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I have a thing for a guy that can DANCE, i mean make me feel something on the dance floor, and im a goner!

i no mean juju dance ohh, i'm talking sensual movements to the rhythm of the music, some hold the theory that if a guy can move his waist on the dance floor, he is not only romantic (as he is sensitive) but he is good in bed too.

LADIS AND GENTS, HOW MANY OF YOU THINK THIS MIGHT BE CORRECT?

_{have a good weekend, (dance loads)}

@Bolarge

hahahahah, shaa, as long as ur sure she appreciates being stalked, then hey, u do ur thang brother!! [b]na u biko!!, [/b]its all good

@Bolarge

i bet its ur stalking quality that makes u appealing to her right?

hahahahahahah, n/land is full of characters, some of them are larger than life, others are comical, and some are quite simply out of this world, probably living on la-la land and u have the fakes!!

if he is interested, heck i wont even have to tell hm, he'll check out the pc history and its all there for him to see, lol. i know my conscience is clear and its not like im upto no good here!, u go only fear if ur insecure or have somtheing to hide, im neither soo heyyyy

@Hazel

me i tok am as i see am. because me sef come wonder now, i scrolled up and down d page like 2times, to make sure that was the pic i was actually meant to be looking at, then i just say wahala dey o!!

sha i think she gets d msg, we have sussed her out, she had better stop now ohh!, say d lighting effect!, shooo

onyex

against my better judgement, i did have to visit ur page and c for myself. u are NOT that light, and if that is what guys

have been telling u, then sorry, because they have been lying to u. SO oyah, carry rubber band hold ur head make e no

big pass now ohh!!, i was expecting to see one yellow babe or albino sef!

@sally

HAS HE LEFT HER?

if he says he has, and u truly believe he has, then u should be together. NIGERIA is one hell of a big country, both of u, do not have to stay in same state/area as his ex, u can move to the other end of naija and start a life together, and she doesn't have to know!

If he can guarantee that its over btwn then and u believe him, then go for it!, if not, steer clear, otherwise she will see u as a 'husband snatcher'

is this some kind of publicity stunt to get ppl to c ur pic?

@poster

u THAT BAD in real life u cant pull face-to-face?

@iice, u cheeky girl!!

Well, if he's married, then he should be left alone, and he too shouold STOP talking to babes

@poster

sounds to me like u aint ready or completely sure, VERY FEW PPL ON EARTH HAVE THE LUXURY OF 100% ASSURANCE/CERTAINTY THAT THEY ARE MARRYING THE PERSON MEANT FOR THEM.

but the rest of us need to be able to convinve ourselves beyond reasonable doubt, and it sounds to me like, u aint done that yet. it sounds like u feel pushed. Talk out ur fears with him, tell him u feel its a bit too soon, u'd like some more time, doesnt mean u've changed your mind about marrying him, u just need time to know him more and be at ease with the idea.

no be easy step, so dont feel pressured into doing something u WANT but at the WRONG time for u

ima, aww thats sweet!!

errrmmm, i dont/rarely do special things, or set out special occassions, i sure hope he feels it, everytime we talk, laugh, smile or even argue, cos i do it all for love, ITS A SIGN OF LOVE, if not, i wouldnt even bother

Bolarge:
Thank u O,my sista. You're a darling.

i know, i know , ur probably not so bad urself!!

hahahahaha funny,

i keep telling guys, LOOK, SICK DEM PLENTY OUT THERE, IF U WANT TO GO AND HAVE FUN, FEEL FREE, BUT THIS EARTH GO SMALL FOR BOTH OF US, IF YOU SHOULD BRING AN ILLNESS FROM OUTSIDE AND INFECT ME, sexually or not, im not looking after myself and planning a life, for some control-less idiot to come and give me sickness

Give a little, and u shall recieve a lot, i hope u sef no stingy

if he cant give, show him, if he does call, teach him

if it still doesnt work, then ACCEPT him, if u can't huney THERE'S THE DOOR, stop moaning!

@poster

it takes a lotta guts, to admit online, that ur lonely, anonymous or not! so kudos my bro, i hope u find what ur looking for, but be careful, in the faceless world that is the internet, beasts can pass for humans, so be cautious with ur heart

@tommy

Nehru once said

''The policy of being too cautious is the greatest risk of all''

i think this is typically true in your case. To be able to achieve max pleasure u gotta face max risk, so if u feel prepared go for it, but be sure ur doing it from your heart, that way if it doesnt work out, u have little regrtes and it makes it easier to overcome.

what usually hurts most, is when u go into things half heartedly and u kick ur self in the backside when they dont work, because u should have seen it coming from the signs

@silly
lol, wow, we agree on dat point?

@iice - word!!!

@poster, this is ppl become suicidal, mai fried u had better pull urself together & snap out of it!

i dont remember her saying she nags him about his work,

some ppl always have to go to extremes huh?! , maybe its just something she's noticed that she aint happy about and she's still trying to figure out her way round it!

make una no dey tell her say her nagging is not helping, or will not help bla bla bla, because she didnt say thats what she does now,

There's a difference between nagging and expressing ur self, if some ppl choose to label the fact that u are upfront enuff with ur bf to tell him when he does something wrong, that u dont like it!, then tough cookies

@Gollum, express urself, IT'S NOT NAGGING, make ur feelings known, and then say how u would want things to be better, he can say
'i'm sorry its the hours i signed up to do, but i'll see how we can work around both our lives' or he can say

' sorry hun, right now is a busy period at work things should calm down soon, its just a phase' or he can say

'i'm sorry i just cant help myself, everytime i want to sop something comes up, and i have to put in the over time-but i know ur worried about it pulling us apart, so i'll see what i can do'

eitherway, he knows how u feel about the whole thing, and what hebmight lose if things continue. and if he says the last sentence, then u got to let him know, that u understand he needs to work, but he nees to find the balance, be independent, but be sure he understands it takes 2 to make a r/ship work

u got 2 options, u can

1. Talk to him about the way he's behaving. tell him how it makes you feel, and try to help him work his way out of his shyness (assuming that is the reason behind this).
this approach will take time, patience, understanding and alot of belief that he does love u, its just he cant express it. if u no get back bone, no try this one

2. You can ignore it and learn to live with. brush it under the carper as one of his faults and accpet him for who he is.
This is the easier way out, but if u like to get your way, or to hear those things, then this option will be hard for u, and u might find urself seeking those words elsewhere

its upto 2 jarre, but those are ur options, just bear in mind

A WOMAN CAN NEVER CHANGE A MAN, A MAN CHOOSES TO CHANGE BECAUSE OF THE LOVE HE HAS FOR A WOMAN, IN ORDER TO BE A BTTER PERSON FOR HER, TO BE THE PERSON SHE WANTS HIM TO BE AND TO NOT DISAPPOINT OR HURT HER! _{(thats my belief)}

@gashabar
oh oh, sounds to me like u got one of them!

WHY ARE U EVEN WITH SOMEONE WHOM U KNOW DOESNT LOVE U? {judging from ur title}

anyhow, na love, i know the feeling, u just have to tell him to quit playing games, either he wants u, in which case he needs to stop with the games and start acting like it

or he doesnt want u, and u both call it off

all this beingh in the middle not sure of where u stand - winds me the devil up!!

on the other hand, i hope ur not one of those girls tghat seek constant attention and assurance that he loves u. maybe he doesnt have to say it all the time as long as he acts it,

@benefit, lol

look, so she was on a 'date' with a guy, notice how u r the one who called it a date, YES so the guy likes her, maybe they are hanging out together, as friends, and u just concluded because he's been asking her out, it must be a 'date'
if u ask me, i appreciate HONESTY and the fact that she told u where she is, should COMFORT you and not worry u if u know the kind of person she really is, unless u know she's the type that wouldnt go on a 'date' unless she had an agenda, then u gotta be worried

i have male friends, and ppl that like me, that subsequently become good friends with me, my partners have always had to appreciate that fact about me, and trust my personlaity well enough to know that i'm faithful. and just because i refuse to date a guy does not spell out enemity, if he's reasonable, we could be good friends, if my other half cant deal with that, then touch luck!, i'll kerb it for him, but i wont give up my life for him

@nurex
her mother likes u because she dont know how u really feel about her daughter, trying telling any mother that her daughter loves her cousin, in fact try telling AN AFRICAN MOTHER that her daughter loves her cousin, and we'll see whether she still feels same way about u

cousin loving cousin is not unheard of!, neither is it termed incest, cos ur not directly blood related

however knowing the african tradition, if u wanna oppose her marrying any body, esp the one her mother has chosen, u'd better be ready to do some serious explanation and hope your family can live with what they will consider a 'disgrace' to the family.

if not, u might just tear them apart for something that could have been avoided

Depends how close they both are, and what his intentions are and also whether or nto i trust him to look after her!
if all is in place, then why should i stand in the way of what might be true love

hahahahahah uselss boi, @silly, see ur teeth like my own!! , shebi na lie i tok?