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Pray and fast for your wife
Talk to her calmly about the issue
Divorce is a sin
Knee down and ask for forgiveness
Treat her right
Talk to your pastor
Take her for deliverance to mountain of fire closest to you
Try to make her happy,maybe she is bored
Maybe you are not doing enough to please her

Missmossy:
Not excusable enough,she should date teens like herself.

She is an Ophan, maybe even homeless, maybe he lured her with prospects of helping, her, can't blame this girl in entirely.

Missmossy:
Chai!! A 15 year old, saying serves her right sounds heartless but this would serve as a warning to others of her kind.
They would take heed and thread with caution.

neyogasgas:
The caption should have read " WOMAN STABS OLOSHO FOR ATTEMPTING TO SNATCH HER HUSBAND". Teenager my foot. Omo buruku jatijati!!! This will teach her a lesson. Now one unlucky guy has to marry her with one eye. Mscheeeew

What if the man lied to the girl that he was not married

Let him be, let him ruin his life. Some kind of this people are usually damaged goods.
One of my brothers is worse than this, after trying all interventions non worked.
He is drinking, smoking using drugs and all.

My mom spoiled him, when all of us were doing house chores as kids he would be walking around.

Sometimes there is no much you can do.

I wonder if he lied to the naive girlr that he is not married

End time husband
End time evil woman

intbizoil:
https://www.nairaland.com/2823242/upside-down-marriage The disadvantage of recommendation

That's the best example, please poster go through every comment, very worthwhile

It is OK to be introduced to someone, but make sure you do your homework thoroughly
Go for a long courtship , it won't fail you
The ladies with two earrings or scantily dress might surprise you on how they can make a good wife.
My brother went for those church village girls who wore long dresses, if you see the girl now in tights and miniskirts, you will be shocked

My best friend Lk, was shot by a brother in law,
I had not met her in fifteen years, and one day after our reunion, she was no more,
The pain was unbearable, I know you are among my angels,
Your spirit will live among as, may you RIP .

We don't know we've never tried dying to advice you.

Acidosis:
I think I have enough to put these 'I'm-a-perfect-wife' folks in their right horizons, but I'm worried some of them may hold meetings on my matter. It has been confirmed times without number that we have more witches, relationship destroyers and home wreckers on this section than anywhere in Nigeria.

With the same measure I'm currently using on Politics section, I shall henceforth give to them in multiples.

The message of CHANGE must be enforced here. We must reduce the divorce rate in Nigeria by stating the rules point blank.

Until they begin to grow natural d**ks (not candles), we shall never allow them displace other men same way they turn theirs to vegetables.

You seem to be having far deeper issues, consult a shrink boss,

nobody formed perfect wife, nobody is perfect, we all just do what is best for our individual families

You have problems man, so divorces are caused by women in entirety, I pity you.

Just take your fight to parliament and congress, you will win by a landslide, bravo man!

Acidosis:
I honestly don't want to insult you (personal reasons), but please stop throwing jabs at me so I don't reach my elastic limit

Easy dude!! Easy, Ain't nobody bothered by your infants rhetoric( we not gonna miss supper because of this your ignamouraos threats)
You are clowning threatening one person to the other,

Why don't you act like a grown man and exchange ideas decently, what's with this blood boiling and chest thumping,

You mean all this rantings because apparently women are now more educated and independent,

At this pace you will get high blood pressure worrying about women,

FrancisTony:
Oh, I wish you well.

You can see one othe useless 1diotic woman parambulating this thread with her alternate moniker.

Guilty conscience is a b1tch!

Why take this personal though, this is no longer 16 th century,

There was a time women could not drive, a time women could not vote, things don change,

Your ideologies might not change but the world waits for no man,

Sorry Delish, I lost a grandmother and for the first time in my life, life lost meaning, I wasn't afraid of death anymore,

I lost a best friend recently, it hurts but life moves on

Chillisauce:
You are a big F00l.

He-goat.
Who the fvck are you to dictate to others how to air their opinion.

Those your family "submissive" wives reading . Don't they have brain for themselves ?
You think you can just log on here to insult people for airing their point of view.
You get luck say N'a online. I for don comot those your gworo teeth.

Anu mkpan

So the idiot had to make a rant, then make another post to reiterate his foolishness, talk about verbal diarrhea

Talk about inferiority complex

insecurities at the highest peak

FrancisTony:
All I can say is that you strucked nerves.

If it's one of those useless women that seeks self-validation online that aired her opinion and someone disagrees without an attack, the bias mod will run to her rescue.

Why should I struck strangers nerve if my hubby is unfizzled and unrattled, ( iam only married to one man and that is whose opinion matters,

I run every corner of my house, proudly,

Proudly CEO, proudly treasurer, proudly manager, proudly chairperson at my house.

cococandy:
Na so the thing pain you reach?
Why not go get your own wife and be the super man in control as you wish. And stop hating on other people who run their own homes differently.
I didn't see her mentioning any of you in her post.
Why the hate?
If her husband loves the way she runs things and lets her do it, how's that any of your business.

Must every one be like you ego-driven insecure toads who's only validation in life is how well they are able to present an image of pseudo-alphaism?

So fvcking irritating.

So Xtupid.

Y'all are the ones who need to go get lives and stop hyperventilating over other people's own.

Thank you Candy, some of this men suffer the worst sort of inferiority complex

Most are used to handing their wives handouts and so they feel like mini Demi gods,

They don't know the world outside them is different, very pitiful imbeciles.

deph:
I was wt a man ds mornin, for d 2hrs I spent wt him, he mentioned pampers like 30 times.... does he kno hw much pampers cost? has he started buying pampers? does he kno....? pampers ds... pampers dt.....
Plz wx ds hw our old parents mentioned napkin dos days? or is it because pampers is costly or wat? must u use pampers if it is so? if it is too costly for u... bro Y dnt u try napkin beside u were raised wt napkin.... let's us nt buy problem wen u hv alternative.... because of wat is reigning or trending......
for me if buying pampers Wil gv me headache.... I Wil beg MA wife.... let's substitute or even resort to usin napkin entirely... I kno it won't b easy bt wt time.... nxt is adjustment.....
merry Christmas for our new couples entering 2016......

Pampers are more convinient but if you cannot afford them get napkins

Burger01:
I didn't even know it was a lady I quoted. Women are their own enemies. Women self

She is a woman that we called out for storming her brothers house unannounced to look for problems, that
Explains her hostilities
Just go through yesterday's post you will find her.

Oyind17:
You are the controlling type, I pray other women control your brothers to the extend they won't remember your family members. You jump from thread to thread to type trash in support of women.
I am not saying it's wrong but say something meaningful about the topic of discussion before you type your trash

You don finish tear your brothers house apart(get a life gal)
Dearie I don't go poke nosing in my brothers house like you do,
My business is my house, my hubby, kids and nairaland.
Need I say more

Burger01:
Hey! That was hash. The lady simply stated her husband allowed her free care of the house despite the husband making more...that's just what's obtainable in her house. Besides, I believe a woman should be given free hands to run the house, or do you mean you can get into the kitchen and make amala for the family!?... A woman controls the house irrespective of who's making more in wages.

Thank you ma'am, for checking her out, she is crazy

Oyind17:
You are the controlling type, I pray other women control your brothers to the extend they won't remember your family members. You jump from thread to thread to type trash in support of women.
I am not saying it's wrong but say something meaningful about the topic of discussion before you type your trash

So you gave up witch hunting your sister in-law, now you are hunting me busy body
Girlfriend, the moment you get your own husband and house your family will be forever peaceful.

You are a certified witch for sure. If you can witch hunt me here. I wonder what you will do to that your sister in law. Mad woman

Whats wrong with a woman controlling the house.
My husband lets me run the house the way I want and he makes more.

My dream for raising my kids is giving them a subtle quiet country living in my village.
All organic food. Mixture of privilege lifestyle and humble lifestyle
A master of my language, my country's main language and English, others as needed
Best premium school in my country of origin/ college wherever they desire.
My dream is for responsible, independent, well behaved, outstanding individuald with academic prowess.

O0XYGEN:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_African_countries_by_Human_Development_Index

HDI of African countries
HIGH HUMAN DEVELOPMENT INDEX
1.Libya
2.Mauritius
3.Seychelles
4.Tunisia
5.Algeria

MEDIUM HUMAN DEVELOPMENT INDEX
6.Botswana
7.Egypt
8.Gabon
9.South Africa
10.Cape verde
11.Morocco
12.Namibia
13.GHANA
14.Republic of the congo
15.Zambia
16.Sao tome and Principe
17.Equatorial Guinea

LOW HUMAN DEVELOPMENT INDEX
18.Kenya
19.Swaziland
20.Angola
21.Nigeria
22.Rwanda
23.Cameroon
24.Madagascar
25.Zimbabwe
26.Tanzania
27.Comoros
28.Mauritania
29.Lesotho
30.Senegal
31.Uganda
32.Benin
33.Sudan
34.Togo
35.Djibouti
36.Cote d'ivoire
37.The Gambia
38.Ethiopia
39.Malawi
40.Liberia
41.Mali
42Guinea-Bissau
43.Mozambique
44Guinea
45.Burundi
46.Burkina Faso
47.Eritrea
48.Sierra Leone
49.Chad
50.Central African Republic
51.Dr.Congo
52.Niger

Chai!! You mean the self proclaimed giant of Africa is not between Norway and United States but down on the bottom list

Diaris God.

thorpido:
Do your parents know about this?If they don't,I think you should discuss this with them.
Do your thing.Don't let your brother's behaviour get to you.You don't live together so it's easy to ignore his tantrums.
He'll come around in the future when he sees you're not his competitor.

Some parents are never helpful with such situations

Some play favors and even fuel more division in kids

Trust me my own mother cannot handle a family feud.

You will accept her, you will never get over the fact that she left you, but life has to move on, she is still your mom

geez18:
are you truely sure he is your brother?are you blood related?you had better ask this of your parents?

This happens a lot in most families, nothing new

flejnr2:
I have tried and always plead to forgive even when am not at fault

If that has not worked just play along as someone has said, act a fool, then ignore his rhetorics completely,

Act as if he does not exist, he will tire and come around

You all sound successful, maybe your older brother has insecurities, don't feed to them

Try to be the sane one, ignore him, try to reach out, he will pick the signs that you are brothers and no competitors

I fall out with my siblings all the time, but each time I try to be the mature one and make amends

Because family is all you have, they are worth your time and energy, so overlook everything and try make amends.

Oyind17:
Thanks dear, he is d controlling type that felt he knows it all while growing up. God knows I am not trying to break his home but I wish things will change for better.

People have told you to move on, in simple words get a life, find your own man start your own family

He was controlling to your family, apparently he does not like tha anymore, he has grown wiser

Let them be, it's seems like you will never rest until you break their home

Most people all strangers have given you a solid point, move on, no church, nor salvation makes one dump someone because of renewed faith
Or salvation
The sooner you open your eyes the better

He should be proposing by now, but instead he has thrown you very flimsy excuse,

Love is blind for sure, but open your eyes before it's too late

taryour:
And you had to open a thread for this SMH

I was wondering too.