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When we say the spiritual controls the physical, they will say we don't know what we are saying. There are evil people all around you. You need to be spiritually active and alert. I am talking to all those doubting Thomas that always think, life is just what they see with their physical eyes sounding all woke and empty in their spirits.

There are evil people all around you, in your vicinity and homelands. I know what I am saying. If you have never visited your village before, you won't understand.

Be prayerful to God and be spiritually active in your spirit, if not, evil people will use your eyes see shege.

They are very wicked and evil minded. Imagine someone who was healthy and sound being bitten by an imaginary ant and some persons will come here to quote that that's ordinary. How naive can you be!

May his soul rest in peace.

pocohantas:
I read only this first paragragh.

Please do quote me when you are ready to show me posts where I DEFENDED and PROMOTED prostitution to the younger generation on Nairaland. Thanks

Poco, please try and understand my point of contention with you. I didn't just mention you out of nowhere. I have been noticing some of your comments in this ecosystem.

I have noticed that, you hardly condemn ill manners of your fellow ladies in this place. You always keep mute when your attention is drawn to posts that consist of your gender bad manners.

You can't boldly come out to condemn them when you see such posts, because you feel, they will crucify you.

Only some few ladies I have seen that boldly condemn bad manners of their fellow ladies when they see such threads. In multiple occasions, I have openly praised such ladies for being so honest, unbiased and bold.

My issue with you is your biased mindset towards men here and also for not being able to condemn some stuffs your gender do. You're only active when it involves a man. But if it is your gender, who born you to openly condemn them? That's my whole bone of contention with you.

I expect you to always condemn what is bad irrespective of the gender . But heck no, you always throw away your eyes whenever it involves your fellow gender. Thus, your inability to come openly to condemn many if the things your gender exhibit.

What of other bad attitudes that your gender always showcase here, you will hardly speak out to condemn them. Is it that you are scared of your gender or you feel that they will sanction you if you speak against their bad manners?

All I want from you poco is to openly condemn the bad things your gender are doing if you see such threads. If a woman is disrespecting her husband at home and you see such a thread, pls condemn the attitude and encourage such a woman to be a good woman at home. Stop being biased with your judgement in this platform. Don't let us see you as a dishonest lady.

A country can't be corrupt and all the citizens will still be corrupt. I believe that you understand my point and I pray that you will make some quick adjustments that will be worthy of imitation. Shalom!

99thEnemy:
hope say you too na high value woman

High value woman with no single trait of submissiveness is a red flag to any responsible man. Or will you prefer to be with a high value woman who will insult your family and disrespect you in the midst of your friends? Answer this if you are man. But if you are not a man, then don't even bother.

billionman:
Its been quite epileptic. Is this how grids collapse in other countries? Wetin dey make the grid collapse like a weak man every time?

I asked this same question some days ago. Why is Nigeria matters always like this? The other countries that had been having constant light for whole 10 years straight, no interruption, why can't Nigeria replicate same?

Why must everything about Nigeria be in chaos? Why must national grids always collapse? Why must gas pipelines always be vandalised? Why can't Nigeria get it right in every sector?

The questions are numerous. I won't lie to you, if I say I don't regret being born in Nigeria, I will be lieing.

Simple basic amenities are what we are still battling with for over 60 years of independence.

Trust me when I say , this country is cursed. Nigeria is cursed. Nothing anyone will try to tell me about this. I have always told ogbonti that this country is no doubt cursed.

This is what I always tell ladies like Pocohantas. With the type of traits they display here about men, trust me, it will be very hard for such types of ladies to build a perfect home with any man.

Now see how a woman has abused her husband in marriage.

When I raise alarms regarding things like these, they will say I am clamouring for submissiveness. If this woman is a submissive woman, her marriage with this man wouldn't have crashed. You see?

Let's those who have ear hear and learn from things like these.

pocohantas:
How about you keep your ego in check and focus on the women in your life? I don't owe you and the men on this forum SUBMISSIVENESS.


Are you delusional or what? Is this the logic you guys brag about? Hahaha! I should be submissive to Nairaland MEN? The women that have been submissive to you on this forum, what did you give them? Why haven't you married them?

Poco, do well to cut me the chase. Before you dilly dally about my bone of contention with you, carefully check my track records in this enclave.

I'm not just the average Joe you're used to crossing path with in this ecosystem. With that cleared from the road, let's delve properly into the main bone of contention I have with you and all of your cohorts.

Now, let's talk about the submissiveness you're having issue with. You and I and everyone here know, this Pocohantas I am seeing her attributes here, can never show your self acclaimed imaginary man some levels of submissiveness, if in a broad day light, you have issue with subjecting yourself to the leadership of a man.

When you try to display power tussle before men outside, it simply shows the kind of woman that you are to any imaginary man you claimed to have at home.

It shows that, you're the man of your imaginary man at home while the imaginary man is the woman.

How can you defend that truly you are submissive to our brother man at home when in public you can't even show any atom of submissiveness to all the kings you find here? It simply means that you're deceiving not only yourself but those other female genders that will copy some of these your insubordinate attributes.

Now, let's go a little off the subject of discussion. For a man to treat you like a Queen, as a lady, you need to show some feminine attributes. These feminine attributes are what will make a man show you maximum love.

But in a situation whereby you try to measure up with a man in everything, trying to dominate the man, such a relationship or situationship becomes gay relationship. Because by doing that, the man will see you no longer as a woman but rather as his fellow man.
There will be no form of attraction in such a relationship.

How are we even sure that you have a man and you are submissive to him at home with the kind of insubordinate and rebellious qualities you flaunt around here? That will be quite hard to believe if you ask me poco.

In essence, flocking about with ladies like Proserpina and co also says alot about the kind of friends you keep as a lady. I can tell you for free that majority of the friends you dine with have some blames to share from all of these. While I may not 100% blame them for contributing to the insubordinations I notice in you, truth be told, I don't see you like a lady that will respect her man at home.

When a woman tries everything to play a power tussle with a man in relationship, you definitely know that, such relationship will be filled with chaos, fight and disrespects, cuz you fail to know your role in such a relationship.

Outside, they might act like all is well at home. But when you look carefully, you will discover they are just deceiving themselves as partners. This can only results when a lady don't know her role in a man's life. She won't be doing the little things that a homely lady will do when around her man to make peace reign in the home.

With that being said, where do we go from here? If as a lady, you truly want any man to treat you like a super Queen in his life, you need to understand your feminine role in such a man's life. Only then will a man treats you like a Queen.

But the moment you try to display some levels of insubordinations in your dealings and trying to subdue and dominate the man by disregarding him, that's where your relationship woes will start to unfold.

And you asking me what I have done for all the women that showed me respect? Let it be known to you, I don't joke with such ladies. And as a high value man that I am, who knows what he is made of, I can be very selective when it comes to women.

You will never see me flaunting around disrespectful baddies who know nothing about respect and submissiveness. Disrespect and insubordinations are a serious turn off for me from power hungry ladies.

That is why a high value man like me can't deal with ladies like Proserpina and co. These are streets orhcins that have vowed with their lives never to be under the love of a man. They will rather be the man in their narcissistic relationships rather than display some submissiveness in order to feel loved by a man.

What do we make of all of these? Simply put, for a woman to enjoy the dividends of a happy relationship with the man of her dreams, she needs to show some sweet level of submissiveness to her man. And you can do this by seeing your man as your lord and personal saviour who has come to save you out of shame.

Remember, on that day, 3 women will grab the trousers of one man and say to him, come and take us as your wives let us just bear your name please our lord, to remove us from shame.

To crown it up, never underestimate the presence of a man in your life as a lady, because without men, life will be incomplete for majority of you.

For this, be guided and stay submissive in all your dealings with men, wether they are your fiance or not.

Be wise! A word is enough for the wise.

pocohantas:
I am quite sure, that if I ask you to bring out a single comment where I defended or promoted prostitution on this forum, you won't be able to do that. So except you are being deliberately slow in your old age, I would advise you stop giving me these silly mentions of yours.

Thank you

Good day Pocohantas, our dear feminist. I might be older than you by age. But if they see two of us in person, trust me, they will mistake you for my aunty.

You and I know this very well. You always defend rubbish in this enclave all in the name of fighting for feminism deceiving the younger generation.

You can never boldly condemn your fellow lady's wrong. What do we call that? Tell me how this country will be a better place to live when everyone is evil minded! You will see black and call it white.

Poco, please I beg you with the name of God, try and repent and be as honest as possible with your dealings in this entity. You know my bone of contention. Is you trying deliberately to play a power tussle with men in this platform. We won't take that from you. You're deceiving our young girls. They might end up not getting married whereas you have a man you love behind closed doors.

Please, desist from that deception and be submissive to men wherever you find yourself. Thank you and God bless you as you do that.

Congratulations to ogbonti for successfully spearheading the anti migration exodus on Nairaland.

What more can a grown up man with hairy balls like ogbonti do than to exonerate his nationality, whereas he hasn't in any way had a taste of what the common man faces every day in this his so dear country!

We can only congratulate him for a job well done. No man has ever achieved this feats in the history of Nigeria. ogbonti you're goated! A big congrats to you.

Say no to samsi wether Samson oil I don't know. The best way to cure your PE, is regular exercise. You don't need all these oil that oil this. Just exercise nobody go tell you. Stay away from chemicals that will damage your organs.

All these girls sef. Someone told you "come let's chill , I promise you're going to go home happy" means he will give you money after everything?

Just say you are into hookup. Why do some girls always equate come let's flex I will make you happy as a way of a guy saying come I will give you money?

The entitlement and audacity for me. She is not even ashamed dragging a guy for money after him paying for all the foods and flexing they embarked on.

True true, you can never shame the shameless. That's the case of this lady.

Please, Pocohantas over to you. This is your fellow lady. Defend her that what she is doing is right, cuz that's what you know how to do. This case pass me.

You will never hear that a national grid collapse in Ghana and Cameroon. Why is Nigeria things like this? As small as Ghana, you will never hear there is collapse of national grid. These are countries that have recorded uninterrupted power supply for 10 years straight.

Imagine having light for 10 years without blinking it. You can never see such in Nigeria. All these are some of the issues we have as a country and yet the female genders are adding more to it by becoming feminists just so to make things worse for all men in the country.

Now that Pocohantas has become the leader of the feminists on Nairaland, I just hope we will have fresh air to breathe with time.

These and more are some of the things we need to tackle and get rid of in this nation. Say no to feminism. Say no to power tussle with men. We call on all women and lesbians to be submissive to men and stop starving themselves of true love.

Let's not deceive the younger generation. Repent now all you feminists and flee from all form of insubordinations towards men now that you still have the time.

Let's those who have ear 👂 hear!

richiemcgold:
Funny how some Nigerians ended up in the streets, after spending millions of naira to japa.

Why not investing the money on something here?

When you talk am so, it no sweet for your mouth? Mo na dey try learn how to differentiate illegal relocation from legal relocation.

Person pack bags and escaped through Libya to one Africa country and you wan use that one as criteria to judge Japa. Abeg, come off it. Talk another thing.

UTMOST10:
You are entitled to your own assertion……

Please stay back. Nigeria will favour you better than abroad, trust me. Isn't Nigeria doing well now? So, why even have the thought of wanting to leave Nigeria?

Don't forget, the naira is getting better and better every day. Tinubu is working my brother. In few years times, Nigeria will be like Dubai.

Remove that thought of wanting to travel abroad.

cc

ogbonti

UTMOST10:
Probably you don’t get my feelings. I’m highly delighted with the way our naira is gaining strength day by day. What’s the essence of me selling my properties all because I want to travel to another country for a better life.

If naira keep appreciating this way it simply means there is hope for us in this country.


God bless me and you.

So, because dollar is depreciating, that alone is the reason why you want to forgo your japa move? You're not serious.

Out of all the other problems that is plaquing the country, from kidnapping to terrorism to arm robbery, you couldn't find a better reason to japa, it because dollar is depreciating, so you think Nigeria is already getting better.

It's all right. You better look for a decent and more reasonable issue to back up your japa move. There are other worse reasons for you to leave this country if you have the means.

Any way, don't even think of moving, because you are not even serious right now.

As far as you have double minds about your japa move, better stay back. Abroad is not for you my brother. You will be better off in Nigeria to enjoy all the insecurities than to travel abroad and go to a white man's land to clean white people's buttocks.

Better stay back my brother.

pocohantas:
Nothing we fit do to please una. He didn't create a thread to call out his supposed GUYS that abandoned him. But it is woman that is his problem. Na the girl wey date bitcoin merchant I blame.

Pocohantas is a chronic feminist. True or false?

Take a break ke? This can only mean one thing; she is currently seeing a new guy. That break she wants to take is to give her the freedom to frolic around with the new guy and test the water with the mindset of coming back later should the new guy dumped her along the line.

She wants to put you hanging on to have someone to fall back to if things end up not working out well for her and the new guy.

We know all these things about women, and I just told you what's going on with your ex girlfriend. It's left for you to be a second option.


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Englishisamust:
I don't know why some people failed to understand that when you cut your beards after leaving it for years, you are gonna look very old. I still don't understand. .. even if you look younger, cut your beard you are gonna look older a bit. Beards makes us look younger.. this is just a simple thing for people to understand!! But they make wrong meaning out of simple things

That's not true. Cutting your beards should make you look younger. I have done that before. A lady I was seeing at the time categorically told me, that this isn't the mature man I used to know. That I look like a boy after shaving off my beards and barbing abolo moromoro head.

There is nothing you will tell me on this. Hair and beards give a man a mature look. When you cut your hair and shave your beards very well, you will look like a boy.

Mandate1:
I once met a lady who liked me, and in our conversation I deliberately tried to get her view about finances in marriage. "if the man earns 100k and the woman earns 200k, what should happen in the family as regards spending?" she said the man will utilize his 100k to take care of the family, that she will contribute in buying anything needed in the home anytime she feels like.

I enquired further, don't you think the man won't have savings after utilising all his income to cater for the family? She said "he's the man of the house and should take care of the family".

In our present day, men and women earn equally at the work place, yet the man is expected to take care of the family with everything he earns, this is unfair. Little wonder men die before their time.

After the conversation, I distanced myself. She's not a wife material but a time bomb.

No be lie. Life is quite unfair for men. That's why selflessness is one of my criteria I will use to choose the lady I will call the mother of my unborn kids.

A selfish woman is an eye sore to a man's peace of mind. A woman that cannot use her own money to assist running a home with a man, even though they are now referred to as one, is the fastest route for any man to die.

It's very important you ask any lady about their financial views in the family. Like what you did. If you are in love with a girl and later discover that she is very selfish with her money and can't in any way even assist you with her own money when little things comes up, just know you are dealing with a chronic selfish woman. Erase her from your list of women you want to consider as wives materials.

A selfless woman is a blessing to a man. When you are in a relationship with a lady who is selfless and have some levels of empathy as a woman, you will so much enjoy that relationship, because both of you will join hands together to assist each other.

Who said a woman shouldn't assist a man? That's how you know the selfish ones.

This is one of the criteria I will never overlook for a potential partner. That's why it's always good to ask them questions to know their views about these things, so we know who we are dealing with and won't waste our times thinking we are dating a good woman.

You save yourself your time. Ladies like that are kept as flings not for serious relationship. Till you meet the one whose views align with yours, only then you can give in your all, cuz she will always be there to assist if the need comes once a while.

Kingcalls:
If u don't have money...u would not be able to marry , whether old or young ... money is the common denominator in marriage

And Chinngyyy878, if you don't have money and you rush into marriage, the lamentation will be pro max. Your wife will finish you at home with nagging. You think marriage is a joke?

You will be scared to come home cuz of the nagging wife. She will blame u for everything. Brother, don't foolishly go on to carry burden of marriage when u know you are not financially balance o. You go hear whim.

You think a woman will respect u at home if u can't provide food for the home? The worst is if u marry a selfish woman who wouldn't want to use her own money to assist running the home. You will be the one feeding her as a liability without her contributing anything to the success of the home.

Man, look well before u marry o even if money come. If you marry a very bad woman, you are done for life. You won't have peace of mind o. Forget all those marriages that people are doing every Saturday. Majority don't last past 3 years, marriage don scatter.

So, my advise, remove that desperation of marriage from your mind and focus on your life for now to become financially stable as a man before you even think of anything marriage.

Ask those who are struggling financially and still rushed into marriage. They will tell you their experience. Marriage no be joke o. One thing is to have the money to marry and be financially stable, and another thing is to marry the right woman o.

So, look before you leap!

blackpanthar:
Marriage is not the purpose of anyone on earth. So pls don't over hype it.

Marrying too early or late is RELATIVE. I have met 23 years old MEN and I have met 44 years old boys. It is mindset and lifestyle choices o.


BUT

You see MONEY......... there are doors it opens that marriage will not open. It will open your mind to dream in HD and achieve the dream that are mere wishes for poor men.

BITTER TRUTH
Anyone who is in their 30s or 40s and still STRUGGLING FINANCIALLY is either lazy orr without a mentor orrr ignorant of many key foundational laws for financial freedom orrrr spiritually under a curze.

EXCUSES are for the weak, lazy and ignorant.

So, If it is by AGE, then NED and other world billionaires WOULD NOT HAVE MARRIED SEVERAL DREAM WIVES.

MONEY CAN REVERSE AGING.

See bro, before coming here to drop impractical posts..... MAKE MONEY, MAKE MAD MONEY FIRST................. then think about your stand on issues again, and you will know that POVERTY IS A MINDSET.

WHEN MONEY SPEAKS NO ONE CHECKS THE GRAMMAR

No be lie. True talk. But I will say when money speaks, no one check a man's age. Even if the man is looking like Gorilla, Nigerian women will call him handsome. Take a look at the man they are calling handsome, you will discover its money that is talking. Ego. How can a Gorilla be handsome? That's women for you.

So, practically what you said is nothing but the truth.



cc: Chingyyy878

DevilsEqual:
How was she supposed to look?

Are other women supposed to just follow suit/ or see her as the standards simply because they arent daughters of billonaires??

These guys with slave mentalities sef

I heard you don empty your full account for one babe you jam for club o in a bid to spoil her with too much money as the money bag wey u be o. You wan convert opio to wife? Abeg don't forget to invite me for the wedding let me come chop rice and clean mouth o.

Kobojunkie will not like this post, trust me.

advanceDNA:
Women won't like this...they will call it hatred misogyny and attack against them because a man is telling is fellow men to marry decent well to do ladies....

But women see it as giving good advice when they tell their fellow women to ignore broke men but go after rich men than can take care of all their bills.....

I don't get it.....🤷🤷🤷.... why do broke women want rich men but expect rich men to be stupîd...

Women naturally have double standards. Go to Facebook and see how they support rubbish. They can never condemn their fellow women whenever they do something wrong.

That's how corrupt some of them have become. Only few are naturally genuine and have conscience. Majority are nothing to write home about.

BRATISLAVA:
He wants guys to DM him. Maybe it's a love-vendor or gay guy behind the moniker.

Beverlyjean:
And u think u are doing the man if u are unfaithful to him cos he's unfaithful to u... any woman that ever uses that as an excuse is nothing but a hoe ... if u steal from me and i decide to also steal from u, then I'm a thief ... every woman should have dignity for their bodies ... it brings innocence into the world thru giving birth.... a man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating.... just like a broke woman is different from a broke man

I don't think you're a lady. Taaah, you can never be a lady. No lady can make this kind of sensible comment. I don't believe you. Forget that f in front of your name. Na man u be. Taaah, u be man.

I don't believe a lady in this Nairaland can make this type of reasonable and sensible comment.

Lie lie, you can never be a lady. You be man.

Newton2024:
Someone once wrote on this platform that a male idiot in Nigeria can reason better than three female PhD holders. I don't know how true this is.

Very true my brother. When you interact with them, you will understand how shallow they reason most times. Wisdom is far from them, trust me.

Any way, all hail the few sensible ones.

Quote me anywhere, only 20% of ladies have sense in this Nigeria. The rest 80% are nothing to write home about. The kind of illusive and delusional reality they paint in their little minds is something else, trust me.

Emmanuel30a2:
Omo, if you don craze; don't think I dey craze... Cos you would be the next craze I would razed&erased... You dey craze or I dey craze...? I no dey craze, na you I wan razed&erased... Even if I dey craze, na my race... Na inside my race I dey craze and you won't see any trace, when I raze&eraze those who says I dey craze or those who are saying I dey craze... You dey fear to be razed or you dey fear to be erased? Una dey craze... Una don craze... Leave my race, u no be my race... Stop calling yourself an ace..., else they would soon do your burial ceremony...

Wahala dey o. Na rap be this ABI na song? I just dey hear craze craze craze everywhere. Weti dey happen?

Tonnyray:
My wife is pregnant and I agree with this 100%. Right before my eyes her sexual urge more than tripled her pre-pregnancy state. Keeping up come be like full-time work even for a guy like me that considered himself a sexaholic. Thank GOD she's also feeding me accordingly and enthusiastically gingers our morning and evening exercise routines now.
Interestingly I never knew about this kind of change prior to this first hand experience. All I knew was that their hormonal milieu gets all mixed up.

Lol. Exactly. Not so many men know about this. Majority will feel surprised why their wives suddenly turn séx monsters over night. It is what it is.