₦airaland Forum

Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.

Basher8583:
I have personally seen corps member playing politics when they were supposed to be vigilant and stay away from political activism.
Go and find out. That corps member was the author of his own death.
And besides who told you he might not have been a cult member plying his trade for political stipends.
Why out of all corpers in kogi it had to be him. What was he doing? Was he the only one on assignment.
He should have been fully aware of the consequences of political violence still he decided to sacrifice himself.

idesylvester:
They know themselves, how he seats doesn't matter, the problem is how would they start a new strategy to eat more of our money... Mind u, PDP and APC are all the same, the difference is how they steal the money... some is audio stealing while others are jungle stealing... snake and the rest

Officialgarri:
Since PDP lost kogi, I've noticed how quick you are to create threads and always try to point accusing fingers at APC
In fact, it's from your previous thread I learnt that 'thugs' are called
"PDP supporters" and "APC thugs"

I don't blame you sha, I blame the MOD that enjoys politicising deaths

And as per the quoted....... help yourself with this fact

hisexcellency34:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos

Chief Ebenezer Babatope, a former Minister of Transport on Tuesday said former President Goodluck Jonathan will regret working for the success of the All Progressives Congress (APC) in the just concluded governorship election in Bayelsa state against his party, the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).

Speaking in a chat with Daily Independent, Babatope also faulted those calling for the resignation of Prince Uche Secondus over the party's loss in Kogi and Bayelsa, saying the APC shamelessly manipulated the elections.

" I hope it is not true that former president Goodluck Jonathan worked against the party in Bayelsa. If he did so, I'm sure that he is going to regret it" he said.

David Lyon of the APC was declared as the governor-elect after defeating Sen. Douye Diri of the PDP.

https://www.independent.ng/jonathan-will-regret-working-for-apcs-victory-in-bayelsa-babatope/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

Sunnymatey:
I need 5m youths to come with me, we need to change the way things are done in this country.

Dont give a f**k about ur tribe or religion.
The judges had been so intimidated so much in a way they dance to the rythm of the executives.

We have to make a bold statement by occupying everywhere until the desired change is acheived.

We deserve better.

ZombieTERROR:
You don't know what you are saying

niaralandtopuser:
You don't have to lie

correctguy2010:
NL has virtually nothing to give out, aside from email address and IP.

Boringdraw1:
Prof. Muric must react like a hy­drochlo­ric acid MiX with water.

Pabloosas:
I'm still trying to picture what would happen if the so called hate speech Bill is passed in to law

themaestro08:
Am I the only one who doesn't subscribe to the "never hit a woman" Nonsense?

BleedingPen:
http://igberetvnews.com/1145492/breaking-news-senate-swears-new-senator/

ursullalinda:
Congrats Innoson....But on a lighter note allow designers shop ur money na....it's also a way to boost our economy....lol

BuhariCarryGo:
I dey laugh with obasanjo face!
MOST OF NIGERIA GOVERNORS ARE
SELFISH AND GREED if they are leaving office they always want to
plant their stove to continue from where they stop that is what make PDP loose bayelsa.
PDP is dead already. You guys should live with it. For a former president to work against his party means there's nothing
left in the party. OBJ did the same
thing.

yesloaded:
We are still talking about Kogi/Bayelsa election which is national issue

Kosiso12:
"AirPeace Shocked Me This Morning & Blocked Me From Travelling" - Joe Igbokwe Cries Out!

By Wisdom Nwedene


The Special Adviser to Lagos State Governor on gutter affairs, Mr. Joe Igbokwe, has cried out after Airpeace stopped him from travelling through their airline.

In a statement made available to Igbere TV on Tuesday, Igbokwe said it pains him to no end that the management of Air Peace can do this to me.

He alleged that he was blocked from travelling through the airline because he criticised the Airpeace.

The statement reads,



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2504909102890910&id=100001155348708

Source : http://igberetvnews.com/1145332/airpeace-shocked-morning-blocked-travelling-joe-igbokwe-cries/

Alphahoku:
People and violence sha

Alphahoku:
I thought they reconciled

nku5:
9. The SS states will fall to APC and Igbos (masses not their spineless governors) will become leaders of opposition in Nigeria and will aggressively push the restructuring or secession agenda every step of the way

ENGINEERG:
Nigeria, a country endowed by God, would have become one of the best countries of the world. But since her independence, her leadership has been her Nightmare.

In 1999, over 20years ago- Nigeria returned fully back to democracy, but still, the leaders have been terrible.

Democracy, where the will of the people should be the hallmark has been destroyed by power mongers, so Nigeria democracy can be termed as autocracy.

Looking back, we saw the inglorious election of Morris Iwu, but we develop gradually during the time of jega, because we knew our vote counted then. But the recent INEC under Mahmoud has conducted elections that is taking us backward.

2 days ago, the election conducted in Kogi and Bayelsa, has raised eyebrows, because of the Impunity, Rigging, killings , security agencies compromise etc.

Listed below are 8 implications on Nigerians

1. In the future elections, there will be voter A party __

because voting is like wasting our time and risking our lives, because at the End, Power-that-be determines the Winners, people won't come out to vote again

2. Politicians will more take election as war __
because they will always want to march fire for fire..forget about the ceremonial peace accord

3. Thuggery will be more lucrative

Going by the recent elections,I wonder how these thugs and hoodlums that are used are empowered with arms and ammunition, vehicles, and I know they will smile to Bank

4. Many people become hopeless on Nigeria__

It's a fact that, with this show of sham, people become hopeless on having good leaders who can transform our country

5. Good people will run away from politics ---

Yes, I have seen many people who don't want to talk on politics, because its traumatic to them

6. Governors won't bother to perform to be reelected ---

This is true, because if I can't talk on anywhere I can talk on Kogi, it is a place I do visit. I almost cry whenever I visit, but at the end, the Governor won with wide margins..you know more!!!

7. Nigerians won't believe on anyone's Integrity anymore...

Na so o, I know many people who still think they are dreaming , because they believe so much on BUHARI integrity, and wonder what is happening in his era?

8. More Security danger---

Its another implications because in all these elections , the thousands of hoodlums that were empowered won't want to be idle, so they start arm robbery or kidnapping

Add your own too

..God bless Nigeria

jhames010:
Sometimes I just sit and wonder... All these people shouting and supporting buhari and apc, is it this Nigeria you are living? Do you even know what a federal system is not to talk of democracy? Are you happy that people's blood were spilled for your acclaimed saviors to fulfill their selfish ambitions? Is it that you don't think?

Rule of law? Do we still have that sef...
Checks and balances?... Off the window
Security forces? Misplaced priorities...
Our borders are closed yet d people that closed it flew out and are eating in other countries, abi them carry kaduna rice go there?

Reno is not be a saint but he is right. Nigerians are not only ungrateful, we lack sense, God Abeg help us we have enough educated fools walking about...

PS

I no like PDP, all of them na thieves las las and na them don move go APC, doesn't make them saints all of a sudden, just one their moving to another, but I am tired of this APC government led by the clone and the cabal...

God please have mercy and save Nigeria

vixpal:
Wailers being retired early. Some of your observations noted. But you are always a hypocrite in your approach to criticism. You spoke about Kogi and remained silent about Rivers and Bayelsa.

Reno, you should be balanced in your approach like FFK. Anything and everything about Buhari and APC are bad, while anything and everything about GEJ and PDP are good.

Wailers talk about 100k gap in Okene LGA result for Kogi, but refused to compare it with 700k gap in Obio-Akpor for Rivers.

You talk about Leah, but refused to talk about Chibok Girls.

To put it mildly, you are a confirmed hypocrite

Jestin:
They will soon teach him how to lie and deceive the people . APC is a lie lie government

healthserve:
GEJ keeps setting attitudinal trends.

I see my honorable Seyi Makinde of similar noble stock.

We need men of character, principle and discipline plz.

englishmart:
Destroy the damned country. We need to start all over again

pocohantas:
Hmm,

What is it with pastors and being more vocal about sex these days.

Looks like the people of God have been complaining bitterly in their individual meetings.

TITOPE:
The Governor of Rivers State, Nyesom Wike, has again declared the State as a Christian State, adding that he owes no one any apology.

The Governor spoke at the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Holy Ghost Rally, which held at the Adokiye Amiesimaka Stadium on Sunday.

He said, “But for God, the enemies would have taken over the state. I thank the Church for standing firm.

“They prayed for God’s will to be done and God’s will was done. But for your prayers, I won’t be here as Rivers State Governor.

“Anytime I have the opportunity, I repeat the declaration with authority and I owe nobody an apology. I am standing on solid authority. Rivers is a Christian state.”

Wike said he remained Governor due to God’s intervention.

He said God dislodged “forces of darkness” who were primed to rob him of his mandate.

He described himself as a living testimony of God’s blessing.

“Nigerians are aware of what happened on 9th March 2019. If anyone says he does not believe in God, that event of March 9 should make you believe God,” he added.

http://www.titopeblog.com/2019/11/agian-gov-wike-declares-rivers.html

kahal29:
Ijaw hosting the flag of APC finally in Ijaw land. They have moved on leaving the PDP carcass for SE.

https://mbasic.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2500986369949850&id=100001155348708&_ft_=mf_story_key.2500986369949850%3Atop_level_post_id.2500986369949850%3Atl_objid.2500986369949850%3Acontent_owner_id_new.100001155348708%3Athrowback_story_fbid.2500986369949850%3Aphoto_attachments_list.%5B2500986259949861%2C2500989139949573%2C2500989146616239%2C2500989236616230%5D%3Astory_location.4%3Astory_attachment_style.album%3Athid.100001155348708%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1575187199%3A-6469393829694934829&__tn__=%2AW-R

Zooposki:
How can their main market be the world’s capital of poverty. I suggest they do business with rich countries henceforth. I don’t think the world’s capital of poverty can help them. They are richer than us.

NwekeUG:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thecable.ng/falana-dss-has-given-3-contradictory-reasons-for-not-releasing-sowore/amp

Jesse25:
You are gullible ....why is Ghanaian crying if Nigerian is not that important and also ur coconut head forget that Nigerian is still the largest economic in the region in terms of GDP