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He can marry as many women as possible. He has the money, but why's her mother fighting her battle for me? Was that how her Co wives mothers did during her own time? He who pays the piper, dictates the tune! Ned is the real deal, Regina's mom should take several seats back. When you allowed your daughter to become a 6th wife, were you expecting the man to lock shop when he can afford to buy more women? Park well joor, you no get talk.

Why are y'all talking about suicide and death like it's the only option left?
If there are no jobs anymore, look for a means and create one for yourself. What are those skills you have? Monetize it.

Where's your location?

I gave up on relationship matters long time ago. Just do what works for you. You will be alright las las

This one weak me. Let her face the music biko

TheCork:
Has beautiful has u are are u saying u cant do housemaid job? Do u realice m from London & that it's a cool shance 4u to earn up to 200 naira cash? U need help for moiney or not gadddemit?

Hahaha. Mr londoner, kindly help your written words first then we can talk about work. Abeg no gimme headache this evening

[quote author=TheCork post=93675724]Hello. Please can u accept 200naira, cash for housemaid work for 2 month? I all ways pay. Deal? [/quote
Go and sleep sir

This is really bad! Nairaland is about to take over the begging association committee from this man. Awon bambiala limited company of Nairaland.

UDUJ:
lwkmd

Reason why we need to be careful the way we tell lies on this forum. Your past will always comeback to hunt you. Michelle55 you are simply heartless

Lolss.. I was honestly confused with his post, I had to go check up his profile
Op, is still new in the school of lying, so I had to coach him properly.

skimena:
my brother I'm very comfortable. with a job, with a private business having graduates working for me, I have a wife and children. above all I have my freedom. I'm not in prison. When I reason the whole thing I just give glory to God

Hmmm, your story get as e be oh. No be you, your gf recently dumped and here you are already married with kids and have graduates working for you.? My brother sofrey dey blow this lies na, e no go epp you
Op how did this your previous post https://www.nairaland.com/6054272/girlfriend-dumped-me-now-working#92811753
correlate with this one please, care to explain better?
August 14th your girlfriend dumped you and today being 27th you are married with kids, have personal business that sees to the employment of graduates. Isn't God wonderful?

TheLasyBuddha:
Fascinatingly, Africans die earlier than white people. They have a life expectancy rate way higher than any nation in Africa.

And why's that if I may ask please?

And here I was thinking I'm older than him just because I watched the watched movie at my 20s dude just mercilessly gave me a long gap like no man's business. That hurts
Same way I was thinking I was older than aki and pawpaw until I discovered they of same age range with my uncles. E pain me no be small
BTW, why does whites age faster than most black despite having what I consider the best weather condition and good life?
My African people rocks jare!

Will hide on the toiret. Please what kinda yahoo guy is this? English Gan kpakpa na cut and join sef

When brokenness was about choking me in school those days, I went from lodge to lodge cooking food for guys, though I was paid well oh. If I wasn't cooking to make money, I'm braiding fellow students hair for more bucks. In all, it wasn't easy but I survived it all.

MJBOLT:

number 1 is a huge turnoff,dont try that rubbish abeg.

Number 2 and 3 must be done in moderation abeg,no forget say na me get am

number 4 is a big no,taking money from my wallet without my permission is stealing,i will treat you like a thief.

Anything regarding my PIN or finances is none of your business.

OCD spotted! Life ain't that hard as you made it look. Be flexible and open to new changes, what's the essence of relationship if I can't be myself in the presence of my partner.
Las Las na pretender you fit settle with.
I can't imagine counting or picking each words when talking to my partner.. Haba na!

lefulefu:
u cant say.dat im neighbour dey have regular sex with the girl no mean say d reationship no go dey on another level.there was this guy wen i dey school dat we nicknamed as engineer.he was an extension student.if u see d guy na some im body be like stone..as in he look like that character wey dey built like a rock in that jessica alba movie fantastic 4.This as im dey bult like a rock na so im dey use power nack im babe.we dey always joke on am to go sofry on d girl cos na so she dey shout just as op dey complain of im neighbour"s girl shouting.But today they are married and am sure d same rough sex will still be engaged by them.Most times if a guy feels a connection with a girl and he"s compactable with her in all areas he would make up his mind dat u are the one for him.Most times forming holy holy for a guy and doing virgin mary for him wouldnt guarantee him marrying u.Now op is already assuming that his neighbour will dump the girl.e go shock am dat this im neighbour might even marry the girl .

LOL, but you and I know say not all guys are like your engineer. Some guys no get single joy for their bones these days, their own na to knack and clean mouth.

That your neighbor is wicked and has no future plans with that girl in it, how can you be drilling one's daughter every single day with reckless abandon. Even ashawo sef dey get break to take repair their toto wella for the next available customers, some of these so called relationships are fake, na just free access to everyday unlimited browsing.

I would have said, you should talk to the girl like a big brother and let her know the implications of what that dude is putting her through(but the inner me is screaming mind ya business because they will end up insulting you if you dare warn her or pass your boundaries), no one said you shouldn't live your life to the fullest nor have s*x but just know that too much of everything is bad.

Try as much as possible to tune off once they start their body ministration. You'll be fine.

Mesef can't help but to laugh too you leave the hole meant for knacking dey go sambisa forest.

dairykidd:
U wan kidnapp me

Come jare

dairykidd:
Keep ur salary madam and give him all ur loyalty

Mr loyalty I still dey wait for you for roundabout.

Mgtowmonk:
probably couldn't land a hot white chick so he settled for less

Dude you could have gotten women who are way hotter than her from Russia, Croatia, serbia.
Why did you settle for this!
You cheated yourself!

Huncle, you need brain transplant asap..
If you really do not have any creative or awesome idea to give to the young man kindly read and pass.
What's with the bitterness and frustration?
What did African women do to you to deserve such a vile remarks about them? You better respect yourself and dey your dey.
No be we do you!

Never reaching out on people including families.
Can stay as long as possible without checking up on anyone. They're all tired of complaining and I'm sincerely doing my best to stop ghosting people.
Truth is, it's not easy.. I so much enjoy my own company too much that I really do not care about the outside world.

Please all of you that hanyad her, kindly remain in Kenya.. No enter Nigeria not even as a tourist or anything.. We Nigerians are very much okay the way we are. Dalu soo
The kain wahala toto fit cause eh, mouth no fit talk am finish

ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

Please, tell him! He really deserves to know the truth before he exhausts all he has all in the name of love.
Dunno why some people are just wicked and selfish.
It's solely left for him to believe you or not but do tell him please.

fabiano09:
this una gender na wa,dem say fear woman

Lol. Fear us then

Is this your story? Or a movie script ?
Whichever one.. Stay blessed but remember forgiveness is not something we do for others, its something we do for ourselves to be able to move on and live life to the fullest.
Be the bigger person, forgive him and move on!

This is embarrassing and painful for the guy..
What a denial! That Lucia na younger sister to Lucifer

Lady 2.. Lemme coman be going

Omoluabi9:
Thanks Michelle

You're welcome sir.

Omoluabi9:
Great stuff to think on here.
Hi, I need more of your expert counsel on this.
A guy is trying to plan his future here
Thanks for yesterday
Cc: Michelle55

Good evening sir..
Back to your question, its best you ask her what interest her or take your time to study what piques her interest the most.. Don't assume lest you go about it the wrong way.
Be neutral, don't be sooo uptight or frowns at everything she does( bear in mind that she's within the age bracket to misbehave now) and at same time don't ignore or overlook her excesses, instill correction when and where there's need to.
Above all, give her some tough decisions to make while you sit back and watch, her response or feedback to those things you allowed her do on her own will determine how best to relate with her thereafter.