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Rock satanic ke? Nibo??
I love rocks though, not all the rocks !

The satanic aspect of rock is just a marketing gimmicks to enhance record sales . its a deliberate attempt to play with your minds ! Why fall for those craps??

Do we have to stop reading because of some devilish and satanic write ups?
Lets all break our T.Vs because of the " satanic" stuff we see on there??
We should kill ourselves because of satanic occurences in the world?

To me, rock is just another type of music and it doesnt connote any form satanic references.

Listen to this songs.

FAR AWAY    by NICKELback
BETTER THAN ME  by HINDER.

Cheers

The monkeysanjo is something else !
Can u imagine?

i gat to cast the vote for my school oooo. LASU all the way

didiomos:
i have tried all the communication i can but he keeps saying, breaking up after 5 years is not easy to let go. there was even a time he with her till late, then he passed the night at her place. but someone told me i should not get too worked up that he will get over her when the time comes,

He slept in her house ! And u are saying bla bla bla ! If he cant let go of her now, he wont let go later ! Ultimatum is good ooooo. He has to choose now. You cant afford to be a second fiddle in a relationship thats supposed to be filled with love ! shine ur eyes, weigh your options and take your decision.

I wish u the very best of luck.

aisha2:
My dear ho says its easier t buid a broken relationship than to start a fresh one, Young nigerian girls will lead themselves to the grave taking all sorts of trash from relationships and manage manage till they marry and keep managing till they finally die from high blood pressure or some STI the guy brings home. I always say a relationship is a two way effort if you are the one putting all the efforts and making excuses for your spouse in effciencies then you are better off being single. Anyway, enough ith the lectures.
@Poster, in this case, there is absolutely no need to have nightmares, simply tell your boyfriend you are not comfortable with his closeness with his ex, ifhe loves you, he will respect how you feel, if he doesnt he will damn your feelings and go on ith his ex, that is if she is his ex. You have a right to be happy in a relationship, it pains me when women in relationships behave as if its either that or their life is ended, women are meant to be loved and pampered, and respected, please stop eating crumbs.

U make sense omoge aisha ! na the koko u yan so. _{[sub] How are u doing today??}[/sub]cheers

@ poster, i agree with u but, having pix in the profile has to do with what the i.d owner is comfortable with ! I think it is better if we upload our real pix and leave it blank if we are not comfortable doing so.

NaJa HaJe:
what exactly is the problem?

His refusal to quit smoking or that he doesn't love you?

You can't get a guy to love you. Period. It just happens if the chemistry is right.

You will succeed in ticking him off big time if you keep nagging him about the smoking

good point !

U dont have to make it look like you are going into competition cuz u wanna win medal !

Please, note this,  YOU DONT HAVE TO IMPRESS ANYBODY ! That doesnt mean you will put up i-dont-care-attitude   oooooo

He has to start respecting u first. thats the only way he can "listen" to you when you advice him about anything. Its obvious he doesnt give a damn about what u feel for him as a result of the fact that, he doesnt have much respect for you.
U cant get him to love u and thats a fact ! if the chemistry isnt there, theres absolutely nothing u can do my dear.

i wish u the best
cheers

yeah, we have got to be ourselves at all time s !

@ poster, there is hope if u ask me !
SInce, u have taken your time to outline all those beautiful points, i will also pray you to outline all other points that can make a marriage work to some very good extent and " wedlock" shall be sweet with you and for you to some large extent !
Its a fact that, marriage isnt "yam" its takes lot more to sustain ! infact, its even more challenging that, relationship !

In my personal opinion, i will say the way out is for us to be real ! we dont have to fake anything and or impress anybody ! Just be yourself and the real value of being " real" and being yourself WILL definately come to fore in the long run thereby, making the challenges of marriage to be a little bit less challenging !!

The joy of marriage to me isnt about all those "fluke" attached to when couples are just married, the joy of marriage is when u start having kids and so many ups and down, challenges, issues wrapped in fine tuned way-of-life and you both can still accomodate one another without beheading one another !

The more reason why we have to be ourselves in all that we do !

WebMonk:
I'm glad there're still people who think like this. there is still hope then

Speaking about the issue, "what goes up must come down"

This is what happens when the twisted and warp opinions about relationships/marriages (guided/advocated by society and the media for monetary gain) are hardwired into people from a young age. With the effort it takes to maintain a relationshio these days (can anyone say its easy?!) and these "mindsets", what would one expect to do when the knot is tired? RELAX!!!

It is human nature. When you create a lifestyle isn't real, it's bound to wear you out. This is why it always pays to be yourself at the end of the day.

i concur bro. u make sense no be small.
cheers

ashe2:
is it by congo u would fil satisfied that u ve revenged if she has syphilis or gonorhea nko?u got someone beta shebi? move on and stop thinkin wit your anus.

LOL

Good point ! Dont revenge nada ! let her be and concentrate on your girl friend.
Cheers

God is good

why WILL i want to give myself hypertension ??

I dont mind knowing the truth "atimes" oo ! shebi na ur past nothing do you.

Cheers

jassie:
A romantic person is actually a liar, a chameleon. He/She tells you what you want to hear even though its not true

huh is that who you are

One me ! One wife and one US ( Me and my wife )

cheers

arianne:
we all deserve a chance doesnt necessarily mean we are going to get one

but, chances are everywhere, right?

jkpretty:
I wonder when sections of your interest became a judge of your Intelligence or sense of reasoning.

Good point !

The whole thing is compounded as a result of multiple I.Ds of some people that, it is even difficult for them to remember how they acted " pinnero" as against "neropi" thereby making it kind of impossible for some other people to "read and know" the original " pinnero"

Again, lotta people are so immatured in the way they respond to issues and questions ! It shouldnt be about lulling insults at one another even with how diversified our views might be !  I will rather say, people have different ways of drawing their conclusions which could be determined by their " exposures, knowledge, experiences, know hows " e.t.c.
At the sametime, what i "read" about you can go a long way in making me make up my mind about u which of course, can make it difficult to even give u a chance if u approach "me" ! if what i have read about you hasnt been something "satisfactory" to me, it wud only take special luck for me to want to give u any chance and or take u serious if u finally get in touch !

I am not saying people should pretend on here ! be yourself but, try and be matured in your dealings with people ! Maturity here has nothing to do with age ooooo.

At the same time, all the adults here should try and always "guide" the younger ones when they ar going astray !

The truth is, i have been here for long ( oct 2005) and nairaland has always been fun ! i have given all the people i met here fair chance not putting into consideration their "posts" and i thank God nobody can say anybad thing about me here !!!


The koko be say, we should take things easy with ourselves, we should chill, give ourselves some chance, give room for our excesses and things can only get better !!!


For real, i wish everybody the best of luck !!!

Cheers

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

yeah, great

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One sided love ? GOD forbid !
I will step, carry and wear my coat altogether and slowly walk away.

@ sam milla,
Nice one u have here. I think we will do better if we can mingle more and chill with one another. I believe we can as well get all the fun we want here in naija way ! Thats not to say we cant go to other sites or forum.

All those magas that has turned our sisters away ! U berra watch out cuz ur head will be bursted !
And all those sisters that has played my brothers, make una cool down ooooooo ! must u "dull" the brothers

Lets keep it real and we sure gon have a better NAIRALAND.

For real, cheers

Well, Congrats bro.
Best of luck.
cheers

the peepers and the peepors !

hey smartsoft,
no dull moment ! shine your eyes, the game is almost over !
Like sam milla has put it, put on your coat and slowly walk !

It is understandable if u get deceived but man, do u have to deceive yourself too?? U aint gon do that, right?


Cheers

poster,

How old are u?
Maybe u just found out u dont love him enough to want to marry him?
How long does it take to process admission?

My candid advice will be, since u have already dated him for six years, marry him while u have the chance with him and start "processing" and schooling in his house.

Cheers

Nice responses u gave her so far.
God bless una well.

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