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@haywhy, thats because u aint met me yet, i'm what u call SWEET TROUBLE , i'm d nivaquine, that will cure your malaria though i am bitter, shey u get

@POSTER
YOU ARE NOT SERIOUSLY ASKING THAT QUESTION ARE U??

look hun, kick his badlY brought up DISHONEST derriere to the pavement, and whilst ur at it, spit on his sorry lil face,

he wants u to be a booty call, or an emotional sack, where he can go have sex his ex, and when he has emotional issues, come and dump on u. gurl this relationhsip is gonna be an emotional hassle for u, one which u dont need, cos i bet u, when he's 'fine' he gonna be looking for his ex to share his 'happy moments' with (however few these are)TWISTED PSYCHO

TELL HIM, ITS ALL OR NOTHING, ur not an emotional bin, if the chick only wants sex, then its his wahala not urs if he cant co-ordinate his d*ck and his mouth to speak the same language, if she enjoys his sex and his company.then they had better make it work, and spare u wahala, MEANTIME, U MAKE UR DECISION AND UR POSITION CLAER AND STICK BY IT!!

you can make someone LIKE you, but CAN NOT MAKE THEM love you, that comes natural

@poster
the boy starts taking her n her love 4 granted

@silly
hahahahah eyahhh sorry u hear!!

@RuuDie
well well, its for me to know and for u to wonder, if it helps, think of it thus: maybe i aint even nigerian?!!, hows that?

@Viee
hahahaha, no be ur fault

@Roadblock
ohh so now, u think there might be instances where it is difficult to not have an abortion. Well, now i believe you are human. Cos depite the fact we all know it is wrong by religion, we might sometimes find ourselves in situations where we have NO other opiton, and bringing the baby into the world, would only make us depsise it

@RuuDie
awwwwww, well if it's any consoaltion, i don't really discount ppl from my list just because they wear glasses, and usually if i find i am able to have good conversations with them, that is usually the primary motivation to start a friendship, so if u got a lil bit of it in u, its all good

lol, would u be surprised if i told u i am not from any one of those tribes?

{about u winning my trust}, takes time, and if ur honest, u'll know u didn't exactly start if off making it easy for me to trust u right?, and u actually seem pretty smooth

so ur trying to tell me, one-on-one, ur actually a different person? , it is possible jarre, cos i must admit i havent noticed very many annoying little statements from u, since u started being 'nice' to me

i love the mix of the

intelligent, weird, day dreamers, fundamentalist and childish ppl

@Silly
don't be disappointed jarre, with a nickname like urs, did u really expect anyone would take u seriously?

@marlett- NO PAIN NO GAIN!!, if tehy want to be rid of it, pain seems a small price to pay for a lifetime of regret!

@RuuDie, rofl, shey ur now comparing ur self to Newton and einstein, na u biko!! , sense de com kill u abi?
my reaction to ''nosy'', especially if it is uncalled for or from an unfamiliar source, would be[b] 'and why does it concern u so much''?[/b], more out of habit than anything else really!!

i'm glad u don't flatter, hoesty is the bets policy, (but ur a guy sha,, so anything is possible)

and on the topic
i trust u will become a 'good' daddy when u CHOOSE to be. let's just pray jarre, that the child doesn't take after some of ur habits, e.g ur rather sharp-tongue

hahahahah @iice, sha i guess u have a point, some guys try it on!!!

its like u go catch tif-man dey tiff, instead of confessing, him go dey tell u how, na hunger cause am!!!

madness in the first degree

@RuuDie
where ever u went to for the weekend, did u a hell of a lot of good, cos u actually talk small sense now sha, I AM PROUD OF YOU

@topic
u can respect someone and not love them, but it is pretty hard to say u love some one and yet u can't bring yourself to respect them.

@Silly
hahaha, dont think ur making me 'keep talking to u' i am only responding because i WISH to!!, other wise i#'d have ignored u since!

and worry not, i have taken no offence at what u have said so far, neither do i think u've gotten personal, btu if u do either of those things i will not hesitate to let u know

sah atleats tehre's still hope that someone out there might be able to cure u

@RuuDie
hahaha that is funny, sha u can borrow my words any time ur short on urs, i mean i am all for giving ppl second chances especially when u can't prove that they've done something wrong
but when he is that blunt about it!, kinda makes me wanna give him a good talking to myself

@iice
huney i also detest lies, but HE DIDN'T TELL THE TRUTH he was FORCED to because he got caught!!

@Silly
heck i aint crossed!!! like i care

(with regards to ur stroy) aw aw, so because of those events in your childhood, u suffer from 'post traumatic stress' from huh?, rofl - dont worry hun, let it out! if it helps to dislike me. , then go for it!!

@silly
i am honest about what i say, whether i can see u nor not, makes no difference to me, it doesn't change how i feel

, i frankly do not know u well enough to dislike you.  Having said that, i am not exactly EAGER or burning with anxiety to get to know u any better

and u have quite openly said u don't like me! , Life goes on abi?

YOU DESERVE BETTER GIRLFRIEND

kick his selfish silly arse to the curb. Look you actually CAUGH[/i]T him and [i]HE CONFESSED. yet he is implying using you as  a DOORMAT, telling u

WAIT LET ME CATCH MY FUN, AND I KNOW IT'S NOT GONNA LAST, BUT I WANNA SATISFY THIS NEED I HAVE. IN THE MEANTIME U WAIT FOR ME, AND WHEN I COME BACK WE CAN PICK UP WHERE WE LEFT OFF, because I LOVE U AND ITS U I WANT

does that sound like the sort of person u want to give another chance to? he is probably just going to use, re-use and abuse u!!

@poster

men ask for your number and don't call u and ur worried?, (unless u really liked the guy), if he doesn't want to call, whose loss is it?

some guys, sef dey collect number for 'back up' they dont plan to use it immediately, but in case plan A fails, least they got someone to fall back on, or make booty calls!,

there are a few opitons here:

question to u is:
Did u come across a lil desparate and he thinks he can use ur number as back up for booty call?,

or has the guy genuinely forgotten that he has ur number.?

, or maybe he got caught up in things and really never got round to calling u 'on time'. By the time he realised it, it was too late, and he thought maybe u won't even remember who he was and he just let it slide. Hoping to jig ur memory the next time he sees you, to guage if u still like or remember him, b4 he proceeds

@RuuDie
hahahah, ur liking that i'm getting nosy?, thats not the usual reaction that sort of behaviour attracts!, so i'm kinda wondering why

and i am topuched and flattered that u missed !!, (although i am kinda sceptical with u-and thinking, u might be telling me what u think i want to hear!)

so you've not talked any girls into abortion yet?, so have u talked them into not having one, and making u a daddy?

@silly
gentle is NOT always boring, and silly can be and is ultimately annoying!

@RuuDie
glat u missed me, though i'm not sure, how much , what made u HAVE TO gi away (plz feel free to not answer if u feel i'm being nosy, say so)

with regards to the topic, you're one of the few guys that have come in here and said that. and i agree with you. Having a baby u can't look after, is not ideal for me,

@Twinsy
yes ohh, really party II in typical home-video style (no mind me jarre)

I think you are right! in Europe it is less of an issue than it is in africa. Because of the education / awareness and the 'affordable' and 'better' health services available.

and i think u meant, they'd rather bear the kind and put it up for ADOPTION right?

i do think that is is WRONG for girls to use abortion as contraception, or to be careless and thoughtless when having sex, just because they know that they can get rid of it!

@haywhy
wow, what do u know ehh?, we learn something new everyday!!, what u just said is that a proven scientific fact?, or just a baseless myth?

what a question, isn't it the same guys in this forum that say men are 'more inclined to be polygamous'?

as to ensure their genes get passed on?,

now y'all are questioning who cheats more?,

i got many and can't possible chose one!

i'm a sucker for good lyrics, a good voice and goos instrumentals

@silly boy
looking at your name, i'm kinda wondering ''why am i even answering his post?'', but sha to humour you, yes oh, one person is 'chosen' at any one point in time,

and i do not happen to think just because 'seeing is free'' (as u put it) does not mean i shall bear all, to all and saundry! , some ppl are not 'worthy' to see  

d amount of fufu and carbs we eat, how our belle no go big?

sha i aint no Janet Janckson, but at same time, i'm not exactly puching my belle around. So errm i keep it nice under a decent top!, for the personal pleasure of 'THE CHOSEN ONE'

hahahaha, but hey huneys its darn hard to keep a flat belly and if urs is flat kudos to you, u show it off as best u can!

@poster

errmm that is a tricky one!!, surrogacy first, then adoption (if the fault is mine) if teh fault is his, IVF other artificial fertility treatments, or just plain old adoption.

I SHALL MARRY A MAN PRIMARILY FOR COMPANIONSHIP AND THEN A FAMILY (a family/kids any man can give me) but marriage is deeper and should mean more. So if we find we cant have kids, then we just deal with it.
Na monogamy i sign up for, not polygamy

obviously before i marry a guy, this is one issue wer shall thrash out throughly with all its eventualities!

@roadblock

nope, its not exactly short either, but i appreciate your response!

my question to you guys now is this:

WE ALL KNOW RELIGIOUSLY / MORALLY abortion is wrong. CAN YOU FIND ANY OTHER REASON (other than those 2) TO JUSTIFY KEEPING A PREGNANCY, YOU COULDN'T HANDLY OR LIVE WITH?

@fekuti
ehh, keep looking out for dudey ohh!!, i hope someone else got ur back like that

@haywhy
i agree with you, abortion is not as risky as people seem to think.

I can hear some people on their moral high horses, condeming abortin etc, YES IDEALLY you should wait till you get married before engaging in sex , how ever we all know the world we live in today is less than ideal, so let us BE REAL

if you are in a situation, where you can't keep the baby for medical, financial, psychological reasons, then abortion becomes an option.

@IBDAT, i appreciate your honesty, and usually that is the case for most ppl, they can handle you having had one abortion for whatever 'valid' reason, but 2+ and then it seems ur using it to replace contraception

@fekuti
no be your fault

@Sweet
must everything be related?, so i can't think independent of what is going on in my private life? she u want keep d legs open?

biko, look if u no get anything to contribute, dont come and say nonsense in here