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i love the song UNAPPRECIATED by cherish!!!

if ur feeling unappreciated, dont worry hun, but until u know ur worth, no one will fully appreciate you. Stand back and hold proud, those who dont wanna appreciate u- na dia loss!!

where is the love - Black eyed peas

@enomis

i no harsh oh!!, its just sometimes ppl fail exams not because they are stupid, but because they dont read instructions properly, just thot to point it out to him

@wifeypenth, lol, i believe u were trying to remove words from my mouth, so i go ignore ur own

back to topic

Its NOW or never - Elvis presley

@desodgi, no offence, BUT DID You ACTUALLY READ WHAT THE RULE OF THE FORUM SAID?, if u can't follow it, i beg leave

ok, following on from @OMO eko

HOW could an angel break my heart - Toni Braxton

@RuuDie

hahahahaha, dont mind me, you'd be surprised how quickly i type, especially if i feel i have something to say, or if some ppl are being hypocrites!!

Angel of mine - Monica

@fola
hey thanks dude, that would be really nice

how much is it?, and do they have females?, or is it free and its just friends hanging out??

please tell me more!

@tbk
it is wrong religiously, does not mean you as a PERSON has an opinion as to why you believe it is wrong!!, We all know what religion tells us, heck i can even safely assume, some ppl are brainwashed by religion, and never for one minute stop to think about life and their actions and WHAT IT MEANS TO THEM AS A PERSON!!, [/b]they do it, because the pastor said so!!, bullsh*t, i have no respect for such madness!!, again thats my view!

[b]@others i appreciate those of you, who say you wont do it for your personal reasons, and i didnt say it guarantees marriage, neither did i say it leeds the way for inevitable divorce because of (as one person put it) ''see finish'', it's just sometimes you find your self in a situation where you need to make a decision for yourself. for your life. you need to put aside prejudices and judge whether co-habitating or not is the right thing for you to do, at that point, will you do it, or will u still stand by and watch things go, because u couldnt do it!!, that is where i was coming from

as we can see, there are some who have done it, and would do it again in another life, others have regretted it!!, so WHILST YOU MAY HOLD THE VIEW THAT IT IS WRONG, DO NOT TRY TO IMPOSE IT ON OTHERS OR TO CONDEMN THEM, FOR DOING WHAT THEY THINK IS RIGHT!

then again as one person rightly said, there might be ppl in here, preaching against it, when they are currently practicing it! to those, i say, Hypocrites!

and to all those girls that, cook, wash, clean, iron for their boyfriends, and have sex with him when the mood kicks in (his place or yours), without even having as much as the right to know what time of the night he gets home!, i wonder who is better off, they babe co-habitating and doing all those, getting SOME acknowledgment, or you who (is maybe) being used a maid, whislt he maybe plays around outside!!!, i suppose if ur not gonna play along to 'wifey' before u get married, then be truly independent of him, stop doing half-half and then pretending to be holier than thou!

Okay, dead simple, you need to follow on my song title with another one using one of the words in my title!  

''I wanna dance with somebody'' - Whitney Houston

I've been toying wiuth the idea of exercise for a while now, yet i cant seem to find the morivation. the idea of doing it alone actually makes it more unappealing, SO

Running / jogging partner needed

must live in London, Preferably EAST, and be willing to go for morning/evening runs,

Interested, post a reply with your mail add, and i'll get in touch, cheers

@Poster

the home kits or Urine based tests, can only pick up hormaones in the blood after about the 4th week. That is when the hormoes have been produced at a level high enough to be detected by the kits.

Blood tests usually reveal them in smaller amounts, so can be used to detect early pregnancy whiolst home tests can only do so, in about ur 4th-5th week.

So wait 2more weeks and then do it again, or go get a blood test, gd luck

Is there any girl who doesnt have more than one boy friend? - ME

Do u know any girl who wouldnt lie to her boyfriend about who is dating? - ME

Do u know any girl who has made sacrifice for her boy friend before? - ME ,  it got thrown back in my face with not so much as a thank u

Is there a girl who can befriend a guy who has no money? - ME,
i could date u and help u out, BUT just don't take it as right that i'll help u because i'm dating u, otehrwise to blazes with u, & before i date u, if u have no money of your own, i'd better see potential in you and that you are striving to get somewhere, if your LAZY + GOT NO MONEY, as much as i may love u, na only date we go date ohh, heaven forbid i no go marry that kind guy!! (honestly)

@Silly

i appreciate your honesty, dream on hun, dont let anybody take away your dreams, theres a famous quote A MAN WITHOUT DREAMS, HAS NO ASPIRATIONS AND NOTHING TO LIVE FOR so dream on brother!!

the most amusing thing is, i bet u, THE GUYS COMING IN HERE AND AND SAYING THEY THINK VIRGINITY=DIGNITY, HAVE AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIVES, DISVIRGINED A GIRL OR GIRLS, AND SO HAVE HELPED THEM LOSE THAT 'DIGNITY', why come in here and pretend to be pro-virginity/dignity when u HELP/PERSUADE (as in most of ur caes), LADIES TO LOSE IT TO U IN THE FIRST PLACE, mad men!!

PPL LIE because THEY CAN, its called[b] FREE WILL[/b], if he's ur Fiancee then he should be ashamed of himself for having let things gone this far and not still have told u the truth.

I say, be more concerned about WHY he lied than the fact that he lied. If u love enough to want to commit urself to him, then try and understand why he did it, that might heal the rift and help u rebuild ur trust in him before decing to commit the rest of ur life to him. If he had no reason to lie and he just did it, THEN THE REAL QUESTION IS, DO YOU HAVE THE HEART TO LIVE WITH SUCH A MAN?>
i admire women with tremendous strength (or stupidity-depending how u ook at it) that are able to live with the knowledge that their husbands and partners are flirts and mini-gigolos, yet they accept it as part of them and live with it, even having their children, as long as he respects her, provides for his family and is responsible, those women can deal with his issues!

@Silly boy

hahahah ur reasons are silly but true ( i am sure for a lot of guys), only u gat guts to say it. Some men view co habitation as already impinging on their 'freedom' BEFORE marriage, and so, they wouldnt want to do it for that reason.

as for for ur fantasy, hahahahaha, keep dreaming, who dyu think u are?, JAY Z?

@mindey

hahahahaha, well i tell the truth or i keep quiet, no in between, lol

maybe she'd always liked him, and found her chance when u 2 separated.What is the real reason y u cant tell her? eitherway,i think ALL OF YOU NEED TO START BEING OPEN AND HONEST WITH EACH OTHER, like ppl who care about each other should do. If not, y'all gonna be in this viscious cycle for a long time

McDoe:
I am simply good in dancing. I can wriggle my waist very well ; and can use this same method to put any damsel in a state of ecstasy when it matters.

hahahahahah, sorry but that made me think of a worm, ever tried putting salt on a worm and see how it wriggles, hahaha mean, but we used to do thyat as kids

@richy, na u biko!!

@RuuDie, hmmm

in all what u said, i think what i was trying to say is i value my space, ofcourse if i like u alot to share 'some' of it with u, then thats kool, but the guy needs to understand thats the way i am, and tolerate me, same way im sure i'll be accomodating to some of his needs

@MacDoe,

it DEPENDS on the kind of woman r going after, u had better know her and her personality, and whether or not, she is the type to appreciated and tolerate nonsense,

ME if i say NO i mean NO, dont try to persuade me, because i wont even LET u within a sq. mile of me, lol, harsh but true. if i'm interested, u'll know , ITS ALL IN THE BODY LANGUAGE AND CHEMISTRY huney

HOWEVER, for some girls that like pretending ( i have friends like this) it pisses me off, but hey, na dia style. here's the trick

[b]IF A GIRL IS INTERESTED AND IS JUST PLAYING HARD TO GET, OR GIVING U THE RUN AROUND, SHE'LL ENETRATIN, YOUR DATES, PHONE CALLS, OUTINGS ETC, ONLY THING SHE'LL BE ACTING LIKE SHE AINT BOTHERED OR IT DONT MEAN NOTHING TO HER[/b], but if u meet a girl who says NO to that and means NO to it, by d time u pester her life 1/2 times, she will set u staright and either ignore ur calls till u see sense, or cut all contacts, in fact she no go even dey call u bk in d first place!!, hope that helps y'all

@mindey

eyah, i'm tempted to call u B*TCH, but then again, i cant, cos a part of me, understands u and feels SORRY for ur friend.

IF you and this guy really like each other then BOTH OF YOU had better STOP YOUR COWARDICE, have enuff balls to sit your friend down and set her straight, it might mean u lose her as a friend (so thats ur call, is the guy worth that risk), if he is fine, and if ur friend truly understand she'll know she's just in the way of something both of something stronger than 3 of u. and she is hurting her self, she'd better let go, but the earlier the better for her and u 2, MAYBE HE IS YOUR ''MR RIGHT'',

shame it had to be your friend, BUT i y'all had  better NOT break up again, if u hurt ur friend. otherwise i will really call u a B*TCH

@samsilo

HAHAHAHAHAH, i know KFC, and na so ppl dey for dis, but i dont blame the girls though, gosh some of the guys there (African) [i]are single, desparate and sexually frustrated[/i], [/b]dance with them and they will be trying to rape u on the dance floor. they dont understand the concept of dancing or ONE DANCE, its like if u agree to dance with them, they will 'stick to u for the rest of the nite' u cant shake them off, (like chewing gum), if i am going to african clubs, i go with friends i can dance with, and [b]I AM SORRY, NO OFFENCE MEANT, BUT I WILL NOT DANCE WITH ANY SINGLE, OVERLY DESPARATE AFRICAN GUY THAT CAN NOT RESPECT HIMSELF, resaon why white ppl and those born here, enjoy themselves is because they have no strings, if ur asked for a dance, thats all it is, u have the choice of walking away or staying close if invited to by the girl, but african guys dont give u dat chance, b4 u know, dem go dey toss u, asking for ur number, na dance i want oh, no be bf

hahahahaha, people people,

To the religious fanatics, i thought i had already said we have established that it is wrong religiously to cohabitate, so WHY bring it up again?

any way going back, i say it DEPENDS on the guy u meet. sometimes u meet a guy who is willing to pull his own weight, he will cook, and clean for u, other times u meet a guy who is willing to use u for free. Married or not, if a guy wants to leave u, he will, these days THERE IS VERY LITTLE SANCTITY IN MARRIAGE, PPL (MALE/FEMALE) do not respect it, they will out just as easily walk out on u when they marry u as they will when they are dating you.

and GUYS also get used and abused in courship NOT just ladies, i have friend who are guys who have been in this situation, only thing we hear more about it from the ladies, cos from teh guys it seems somewhat embarassing

@Aproko, u ask if i would live with everyman i date?, i say NO, i am not saying u should move in with a guy after just having started to date him, or if deep down in u, u have doubts. I am saying, if e.g u've been dating a guy for 2 yrs and u feel u 2 are going to end up together and for whatever reason (financial, emotional etc) the need to live together arises, then why should u?, same way he can change his mind about marryinng u, u too can change ur mind about marrying him, u SHOULD BE ASSERTIVE, in what u both bring to the household.

women tend to get hurt most times because, DEEP DOWN IN THEIR HEARTS THEY HAVE DOUBTS ABOUT THINGS WORKING DOWN IN THEIR R/SHIP, YET THEY CONTINUE TO TAKE STEPS FORWARD IN THAT RELATIONSHIP, WHEN IT ALL BREAKS DOWN IN FRONT OF THEM, THEY SAY HAD I KNOWN, WELL IF THEY HAD LISTENED TO INSTINCT FROM THE START IT NEVER WOULD HAVE GONE THAT FAR

@2dye4

i got to be honest oh!, and about being unapologetic, didnt mean for it to come out that way, but i suppose soemtimes the truth can sound like that, can't it?!!

MILITIA:
@RuuDie

Oh! Married people do not need space abi? Like husband and wife should be siamese twins! Sorry oh! I have all girls outing and the hubby has his own guys only outing! That is what I call "space"! Come suffocate man pikin in the name of marriage!

ROFL

@RuuDie

hahahaha, just cos ue married to someone does not mean they have to impinge on ur space

@ruudie

co habitating wiv u, hmmm, lol(joke), sha, som ppl r very territorial oh

@richy

its like u were d michael jackson of your viallge/town ohh, 

@RuuDie

hahahah, now u mention it, i wanna know, how did u handle it?

maybe she's going by what the guy actually told her?, it's true some girls begin to hallucinate when they r in love or infatuated, but she seems like she's got her feet on the ground, just a wrong move she was about to make thats all

@nurex

didnt u have a problem with r/ship a short while back?i remember advising u on something, kai be say na only u one babes dey see, or ur heart too dey love?, huney u gat some drama in ur life

@iice

hahahahaha, i understand u jarre!, personally i value my space too, a friend of mine on here calls me brat!, lol, hey what can i say?, aint my fault is im selfish, but like u, i would do it, if i feel the time is right or the situation calls for it, it is not a definite yes or no on my part

@Aproko
sometimes it isnt just about the finances, sure u can both afford ur own plavcs, but u decide to share and live together

@Militia
Engaged or not, if he wanna leave ur ass, he will still do it oh, engagement doesnt hold anything, he will ust say the engagement is off, lol

AND IF I DECIDE TO CO-HABITATE, WE WILL BOTH MOVE INTO A NEUTRAL HOUSE, i aint moving to his place, and he aint moving to mine, we'll start new, in a new place with both names on the tenancy agreement, where we btoh share the rights and responsibilities

@ militia, about those ppl, they sha annoy me, its almost like they have been brainwahsed, and what anoys me most, is i am all but certain that all of those preaching with the banner of GOD have acted in exactly the opposite manner to what they are preaching