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Durchess:
Correct woman

Wetin man Pikin go do na
If you no gree give, another woman dey one side dey eye am and I no fit take such chances so its best I drain all the energy so him no go see clearly to jam another woman

Eulalia:
Buahahahahaaaa.. this your meme eh? I don laugh taya.
Well, like I said, there are other ways you can help relieve ogar without him necessarily penetrating. I mean ... It for your own good. As for me, that's what I'll do when I get married. Because after listening to complains of Young mothers who after child birth could not get their hooha back to size, I resolved within me to observe the full waiting period. Our mothers know better.

Hubby will have to chilax o because if anything goes wrong, they'll jump on the next available mhm.. Lol

My sister, the kinda men we have these days can't wait for a full year oh.. When he's not on celibacy spree, remember he's your husband and has every right to demand for it anytime except you want side chickens to help you expand your tear rubber husband.

Acme45:
am very sure you are not married, hence this comments

If you had taken your time to read my writeup, you wouldn't be so quick to conclude.. Now take your time and please do it carefully and thoroughly this time around to read my reply then you will understand better

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That us why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

1 full year you say? that's a very loooooonnnnggg time oh.. Even me sef no fit wait for 6months before I attack my husband not to talk of 1yr.. Las las we go find way do the thing before all these girls wey dia eyes no clear go dey eye my husband
I no dey like rough play

Deathisfree... Well, your moniker has already defined what you should expect if you go back to your vomit.
Sing with me.. We're going forward.. We're going forward.. Complete the rest and continue moving forward, no turning back

I keep saying it.. Any marriage built on lies and deceit is as good as been dead..
There was never a marriage in the first place talk more of divorce.
Always come clean during courtship as to let your partner know what they are really getting themselves into, if they are cool with your past and flaws, then every other thing is settled.
Op, if you are buoyant enough, get a place for her and your son then co parent.. Its not by force to stay married if you both are unhappy with the union.

Ladies, please keep it real to avoid stories like this.. Always remember that there's a man for every woman and same goes for men too.
There's really no need for the unnecessary drama of trying to keep up with the latest fashion and makeup accessories.

At the end of it all, your happiness and peace of mind is what really matters.. No let marriage wahala send you to an early grave

Tozic:
it still happens

Have you experienced it before?

That was in the past... It has nothing to do the present.

Just forget the account dear, that's what happened to me, had to create a new Facebook account to avoid dragging Facebook account with hackers. Luckily, my family and friends already knew that I was the one. I've had that old Facebook account since 2011, only for one hacker to collect it.. Just had to let it go

Ndi iberibe abuo.. Dude is resting after marathon race, I can't blame him.. He must have exhausted his energy ontop kpomo 100# efulefu

Nothing Musa no go see for gate

How does this solve the hunger in the land?

ToyBoyAaron:
Bro that phone is onions, the more I see the more I cry

Cry? That's funny considering the fact that she doesn't give a flying fvck.
Just don't do anything silly outta anger, she was never yours..

Hmmmmm... The do's and dont's in a relationship will make one to remain single. E tire me jare�

Wumnaf:
thank you for advice, but it is not convenient for me

Choose according to your scale of preference.. If your job is more important than the marriage.. Whatever your decision is, its solely up to you to follow your heart

What's the essence of getting married when you don't plan on living together as couple? You are even lucky he's open minded enough to tell you how he feels about eating out and sex starvation.. Some won't even bother you atall, na so dem go dey knack dey go till whenever you decide to join am for im base.
I am gonna stay and go wherever my husband goes.. Thats the deal else let's not get married atall.
If you are afraid of leaving your present job kindly request for a transfer.. You are entitled to stay close to your husband as a married woman

I am interested in the one that escaped.. Abeg where that wan go?

darhray:
there is nothing to regret over that, its normal coz we never mature then

I guess so... Now I know how it feels when someone rejects food . One of my little niece tried that shit with me, I nearly flogged craze out of her. You dare not reject food.

I refused eating and that's one thing my mom hates with passion..
What led to it:
She bought some stuffs for my cousins and didn't buy any for me, I was hurt and pissed because I had that idea that she's my mom alone and everything she owns belongs to me and besides I don't like sharing when I confronted her and told her how I felt, she reprimanded me instead of consoling me so I thought she didn't love me anymore.. I got angry and refused eating ( I did it intentionally just to get back to her) because it breaks her heart if you don't eat
She was begging me and I was feeling fly anyways, as I grew older I vow never to make her sad. She's one of those mothers that would go outta their ways to make you happy as a child and I regret being an ass to her as a child.

No more business biko.. It's time for him to rest and enjoy the fruits of his labour.. Just like shibaraba rightly said, he should be placed on a monthly salary and if he isn't the type to stay idle, you guys should look for a business that is less stressful for him..

Pride at work.. If you continue like this, that's how its gonna be even after marriage. You will do all the apologies even when you both knows she's at fault.. The question is:
Is this how you want to live the rest of your life with your partner?
Are you happy and comfortable doing all the apology even when you ain't at fault?
If you can sincerely answer these questions within yourself then you already know what to do
Good luck!!

See as the babe dey play you as football omo I never thought that some guys can be this foolish when it comes to love matter .. Since your brain is on hibernation, just keep taking shits from her until she infects you with STDs then your brain will reboot with speed.. Wetin consign me.. Na siddon look I dey

Odiegwu oh... Kissing again?
Op your plan can't work.. If I no kiss,wetin I gain?

MrBrownJay1:
get some more experiences, as you obviously know very little about women...



NOBODY should agree to change for a partner....you should always be (and remain) your honest self.... foolish people who try to change for a partner, will turn right back to their true self again, the minute they are A) tired of the union/man or B) tired of faking to be who they are not, in order to satisfy their low self esteem/insecure men.



stop being insecure about a woman having better lovers than you could ever be... a babe could have just ONE ex in her life and he could be better than you in thousands of ways... so age aint got nothing to do with the fact that you have low self esteem. a woman's age is irrelevant when it comes to marriage, so long as BOTH OF YOU are happy.

Well said!
Really tired of these women matter being discussed.
Op respect women!!