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@Militia

i can see, but surely before u live with that person u would have been living ur life independently before that, wouldnt u?, i mean its more a step of getting to know each other, ok, what about those that realise only after marriage that though they might love each other, they just can not live in same circumstances! e.g an obessively clean guy with a dirty girl, who refuses/can not be changed!

In one forum, someone said u should make the weight to the alter short (probably 1 year) and that got me thinking, that means u know someone, date them and within one year, u are waling down the alter making them your partner for life

i know for sure, I WILL NOT do it oh, i don't buy the idea, one year seems 'short', WILL YOU DO IT?

that begs question, WHAT IS YOU VIEW ON CO-HABITATION?[/b]RIGHT OR WRONG?, AND WHY

[b]please, i don't want to hear all those bible studiers/hypocrites, come in here and tell me it is wrong by GOD, i'm sure most in here will agree it is religiously wrong to co-habitate, (now that we have established that), what i want to know is YOUR PERCEPTION/OPINION on the subject!, would u consider it?
if u don't have an opinion, waka je-je

for my SPOUSE, lai lai, Jesus died for us all

for my kids, i'd consider it, probably weigh more towards a YES

i'd wish for 3 more wishes

with the 3 wishes

1. Family ( i want a family, at soem point, and i hope its one i keep till death do us part)

2. Underpriviliged in the world, should be alleviated from their suffering

3. Strength, wisdom and faith to go through this life a better person

Omo Eko:
You must be very stupid for writing this comment !!!!!!!!rubbish

i agree, shey na so me sef tell am, such backwardness i see on dis forum sometimes

@none, there's none capapble to showing more love than a woman.

if a woman is in love with u, there aint nohing she wont try (within logic, i think) to please u.

So if u have a girl that cheats on u, and u let her know u aint down for it, and she continues, then she does NOT love u, neither does she respect u, NO MARRY DAT KAIN BABE OHH, if not, na u sabi how u carry take handle d wahala.

LOVE BREEDS RESPECT AND CONSIDERATION,

also, ur friend should try to change the circle of girls around him he calls his friends, that way he wont risk falling inlove with one of them. I have a firend like that, dude will go on without stop about all his gf being whores etc, and then when he breaks up with one, and gets another one, 2months down the line he is back to sq 1. he has all but given up on the idea of finding a decent babe for marriage. I have told him that is he should settle with one of those girls, he had better not expect me to welcome them, ro be nice to them

i want to understand how his description of this topic connects to WEARING TROUSERS, it doesnt matter whther its trousers or skirts, if a girl wants to be deceptive about her sexual life/conquests, she will do it, whether in bouboul, trousers, wrappers or skirts,

and jsut because a female chooses to wear trousers (which are comfortable) does not make her any less of a lady!, so i beg make u comot wit ur uncivilised, primitive way of thinking

Bolarge:
_{Not happy in his rl'shp my narrow black ass}

hahahahaha, had to crack up with lafter, @bolarge, is dat a legit description of ur booty?

THOU SHALT NOT RAISE THY HAND TO STRIKE ME

in public or in private!!

@poster

what a stupid question, really

Kleptomania, is an ILLNESS, and like every other illness, if ur partner is suffering from that, or any one else u know/care about, best thing to do, is get them help / therapy to help them over it.

it is not incurable, and it doesn not put u in any sort of danger!!

fortunately or unfortunately

i do not know how to express my anger, so i either read, sleep, or call one of my ever aring friends to make me laugh, lol

@RuuDie, lol, thats just down right rude!!, amybe he has noticed her, but doesnt wanna leave the other one, he wants to eat his cake and have it

@poster

consider urself, Mr Lucky, if 3 girls genuinely LOVE u at same time, then u are blessed, not 1 but 3. kai, u had better make the best/wisest choice for your heart, and let the others go jeh-jeh, if not, THE LORD FIGHTS FOR THE WEAK, if u take advantage of their vulnerability towards u, then u will sure find ur nemesis in this life!!

@poster

not to worry, if it is u he wants, its only a matter of time, he will come to you.

Let no one fool u, all these boys that pretend, MEN USUALLY KNOW WHICH SIDE THEIR BREAD IS BUTTERED ON, which babe they want to keep, and which one they wanna use for fun, forget all those their lies about being confused, or not wanting to hurt the other girl because she has done soo much for him etc, its all BULLSHiT, so, be careful, d same guys, can be heartless to same girl, if all they want is OUT of the r/ship lying thieving pieces of sh*t

let him run wild, if he's yours, he'll come back, no mind, if na u him want, he will come of his own free will, dont try to break them up, because sombody else will do same to u, cos of that very guy

hahahahahahaha, OMG, my chest dey pain!

u can clearly see those in here who have been at the receiving end of some 'lovin' from a brother who knows what he is doin ON and OFF the dance floor.

GOOD DANCING is exudes CONFIDENCE, if you're like me CONFIDENCE is SEXY and APPEALING, lol, so if guys use girls dancing to se how 'flexible' they are, then surely same should apply to women

nuggard:
Nothing intoxicates me more than a Hot and corrupt woman.

that is a very unfair statemtn, personally i beleive there is NOTHING WRONG IS KNOWING YOURSELF AND UR SEXUAL PREFERENCES, sha, i hope your not one of those guys that like women being 'passive' and then when u can't communicate with her enough to satisfy her need, and she starts cheating on u, u wonder why!

sometimes, in certain milieus, it is wrong for a woman to be sexual explicit verbally, but expressing your sexual preferences, or knowing what u want/like is NOT bad

@farad
thank hun, i do try, honesty is the best policy

@kilasos, if u 2 been together that long, then u should really trust him, however dodnt let that fact cloud ur judgement, maybe he was just looking for a bit of 'excitement' talk to him about it, and see maybe he is feeling bored in the r/ship, in which case y'all should SPICE IT UP

@ryu

pleaseee oooo make my day, shake wat ur mama gave u!!, shake dat booty!!

@omo, hahahah, experience abi??

@Kilasos

do u trst him and his explanation?, if u do then its all good, if u dont, dont sit there and let it keep feeding into u deeper and deeper from the inside, but the if u dont trust him, u probably shouldnt even be dating him in the first place

@Nicer
hahahahaha, ohh so ur denying that beig able to move ur waist, might not enhance flexibility in the slightest?

@uyai, lol soukous?, i can undertand the slow dance being sexy, but soukous, beats me

@omo

ok, sha, lets u see u try to stop urself

@omo eko

haha, pity her now, maybe she is d lightest in her family so she thinks she's light

just be grateful, u got away with nothing but financial damage

@iice

haha, sounds to me like u got ur own vocab box going!!

i wonder y d guys sef here never reply, abi dem no sabi dance?

@iice

hahahahahahah, 'he could dance like ish', WTH is 'ish'?

memorry lane huh?, hahaha i suppose guys that dance well, do know how to let their hair down, especially when they are in control

@ryu, bottom line is, there is d possiblity of living somewhere un noticed!!, no matter how far the founding fathers decided to spread their genes

RuuDie babbbyyyyyyyyyyy, u've been MIA

lol, i no complain oh, men r free to do as they please, i tok my own as i c am

hahahahahaahahahahah

n.land no go kill me, lai lai, hahaha kai, i don laff till my belle dey pain me, say pic of houegirl, lol, ppl get mouf no be small,

d babe don run now, i think she realised her mistake, so e don do, i beg, make una sorry her

@Bolarge

{sigh of relief}, i no get power or patience to handle stalkers, lol, hahah but u funny sha

woawwwwwwwwwwwwwww, Hold it right there young man!!!

@Bolarge, were u by any chance referring to me? , _{tell me u weren't pliz}