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djon78:
[s]prenup is no glorified newspaper.
Just get a very good lawyer when signing it.
It saved Donald Trump from his second marriage, she got none of his wealth
Also saved Tiger Woods who with a net worth of over a billion dollars payed his wife only $100 million, which he gave her out of being kind.
If not for his prenup, she would have taken half of his wealth.
Most wealthy guys in the states sign serious water tight prenuptial agreement to protect there money.[/s]

djon78:
[s]Again this is a very false narrative.
Contracts is a serious binding thing in the west. There is rule of law and respect for agreement over there.
All the men I know that signed prenuptial agreement won there cases.[/s]

I was born at night but it wasn't last night. Take your lies and garbage to individuals that are naive about the system over there.

lekki1444:
yeah i hear you lol. its very hard to maintain a relationship in this internet era. all these porn online ? you can never make your woman happy again.. you have 10 inches but a po-rnstar has 14 inches ? she will always be angry at you for not having 14

If you are married and you have 4 inches while your handsome, well-built gateman has a 9 inch, wide, hard anaconda.... your wife will surely get attack by your gateman's predator while you are away at work if she is aware of his predator's existence. Dey no tell person.


NB: pun intended

Remaboy:


Courtesy: Martinez39s

Don't mind her. Different generations of women, same garbage.

lekki1444:
redpill and mgtow is now a thing in nigeria ?

Yep! It's not as widespread as it is in western countries. Redpill men are in every country since female nature is universal.

Someone7:
I've seen a Nigerian woman call another African woman "black monkey". Even the whites around were shocked

What! This is shocking.

Ausrichie:
Rubbish. If you are called nigga by a black man then you must accept being called nigga by a white man. I personally hate the word so white or black you can't call me that.

GBAM! The ludicrous double standard of blacks being able use "nigga" while whites can't is racist in itself: the whites' freedom of speech to use the word "nigga/nigger" as term of endearment (as black people use it) is suppressed on the basis of their skin colour. It's even more pathetic that some believe black people can't be racist.

Someone7:
SMH. Some Africans are among the worst racists out there

True. The sad thing is that some people believe black people can't be racist.

Blackmoran:
I don't see any thing bad in are tweet, am getting worried how this generation is so sensitive to expression, you can no more be honest because you are afraid not to hurt someone. Then we lie to each other when in close door what comes from our mouth is so hypocritical...

As in. People have gotten so sensitive, and emotional incontinence is on the rise. No wonder we have weak men who are too emotional (even at the expense of logic) more than ever. A lot of people are now in situations where they can't say innocuous things without worrying about who is offended. Some have lost jobs and good opportunities because certain overly sensitive people didn't like what they said or did offline/online. It's sickening.

Depressed101:
good for you. I just hope a white man doesn't call you a nigga

I would have no problem with that. He has the freedom of speech to say that. Even if I am offended, I have the freedom of speech to call him names in return. Btw, not every who uses the world "nigga" intends something racist, many white people use the word in the same way most blacks use it amongst themselves. A black man is in no place to tell a free white man what he cannot say, and a white is in no place to tell a free black man what he cannot say.

Btw, I NEED YOUR ANSWER; when the SA model said "the boy is too black they had to change to a white background, lmfaooo," what did she mean?
1) The boy is so dark in complexion that they had to use a white background. (Which she found amusing).
OR
2) I am racist against black people, and I mean to disparage, mock and loath the boy for his skin colour.

Depressed101:
only blacks are allowed to use it freely. Because of the history behind it. You as a Nigerian might not get offended by it, because you are not aware of the history behind it, but people from SA, EU or the US will. So I think she deserves what she got. It's obvious she's racist

Either "nigga/nigger" is a racist term or not, pick one. If blacks are free to use it as a term of endearment, who then is a black man to tell a free white man that he cannot use the word as a term of endearment? If it's racist for a white man to use the word "nigga/nigger" (when he uses it as a term of endearment), then it's also racist for a black man to use it as a term of endearment. The double standard is such a ludicrous one that only a simpleton will partake in it. Things have even taken a weird dimension in today's world that many believe black people can't be racist.

This world is something else. Many people are overly emotional and easily offended; and virtue signalling is just too much. I don't see anything wrong with her tweets except I insist on being offended.

Lol. This resonates a bit with a topic of mine. Not sure if it's well written.

https://www.nairaland.com/5104898/hypocrisy-society-when-it-comes

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT TO REMEMBER THE MOST IS THAT SHE'S LUSTING AFTER HIM AND WOULD KILL THIS MAN JUST TO HAVE AN EXTRA NIGHT WITH THE DON.
I'M TEMPTED TO SAY SHE NEVER STOPPED LOVING THE EX, AND NEVER LOVED THIS MAN... BUT THEN, IF THE FINANCIAL SITUATIONS OF BOTH MEN WERE TO BE SWAPPED, WILL SHE NOT BE COUNTING HERSELF LUCKY FOR LEAVING THE EX?
THIS FURTHER PROVES YOUR THEORY CORRECT. WOMEN ONLY LOVE THE FINANCES, NOT YOU.

This is a fact! A redpill fact!

sonnie10:
Under 5 years the ex had built a duplex
Under 5 years he is a major dangote cement distributor
Under 5 year he bought 3 cars

See let me tell you, he is into fast lane and it’s working for him.
Your wife should better manage the little you have because there was no guarantee that the ex would have married her.

If you think the ex-boyfriend could not be hustling legitimately, then you know nothing. Remember that he was on the same financial level with the op so he didn't start out as flat broke. Remember that he got many contracts, and he is single. He MAY be legitimate.

hybrid11:
she said it out of anger , step up your game, women hate to see the man(ex) left doing well more than their husband.
mind how you talk to her

If her ex is doing better, what stops her from making more money? Why must her new man be the one to make more money than the ex?

If you were your wife, you would regret marrying "yourself" instead of that former boyfriend. I am happy for the ex-boyfriend, both of you should manage each other as you both belong to each other.

IhateThemMods:
Mart... It's Omar... I got banned again... Lol... Howdie?

I am fine.

Nonsoboy4life:
In what regards ? Did you read at all

Don't waste time and energy mentioning emotional simpletons.

You are asking what you should do and if you should let him into your house? Well, let him in, treat him like a king, and buy him gifts. SMH.

We get it that you are celibate and not a hõe.

Good/trusted girls are low-key hões.

jackpot:
FUN QUESTION

There are two packs filled with identical cards as follows: Pack 1 contains 4 red cards and 3 yellow cards; Pack 2 contains 3 red cards and 4 yellow cards.

An experiment consists of drawing/picking a card at random from Pack 1, then mixing it up with the cards in Pack 2, shuffling the cards and then picking a card at random from Pack 2.

Find the probability of picking
(1.) a red card
(2.) a yellow card
at the end of the experiment.

Options:
1 (A) 1/2 (B) 5/8 (C) 3/7 (D) 31/56 (E) NOTA

2 (A) 1/2 (B) 3/8 (C) 25/56 (D) 4/7 (E) NOTA


tags: Mrshape naturalwaves dejt4u Richiez mathefaro martinez39s dejt4u

SOLUTION
A pair of choices must be made to produce an outcome in this experiment.
(A) If we pick the 1st red ball in the 1st bag, there are 4 possible outcomes of a red ball, and 4 possible outcomes of a yellow ball. This is also true if we pick the 2nd, 3rd, or 4th red ball in the first bag.

Hence,
--- The number of the pairs of choices starting with a red ball that leads to an outcome of a red ball is O_RR = 16.
--- The number of the pairs of choices starting with a red ball that leads to an outcome of a yellow ball is O_RY = 16.

(B) If we pick the 1st yellow ball in the 1st bag, there are 3 possible outcomes of a red ball, and there are 5 possible outcomes of a yellow ball. This is also true if we start with the 2nd or 3rd yellow ball in the first bag.

Hence,
--- The number of the pairs of choices starting with a yellow ball that leads to an outcome of a red ball is O_YR = 9.
--- The number of the pairs of choices starting with a yellow ball that leads to an outcome of a yellow ball is O_YY = 15.

(C) From (A) & (B),
--- it is clear that the number of the pairs of choices leading to an outcome a red ball is O_RR + O_YR = 16 + 9 = 25.
--- It is also clear that the number of the pairs of choices leading to an outcome of a yellow ball is O_RY + O_YY = 16 + 15 = 31.
--- it then follows that the number of the pairs of choices resulting into an outcome of the experiment is
O_RR + O_YR + O_RR + O_YR = 56

The probability of picking a red ball is 25/56.
The probability of picking a yellow ball is 31/56.

@delkuf

You should have ended the union before impregnating her. In fact, you should ended it as soon as you observed she was too stiff, she wasn't ready to make sacrifices for you as much as you would for her, and she had little to no regard for you. Even as at now, it's still not too late. Divorcing your wife and having your piece of mind is way much better than keeping your marriage and enduring the unhappiness and misery therein. You can listen to others who would tell you to man up and how it's all your fault, but at the end of the day none of them will share your misery and unhappiness with you. People will always have a lot of opinions on what you should do, but it's up to you to do what is best for you.

It beats my imagination why men still persist in their relationship/marriage when their spouses show noticable red flags.

iCauseTrouble:
Truly they are in the same level

I don't think so. Calculate the monthly income of both cases, and compare.

Upper class should start from N150m. Lower upper class should be N85m - N150m. I am even being lenient.

This thing called love.

I miss tozara, donffd, Johnnydon22, hardmirror, dalaman, and catfishbilly.

babajero:
Your story doesn't add up, though you can make a little money from it if you sell it to a good producer, nollywood likes this kind of story line.

How doesn't it add up? Can you mention one way it doesn't add up?

@OP
If your story is true, then you have brutally checkmated your "friend."

You are a big fòol. If you dump her, and start using your brain, will you die?

If humans could see the future, betting companies and casinos would never exist.