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yamtas335:
how come it was not on the newspapers this morning?

Yeah but Google newspaper has brought it out.

ZIM DRILL:
i get you the reason i went deep was this, i wanted to separate who was wrong according to behaviour like you said some men who still do it whether the woman has told him to stop in such case we know that the guy is a nutter, in this case the woman smiled and child played with him meaning both are wrong

as for the hubby well there is no justification to whop the lady

I'll sure not blame the hubby because we all might do worse. For you to see another man tapping your wife's buttocks and she just laughs over it. Abeg just leave the husband. He expressed his anger the way it came. He never knew he paid a dowry over an irresponsible woman.

Danja4sure:
i believe a gentleman will not rise his hands against his wife. if she did wrong there are many ways to punish her

When she cooks, do not eat her food. Those days women will be greatly touched and really hurt when their husband doesn't eat their food but women of these days like Mrs Chima , they no send you. Even if you don't eat their food for two weeks, they don't bother as long as you are dropping cash so when you meet a woman like that, stop dropping cash in the house but never raise your hands on them.

Just imagine what Ribadu's thinking. Oh Tinubu, you are the greatest thief. T[b]hief[/b]nubu. When i get to power, i'll kick you out.

And Tinubu most be a drunk rascal.

sorrytoo:
oh lawd,

u sure say na just wife ,u dey find, ?cos the way u've been putting this advert all over the sections, Music,family,politics, U sure say u no be one of those otokoto men, ?

After all said and done, I hope say you no go send am mail for the email address.

violent:
You don't get it!

The Husband has no grounds whatsoever to confront the other dude when his wife is in fact enjoying the act!. . .The wife disrespected her husband by not showing signs that she wouldn't tolerate such acts, and that's what made the dude furious.

As simple as ABC.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7742443#msg7742443 date=1297874844]This go to show you what happened when you rushed into a RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE. I CAN PROMISE YOU there are women on THIS SITE and anywhere else will experience the same thing the women have experienced. It is sad.[/quote]Yes, I agree with you because there are also men on this site who think they have married wives but unfortunately they have married irresposible women who allow men hit their buttocks without saying a word. It is really sad.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=606085.msg7742306#msg7742306 date=1297873762]“familiarity breeds contempt”

She was wrong – completely in the wrong – her relationship was too familiar as a married woman and it bred contempt in the husband as it would any man on earth – her chasing him around after he smacked her butt – this is black and white (not gray shaded) .  The joking went too far – absolutely too far and it is obvious.  When you joke always mentally have “your husband at your side.”  For instance – had he been standing there – she wouldn’t have joked to that level with another man.  This is not rocket science.  Don’t do with another what you wouldn’t do in the presence of your mate.  She was shocked because she was WRONG.  Had he called her name and she was just standing there talking and laughing – she wouldn’t have been shocked.  She was wrong and she knows it.  Better yet – how would she have acted if “her husband did that and she was the observer?”[/quote]My Dear!!!!
you have spoken well. Blessed be your husband or any man that marries you for he has married a good wife

adamsrib:
Sorry but that is lame. In public a husband and a wife should have each others back. I would think his very first instinct would be to confront the man. If he had any questions for her it should have waited until they were at home.

I really feel sorry for that woman. She gets no respect at work or at home!

Another dissapointing response.
Husband and wife should be at each other's back and the wife consented to another man tapping her arse. The husband could have confronted the other man if he realized the wife reacted angrily but there was no need because his wife consented and you do not know what happens in the dark betwen the so-called colleagues. Women!!!! very dangerous. All supporting promiscuity.

Wonder what this world is turning into.

adamsrib:
I love your warrior spirit Mrs Chima! What I think Zim Drill is saying is that the wife is not demanding respect from the men around her. MOST men are going to respect a woman if she carries herself in such a way that he knows there will be consequences if he crosses the line.

I do not agree with the husband on beating her, but again she has failed to set boundaries. Sometimes men only respect strength.  The minute he threw the first punch she should have been on him like fleas on a dog. Grab the skillet, pot, broom, mop, whatever you can and inflict as much damage as you possible is my motto. My husband knows if he ever raises a hand to hit me, he better kill me on the first one, because if he doesn't, Armageddon will look like a picnic.

They are both wrong. But the common denominator in both situations is the woman not making it known that there are consequences for disrespecting her.

With the bolded part, you sure won't do that especially when you are guilty.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7742224#msg7742224 date=1297873121]That may have been the case Chicco, but my stance is WHY BEAT THE WOMAN? If she want to cheat on her husband or get with the man. Beating is not going to stop her if it doesn't kill her. There is a better way to rectify the situation and lessen the possibility of it happening again.[/quote]Yes beating will stop it. Gosh !!!! Ah Ahhhhh Which kind wife you be? Just typing shiittttt.

Another man tapping a married woman's buttocks and the woman feels comfortable with it. The husband should be happy about it. He slapped her, yes it was wrong but he was angry and in pains. A woman who smiles at a man tapping her buttocks has been enjoying different romantic calls from the man previously and men must watch out. You don't take such a thing with a smile. Rubbishhhhhh

Until he sees both of them in bed befor reacting abi?? hissesssss

25omega:
i dont know what i would in a situation like this but im sure i wouldn't slap her. I would ask the man why he did what he did then ask my wife of the type of relationship she has with the man where he feels comfortable enough to do such a thing to her and she only laughs. I would be really upset and i hope by confronting them i will get some answers. if not my trust would probably go out the door which will lead to separation because i can't live or be in a relationship where im constantly wondering what or who my wife is doing

The bolded part will surely be a big mistake. All the questions should be thrown to ur wife be cause she was comfortable with another man tapping her buttocks.

That lady is tired of your friend. He might be a tight fisted person and i sure know what's ran through the lady's mind. '' yeye boy, He no fit give person money, the sprite dem buy for me, he carry him long mouth come drink am. idiot''. Ladies for you.
If he use to spend, he sure will finish the sprite and she'll be full of smiles.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741584#msg7741584 date=1297868345]Only a woman beater would say that. DUH![/quote]But I'm surprised you are hammering on the part of this wife beater thing. It is sure wrong but why you justifying the act of the woman.
A married woman who casually laughs when another man taps her buttocks is highly irresponsible.
I really believe they've both been in bed because no man will confidently tap another woman's ass if he hasn't been tapping it before or sleeping with her. The woman is irresponsible.

Our people say na from clap them dey enter dance.

I was called by my friend's wife to come to their house. On getting there, I discovered her eye was black and swollen and my friend was very angry . I had to calm him down and later he explained. Occassionally, he normally goes to pick his wife from her office and on that Valentine day, he went to her office just to surprise her and take her out for the evening.
He parked outside her office knowing fully well her closing period and behold his wife and two of her male colleagues coming out of the office. The three were chatting and laughing loud. What angered my friend was that one of the colleagues kept holding the wife and during the period of laughter hit the wife's buttocks and she casually laughed jokingly chasing him around. My friend could not take it as he walked out of his car and angrily shouted her name. Surprise and shocked she was to see her husband. She came closer to her husband and my friend not even remembering where he was, embarrased her with a very hot slap. He drove off leaving her and she met him at home. The slaps continued. I guess she couldn't endure it, she called me to help calm him down and she explained they were only joking. No strings attached. But I kept wondering, Will I really take it? would you?

Look at how that man rested his hand on her backside and she was comfortable with it. The guy's hand fitted on her bombom. A married woman. You deserve koboko.

Ibime:
Goodluck is a lazy national cake sharer.

As much as Action Congress has many bad eggs in it, they have a vision regardless.

Even in Lagos today, touts and dregs of society are gainfully emplyed as tax collectors, NURTW toll collectors etc. This is a model borne out of necessity to curb the area boy problem and has ramifications on security.

So the best way to solve the area boy problem is to legitimaize their rascality. You mean empowering them to intimidate innocent citizens is gainful employment. I really don't know whether you had come to Lagos during Marwa's tenure. You will understand that your have no excuses or defense for thuggery.

Just thinking how much them go don pay snoop to feature in this video but I must confess, D'banj actually tried representing 9ja to the fullest.

Ndi:
@rockers

Did u watch it LIVE on BET because i know they are still showing us old interviews here in Naija, i even tuned in yesterday, Monique was interviewing some other guy. well 2face has told us that he would inform us his TWEEPS on when its to be aired,

@Hater

Just let him be, for none of us is without our own flaws!

WHEN I TUNED IT AT 12.00, SHE INTERVIEWED A GUY AND A LADY. I GUESS TUFACE EPISODE WASN'T SHOWN YESTERDAY.

And the spending continues!!!!!!
This would have been a preferable buy to Torres.

Reports claim Chelsea will try to sign Arsenal star Cesc Fabregas in the summer, with the Blues ready to offer £50m for the midfielder.

Having already splashed out £50m on Fernando Torres in January, it appears Roman Abramovich is ready to bolster the transfer kitty again in order to bring in another high-profile star.

Fabregas' future with the Gunners has been at the centre of scrutiny for the last two years, following an unsuccessful approach from Barcelona to sign the midfielder.

The 23-year-old has indicated that he would like to return to Spain in the future and the Nou Camp looks to remain his preferred destination, if Arsenal can't persuade him to stay beyond this season.

Chelsea may have the financial backing to challenge anyone in the transfer market, but whether they can persuade Fabregas to remain in the Premier League is another question.


Source: http://www.sport.co.uk/news/Football/50185/Chelsea_consider_Fabregas_swoop.aspx

When a child decides to wage war with the father, he should be prepare to find another home. hahaha!!!! I dey laugh oooo

Emmysteve:
Who is this fool that voted siasia will lose. Enemy of progress

Have you ever heard of the word Democracy? Do you understand what is meant by Fundamental Human Rights? You deserve 60 hot slaps oh your right cheek alone.

Our people say, ''A dog that is doomed to die will not listen to the whistle of his master''.

Hamid O:
He is definately qualified to appear on Jerry Springer show atleast to account for all the different children from different mothers. LOL

Thank God he's never requested money from you to feed any of them but I dare you not to risk having more than one if not you'll be responsible for the hunger and poverty you put the children.

citee:
Tubaba is living his dream jo! But why Mo'nique show, what ever happened to Oprah?

When u want to dance an interesting dance, you start from clap. Don't worry the next will be Jerry Springer show then Oprah.

OYINBOGOJU:
Another plan to expose TuFace English Deficiencies,

Nothing dey Happen sha,

Listen the interview he had with Brown Sugar of South Africa and forever shut up.
http://www.justcurious.co.za/2010/10/we-chat-to-african-superstar-2face/

What time will the Monique show be showed? Iam very eager to watch 2baba live.