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GREATIGBOMAN:
There's difference between jealousy and obsession.


If you have a male best friend who often visits your home... and you notice your spouse have this unusual casual connection/bond even though with good intent with this your friend.. like she always laughs at his jokes, want to talk with him even more than with you when you're around... of course with time you'd start feeling jealous and it's perfectly Ok.


It goes both ways


Obsession on the other hand is a totally different thing

inoki247:
Lol cash don dey available now infact some banks give up to 40k now queue don dey reduce it shows this people du that policy to wicked the masses ni...

Nazgul:
The major reason why most kids are closer to their moms is because a lot of dads out there don't bother to build working relationships with them.

They just settle the bills and move on. Whereras the mom is there all day with them, moulding or manipulating them to love her more. When I was growing up I hardly knew my dad, in fact he was almost like a stranger to me, cos by the time he comes back from work, it's very late and I'll already be in bed sleeping.
My dear your father could not help being absent as long as he is a hard working and responsible human being . Na waka waka to put food for table make am no dey too dey available.A responsible father will always make up for his absence whenever he has the chance .

I began appreciating him when I started growing older, and saw the magnitude of sacrifice he was putting into the family.

Father's should learn to cultivate the habit of spending quality time with their kids as well. The quality time most men spend in bars, clubs, hotels...etc, if they devout it to building working relationships with their kids, believe me, those children would love and appreciate them till death. Take them out on weekends, talk to them, tell them stories, crack jokes, take pictures, play games...etc. If your impact and presence on your kids is only felt when you're dead, it means you failed them as a father during your lifetime.

Gloriagee:
And if she is, isn't it logical to resolve wateva is making a sane woman deny her husband his rights. Assuming, shes unreasonable and hes comfortable with adultery, are there are no adults and even prostitutes, side chics whose consent he can receive to commit his adultery with?

Abroad, he can be arrested and placed on a sexual offenders list for messing with a minor. Im sure when he ends up with a criminal record, he can justify it by saying his wife was denying him his rights.
I dont think the man is guilty yet , he is making advances that's why i asked such question to know the reason for that . If it's a man who wants to have a friend of the opposite sex he would go.outside immediately the woman would not even know ..this is not abroad .This is nija, she should act fast before her maids becomes her co wife. Its just that the girl is a.minor that's the luck she has she is still asking questions.

Felimax:
That is just the definition of sin. You don't want to do it and you find yourself swimming in it.
There are certain things one should not just experience.

Felimax:
The times are really changing so much.
So many abnormalities are becoming normal.

It affected me and will not leave my head the day my bae made me sleeps with her friend. It was a mad experience and yet so unexpected. I felt used. Just me with two wild girls.

Samantha124:
It's just a lap dance, nothing serious.. They don't even know each other personally.

I wouldn't mind if my man does the same thing on stage with big stars like Beyonce, Rihanna, or the others because I know that it's just for entertainment.

The guy must be the possessive type to breakup with his girlfriend over a mere lap dance.

princepeter566:
One day your mother will be robbed and people will call her mad woman . When u have nothing good to say, just keep short your useless mouth.

Klass99:
You know a man is gay and you still want him to sleep with you, not taking into consideration the potential risks of being infected with HIV or some other STD .

Dem use marriage swear for us in Africa? She obviously values this marriage more than she values her life and well being. Seriously, who did this to us in Africa?

Angelfrost:
She is not being fully honest...!

Most of the cheating ladies go back for the sex and emotional satisfaction only!

It's rarely about money, as some of the women even pack their 'dull' husbands' money to those endowed and dicknified Ex-lovers!



Only naive men argue against the potency and reality of Okafor's Law!

habsydiamond:
Does her dying means the guy will not date another girl... some people sha... why do u have to let a break up end ur life... a disappointment ought to have a positive impact in one's life and not the other way round.

Nicepoker:
Assist whenever you can. Someday it might be your turn. No matter the tears of a Nigerian girl I won't allow her sleep in my balcony. She can manage the dog's kennel after all they are all bitches.