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There's absolutely nothing wrong in staying alone.. Just be mindful of the kinda company you keep and exercise self-control at all times.
You can't please everyone dear, just live your best life and be true to yourself!
No one has the monopoly to your happiness.. If staying alone gives you the peace of mind you deserve as human, then go for it.

Double chopping.. The guy wicked sha.. You knack for free, come chop her money join and as if that wasn't enough, you block her on WhatsApp.. Double savage

Go to playstore and type African dishes.. You will see list of food recipes and then download the ones that appeals to you

Any amount he thinks is fit for the monthly allowance.. He works for the money, he can as well decides to squander it if he chooses but being a responsible husband and father that he is, he brings it home so whatever he gives me as allowance is highly welcome and appreciated.. If its not enough, I'll just add my widow's mite and keep the home front sailing.

There are alot of other things that needs his attention including utility bills, kids school fees, investments etc so it would be best if the woman understands and work to support the family rather than waiting for the man to shoulder all the responsibilities, in case anytime the man couldn't meet up with the family upkeep, the woman can comfortably support the household till he gets back on his feet again.
Its called a marriage/ union for a reason..
For you guys to work together as a complete unit and in partnership for the betterment of the family

This is sickening! Just wondering the trauma and pains the mad woman must have been through without anyone to talk to all because of you..

How do you guys( rapists) live with yourself knowing what you've done?
How do you guys even enjoy forced sex( not like the normal consented sex is that fun not to talk of the forced one, eeeewww..)
You need professional help!!

hardbody:
And you are a 'she"? Female?


Ohk. Female having a female gf. It is understandable. But I thought a man is in a better position to give this opinion.

I am not adjudging them or anyone bad though

Yes.. I'm a she I really can't stand aside and watch while the Op post mere assumptions about some tribes just because he's garnering for few likes.. My gf and the few people I've met are nothing close to the things he wrote up there.
Why a man?

Op, your post is based on mere assumptions..
I have an mbaise girlfriend and she's nothing close to that trash you wrote up there.
Stop tarnishing people's tribes just to garner cheap likes.

Oh chimooo.. Please someone who knows the angel in charge of the trumpet should alert him so that im go blow am

God bless the kind hearted giver tremendously and may he or she never lack in all their endeavors..

And you are still with him?
So you don't know how to walk away from a toxic relationship?
Or is your placenta tied to his destiny?
Or were you told that if you leave him, you will die or won't make it in life ever again?
What exactly is keeping you from moving forward and dumping the slave scheme that you are in all in the name of a relationship?
Borrow yourself small brain and get the hell outta that thing you called a relationship.

hopeforcharles:
Then use umbrella and sunglasses always.

I'll try and do that.. Thanks

budaatum:
And drink lots of water!

I drink water alot.. Thank you

Please doctors in the house I need your help;

I noticed it first last year but I didn't pay attention to it thinking it was normal for one to be lightheaded after walking under the sun for a couple of minutes. Immediately it happened, I laid down on the bare floor like that till the sun goes down( I noticed peeps were shouting at my friend to do something to help me, I just signalled for her to let me be because I couldn't move a muscle so there's nothing she could have done to help me at that moment ).

Now the reason why I created this thread is that it repeated itself again today and it was sooo embarrassing because it happened in the market where I went to get some food items. Some market women had to empty chilled water on me from head to toe took me about 20minutes to get acquainted with my surroundings.

Meanwhile, while growing up I noticed my body doesn't fancy the sun that much but I thought as I get older, everything would have normalized.
Please who has experienced this before and how did you overcome it?
Doctors in the house, what could be the cause of it and the solutions?
Thank you
P.S: Someone said I have a light blood and pressure isn't good for me, please how true is that and can one be assumed to have a light blood (if there's any word like that)

Biko, what kinda headline is this eekwa?

Rip to the dead

Definitely YES!
There's nothing wrong with couples living in self contain apartment.
You can live there and plan for your future together.
We will both work together to move forward, it takes two capable hands/heads to make things work.. Gone are the days of obiageris, this time around you just have to elevate each other and make positive things happens..
As a woman, know his plans and assist in making it come through.
Family planning is necessary at this stage, no need breeding kids yet just to watch them suffer.
Be it single room, self contain or flat... The most important thing is striving together to sail higher than you were before and making the home front luxurious and enjoyable for your unborn kids.
As a lady, no go marry man wey dey earn 1naira, chop 5naira at a go your own don done be that.

Hmmmm.. This one off me. Twitter and their super story tho

2020.. A year of different madness

Not really. Gone are those days I let my partner go through my phone.

MadeINchenzen2:
Your Mimien whatever is 38, it's either you want to settle down or you want to settle up. Make ur choice



by the way, which one be keketu abi na tuketuke?

Lolssss... Wicked sumbori

Chai.. Op just made my day, this wan scatter my Dada
You don't win a woman over through sex.. Karma is a biatch.. You snatched her from your fellow guy, what were you expecting in return.. A pat in the back?

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

That's not the biggest mistake huncle..
What if she's working and not supporting the home front in any way?
What if all the responsibilities still falls on you as the man despite having a working class wife?
What if she doesn't encourage nor inspires you to soar higher than you were before ?
What if she doesn't give you the maximum peace of mind you deserve as a man?
What if all she does is spend all her earnings on herself, buying the latest bags and clothes and attending high societal functions and not caring to acknowledge your presence in her life?
Trust me, there's a lot to marriage than meets the eyes.
Just ask your maker for direction when you want to settle down.
She might be working yet feels entitled to your money..
Marriage is 50/50... All hands must be on deck to ensure the smooth sailing of the homefront.

Carchoice:
If you have been with a lady that is so good and faithful and at a point in her life she tells you she's going for NYSC, send her a termination letter.

What you should know is that, no matter how faithful that your woman is, there's one OG that will bring her to her knees.

It's a pity a very good girl I admired so much suddenly gone bad, the way she carries her self; She's actually a lost corper I found in the streets of Lagos. Her man calls her on video everyday while I'm on the other side of the bed.

This morning I told her I will not touch her again. I'm done, I feel bad for my brother on the other end.


There's nothing like good girl or bad girl, it's all about home training and self respect. But konji is never part of the home training and self respect will be put aside for few minutes reboot.

If I swear for you, e go catch you wella
Just because you got one at a cheap price doesn't mean the rest commodities are like that.
Just look at the way you belittled a human just like you all for few likes.
Don't worry, your karma is busy doing push ups at redemption camp

The only thing wey full this Op head na sex, nothing else..
Sha no follow Toto matter die trowey cos las las na another nigga go continue the knacking on your behalf
Uwa nmebi

Sit and learn Michelle

Nawa oh. Relationship matter just tire me

Wow.. So all those feminism na wash
I'm sorry for your loss, you lost a diamond while busy chasing stones..
One of the reasons I don't have and keep friends. I've always been a solo ranger from the onset and I'm sooo used to my own company

Denique:
Yours is still better.
One time, I went to the market with a friend and the sellers were asking me to persuade my AUNTY to buy from them. I'm two years older than her.
In my compound, I have so many babies though... There's this boy who just finished with his ND(doing his I.T now). Everytime I call him, he goes "Ehn" , when another girl whom my younger sister(not even immediate) is older than calls him, he goes "Maaaaa"
It surprises him now to see the girl in question calls me "Aunty"... Like he's always looking to be sure it's me she's addressing
A friend of mine just got to know that I am actually older than my sister
I really do love it when people think me younger

Lol.. We're cool like that

otomori:
You're hilarious, I'm 33 and people will be asking me when I'm registering for jamb. I remember 2013 while i was serving in PH, everybody go dey look me say you try oh, pikin like you don finish school. It can be embarrassing and yet fun. I inherited mine from my parents though cos i remember while growing up in secondary school days, my teachers and principal would always send my dad back home cos they didn't believe he is my dad. Some people still call me beautiful boy though, imagine man like me

Lolsss... Welcome to my world.. Infact every members of my family are like that.. My Aunt( a mother of 7) still drags my clothes with me, that's to tell you how ageless the family is. Atimes, I love it but not always biko

E no funny atall my brother... Especially now that I'm on low cut, water come pass garri
A teen was asking me the other day if I'm writing waec and jamb after this pandemic is over I kukuma respect myself tell her say I no register this year.. Say na next year I go siddon for the exam
Le nu agadi nwayi di ka mu writing waec.. Its well

Huncle.. Fogerrit.. Just accept it as a business gone bad.
Thank me lera

Simple and cool.. You can spend millions and not fret about it in the course of been married together on your kids welfare, utility bills, future investments etc.. but don't make the mistake of wasting that resources on a mere wedding ceremony.
There's more to marriage than wedding ceremony.
Excel in silence and let your success announce you!!
And if you sooo desire to throw a party, kindly throw a marriage anniversary party not wedding