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dairykidd:
Una plan done fail already.. My God is too big to let me fall

Indeed

JONSYN7154:

Smiles.. How I wish she extracted all his oxygen

dairykidd:
Lol... i thought i was going to faint. I couldn't breath. Babe was actually sucking up all the oxygen i had left. Felt so much relief when she broke the kiss. Was just so damn aggressive

I know say I go catch you for here..
She for suck all ya oxygen finish na.. She fall hands

Lemme sit and read coments

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

Thank you for helping the dude.. God bless you real good

I also want to thank you for telling the guys to be stable and be comfortable atleast before getting married.
Marriage these days is becoming too scary to venture into.
Marriage is never an achievement.. Everyone has a timezone, don't be pressurized into anything.
The grass is not always greener on the other side. The man should be buoyant enough before marriage and the woman should have something doing to assist when the need arises.
No matter how sweet and mind blowing the sex is, take precautions because getting pregnant before the said marriage might just spoil the building process.
Enjoy your single hood, invest, explore and enjoy maximum serenity before delving into that institution called marriage
Your kids and future generations will thank you for setting the right path for them
Note: dem no dey catch latecomer for marriage institution

Igbo adage say na when you wake up be your morning.. No hurry in life...

Orishirishi.. Nothing musa no go see for gate

Is this story even real? See as girl dey carry you play ludo..

Dude! Its time to wake up.. She doesn't mean well for you and your future.

What kinda gf remembers her bf only when he's loaded?

What happens to saving for rainy days?

Dump her before she completely ruins you!

yanabasee1:
OP..... you really shocked them....


Same with the condom thing.... went to get a condom at a pharmacy and people where much...and I needed it urgently...so I shouted from behind that the lady should hurry up and pass me a condom that was at the shelf right in front of her and everyone turned to my direction with some sort of intimidating look, like who's the devil here?


I no send anybody, I just stretched my hand collect am begin run back... Who get time for their hypocrisy.....

Mad oooh

anslem04:
Most times guyz tend to do that to ladies wey there shakara tew much. imagine a gurl forming i can't come to mainland, i can't eat amala without fork & knife, i am allergic to fan must be AC, ... after all the stress the guy cum discover she get eczema for back & krawkraw 4 yansh ... it takes maturity not to react or do anything stoopid .. me i will just av a good laugh 4 hours

Lolss..Wicked sumbori.. I fear who no fear you.. But how im deek take stand sef upon seeing the krawkraw still dey surprise me..
It goes a long way to tell the kinda person he is. Immature to the core

GreaterFuture1:
Even if she is a Random Chick, is it Right at all?

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Not at all. I outrightly condemned his actions as well

lefulefu:
yes i agree with u on that.Its probably some random runzgirl he picked up on the street.No reasonable guy would want to disgrace his own girlfriend like this.

To lie am down come flog am dey hungry me aswear...
Even if no be im babe, im no supox treat woman laidat atall

lefulefu:
if that girl is really his girlfriend then the man is a fool cos in such a scenario u will sit ur girlfriend down and advice her on the right way to take care of her body not disgrace her for everybody to see.But then i am very sure its just some random runzgirl he picked up on the street.No guy would disgrace his girlfriend like this.

I want to believe that lady is not his gf. Just a random chick he picked because no sane man will humiliate his woman the way he did.

Fragility6:
na result of opening leg for evry small boy witout an atom of sense. Wetin e wan gain 4 diz nonsense e do now

Im need serious beating for this nonsense when im post and to think say na Igbo guy just make everything dey vex me.

Wasky101:
Simply put the guy must have entangled under one of the conditions.
Where you feeling attacked?

Nah, I wasn't.. He could have simply said no.. Besides who makes love with the turned off?

Wasky101:
I don't do doggie gang
Baby off the light gang

I don't understand.. Kindly explain better, thank you

This is harsh and uncalled for though, you could have simply talked to her about it rather than sharing it with the whole world.
Meanwhile the guy is also dirty if he actually slept with her knowing she has rashes on her bum. Two dirty people

Na when you fvck finish,you sabi say the babe get rashes for yarnsh.. When you dey lash am, you dey blind.. Mumu man
I just tire for all this our kiss and tell niggas

ibkonekt:
copy and paste topic...gotten from a blog.

https://www.nairaland.com/5946522/wifes-friend-tried-seduce-me#91006411

Chai.. All these sensational topics eh can give someone hbp. Thank you for saving me the stress of dishing any advice

Here to read lies... Even those that haven't paid their wives bride price will soon jump out forgetting they are still dealing on higher purchase some never pay kobo while some dey pay small small

Na all about the money jare.. She really doesn't care about the kids

Awwwwn.. This is sooo cute and absolutely adorable

The only advice I could give you right now is to move on, its gonna be hard to let go but you really need your sanity and peace of mind back to concentrate on greater things ahead.
Don't give anyone room to take your commitments and trust for granted, you deserve better. Your gf is already gone, you are more like a backup plan now (that is, if it doesn't work out with the current dude in her life) she might just fall back to you.
Kindly move on young man and channel your attention into becoming a better man than you were yesterday..
I Trust you is far much better and satisfying than I Love you
Once you don't trust your partner anymore, the relationship is gone! Love alone can't sustain anything

Nothing musa no go see for gate..
You no fit baff with ya partner yet you go wan fvck am.. How is that even possible? Is it not the same unclothedness you will see? Or is the shower and bedroom naked bodies totally different from the other? Ayam not understanding

Lemme siddon here

Having difficulty applying though

Let it be sweetie.. Don't give yourself HBP over boyfriend issues.
If it's meant to be, it will definitely be and if not just move on.
No one has the right to make you feel like you are going crazy. Relationship matters these days ain't something I would love to dabble into and for your peace of mind.. Just relax and let things work itself out

Nairaland is gradually becoming a site for sensational stories.. Very soon it will take over from twitter

Yeah.. Wasn't funny but life goes on cos I can't kill myself over it. Its AA or nothing

Oritzy:
na this kind thing them take dey see you spoilt child.
You need Deliverance
Come and collect deliverance you no agree

Lol.. I dey road dey come

toyotamuscle:
me done see there unclothedness too.so make them pack comot for the area first.even the girl wey I friend for area well well the see me for house without boxers just my long alawuru gown polo she the smile the say babe u are getting free with me this days.after about 11 months oooo.

Brostitute
Na your matter we dey settle for meeting so