things get.

PS; the ability to say no, state your displeasure in respectable manners, shows some level of your maturity.
she can't fight her in law but she can't take the insults either.

the emboldened is one of my personal development goals.

#modified

U sound like a gentle soul n fun to be with but what do I know...u could be vampire or virago! Women!!!!*sighs*

kolaaderin:
Well britain trained him, so give the victory to UK, Nigeria must have distroyed his career prospects by now probably somewhere doing yahoo yahoo as a yoruba boy , developing asian countries with hard drugs as an igbo boy or gboko haram commandant serial terrorist as a hausa boy. YOU SEE MY PEOPLE NIGERIA HAS FAILED EVERY LIVING SOULS LIVING ON HER. I WEEP FOR THIS COUNTRY.

Show Me ur tear stained face or......

Tender1:
Bro I love this girl so much to an extent she introduced me to her parents and friends, but immediately she got admitted into school less than a month, she change, she started double dating, this is a girl that I disvirgin, that use to love and cry for our love to grow like I use to. Dunno what to do. After her, I've not find any girl that I really love, lemme say I find it hard to love any girl.

I understand u bro...d pressures n pleasures of SKUL made her change....which means she never truely loved u.....u deflowering her means nothing(a fact I keep telling guys who believe virginity is all in all) coz if she is bad...then she is bad!!!!!
Time will heal u bro..n u will find someone better to love u again!! Peace out!!

Tender1:
I don't find myself loving any girl anymore after what my ex did to me, I only feel better talking about it. I do really love her. What should I do. Please. No matter how hard I try to forget her, I can't. It's 2 years now, she was the first girl I disvirgin, Though I've tried my best to move on, still yet I don't find myself loving any girl, maybe because I'm scared??

Sharing is caring bro!!! Please tell me more!!!!!!

tinz:
It's illogical with the way some miopic people think. Sometimes I wonder if some people are born without brain @basic123.

Judging from you already passed judgement on some tribe as to how they claim this or that yet they still remain in an entity called Nigeria.
If you ever been to the school. have you noticed why history is no more thought in schools or the role the UK and US played in the so called war so as to protect their interest. If history is to be told. Don't you remember the war was fought. In about 3 years which the Almighty Nigerian government claim to annihilate in 2 months. I must tell you the sole reason Nigeria is existing today is cus of the UK and US. Aside that you all know the Easterners can annihilate you people in just about amonth. Believe it or not. I advise you go back to school so you brain can be reformatted that's if you still have one

' Aside dat u all know d easterners can annihilate u people in just about one month'........What's with u guys n empty headed boasting? Were u even conceived at that time?

D video link or konidafun OP!!!
Bloggers n LIES!!!!

lalabrother:
its still in you bro... You will always be a potential wife beater especially whenever she pushes u off limit like ur ss2 classmate

Ode ni e!!!!!

INTROVERT:
Ave told him he's dead the day he tries it.... WHETHER OR NOT IT'S MY FAULT.

Congratulations on ur stronghead n it plan to make ur kids orphans!!!! Mtchewwww

missyadorable:
Beating a wife has nothing to do with celebrity status or financial strenght
It all depends on the man's belief,character and temper.

My father beat my mother, as a habit, for almost 29 years of marriage,started 3 days into the marriage.
He was/is not a celeb,not rich.He just learnt that beating a wife is the way to humble her and make her submit to his authority as head of the family.
My mum was forced to adjust and manage as she was told that it's a normal practise for men to beat their wives and God hates divorce.
So she endured for 29 years until the last beating she got 3 years ago.She had a big tear from the broken bottle her husband stabbed her with and had an emergency surgery.
It was then she decided to call societal and biblical belief bluff and run for her life.

My mum would tell you she has never been happier.The last 3 years living on her own without my dad remains the best years of her life ever since she said "I do".

Many men beat their wives because they know the woman will manage for fear of what the society will label her forher failed. Marriage.

I believe u on d belief,character n temper points!!!!
My Dad is a quiet man but with a temper(not quick but vicious) but his belief is DAT only weak men beat their wives( we are from d lineage of warrior kings who belief our beating should be reserved for our enemies..not our wives) but he knows how to control his wife( mom can so verbally frustrate even ME sometimes) simply by keeping quiet, ignoring her n leaving d house!!! The funny thing is my mom will calm down swiftly n before u know it they are back together ( sometimes I don't know how they do it).
But for me....I don't have my father's patience(my character) but I share his belief(no beating women) so I have my own way of dealing with women (am strict but fair n NEVER lose my STRONGWILL)

eyeview:
First of all, who Is mercy aigbe and what is she known for ? Sounds like a female athlete that represented Nigeria sometime ago. Is she the one?

Is she an actress or what?

Meanwhile, always wait till u hear the man's side.
I once had a neighbour, a peace loving medical doctor. Whenever he had a misunderstanding with the wife, she will quickly run and change into a bum short and pounce on him. You will see the poor man running to get out of his own house. Sometimes, she will be hurling stones at his windscreen while he speeds off. But sometimes when the poor man cant take the attacks and abuse, he will beat her up to defend himself and the same lioness will be quick to snap her wounds and send out, forming the victim.

I have a friend who is suffering all forms of abuse in the wife's hands, yet it's the wife that goes to family, friends, colleagues, church members and even the police to act like the victim and paint the man as evil. But once you know the truth, the wife will blacklist you and turn you to enemy. My friend, an almost 40 year old will call me and be crying.

Most of these girls actually launch the attack and when the man retaliates, she start forming victim and inexperienced people and feminist-wanna-be will start quoting principle.

I know someone who was constantly having issues with the wife. One day in church, he gave his life to Christ and swore that he would work on his marriage and would never raise his hands on his wife again. The wife heard it and thereafter, at the slightest provocation, she will launch her beating on him.

I believe u bro!!!!!! But such women feel free to do such coz they perceive d men as weak!!!! I keep telling people DAT women respect REAL men( who are strong willed) not pussy ass niggas! No wife will try all DAT nonsense with me coz she knows my own craze be like SUN!!!! Dou I don't beat women but they are lotta ways to deal with women other than beating!!!!
No be women? They have been playing d victim's game since 1BC......

Raine80:
I will discuss a proposal with you for example now it might have seemed like a good idea to me but once discussed maybe it's not such a good idea anymore , I will accept that no problems. Now say you agree to do something and days go by nothing happens eventhough I can see there is no reason for the procrastination. Do I assume you never wanted to do it in the first place ( which would annoy me a lot as I value honesty and transparency) , you cannot actually do it but are too proud to admit that you cannot? So do I keep asking which means I am repeating myself ( you feel nagged) or do you just fess up and say I cannot do what we agreed to do earlier. Which means there is no unnecessary tension and resentment And we can come up with plan B. I will always have great respect for a man who knows his strengths and weaknesses. Not so much for one who pretends to know everything but is a master of none.

Now u are talking sweetness! Tell me y I would go GAGA if u talked like this as my wife!!! I have never been a pretender so no reason to promise to fix something( I know I can't fvckin fix) then spend days ignoring it....I simply tell u wifey Mabinu(Yoruba for don't vex) I can't fix DAT stuff o....don't know how to....but I will try(n I start trying d next day) if my trial no work...will simply tell u! Shikena!!!! Its a marriage so y pretend But if it is something I can do n am available(like no work stuffs or other serious obligations) will tell u when I will do it n start DAT same time......
But what I don't like is after telling u I can't do something u keep quiet n at night(after sex) u bring it up n all through DAT day n d next.....HABA!!! Raine80 u go soon kill me be DAT o....

Homeboiy:
bad guy check my profile to read my latest gist

na true story

Of course na! I did 2 days ago!!! Where did u think I got DAT 14times a week info from

Raine80:
So you don't wait to be nagged ? You sure ?Because I hate repeating myself.

Of course yeah....so long ur suggestion is reasonable n d presentation is courteous!!!!! There are some times I might not agree with ur views if d timing is not right as ur husband but I will let u know y?
But one thing I absolutely hate is an overbearing woman who talks like she is doing u a favour.....make requests commands n has no iota of respect for ME!!!! I hope ur not like DAT!!!

Homeboiy:
Like my ex own


hmm

D one u forked 14times in a week? It should be wide naaaa!

snowden9:
6. To avoid the trend in benin city where there are lots of living land ladies and dead husbands(initial house owners)

I heard about DAT scenario ooo! I even know a particular area in Ibadan just like DAT....landladies everywhere with no living landlords!!!

Raine80:
Some men have to be nagged they have the procrastination virus.

Not me babe!!!! A trial will convince u!!!

Partnerbiz:
Why do men beat women especially their wives. I would punish her in other ways than laying hands.


THREE PERSONS I CAN NEVER BEAT NO MATTER THE LEVEL OF ANGER

1. My lovely mum
2. My sweet sisters ( God give me a wife like any of them)
3. My future wife. I mean the one wey i don marry o.

I fit ball random girl slap shaa.


See below pls.

Guy forget mercy Aigbe joor!!! Errmmmm.....let's talk about ur sisters!!!!

skylowlow:
See them o..

Na thick ibadan coup una dey plan

Make I laugh in gbegiri and amala.. mukekekeke

See u! If u actually laf in gbegiri n amala it should sound like...... Gbegimala.....gbegimala....!!!!!

Me n curiositymaster dey cook something ooooo......

placeofallure:
I kinda like the safe haven feeling i get whenever we're together.

Well some gehs say DAT!!!!!

skylowlow:
Hmmm..

Abi una don dey plan coup ni..

Are u scared? Berra let's share DAT money or I go blow whistle now

curiositymaster:
Where you dey since na? I hope you didn't come back empty handed.

Guy....update wa o.....in za oda room......check it!!

Lashort:
2 hours if he is healthy....

N someone would Say short geh don't love diiccks!!!!!

Amarabae:
20minutes

GhenGhen! I believe u jare!!!! Tested n trusted right?

Oduok:
"1. He could not gain even a cleaner job. 2. He went to visit a prophet." Stories as this will be so enticing to our religious society. Pastors will now get what to preach. But believing this story will lead us more into backwardness. Questions I would love to ask: 1. Did he apply for the socalled cleaner job and didnot get? 2. Was he only appying for oil companies, banks, and other high profile jobs thinking he is the only one that is best graduating or carrying First Class degree? 3. This his best graduating status, how old was he when he attained it? Did he come back from NYSC before the age of 27? 4. Apart from this socalled best graduateship, what else could he offer employers or the society? 5. Other bestgraduating students that have no employment within 5years, did they inherit some kind of curses too? I have so many other questions to ask but let me stop here.

U forgot a last question!!!! After these revelations n all. Is d guy now EMPLOYED?

idoncare440:
wow! my brother must hear this

Y naaaaaaaa? U scared?