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Omoluabi9:
Let's say one is in the OP's shoes (not yet 40 though). How do you mend the gap in thought process and behaviour due to the obviously considerable age difference?

Try and see things from her own perspective and while at it,make her to see reasons from your own angle as well. There's nothing refined communication can't solve, age is but a number. Maturity of the mind has got nothing to do with age, if the feeling is mutual then work with what you've got and hope for more clarification and understanding as time progresses.
When she starts acting up, that's where your years and experience comes into play to guide her, she should be looking up to you as not just her life partner but also as a mentor.
Motivate her to aim higher and age difference will be a forgotten issue.

Yes you can..

Learn to live with it.. Its nothing new and i possibly can't hate my mum for doing what she thought was best for me.
I just had to find my way around it and be happy, you can do same.
Life goes on

rawpadgin:
if it was me I would've created the thread with my other moniker

Okay.. What's your advise to ya friend?

BTW, what's the need for another moniker or are you scared of getting bashed if you use your moniker to post your own issues?

Nairaland and sensational stories eh... But why is it you guys always come with Its my friend or my friend is passing through some shits. Stop hiding under the umbrella of friends edakun

I won't condemn the real men out there just because your so-called friend chooses to be an animal. To the real men out there, continue doing You! Y'all will prosper in all ramifications!

You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two?
You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.

Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.

Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.

Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.

You ain't cursed bro.. Its just your mind playing tricks on you.

kenzysmith:
Good day fellow nairalanders, i went to stay in my brother house at the weekend and at night i bump into my brother in the bathroom washing his wife pants i pretend not to see anything i can see cheat stain in one of the undies. Am worried how can my senoir bro be washing a woman pant pls should i confront my bro about this disgracful act.

Kindly mind your business.. That way, you'll live longer and happier.

The dude is not even remorseful. It seems like he enjoyed every bit of the sex romp with his ex.
I just pity his current girlfriend

Hmmm.. I just decided to use my real name.. Its the only way I keep myself in check

Front page worthy!

nairalanders eh.. Wetin Ned Nwoko do una?
He didn't force Regina to marry him, she accepted to be his wife outta her own free will

Make una chill

Ordinary cheating? Or is there something else he did that warranted him losing his life like that? That girl should be thoroughly questioned, she's probably mentally unstable. You accused your partner of cheating (not like you caught him in the act) and the next thing is to stab him to death. Some people get liver sha, whatever happens to taking a walk if the love between you both has gone sour?
The guy must have seen this obvious flaws of hers but choose to ignore and hoping for a change, now that same flaws has led to his death.
Avoid toxic people! They are life wasters!

J111333:
Marriages of old were stable because our grandmothers accepted the roles of slaves and it was very easy for them to do that. They were mostly what Oyibos call home makers but this is unacceptable and overwhelming to today's wives who equally work hard to put food on the table just like the men.
In my opinion, men should sit and live up to the expectations of today's world.
How can a pregnant woman be cleaning and washing while her husband sits and watch tv?
How can a man not help out in the kitchen when his wife is overwhelmed cooking several dishes at a time?
How can a man sit and watch while his wife bathes the kids, dresses them and takes them to school?
These things can be done and they won't make someone less a man, it's all about common sense.

God bless you and rest of the real men who thinks like this

Coman kwantinue edakun

Wonderment

[quote author=Meedon post=92243654]You've said it all especially that aspect of prostitution.


All girls are hoes.[/quote]
Hope it includes your female relations as well...
If it doesn't, then stop the hasty generalisation! It ain't healthy!

Originalsly:
Guy fall my hand. Why is he just sitting and begging her to calm down instead of flying into a rage and bombarding her with questions.... what is it you're doing here at the hotel?... who and you?.. answer me... I know you shock to see me.... I heard about you coming here before but I didn't believe it.... now I know was the truth....is this where you be coming when you say you going to visit your aunt?.... who you come with?...answer me.... let me find out I'll kill both of you here today with my own two hands.. ......nonsense.
By this time the side chick should long be gone and he would then take calming down from peacemakers.

Chai. See scope! I fear who no fear you

Hmmmm... I weak for the matter

Swissheart:
My question is how come you were 27years on 04th July and you are 29years today? How are you growing?

E tire me or he's simply doing copy and paste..

Nairaland is gradually taken over from twitter with the increase of sensational stories everyday

pDudd:
I'm still confused. Was she opening it for him or what?

Yeah. Something like that

pDudd:
African Americans have began to look to Africa to find significant others just like I said in one of my posts.

OP, it all depends on what you want. She/he didn't ask you for marriage so what's your point? Why are you afraid of her/him? This person is ready to give you money, bring you over, and get you a job so what's the problem?

You didn't ask for anything and she is offering you the world. Biko seize the opportunity. Opportunity comes but once.

@OP- you said you had seen boobs and pussy. Biko how you take see the pussy?

Video calls

This one off me
Office Father? Hmm, nawa oh.. Every day new word is being invented!
Ngwanu, na siddon look I dey

Every mallam to im own kettle abeg... I'm not gonna crucify for not being able to resist the urge/temptation.. I'm pissed with him for not shielding himself to avoid this dilemma he finds himself in. Condom no too cost na, highest 100naira. It would have saved him from this stress

J111333:
Bad guys don enjoy all the ingredients in that girl finish and here is Mr. Niceguy coming to have leftovers...It's better to not know and have than to know and have.

Say no to simpism brotherly. Whatever thing you think you have for that girl is not love but iberibeism.

Learn to leave street dogs on streets no matter how friendly they appear..

Hmm.. So in other words, she's a dog okwaya
This illustration strong oh...

etrange:
If you read my post (or any of my posts), you'd know I don't engage people like you in any form of conversation. Lack of civility irritates me.

Enjoy yourself.

Nice!!

ThePussiologist:
I bet you played hard to get too and was burnt by the guy hahhahahahaha.

What's funny with the write up? Learn not to assume.

Duly noted!

Jeffrey12:
* Albinism and heterochromia conjugated in one being.

Amina Ependieva, an 11-year-old Chechen girl born with two genetic mutations: albinism and heterochromia.

This 11-year-old Chechen girl’s face is a piece of art. Her name is Amina Ependieva. She is diagnosed with two rare genetic conditions: Albinism in which she lacks the melanin pigment making her skin and hair extremely white, and Heterochromia in which her eyes are different in color.

She's really pretty

PhilipReigns:
I lost a big job opportunity (Federal government job) February this year as a result of mistrust. I was told to bring 300k to buy the job slot even though I had the money I was suspicious I was going to be duped, but then I informed my friend who jumped at the offer, paid the money and to my almost surprise was actually called for training.

Funny and foolish of me right? Add yours.

Better one will come.. Just believe and keep calm okay